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* That title may have to go to Creator/OscarWilde's close female friend Ada "Sphinx" Leverson, who was the Victorian equivalent of a YaoiFangirl. Leverson's Fag Hag-ness was considered as poisonous in some circles as homosexuality. A disguised version of her helped the DepravedHomosexual characters based on Wilde and his lover Alfred "Bosie" Douglas worm their way into society in order to corrupt it in the Wilde-bashing roman a cléf ''The Green Carnation''.

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* That title may have to go to Creator/OscarWilde's close female friend Ada "Sphinx" Leverson, who was the Victorian equivalent of a YaoiFangirl. Leverson's Fag Hag-ness was considered as poisonous in some circles as homosexuality. It didn't help matters that she was Jewish - socializing with Jews was quite stigmatized at the time. A disguised version of her helped the DepravedHomosexual characters based on Wilde and his lover Alfred "Bosie" Douglas worm their way into society in order to corrupt it in the Wilde-bashing roman a cléf ''The Green Carnation''.
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* ''ComicBook/{{Hawkeye}}'': [[Characters/HawkeyeKateBishop Kate Bishop]] is a more subtle example. She's both good friends with Wiccan and Hulkling of the ''ComicBook/YoungAvengers'' (and the three of them are the three longest-serving members of the team), and she became something of a surrogate daughter to a gay couple she met when she moved to the West Coast after she saved their wedding, while also cat-sitting for a lesbian couple. She's been depicted as best friends with ComicBook/AmericaChavez, who is a butch lesbian with whom she has extensive LesYay teased (but Kate insists she herself is straight), and two of her three canon boyfriends (Noh-Varr and Fuse) are bisexual and attracted to one another, while another boy she had extensive ShipTease with (Speed) was implied to be bisexual in a one-shot story. At this point, the only straight people in Kate's life can be counted on one hand.

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* ''ComicBook/{{Hawkeye}}'': [[Characters/HawkeyeKateBishop [[Characters/MarvelComicsKateBishop Kate Bishop]] is a more subtle example. She's both good friends with Wiccan and Hulkling of the ''ComicBook/YoungAvengers'' (and the three of them are the three longest-serving members of the team), and she became something of a surrogate daughter to a gay couple she met when she moved to the West Coast after she saved their wedding, while also cat-sitting for a lesbian couple. She's been depicted as best friends with ComicBook/AmericaChavez, who is a butch lesbian with whom she has extensive LesYay teased (but Kate insists she herself is straight), and two of her three canon boyfriends (Noh-Varr and Fuse) are bisexual and attracted to one another, while another boy she had extensive ShipTease with (Speed) was implied to be bisexual in a one-shot story. At this point, the only straight people in Kate's life can be counted on one hand.

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* Sal in ''Series/ModernFamily'' is a HardDrinkingPartyGirl who frequents gay discos. Played with as all her gay friends have outgrown her and settled down, but are too nice to get rid of her.

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Sal in ''Series/ModernFamily'' is a HardDrinkingPartyGirl who frequents gay discos. Played with as all her gay friends have outgrown her and settled down, but are too nice to get rid of her.her.
** Deconstructed in another episode when Claire meets CampStraight Julio at a night club. The two seem to hit it off and Claire, assuming he's gay, objectifies him and inadvertently flirts with him throughout the night until he clarifies that he's straight.

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* ''Series/GimmeGimmeGimme'' subverts this in a very British way; it throws together an appalling gay man and a sociopathic straight woman, possibly because nobody else would care to share a grotty rented flat with them. Linda becomes a reluctant fag hag to Tom.



** The titular Grace is the fag hag of Will.
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** ''Series/GimmeGimmeGimme'' subverts ''Will & Grace'' in a very British way; it throws together an appalling gay man and a sociopathic straight woman, possibly because nobody else would care to share a grotty rented flat with them. Linda becomes a reluctant fag hag to Tom.

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** The titular Grace is the fag hag of Will.
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** ''Series/GimmeGimmeGimme'' subverts ''Will & Grace'' in a very British way; it throws together an appalling gay man and a sociopathic straight woman, possibly because nobody else would care
Will. She's fiercely defensive of this position, to share the point where she got into a grotty rented flat CatFight with them. Linda becomes a reluctant their neighbor Val who appeared to be trying to replace her.
** In one episode Will's boyfriend Vince brings his own
fag hag to Tom.meet Grace over dinner. Grace immediately spots that the woman is secretly in love with Vince and gives her a long talk about accepting that it's not going to happen.

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* Kate Spencer, the titular character of the ''Comicbook/{{Manhunter}}'' comic is very much a fag hag; her closest (and arguably only) friend in the superhero business is gay and dating her paralegal. [[spoiler: And if that's not enough, a comic set in the future shows her son is gay, too -- and likely the heir to her title.]]
* ''ComicBook/ScottPilgrim'' has this to almost parodic levels. There are three decidedly heterosexual characters, one of whom has has recurring HoYay with another male character PlayedForLaughs. Eventually, the unambiguously straight characters can be counted on hand.
* Ed Brubaker's superhero/spy series ''Comicbook/SleeperWildStorm'' has a character ''named'' Fag Hag, because she's an energy vampire that can only drain the lifeforce of homosexuals (complete with Gaydar!) She considers it BlessedWithSuck since her closest friends were always gay.
* Beautie of ''ComicBook/AstroCity'' is a human-sized robotic fashion doll. She has an apartment above a gay bar and is friends to the local gay community because they understand what it's like to feel separate from the norm (if in a different way). It also helps that they don't try to proposition her.
* In ''ComicBook/KickAss'', Katie Deauxma befriends Dave because she thinks he's gay and always wanted a gay friend.
* The author of ''ComicBook/{{Persepolis}}'' lives together with eight gay guys in one shared apartment in Vienna.
* Kate Bishop of ''ComicBook/YoungAvengers'' and ''ComicBook/{{Hawkeye}}'' fame is a more subtle example. She's both good friends with Wiccan and Hulkling of said team (and the three of them are the three longest-serving members of the team), and she became something of a surrogate daughter to a gay couple she met when she moved to the West Coast after she saved their wedding, while also cat-sitting for a lesbian couple. She's been depicted as best friends with ComicBook/AmericaChavez, who is a butch lesbian with whom she has extensive LesYay teased (but Kate insists she herself is straight), and two of her three canon boyfriends (Noh-Varr and Fuse) are bisexual and attracted to one another, while another boy she had extensive ShipTease with (Speed) was implied to be bisexual in a one-shot story. At this point, the only straight people in Kate's life can be counted on one hand.
* Mrs. Nussbaum from ''ComicBook/{{Circles}}'' is a widowed straight woman who loves Paulie and the others, despite her late homophobic husband.

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* Kate Spencer, the titular character of the ''Comicbook/{{Manhunter}}'' comic is very much a fag hag; her closest (and arguably only) friend in the superhero business is gay and dating her paralegal. [[spoiler: And if that's not enough, a comic set in the future shows her son is gay, too -- and likely the heir to her title.]]
* ''ComicBook/ScottPilgrim'' has this to almost parodic levels. There are three decidedly heterosexual characters, one of whom has has recurring HoYay with another male character PlayedForLaughs. Eventually, the unambiguously straight characters can be counted on hand.
* Ed Brubaker's superhero/spy series ''Comicbook/SleeperWildStorm'' has a character ''named'' Fag Hag, because she's an energy vampire that can only drain the lifeforce of homosexuals (complete with Gaydar!) She considers it BlessedWithSuck since her closest friends were always gay.
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''ComicBook/AstroCity'': Beautie of ''ComicBook/AstroCity'' is a human-sized robotic fashion doll. She has an apartment above a gay bar and is friends to the local gay community because they understand what it's like to feel separate from the norm (if in a different way). It also helps that they don't try to proposition her.
* In ''ComicBook/KickAss'', Katie Deauxma befriends Dave because she thinks he's gay and always wanted a gay friend.
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''ComicBook/TheAuthority'': The author of ''ComicBook/{{Persepolis}}'' lives together with eight gay guys in one shared apartment in Vienna.
* Kate Bishop of ''ComicBook/YoungAvengers'' and ''ComicBook/{{Hawkeye}}'' fame
Engineer, Angie Spica, is a more subtle example. She's both good friends with Wiccan close friend of Apollo, and Hulkling of said team (and the three of them are the three longest-serving members of the team), and she became something of a surrogate daughter is "Best Woman" at his wedding to a gay couple she met when she moved to the West Coast after she saved their wedding, while also cat-sitting for a lesbian couple. She's been depicted as best friends with ComicBook/AmericaChavez, who is a butch lesbian with whom she has extensive LesYay teased (but Kate insists she herself is straight), and two of her three canon boyfriends (Noh-Varr and Fuse) are bisexual and attracted to one another, while another boy she had extensive ShipTease with (Speed) was implied to be bisexual in a one-shot story. At this point, the only straight people in Kate's life can be counted on one hand.
* Mrs. Nussbaum from ''ComicBook/{{Circles}}'' is a widowed straight woman who loves Paulie and the others, despite her late homophobic husband.
(male) partner [[SpellMyNameWithAThe The Midnighter]]. Apollo teases that she's his fag hag. She doesn't mind.



* In ''ComicBook/TheAuthority'', the Engineer, Angie Spica, is a close friend of Apollo, and is "Best Woman" at his wedding to (male) partner [[SpellMyNameWithAThe The Midnighter]]. Apollo teases that she's his fag hag. She doesn't mind.

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* In ''ComicBook/TheAuthority'', the Engineer, Angie Spica, ''ComicBook/{{Circles}}'': Mrs. Nussbaum is a close widowed straight woman who loves Paulie and the others, despite her late homophobic husband.
* ''ComicBook/KickAss'': Katie Deauxma befriends Dave because she thinks he's gay and always wanted a gay friend.
* ''ComicBook/{{Hawkeye}}'': [[Characters/HawkeyeKateBishop Kate Bishop]] is a more subtle example. She's both good friends with Wiccan and Hulkling of the ''ComicBook/YoungAvengers'' (and the three of them are the three longest-serving members of the team), and she became something of a surrogate daughter to a gay couple she met when she moved to the West Coast after she saved their wedding, while also cat-sitting for a lesbian couple. She's been depicted as best friends with ComicBook/AmericaChavez, who is a butch lesbian with whom she has extensive LesYay teased (but Kate insists she herself is straight), and two of her three canon boyfriends (Noh-Varr and Fuse) are bisexual and attracted to one another, while another boy she had extensive ShipTease with (Speed) was implied to be bisexual in a one-shot story. At this point, the only straight people in Kate's life can be counted on one hand.
* ''ComicBook/{{Manhunter}}'': Kate Spencer is very much a fag hag; her closest (and arguably only)
friend of Apollo, in the superhero business is gay and dating her paralegal. [[spoiler: And if that's not enough, a comic set in the future shows her son is "Best Woman" at his wedding gay, too -- and likely the heir to (male) partner [[SpellMyNameWithAThe her title.]]
* ''ComicBook/{{Persepolis}}'':
The Midnighter]]. Apollo teases that author lives together with eight gay guys in one shared apartment in Vienna.
* ''ComicBook/ScottPilgrim'': The series has this to almost parodic levels. There are three decidedly heterosexual characters, one of whom has has recurring HoYay with another male character PlayedForLaughs. Eventually, the unambiguously straight characters can be counted on hand.
* ''ComicBook/{{Sleeper|WildStorm}}'': Ed Brubaker's superhero/spy series has a character ''named'' Fag Hag, because
she's his fag hag. an energy vampire that can only drain the lifeforce of homosexuals (complete with Gaydar!) She doesn't mind.considers it BlessedWithSuck since her closest friends were always gay.
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* Literature/IrisWildthyme has been [[http://www.eruditorumpress.com/blog/a-cosmos-without-iris-wildthyme-scarcely-bears-thinking-about/ widely interpreted]] as a time-travelling ''Doctor Who'' version of the stereotypical "fag hag", and indeed, many of her companions tend to be gay. It is, however, worth noting that [[DependingOnTheWriter some stories]] depict Iris herself as either a lesbian or bisexual.

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* Literature/IrisWildthyme Franchise/IrisWildthyme has been [[http://www.eruditorumpress.com/blog/a-cosmos-without-iris-wildthyme-scarcely-bears-thinking-about/ widely interpreted]] as a time-travelling ''Doctor Who'' version of the stereotypical "fag hag", and indeed, many of her companions tend to be gay. It is, however, worth noting that [[DependingOnTheWriter some stories]] depict Iris herself as either a lesbian or bisexual.
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* Beautie of ''ComicBook/AstroCity'' is a human-sized robotic fashion doll. She has an apartment above a gay bar and is friends with the local gay community because they're men who won't try to proposition her.

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* Beautie of ''ComicBook/AstroCity'' is a human-sized robotic fashion doll. She has an apartment above a gay bar and is friends with to the local gay community because they're men who won't they understand what it's like to feel separate from the norm (if in a different way). It also helps that they don't try to proposition her.
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%%* Creator/KathyGriffin. Most notably, one of her closest friends -- and they are genuinely close friends, though he sometimes wishes they weren't, usually when she's embarrassing him live on national television -- is Creator/AndersonCooper, Creator/{{CNN}}'s famous (and famously gay) SilverFox anchor.

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%%* Creator/KathyGriffin. Most notably, one of her closest friends -- and they are genuinely close friends, though he sometimes wishes they weren't, usually when she's embarrassing him live on national television -- is Creator/AndersonCooper, Creator/{{CNN}}'s CNN's famous (and famously gay) SilverFox anchor.
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->'''Freddie:''' You're lucky you're straight Ash, otherwise you get one of these women who latch on to you for decades and never let go.\\

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->'''Freddie:''' You're lucky you're straight straight, Ash, otherwise you get one of these women who latch on to you for decades and never let go.\\



'''Freddie:''' Yes. We '''like''' her.

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'''Freddie:''' Yes. We '''like''' ''like'' her.

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* ''Webcomic/HetaliaAxisPowers'' fanfic ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/11886910/1/Gankona-Unnachgiebig-Unità Gankona, Unnachgiebig, Unità]]'': [[YaoiFangirl Hungary]] ''loves'' to hang out with Germany, Italy, and Japan. Germany and Italy are bi while Japan is [[UsefulNotes/{{Homosexual}} gay]]. She also loves to hang out with [[AnythingThatMoves France]], Spain, and Prussia when she is not [[ViolentlyProtectiveGirlfriend beating the ever-loving crap out of them]].

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* ''Webcomic/HetaliaAxisPowers'' fanfic ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/11886910/1/Gankona-Unnachgiebig-Unità Gankona, Unnachgiebig, Unità]]'': [[YaoiFangirl Hungary]] ''loves'' to hang out with Germany, Italy, and Japan. Germany and Italy are bi while Japan is [[UsefulNotes/{{Homosexual}} gay]]. She also loves to hang out with [[AnythingThatMoves France]], France, Spain, and Prussia when she is not [[ViolentlyProtectiveGirlfriend beating the ever-loving crap out of them]].
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* Debbie from ''Series/QueerAsFolk'' definitely counts, though given the premise of the show any other heterosexual woman would also qualify.

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* Debbie from ''Series/QueerAsFolk'' ''Series/QueerAsFolkUS'' definitely counts, though given the premise of the show any other heterosexual woman would also qualify.
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They can be portrayed as boy-crazy women happy to have a non-sexual male friend, or as cosmopolitan women already in a hetero relationshipthat simply enjoy the companyof gay men.In many cases, the Hag started hanging out with her gay friend because she was attracted to him, before he turns her down for [[IncompatibleOrientation obvious reasons]] (wishful thinking will ignore even the most FlamboyantGay characteristics). The friendship lasts however, and some Fag Hags even seek out gay men -- either because they find them non-threatening or as [[TheNotLoveInterest a replacement for a 'proper' straight relationship.]] Gays who enjoy the company of these ladies do so for similar reasons, but it isn't uncommon for a gay man to see his Hag as a sort of maternal figure, especially if she's older than him and/or if his own mother rejected him. A Hag [[TeamMom who acts as a mother figure]] to a group of gay men is sometimes called a [[Literature/PeterPan "Wendy"]] -- because she takes care of the Lost Boys.

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They can be portrayed as boy-crazy women happy to have a non-sexual male friend, or as cosmopolitan women already in a hetero relationshipthat relationship that simply enjoy the companyof company of gay men.men. In many cases, the Hag started hanging out with her gay friend because she was attracted to him, before he turns her down for [[IncompatibleOrientation obvious reasons]] (wishful thinking will ignore even the most FlamboyantGay characteristics). The friendship lasts however, and some Fag Hags even seek out gay men -- either because they find them non-threatening or as [[TheNotLoveInterest a replacement for a 'proper' straight relationship.]] Gays who enjoy the company of these ladies do so for similar reasons, but it isn't uncommon for a gay man to see his Hag as a sort of maternal figure, especially if she's older than him and/or if his own mother rejected him. A Hag [[TeamMom who acts as a mother figure]] to a group of gay men is sometimes called a [[Literature/PeterPan "Wendy"]] -- because she takes care of the Lost Boys.
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* ''Webcomic/{{Rain}}'' has a few instances of this. Rudy addresses Rain as his Fag Hag following their break-up. Also, Gavin is Maria's fake boyfriend, making him a Lez Bro. Also, as Gavin is the only straight member of the main characters, he counts as one all his own, at least until Ana joins the gang.

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* ''Webcomic/{{Rain}}'' ''Webcomic/{{Rain|2010}}'' has a few instances of this. Rudy addresses Rain as his Fag Hag following their break-up. Also, Gavin is Maria's fake boyfriend, making him a Lez Bro. Also, as Gavin is the only straight member of the main characters, he counts as one all his own, at least until Ana joins the gang.
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Ana is also intersex, but her being in the gang means that Gavin isn't the only straight person in the group.


* ''Webcomic/{{Rain}}'' has a few instances of this. Rudy addresses Rain as his Fag Hag following their break-up. Also, Gavin is Maria's fake boyfriend, making him a Lez Bro. Also, as Gavin is the only straight member of the main characters, he counts as one all his own.

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* ''Webcomic/{{Rain}}'' has a few instances of this. Rudy addresses Rain as his Fag Hag following their break-up. Also, Gavin is Maria's fake boyfriend, making him a Lez Bro. Also, as Gavin is the only straight member of the main characters, he counts as one all his own.own, at least until Ana joins the gang.
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the bit about stereotypically being overweight doesn't really have anything to back it up, and most of the examples given don't support this. Likewise, some of the language used is unintentionally offensive, portraying "classy" women versus those who are promiscious. The "at worst" comment is also negative and needless.


Fag Hags are stereotypically portrayed as overweight. At best, she's a classy [[BigBeautifulWoman BBW]] and even acts like (or is) a SassyBlackWoman; at worst, she's a neurotic drama queen who is either promiscuous or perpetually single. In many cases, the Hag started hanging out with her gay friend because she was attracted to him, before he turns her down for [[IncompatibleOrientation obvious reasons]] (wishful thinking will ignore even the most FlamboyantGay characteristics). The friendship lasts however, and some Fag Hags even seek out gay men -- either because they find them non-threatening or as [[TheNotLoveInterest a replacement for a 'proper' straight relationship.]] Gays who enjoy the company of these ladies do so for similar reasons, but it isn't uncommon for a gay man to see his Hag as a sort of maternal figure, especially if she's older than him and/or if his own mother rejected him. A Hag [[TeamMom who acts as a mother figure]] to a group of gay men is sometimes called a [[Literature/PeterPan "Wendy"]] -- because she takes care of the Lost Boys.

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Fag Hags are stereotypically They can be portrayed as overweight. At best, she's boy-crazy women happy to have a classy [[BigBeautifulWoman BBW]] and even acts like (or is) a SassyBlackWoman; at worst, she's a neurotic drama queen who is either promiscuous non-sexual male friend, or perpetually single. as cosmopolitan women already in a hetero relationshipthat simply enjoy the companyof gay men.In many cases, the Hag started hanging out with her gay friend because she was attracted to him, before he turns her down for [[IncompatibleOrientation obvious reasons]] (wishful thinking will ignore even the most FlamboyantGay characteristics). The friendship lasts however, and some Fag Hags even seek out gay men -- either because they find them non-threatening or as [[TheNotLoveInterest a replacement for a 'proper' straight relationship.]] Gays who enjoy the company of these ladies do so for similar reasons, but it isn't uncommon for a gay man to see his Hag as a sort of maternal figure, especially if she's older than him and/or if his own mother rejected him. A Hag [[TeamMom who acts as a mother figure]] to a group of gay men is sometimes called a [[Literature/PeterPan "Wendy"]] -- because she takes care of the Lost Boys.
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* In a ''Series/SaturdayNightLive'' skit about Dumbledore coming out of the closet, JK Rowling (Amy Poehler) is on ''Larry King'' and reveals cut scenes from ''Film/HarryPotter'' movies. In them, Dumbledore is openly gay and Professor [=McGonagall=] is his fag hag.

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* In a ''Series/SaturdayNightLive'' skit from 2007 about Dumbledore coming out of the closet, JK Rowling (Amy Poehler) is on ''Larry King'' and reveals cut scenes from ''Film/HarryPotter'' movies. In them, Dumbledore is openly gay and Professor [=McGonagall=] is his fag hag.

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Compare YaoiFangirl. The GayBestFriend can be an inversion if it's a gay man whose friends are almost entirely straight women. See also LastHetRomance, where the woman may become a Fag Hag in response to her partner outing himself. See also TokenLesbian if the woman is a lesbian among the group of gay men.

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Compare YaoiFangirl.YaoiFangirl, or AllTheGoodMenAreGay. The GayBestFriend can be an inversion if it's a gay man whose friends are almost entirely straight women. See also LastHetRomance, where the woman may become a Fag Hag in response to her partner outing himself. See also TokenLesbian if the woman is a lesbian among the group of gay men.


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* A male example in the German film ''[[https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0116164/ Echte Kerle]]'' ("Regular Guys"). The main character, hapless police detective Christoph, moves in with gay mechanic Edgar--initially because he has nowhere else to go, but they become closer friends as the plot develops. This causes [[HilarityEnsues amusing misunderstandings]] with Christoph's colleagues, as well as [[MistakenForGay his love interest]].
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A Fag Hag is a woman who associates closely with gay men. The term used to be an insult but is becoming [[InsultBackfire increasingly]] [[AppropriatedAppellation adopted by the women themselves]]. Friendships between Fag Hags and gay men allow for closeness and intimacy without the danger of sexual feeling getting in the way.

Fag Hags are stereotypically portrayed as overweight. At best, she's a classy [[BigBeautifulWoman BBW]] and even acts like (or is) a SassyBlackWoman; at worst, she's a neurotic drama queen who is either promiscuous or perpetually single. In many cases, the Hag started hanging out with her gay friend because she was attracted to him, before he turns her down for [[IncompatibleOrientation obvious reasons]] (wishful thinking will ignore even the most FlamboyantGay characteristics). The friendship lasts however, and some Fag Hags even seek out gay men -- either because they find them non-threatening or as [[TheNotLoveInterest a replacement for a 'proper' straight relationship.]] Gays who enjoy the company of these ladies do so for similar reasons, but it isn't uncommon for a gay man to see his Hag as a sort of maternal figure, especially if she's older than him and/or if his own mother rejected him. A Hag [[TeamMom who acts as a mother figure]] to a group of gay men is sometimes called a "Wendy" -- because she takes care of the Lost Boys.

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A Fag Hag is a woman who associates closely with gay men. The term used to be was coined by gay men as an insult (hence the pejorative), but is becoming [[InsultBackfire increasingly]] has been [[AppropriatedAppellation increasingly adopted by the women themselves]]. Friendships between Fag Hags and gay men allow for closeness and intimacy without the danger of sexual feeling getting in the way.

Fag Hags are stereotypically portrayed as overweight. At best, she's a classy [[BigBeautifulWoman BBW]] and even acts like (or is) a SassyBlackWoman; at worst, she's a neurotic drama queen who is either promiscuous or perpetually single. In many cases, the Hag started hanging out with her gay friend because she was attracted to him, before he turns her down for [[IncompatibleOrientation obvious reasons]] (wishful thinking will ignore even the most FlamboyantGay characteristics). The friendship lasts however, and some Fag Hags even seek out gay men -- either because they find them non-threatening or as [[TheNotLoveInterest a replacement for a 'proper' straight relationship.]] Gays who enjoy the company of these ladies do so for similar reasons, but it isn't uncommon for a gay man to see his Hag as a sort of maternal figure, especially if she's older than him and/or if his own mother rejected him. A Hag [[TeamMom who acts as a mother figure]] to a group of gay men is sometimes called a "Wendy" [[Literature/PeterPan "Wendy"]] -- because she takes care of the Lost Boys.
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* Sal in ''Series/ModernFamily'' is a HardDrinkingPartyGirl who frequents gay discos. Deconstructed in that her gay friends have all pretty much outgrown her and settled down, but are too nice to get rid of her.

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* Sal in ''Series/ModernFamily'' is a HardDrinkingPartyGirl who frequents gay discos. Deconstructed in that Played with as all her gay friends have all pretty much outgrown her and settled down, but are too nice to get rid of her.
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* Sal in ''Series/ModernFamily'' is a HardDrinkingPartyGirl who frequents gay discos. Deconstructed in that her gay friends have all pretty much outgrown her and settled down, but are too nice to get rid of her.

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