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6	->'''Freddie:''' You're lucky you're straight, Ash, otherwise you get one of these women who latch on to you for decades and never let go.\
7	'''Ash:''' But you love her?\
8	'''Freddie:''' Yes. We ''like'' her.
9	-->-- ''Series/{{Vicious}}''
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11	A Fag Hag is a woman who associates closely with gay men. The term was coined by gay men as an insult (hence the pejorative), but has been [[AppropriatedAppellation increasingly adopted by the women themselves]]. Friendships between Fag Hags and gay men allow for closeness and intimacy without the danger of sexual feeling getting in the way.
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13	They can be portrayed as boy-crazy women happy to have a non-sexual male friend, or as cosmopolitan women already in a hetero relationship that simply enjoy the company of gay men. In many cases, the Hag started hanging out with her gay friend because she was attracted to him, before he turns her down for [[IncompatibleOrientation obvious reasons]] (wishful thinking will ignore even the most FlamboyantGay characteristics). The friendship lasts however, and some Fag Hags even seek out gay men -- either because they find them non-threatening or as [[TheNotLoveInterest a replacement for a 'proper' straight relationship.]] Gays who enjoy the company of these ladies do so for similar reasons, but it isn't uncommon for a gay man to see his Hag as a sort of maternal figure, especially if she's older than him and/or if his own mother rejected him. A Hag [[TeamMom who acts as a mother figure]] to a group of gay men is sometimes called a [[Literature/PeterPan "Wendy"]] -- because she takes care of the Lost Boys.
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15	This trope has been heavily stereotyped in RealLife on all sides. A woman with a gay friend ''at all'' is often called a Fag Hag even if they simply enjoy each other's company with no ulterior motives. Some women, however, see all gay men as possible {{Pet Homosexual}}s, even though the men in question might find this patronizing. And lastly, by no means do all gay men enjoy female company; at best, some simply get along better with other men, and at worst they can be as misogynistic as a [[HeManWomanHater stereotypical straight male misogynist]].
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17	Some women resent the name "Fag Hag" for multiple reasons including the misogyny that comes along with the term and are rather referred to as "Fruit Flies", "Mo Hos", "Gay Boy Bunnies", "Alternative Lifestyle Assistants" or something along those lines. The Japanese equivalent of this phrase, ''Okoge'', literally means "the rice stuck to the bottom of a pot", playing off of ''Okama'' (literally, a type of pot for cooking rice), the slang term for homosexual men and drag queens. In German, it's "Schwulenmutti". Some people, including gay and straight, eschew terminology altogether and simply enjoy their friendships for what they are without the need to put each other down or classify each other in a derogatory way.
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19	The equivalent for a man who hangs out with lesbians is a Lez Bro (or Dyke Tyke or Little Dutch Boy - think about it), but they're not quite as common in RealLife or pop culture. [[SpearCounterpart Fag Stag]], a Token Straight man in a group of gay men, is slowly becoming more used, but nowhere near Lez Bro levels, let alone Fag Hag.
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21	Compare YaoiFangirl, or AllTheGoodMenAreGay. The GayBestFriend can be an inversion if it's a gay man whose friends are almost entirely straight women. See also LastHetRomance, where the woman may become a Fag Hag in response to her partner outing himself. See also TokenLesbian if the woman is a lesbian among the group of gay men.
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23	!!Examples:
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27	[[folder:Anime & Manga]]
28	* Reiji (Rage) from the ''Manga/{{Gravitation}}'' manga series is a robot panda-driving YaoiFangirl fixated on Shuichi, even following him from America and becoming his band's manager because of this obsession.
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31	[[folder:Comic Books]]
32	* ''ComicBook/AstroCity'': Beautie is a human-sized robotic fashion doll. She has an apartment above a gay bar and is friends to the local gay community because they understand what it's like to feel separate from the norm (if in a different way). It also helps that they don't try to proposition her.
33	* ''ComicBook/TheAuthority'': The Engineer, Angie Spica, is a close friend of Apollo, and is "Best Woman" at his wedding to (male) partner [[SpellMyNameWithAThe The Midnighter]]. Apollo teases that she's his fag hag. She doesn't mind.
34	* ''ComicBook/BlueIsTheWarmestColor'': {{Subverted\|Trope}} as Clémentine, Valentin's friend, is herself queer, and didn't even realize he was gay at first.
35	* ''ComicBook/{{Circles}}'': Mrs. Nussbaum is a widowed straight woman who loves Paulie and the others, despite her late homophobic husband.
36	* ''ComicBook/KickAss'': Katie Deauxma befriends Dave because she thinks he's gay and always wanted a gay friend.
37	* ''ComicBook/{{Hawkeye}}'': [[Characters/MarvelComicsKateBishop Kate Bishop]] is a more subtle example. She's both good friends with Wiccan and Hulkling of the ''ComicBook/YoungAvengers'' (and the three of them are the three longest-serving members of the team), and she became something of a surrogate daughter to a gay couple she met when she moved to the West Coast after she saved their wedding, while also cat-sitting for a lesbian couple. She's been depicted as best friends with ComicBook/AmericaChavez, who is a butch lesbian with whom she has extensive LesYay teased (but Kate insists she herself is straight), and two of her three canon boyfriends (Noh-Varr and Fuse) are bisexual and attracted to one another, while another boy she had extensive ShipTease with (Speed) was implied to be bisexual in a one-shot story. At this point, the only straight people in Kate's life can be counted on one hand.
38	* ''ComicBook/{{Manhunter}}'': Kate Spencer is very much a fag hag; her closest (and arguably only) friend in the superhero business is gay and dating her paralegal. [[spoiler: And if that's not enough, a comic set in the future shows her son is gay, too -- and likely the heir to her title.]]
39	* ''ComicBook/{{Persepolis}}'': The author lives together with eight gay guys in one shared apartment in Vienna.
40	* ''ComicBook/ScottPilgrim'': The series has this to almost parodic levels. There are three decidedly heterosexual characters, one of whom has has recurring HoYay with another male character PlayedForLaughs. Eventually, the unambiguously straight characters can be counted on hand.
41	* ''ComicBook/{{Sleeper\|WildStorm}}'': Ed Brubaker's superhero/spy series has a character ''named'' Fag Hag, because she's an energy vampire that can only drain the lifeforce of homosexuals (complete with Gaydar!) She considers it BlessedWithSuck since her closest friends were always gay.
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44	[[folder:Fan Works]]
45	* ''Webcomic/HetaliaAxisPowers'' fanfic ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/11886910/1/Gankona-Unnachgiebig-Unità Gankona, Unnachgiebig, Unità]]'': [[YaoiFangirl Hungary]] ''loves'' to hang out with Germany, Italy, and Japan. Germany and Italy are bi while Japan is [[UsefulNotes/{{Homosexual}} gay]]. She also loves to hang out with France, Spain, and Prussia when she is not [[ViolentlyProtectiveGirlfriend beating the ever-loving crap out of them]].
46	* Marinette has inadvertently become this to Marc in ''Fanfic/MonArcEnCiel'', being the only other student who knows Marc's crush on Nathaneal and his DarkAndTroubledPast.
47	* In ''Blog/AskHoopsAndDumbbell'', Dumbbell meets a lesbian who admits that she seeks out friendships with gay stallions because she finds friendship easier when IncompatibleOrientation isn't a risk. Dumbbell accepts this(As opposed to a mare who previously tried to turn him into a GayBestFriend), and the two quickly strike up a friendship.
48	* In ''WebVideo/DeathNoteTheAbridgedSeriesKpts4tv'', Takada is this for [[TransparentCloset Light.]]
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51	[[folder:Films -- Live-Action]]
52	* ''Film/FagHag'', obviously.
53	* As described above, the Japanese call them ''Okoge'', which is the title of a 1992 film about such a woman.
54	* Subversion: Dee from the movie ''Film/Camp2003'' is called a fag hag [[spoiler: but her definition of the word is a girl who only gay guys would hit on.]]
55	* Doris in ''Film/{{Fame}}'' is referred to as a fag hag for her friendship with Montgomery.
56	* Creator/{{Jennifer Aniston}}'s character being one of these drives the entire plot of the movie ''Film/TheObjectOfMyAffection''.
57	* {{Parodied\|Trope}} in ''Film/KissKissBangBang''; Harry, after working closely with "Gay" Perry, ends up being humorously called out as a fag hag by Perry come the conclusion.
58	* Two such relationships in the Literature/BridgetJones films and books.
59	** Bridget's friend Tom calls himself a "Hag Fag" as a gay man hanging out with three straight women: [[TownGirls Bridget, Shazzer, and Jude.]]
60	** In the second film, Mark and his [[SexySecretary assistant]] [[BrainyBrunette Rebecca]] [[LipstickLesbian Gillies]] are hinted at having this relationship, especially considering since [[BrosBeforeHoes he doesn't slip his assistant's identity to his girlfriend]].
61	* ''Film/{{Dumplin}}'': Implied to be the case with Willowdean's late aunt Lucy. She was unmarried and is never mentioned to have had a boyfriend, and frequented a gay bar. She originally started attending because the bar had a [[DragQueen drag show]] featuring Music/DollyParton's music every week, but went on to become close friends with several of the performers working there.
62	* A male example in the German film ''[[https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0116164/ Echte Kerle]]'' ("Regular Guys"). The main character, hapless police detective Christoph, moves in with gay mechanic Edgar--initially because he has nowhere else to go, but they become closer friends as the plot develops. This causes [[HilarityEnsues amusing misunderstandings]] with Christoph's colleagues, as well as [[MistakenForGay his love interest]].
63	* ''Film/SingleAllTheWay'': Peter's flamboyant, self-centered actress Aunt Sandy is unmarried, but states that she usually gets along with gay people. Part of it is because they "know how to do stuff," which she appreciates, and part of it is because, "For some reason, they're always ''obsessed'' with me." Everything about her screams {{camp}}, so it's not hard to see why that may be the case.
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66	[[folder:Literature]]
67	* The Franchise/StarWarsExpandedUniverse gives us, of all people, Boba Fett. At the beginning of ''Literature/LegacyOfTheForce'', his only friends are Goran Beviin and his [[PronounTrouble spouse]], Madrit Vasur. Yes, gays in the ''Franchise/StarWars'' universe might seem controversial, but it's overshadowed by other things.
68	* Common insult to the women in Brett Easton Ellis's ''Literature/TheRulesOfAttraction''.
69	* ''Literature/HouseOfNight'' has Zoey's friends Damien Maslin and Jack Twist. And not a single page goes by that doesn't mention their sexualities.
70	* Franchise/IrisWildthyme has been [[http://www.eruditorumpress.com/blog/a-cosmos-without-iris-wildthyme-scarcely-bears-thinking-about/ widely interpreted]] as a time-travelling ''Doctor Who'' version of the stereotypical "fag hag", and indeed, many of her companions tend to be gay. It is, however, worth noting that [[DependingOnTheWriter some stories]] depict Iris herself as either a lesbian or bisexual.
71	* ''Literature/BoyMeetsBoy'' has Joni, who is best friends with Paul and Tony, both of whom are gay.
72	* In ''Literature/OnlyTheDeadAreColdBlooded'', the HookerWithAHeartOfGold also moonlights as a singer at a gay bar, and is described as having a campily quasi-flirtatious relationship with the patrons there. According to another character's (jaundiced) description:
73	-->''[F]or some reason the [[TWordEuphemism f----ts]] there encouraged her. They flipped her coins—she could catch a groat from clear across the room—and they rushed to light her cigarettes.''
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76	[[folder:Live-Action TV]]
77	* In a Christmas episode of ''Series/ThirtyRock'', Jenna Moroney describes her adoptive family as "four twenty-five-year-old gay guys."
78	** Her entourage in the episode where she decides to be (more) difficult consists of CampGay guys, too.
79	* Edina from ''Series/AbsolutelyFabulous'' wants to be one of these, and frequently claims "All my friends are gay!", because she sees having a lot of gay friends as being fashionable. It isn't true. The closest she comes is her ex-husband Justin, and her former friend Max. And both are implied to have actually been turned gay by the act of sleeping with her.
80	* Referenced and inverted in an episode of ABC's ''Series/AccidentallyOnPurpose''.
81	* Jen from ''Series/DawsonsCreek'' is a self-proclaimed fag hag, her best friend Jack being gay.
82	* ''Series/DearWhitePeople'': The woman in the couple who Lionel goes home with realizes she's this as her partner is really gay. She clearly makes her peace with it, because she's still with him near the end of the season.
83	* When a gay couple moves into the neighborhood in ''Series/DesperateHousewives'', Susan is ecstatic to have them as her GayBestFriend "just like on tv". Needless to say, they hate her instantly. Though a season or two later they eventually start getting along and hanging out.
84	* [[DistractedByMyOwnSexy Amy]] [[{{Tsundere}} Pond]] from ''Series/DoctorWho'' thought that her childhood friend, [[TheChewToy Rory]], was gay, and she thought that she was this for years. [[SingleTargetSexuality She couldn't have been more wrong]].
85	* In ''Film/FrankieHowerdRatherYouThanMe'', Jane says she finds the experience of being a hag "quite agreeable" when Frankie asks her if she's worried that being his beard has damaged her chances of meeting someone.
86	* ''Series/GimmeGimmeGimme'' subverts this in a very British way; it throws together an appalling gay man and a sociopathic straight woman, possibly because nobody else would care to share a grotty rented flat with them. Linda becomes a reluctant fag hag to Tom.
87	* The premise of the reality show ''Girl Who Like Boys Who Like Boys'' is filming several groups of girls and their own GayBestFriend as they do... stuff.
88	* ''Series/{{Glee}}'':
89	** Mercedes quickly becomes Kurt's "brassy hag" once she (finally) realizes romance is not an option. It's subverted when she hangs out with Kurt and his crush Blaine and is bored out of her mind as the boys chat about theatre, fashion, and political issues relevant to them as gays. This results in her hearing ''[[BlahBlahBlah nothing but the word "GAY" come out of their mouths.]]''
90	-->'''Kurt & Blaine:''' Gay, gay, gay gay gay gay gay gay, etc.\
91	'''Kurt:''' Oh my gosh, I open my mouth and a little purse falls out!\
92	'''Blaine:''' Oh my gosh, SO gay!
93	** Unfortunately, Kurt and Mercedes began drifting apart during the second season and into the third. However, Kurt has developed a close friendship with Rachel.
94	** When Tina has an obsessive crush on Blaine, he says she's hagged out. Later, when she realizes how silly she was, she says she feels she'll only ever be a hag for Blaine, Kurt, and all the other gay men she'll ever meet. They assure her she won't be.
95	* Jenny for Eric on ''Series/GossipGirl''.
96	* Discussed multiple times in ''Series/HappyEndings'' by and around Derrick, the recurring CampGay character.
97	** Penny essentially became a hag wannabe after her former boyfriend (and main character) Max turned out to be StraightGay. She's overjoyed upon first being introduced to Derrick, but ends up finding that 100% gay 100% of the time is too much even for her. In a later episode, he names her a hag nonetheless, to her joy, especially as an upgrade from being TheBeard.
98	** Jane also declares herself a "total hag" to Max since "the gays love me", but next to her Derrick doubtfully shakes his head, eventually calling her "a top, plain and simple" due to her commanding personality. Later, Derrick recruits her for his wedding party when his fiance "Eric's hag Jan" can't make it.
99	* In the ''{{Series/Inside No 9}}'' episode ''[[Recap/InsideNo9S9E1BooToAGoose Boo To A Goose]]'', gay drag queen Wilma rudely calls his friend Cleo one.
100	* Subverted in an episode of ''Series/MarriedWithChildren''. Peggy goes dancing with a gay guy and it is strictly platonic. But the gay guy's husband suspects that his partner is having an affair with Peggy!
101	* ''Series/ModernFamily''
102	** Sal is a HardDrinkingPartyGirl who frequents gay discos. Played with as all her gay friends have outgrown her and settled down, but are too nice to get rid of her.
103	** Deconstructed in another episode when Claire meets CampStraight Julio at a night club. The two seem to hit it off and Claire, assuming he's gay, objectifies him and inadvertently flirts with him throughout the night until he clarifies that he's straight.
104	* ''Series/NoahsArc'': Brandy, Noah's boss, comes off as this at times.
105	* Debbie from ''Series/QueerAsFolkUS'' definitely counts, though given the premise of the show any other heterosexual woman would also qualify.
106	* On ''Series/{{Riverdale}}'', once arriving in town Veronica is on the lookout for a new gay best friend and is ecstatic to meet [[CampGay Kevin]].
107	-->'''Veronica:''' So what's the social scene like here? Any nightclubs?\
108	'''Kevin:''' A strip club called the Ho Zone and [[WhereEverybodyKnowsYourFlame a tragic gay bar called Innuendo]]. Friday nights, football games, and then tailgate parties at the Mallmart parking lot. Saturday night is movie night, regardless of what's playing at the Bijou, and you better get there early, because [[QuirkyTown we don't have reserved seating in Riverdale]]. [[SmallTownBoredom And Sunday nights...Thank God for HBO...]]\
109	'''Betty:''' Veronica Lodge, Kevin Keller. Veronica, Kevin is--\
110	'''Veronica:''' Gay, thank god!
111	* In a ''Series/SaturdayNightLive'' skit from 2007 about Dumbledore coming out of the closet, JK Rowling (Amy Poehler) is on ''Larry King'' and reveals cut scenes from ''Film/HarryPotter'' movies. In them, Dumbledore is openly gay and Professor [=McGonagall=] is his fag hag.
112	* On ''Series/Sense8'', Daniela attempts to seduce Lito before realizing that he's in a committed relationship with Hernando. She then proceeds to essentially move in with them. It helps that she's an extreme believer in GuyOnGuyIsHot.
113	* ''Series/SexAndTheCity'': All four of the girls at one time or another. Margaret Cho as Lynne:
114	-->'''Lynne:''' This is my boyfriend Damien. I say boyfriend loosely as he is '''clearly''' a homosexual.
115	* The final episode of ''Series/{{SPACED}}'' shows Twist socializing in a gay club, but looking sad as she realizes she's thrown away some of her best friends.
116	* Two-time ''Series/{{Survivor}}'' player Corinne Kaplan made a point in both games of seeking out and aligning with a gay player. In her second season, it was with a guy who wasn't even in her original tribe, meaning she was willing to adjust her entire game plan in favor of working with a gay guy.
117	-->'''Corinne:''' I love my gays.
118	* ''Series/TheLWord'':
119	** Kit is the only straight woman in a CastFullOfGay, making her a double inversion of this trope as Fag Hag for lesbians -- maybe a Lez Hag?
120	** Her season 6 boyfriend is also a Fag Hag -- by default, being a straight drag queen, whose friends are all gay drag queens.
121	* ''Series/TheSarahSilvermanProgram'' features Sarah who is best friends and neighbors to Steve and Bryan, the most obese, nerdy, stoner gay couple ever seen.
122	* ''Series/TheSecretLifeOfTheAmericanTeenager'': Ashley Juergens apparently, since she became close friends with the school's Token Gay guy.
123	* ''Series/UglyBetty'' has its fag hag in the form of Amanda.
124	* ''Series/Warehouse13'': Claudia eagerly becomes one once paired with Steve Jinks. She expresses her surprise that she only started becoming one with Steve, because "I mean, I am pretty fabulous, right?"
125	* ''Series/WillAndGrace'':
126	** The titular Grace is the fag hag of Will. She's fiercely defensive of this position, to the point where she got into a CatFight with their neighbor Val who appeared to be trying to replace her.
127	** In one episode Will's boyfriend Vince brings his own fag hag to meet Grace over dinner. Grace immediately spots that the woman is secretly in love with Vince and gives her a long talk about accepting that it's not going to happen.
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130	[[folder:Music]]
131	* There is actually a song called "Fag Hag" by Music/LilyAllen.
132	* In the musical production called Theatre/FairyTales, the song "The Gay Guys" is about a woman bemoaning how every friend, every boyfriend, every husband, and even her father are gay, and warns the man asking her out that before the night is over, she'll probably wind up turning him gay too.
133	* From Music/GrandmasterFlashAndTheFuriousFive's "The Message" (1982):
134	-->"Crazy lady, living in a bag, eating out garbage pails, used to be a fag hag."
135	* "Gay Boyfriend" by The Hazzards.
136	-->''Gay Boyfriend, Gay Boyfriend''\
137	''I don't really care that you are queer.''
138	-->''Gay Boyfriend, Gay Boyfriend''
139	-->''I never feel lonely when you are near.''
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142	[[folder:Theatre]]
143	* In the play ''Freak'', "Fag Hag" is literally the name of a character who practices a scene from ''Theatre/{{Pygmalion}}'' with the "Gay Drama Kid" (another legitimate character in the play).
144	* Pritti in ''Theatre/EverybodysTalkingAboutJamie'' refers to herself as this.
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147	[[folder:Web Comics]]
148	* Peejee for Jhim in ''Webcomic/SomethingPositive''. She gets over it (mostly), but only after Jhim moves to Washington D.C.
149	%%* Alison from ''Webcomic/MyLifeInBlue''.
150	* Chris is a Fag Stag to [[CastFullOfGay EVERYONE]] in ''Webcomic/FurPiled''.
151	* ''Webcomic/{{Rain\|2010}}'' has a few instances of this. Rudy addresses Rain as his Fag Hag following their break-up. Also, Gavin is Maria's fake boyfriend, making him a Lez Bro. Also, as Gavin is the only straight member of the main characters, he counts as one all his own, at least until Ana joins the gang.
152	* In ''Webcomic/ElGoonishShive'', Susan is close friends with Justin and even admits that she likes him because he will never feel any sexual attraction for her.
153	* Missie of ''Webcomic/{{Misfile}}'' describes herself as this once she becomes friends with Rumisiel... to his extreme chagrin, as he's not actually gay; he is Ash's [[TheBeard Beard]], not the other way around like Missie assumes. Worse, he can't correct her without lying his ass off and/or breaking TheMasquerade.
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156	[[folder:Web Original]]
157	* From ''Website/TheOnion'', [[http://www.theonion.com/articles/gay-man-unattractive-woman-form-tight-bond,70/ Gay Man, Unattractive Woman Form Tight Bond]].
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160	[[folder:Web Videos]]
161	* [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eNzjySGRqmY/ Disappointing Gay Best Friend. 'nuff said]].
162	* Suzie Collins of ''WebVideo/WhereTheBearsAre'' hangs out with many gay men. [[IncompatibleOrientation They aren't into her]], but that doesn't stop her from sexually harassing them anyway.
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165	[[folder:Western Animation]]
166	* When Stan of ''WesternAnimation/AmericanDad'' decides he wants to be gay ([[ItMakesSenseInContext long story]]), he tries to cheer up his despondent wife Francine by claiming she can be his Hag.
167	** According to the commentary, they actually wanted to say Fag Hag, but FOX said no. When they asked the Log Cabin Republicans (gay Republicans) about it, they also said no.
168	* Toot to Xandir on ''WesternAnimation/DrawnTogether'', played for very {{Squick}}y laughs when she more or less [[BlackComedyRape rapes him]] and manages to get pity-sex out of him.
169	* Condie Ling of ''WesternAnimation/RickAndSteveTheHappiestGayCoupleInAllTheWorld'', who makes up for her inability to find a date (by Rick's own word, she turned him gay in high school) by hanging out with homosexuals (who are less prone to reject her, or at least, reject her less violently) and has a serious disgust of heterosexuality. She'll have you know she is ''not'' a fag hag, though -- [[InsistentTerminology she is an alternative lifestyle companion]].
170	%%* ''WesternAnimation/EdEddNEddy'''s Jimmy and Sarah seem to grow into this in later seasons, as Jimmy's CampGay tendencies were amped up more and more.
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173	[[folder:Real Life]]
174	* Comedienne Creator/MargaretCho is a self-described fag hag, which she claims stems from growing up in San Francisco and being raised almost exclusively by gay men; she bonded with the gay kids at her school because they were outcasts just as much as she was for being overweight and Asian. "They say certain smells bring you back to your childhood. Well, the smell that brings me back is balls in pantyhose!" She went on to talk about how "We were your date to the prom, and dragged your sorry asses through the Underground Railroad..."
175	* That title may have to go to Creator/OscarWilde's close female friend Ada "Sphinx" Leverson, who was the Victorian equivalent of a YaoiFangirl. Leverson's Fag Hag-ness was considered as poisonous in some circles as homosexuality. It didn't help matters that she was Jewish - socializing with Jews was quite stigmatized at the time. A disguised version of her helped the DepravedHomosexual characters based on Wilde and his lover Alfred "Bosie" Douglas worm their way into society in order to corrupt it in the Wilde-bashing roman a cléf ''The Green Carnation''.
176	%% Needs to say more than "is a Fag Stag" and gossip:
177	%%* Celebrity [[SpearCounterpart Fag Stags]]:
178	%%** Creator/KevinSmith is an outspoken Fag Stag.
179	%%** Same thing with Creator/DanielRadcliffe.
180	%%** Hugh Jackman is another notable Fag Stag.
181	%%** Israeli singer Bo‘az Ma‘uda[[note]]Winner of the fifth season of the Israeli ''Series/PopIdol'' and a one-time contestant on the Series/EurovisionSongContest[[/note]] is a self-admitted fag stag.
182	%% Needs to say more than "friends with a gay man":
183	%%* Creator/KathyGriffin. Most notably, one of her closest friends -- and they are genuinely close friends, though he sometimes wishes they weren't, usually when she's embarrassing him live on national television -- is Creator/AndersonCooper, CNN's famous (and famously gay) SilverFox anchor.
184	%%* Comedienne Lisa Lampanelli said in her book, ''Chocolate, Please'', that if it wasn't for gay men, "us fat chicks wouldn't have any friends."
185	%%* Music/DiamandaGalas.
186	* {{Enforced}} in 18[[superscript:th]] century Italy, where it was not uncommon for rich noblewomen to have ''cicisbei'' -- male companions or lovers, equivalent to mistresses for men. Cicisbei were more tolerated if they were known to be homosexuals and therefore were only around to be friends with the lady, and not to have adulterous relationships with her.
187	* Creator/JudyGarland was this. Her social circle included many gay men and she often went to gay bars with them. This helped contribute to her status as a gay icon. Garland once quipped that when she died, they would fly the flags at half-mast on [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fire_Island Fire Island]].
188	* [[UsefulNotes/TheHouseOfWindsor Diana, Princess of Wales]] was well known for closeness with gay men. Given that her time in the public eye coincided with the worst of the AIDS crisis, the role was all the more important. In one famous moment, Diana removed her gloves and shook hands with a man diagnosed with AIDS in a public appearance; at the time, there was a strong (and entirely incorrect) belief that the disease could be transferred through touch, so Diana doing so -- and later making a televised statement about how AIDS could ''not'' be spread that way -- was considered shocking. Princess Diana and Music/FreddieMercury were also close friends.
189	* Estelle Getty, best known for her role as Sophia on ''Series/TheGoldenGirls'', was famed for her relationship with gay men; she herself joked that she felt most comfortable when she had her "five-fag minimum" around her. Getty explained that, given her career on the New York stage, being surrounded by gay men was inevitable, and she developed incredible {{Gaydar}} as a result. On a more serious note, Getty was also a tireless advocate for AIDS victims (having lost her nephew to the disease) who appeared at charity events on a regular basis.
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