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** Eminem has expressed insecurity about his appearance out-of-character, claiming people only started to think he was cute after he got famous, and complaining about his "butt-chin", rabbit teeth, big ears and crooked nose. He ''does'' consistently acknowledge that he has [[WhatBeautifulEyes beautiful eyes]], though, usually when boasting that they let him get away with his lyrics.
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* Stannis Baratheon in ''Fanfic/DownARabbitHoleToWesteros'' believes his betrothed Selyse is mocking him when she calls him handsome, because he has been unfavorably compared to his older brother Robert -- whom he openly describes as "a maiden's wet dream" -- his whole childhood. It takes her some time and copious sex for Stannis to gain self-esteem.
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* ''Manga/SpyXFamily'': Yor Forger (née Briar) has a low opinion of her appearance, because of all the mean-spirited comments she gets from her coworkers (who are actually jealous because she's very pretty, and she could be a head-turner if she bothered to fix herself up). It takes her for a complete loop when Loid calls her beautiful when they first meet each other.
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* Another male example, Creator/JimmyFallon was a Calvin Klein model and was named one of People magazine's 50 Most Beautiful People in 2002, an honor he found embarrassing.
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* ''Manga/MyDressUpDarling'': Shinju Inui thinks this about herself, since she's a HugeSchoolgirl who stands 178cm (roughly 5'10") despite being a middleschooler, and thinks she's "fat" (she's actually absurdly curvaceous for her age), envying her older sister Sajuna whose petite body allows her to cosplay "cute" characters.
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* Another male examples is Jim [=McCarthy=], the protagonist in ''Literature/TheWarAgainstTheChtorr''. When 'Liz' Tirelli compliments him he immediately starts blurting out everything that's wrong with him, and [[ICantBelieveAGuyLikeYouWouldNoticeMe can't believe she'd be interested in him]]. Liz is [[MrsRobinson older than him]] so thinks the opposite is the case. Eventually Liz gets angry with him, pointing out that his thinking this implies there's something wrong with her for choosing Jim as her lover.
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* In the ''Manga/MobPsycho100'' fanfic ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/13315535/1/Everyone-Loves-Mob Everyone Loves Mob]]'' Mob(gender swapped) is convinced that she's plain and boring looking despite multiple characters telling her otherwise.

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* In the ''Manga/MobPsycho100'' ''Webcomic/MobPsycho100'' fanfic ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/13315535/1/Everyone-Loves-Mob Everyone Loves Mob]]'' Mob(gender swapped) a gender swapped Mob is convinced that she's plain and boring looking looking, despite multiple characters telling her otherwise.
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* In the ''Series/PunkyBrewster"" episode "Pretty Ugly," Margaux Kramer laments she's ugly when she finds out that Glomer's facial turned her face into a glomley face. When it wears off, Punky holds a shiny frying pan to Margaux to prove she's normal and pretty again.

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* In the ''Series/PunkyBrewster"" Series/PunkyBrewster episode "Pretty Ugly," Margaux Kramer laments she's ugly when she finds out that Glomer's facial turned her face into a glomley face. When it wears off, Punky holds a shiny frying pan to Margaux to prove she's normal and pretty again.
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* In the ''Series/Punky Brewster"" episode "Pretty Ugly," Margaux Kramer laments she's ugly when she finds out that Glomer's facial turned her face into a glomley face. When it wears off, Punky holds a shiny frying pan to Margaux to prove she's normal and pretty again.

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* In the ''Series/Punky Brewster"" ''Series/PunkyBrewster"" episode "Pretty Ugly," Margaux Kramer laments she's ugly when she finds out that Glomer's facial turned her face into a glomley face. When it wears off, Punky holds a shiny frying pan to Margaux to prove she's normal and pretty again.
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* In the ''Series/Punky Brewster"" episode "Pretty Ugly," Margaux Kramer laments she's ugly when she finds out that Glomer's facial turned her face into a glomley face. When it wears off, Punky holds a shiny frying pan to Margaux to prove she's normal and pretty again.
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* ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/13615307/1/HV-S03-Self-Incarnation HV-S03: Self-Incarnation]]'': Mochizuki Chiyome was cursed with Yamata-no-Orochi's power, making her part snake, for example having snake scales for skin and snake-like eyes. She laments her hideousness, and is baffled when her fiancé in an ArrangedMarriage, Sengo Muramasa, falls in love at first sight with her, constantly praises her beauty, and enjoys seeing her naked.
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* A curious example appears in Kit Williams' well-known puzzle book [[Literature/KitWilliamsMasquerade Masquerade]]. The Sun is in love with the Moon but doesn't dare speak to her. This is because people always screw their faces up whenever they look at him, which leads him to think he must be very ugly.

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* A curious example appears in Kit Williams' well-known puzzle book [[Literature/KitWilliamsMasquerade Masquerade]].Literature/{{Masquerade|1979}}. The Sun is in love with the Moon but doesn't dare speak to her. This is because people always screw their faces up whenever they look at him, which leads him to think he must be very ugly.
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** If anything, her younger cousin (and HollywoodNerd) protagonist Devi can feel vulnerable to this, especially when her rival refers to her as an "unfuckable nerd" when they are engaging in SnarkToSnarkCombat which is ridiculous given that Devi looks as good as her portrayer [[https://www.instagram.com/maitreyiramakrishnan/?hl=en Maitreyi Ramakrishnan]].

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** If anything, her younger cousin (and HollywoodNerd) and nerdy protagonist Devi can feel vulnerable to this, especially when her rival refers to her as an "unfuckable nerd" when they are engaging in SnarkToSnarkCombat which is ridiculous given that Devi looks as good as her portrayer [[https://www.instagram.com/maitreyiramakrishnan/?hl=en Maitreyi Ramakrishnan]].
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* Despite his very flashy fashion choices, it turns out that ''VisualNovel/AceAttorney'''s prettyboy prosecutor Miles Edgeworth not only doesn't notice the female attention he tends to garner, but is absolutely baffled by the idea that women find him attractive.

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* Despite his very flashy fashion choices, it turns out that ''VisualNovel/AceAttorney'''s prettyboy pretty-boy prosecutor Miles Edgeworth not only doesn't notice the female attention he tends to garner, but is and when he does, he's absolutely baffled by the idea that women find him attractive.
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Sometimes she might be a standard beauty, but feels unattractive because she's the ''wrong kind'' of beautiful. A girl with RavenHairIvorySkin who's an absolute knockout to anyone with eyes might still feel she's unattractive because she's told the "ideal" is blue-eyed blonde. This one is especially common in the U.S.; the standard of beauty is an ideal that could be considered Northern European (blonde hair, blue eyes, tan complexion,) which leaves a lot of girls in minority groups feeling this way (Music/{{Cher}}, for instance, has said in the past that she grew up feeling like she could never be beautiful because she wasn't blonde.)

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Sometimes she might be a standard beauty, but feels unattractive because she's the ''wrong kind'' of beautiful. A girl with RavenHairIvorySkin who's an absolute knockout to anyone with eyes might still feel she's unattractive because she's told the "ideal" is blue-eyed blonde. This one is especially common in the U.S.; the standard of beauty is an ideal that could be considered Northern European (blonde hair, blue eyes, tan complexion,) complexion), which leaves a lot of girls in minority groups feeling this way (Music/{{Cher}}, for instance, has said in the past that she grew up feeling like she could never be beautiful because she wasn't blonde.)
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* While Music/{{Eminem}} usually claims in his songs that he's [[PrettyBoy cute]], several songs have him insisting to a woman that she thinks she's ugly. These are usually scenes in which his character is a violent misogynist, trying to get the woman to comfort him before he, inevitably, shrieks abuse at her or murders her.
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* Becca from ''VisualNovel/{{Melody}}'' claims that guys would want girls who are prettier than she is. Becca is attractive, and when she dresses in less dowdy clothes, it shows better.
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* [[http://www.m.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/mental-health-body-dysmorphic-disorder Body Dysmorphic Disorder]] is a mental disorder in which a person obsesses over their flaws, real or imaginary, and do not believe others who tell them they look fine. They often use make up, heavy clothing and plastic surgery to try and disguise or eliminate those flaws. Some experts have speculated that Music/MichaelJackson may have suffered from it due to the multiple plastic surgeries he had on his face.

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* [[http://www.m.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/mental-health-body-dysmorphic-disorder Body Dysmorphic Disorder]] is a mental disorder in which a person obsesses over their flaws, real or imaginary, and do not believe others who tell them they look fine. They often use make up, heavy clothing and plastic surgery to try and disguise or eliminate those flaws. Some experts have speculated that Music/MichaelJackson may have suffered from it due to the multiple plastic surgeries he had on his face.face, and Jackson did admit to being very insecure about his appearance due to his father and brothers teasing him about his "big nose" and the acne he suffered as a teen. He admitted to avoiding mirrors whenever possible and cried often.
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* ''VideoGame/GetInTheCarLoser'': Despite her party members and several [=NPCs=] telling Sam that she's beautiful, she has a hard time believing it. [[spoiler:This is because of her anxiety in dealing with people who hate her for transitioning and refuse to acknowledge her gender.]]

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* Averted and defied by Nobu in ''Manga/{{Ooku}}'': she knows she's rather plain looking (and this is backed up by others noting she's plain-looking as well), but she's also not particularly bothered by it because, as she herself prefers a plainer sort of man rather than {{Bishounen}}, it stands to reason that there will be a man that likes her plainer looks. This so shocks Shogun Tsunayoshi (who was raised to believe her beauty was the most important thing to her) that she ends up laughing, then awarding Nobu land and the masculine name Yoshimune as a reward for the laugh, setting off a chain of events that eventually led to Yoshimune becoming shogun herself.

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* Averted and defied by Nobu in ''Manga/{{Ooku}}'': Averted and defied by Nobu; she knows she's rather plain looking (and this is backed up by others noting she's plain-looking as well), but she's also not particularly bothered by it because, as she herself prefers a plainer sort of man rather than {{Bishounen}}, it stands to reason that there will be a man that likes her plainer looks. This so shocks Shogun Tsunayoshi (who was raised to believe her beauty was the most important thing to her) that she ends up laughing, then awarding Nobu land and the masculine name Yoshimune as a reward for the laugh, setting off a chain of events that eventually led to Yoshimune becoming shogun herself.



* [[GhostInTheMachine Kaguya (Ice)]] from ''Manga/KaguyaSamaLoveIsWar'' sees herself as "a disgusting person who could never be cute", though she means it in terms of her personality rather than her looks. It makes sense, given that she's meant to be the representation of everything that Kaguya hates about herself.

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* ''Manga/KaguyaSamaLoveIsWar'': [[GhostInTheMachine Kaguya (Ice)]] from ''Manga/KaguyaSamaLoveIsWar'' sees herself as "a disgusting person who could never be cute", though she means it in terms of her personality rather than her looks. It makes sense, given that she's meant to be the representation of everything that Kaguya hates about herself.



* Natsumi, in ''LightNovel/DateALive'' honestly believes her true form (a pretty, if messy haired 14 year old) is hideous and no one would want to look at her like that, hence she uses her transformation powers to give herself what she believes is an ideal body. It takes a lot of work, but in the end Shido and the gang manage to get her to accept her true form, and afterwards she becomes [[LovableSexManiac Miku's]] favorite target for sexual harrassment, because she finds her so damn cute. It's later revealed that she thought so little of her looks because [[spoiler:her mother treated her like crap, called her ugly, and did other horrible things to her before her transformation into a spirit]] which completely wrecked her self-image.
* [[MiddleChildSyndrome Miku Nakano]] of ''Manga/TheQuintessentialQuintuplets'' seems to suffer from this, owing to her low self-esteem. Even though she and her sisters are identical quintuplets, she often compares herself unfavorably to her older sisters Ichika and Nino, both of whom are outgoing and popular, while she's withdrawn and doesn't care much for her appearance. During the climax of the Sisters' War arc, Nino angrily tells her that, being quintuplets, Miku is as pretty as the others too.

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* Natsumi, in ''LightNovel/DateALive'' ''LightNovel/DateALive'': Natsumi honestly believes her true form (a pretty, if messy haired 14 year old) is hideous and no one would want to look at her like that, hence she uses her transformation powers to give herself an adult form which is what she believes is an ideal body. It takes a lot of work, but in the end Shido and the gang manage to get her to accept her true form, and afterwards she becomes [[LovableSexManiac Miku's]] favorite target for sexual harrassment, harassment, because she finds her so damn cute. It's later revealed that she thought so little of her looks because [[spoiler:her mother treated her like crap, called her ugly, and did other horrible things to her before her transformation into a spirit]] which completely wrecked her self-image.
* ''Manga/TheQuintessentialQuintuplets'': [[MiddleChildSyndrome Miku Nakano]] of ''Manga/TheQuintessentialQuintuplets'' seems to suffer from this, owing to her low self-esteem. Even though she and her sisters are identical quintuplets, she often compares herself unfavorably to her older sisters Ichika and Nino, both of whom are outgoing and popular, while she's withdrawn and doesn't care much for her appearance. During the climax of the Sisters' War arc, Nino angrily tells her that, being quintuplets, Miku is as pretty as the others too.too.
* ''Manga/ArmedGirlsMachiavellism'': Rin Onigawara constantly hides behind a mask and laments her ugly face because her mother bullied her and called her ugly for resembling her father who abandoned the family. When Fudo Nomura sees her unmasked, he says she is beautiful, which shocks her and fuels her attraction to him.
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* In ''Theatre/AChorusLine'', Bebe's mother told her that when she grew up, she'd look different and more attractive, which gave Bebe a complex about her looks.
--> '''Bebe''': So beautiful, I'd never live to see.
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* A RareMaleExample in the second ''Literature/PercyJacksonAndTheOlympians'' book: Percy mentions that he doesn't like to think about his appearance, mentioning a few minor flaws that bother him (one of which is just that he's started getting zits). For what it's worth, the official art always depicts him as normal-to-attractive. On the other hand, he says this while his insecurities [[MoreThanMindControl are being heightened]] by [[WickedWitch Circe]], who's using her CompellingVoice to make him accept a "[[BalefulPolymorph makeover]]."

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* A RareMaleExample in the second ''Literature/PercyJacksonAndTheOlympians'' book: Percy mentions that he doesn't like to think about his appearance, mentioning a few minor flaws that bother him (one of which is just that he's started getting zits). For what it's worth, the official art always depicts him as normal-to-attractive. On the other hand, he says this while his insecurities [[MoreThanMindControl are being heightened]] by [[WickedWitch [[HotWitch Circe]], who's using her CompellingVoice to make him accept a "[[BalefulPolymorph makeover]]."

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* Sara Crewe in ''Literature/ALittlePrincess'' thinks she must not be pretty because she doesn't mesh with the beauty standards of late-nineteenth-century England, being small, skinny, black-haired, tanned, and green-eyed, comparing herself to another child who is fair-skinned and golden haired. There is some ValuesDissonance at play here -- since Sara doesn't match the Victorian standards of beauty. The narration, however, states that she is definitely prettier than she thinks.

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* Sara Crewe in ''Literature/ALittlePrincess'' thinks she must not be pretty because she doesn't mesh with the beauty standards of late-nineteenth-century England, being small, skinny, black-haired, tanned, and green-eyed, comparing herself to another child who is fair-skinned and golden haired. There is some ValuesDissonance at play here -- here, since Sara doesn't match the Victorian standards of beauty. The narration, however, states that she is definitely prettier than she thinks.


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* A RareMaleExample in the second ''Literature/PercyJacksonAndTheOlympians'' book: Percy mentions that he doesn't like to think about his appearance, mentioning a few minor flaws that bother him (one of which is just that he's started getting zits). For what it's worth, the official art always depicts him as normal-to-attractive. On the other hand, he says this while his insecurities [[MoreThanMindControl are being heightened]] by [[WickedWitch Circe]], who's using her CompellingVoice to make him accept a "[[BalefulPolymorph makeover]]."
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* ''Literature/NinePerfectStrangers'': In both mediums, Carmel thinks she's ugly and is obsessed with losing weight. Literally everybody tells her she's fine the way she is, with even the hypercritical Masha bemused by her obsession with weight loss.


* Creator/DougWalker apologized for having to show his "mug" every day on the site for two months in "The Last Airbender Vlogs". ''Big'' change from the guy who bragged about being a MrFanservice to both genders.
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* {{Transgender}} people are ''very'' prone to this. In fact, it can commonly be ''worse'' for a transgender person if they're considered attractive by the standards of the wrong gender.

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* Despite his very flashy fashion choices, it turns out that ''VisualNovel/AceAttorney'''s prettyboy prosecutor Miles Edgeworth not only doesn't notice the female attention he tends to garner, but is absolutely baffled by the idea that women find him attractive.
-->'''Edgeworth:''' Do I really inspire such frothing desire from the female masses?
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* A 16-year-old [[Anime/PokemonTheSeries Misty]] in ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/13542622/1/ Tell Me I'm Pretty]]'' gets depressed over the fact that she doesn't get a date for the wedding of her older sister Daisy (on top of being asked to be the flower girl), feeling that she's not pretty enough. She ends up sneaking away and runs into Ash, who after listening to her woes, assures her that he she's not just pretty, but he actually considers her beautiful.

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* A 16-year-old [[Anime/PokemonTheSeries Misty]] in ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/13542622/1/ Tell Me I'm Pretty]]'' gets depressed over the fact that she doesn't get a date for the wedding of her older sister Daisy (on top of being asked to be the flower girl), feeling that she's not pretty enough. She ends up sneaking away and runs into Ash, who after listening to her woes, assures her that he she's not just pretty, but he actually considers her beautiful.
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* A 16-year-old [[Anime/PokemonTheSeries Misty]] in ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/13542622/1/ Tell Me I'm Pretty]]'' gets depressed over the fact that she doesn't get a date for the wedding of her older sister Daisy (on top of being asked to be the flower girl), feeling that she's not pretty enough. She ends up sneaking away and runs into Ash, who after listening to her woes, assures her that he she's not just pretty, but he actually considers her beautiful.
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** {{Wrestling/Melina}} was convinced she was ugly thanks to growing up experiencing racism for being a dark-haired Latina, and not seeing many other dark-haired women on TV. As a result, when she made it to WWE, she didn't believe the people who kept telling her she was pretty.

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