History Main / FetishizedAbuser

* ''Manga/AkumaNaEros'' (Virgin Crisis), the first famous Mayu Shinjo manga, {{Satan}} himself becomes one! Oh Miu Sakurai, you lucky little thing, you.

* Kyo in ''Manga/BlackBird2006'' wants to marry female lead Misao, who he has been in love with [[PuppyLove since they were children]], and [[IntimateHealing licks her erotically]] when she gets attacked by his fellow demons (which is often). Doesn't seem to care that she's not completely on board with either of these ideas. Then she falls in love with him...but the saddest thing is, [[StockholmSyndrome he's one of the few reliable allies that she has in the whole Tengu vs. humans deal]], so if she ''did'' fully spurn him, other Tengus would jump at the chance to kill/rape/eat her. [[TheChewToy Still sucks to be her.]] In the end, of course, he ''is'' willing to do anything (including killing his own brother) to keep her happy and safe at the expense of his own life, and he ''does'' [[PetTheDog show genuine kindness]] [[FriendToAllChildren to children]].

** Snowman/The Black Queen ([[AlternateUniverse both versions]]), particularly in her interactions with Jack Noir/Spades Slick. Very often, she abuses him in various ways, including putting a cigarette holder in his {{eye|Scream}}, removing an arm with a {{whip|ItGood}}, forcing him into various costumes in the kids' Session, and having a particularly violent "hate snog" with him. It's even flat-out said that they have a [[DatingCatwoman blackrom thing going]].

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* In ''WesternAnimation/JusticeLeagueCrisisOnTwoEarths'', ComicBook/WonderWoman's EvilDoppelganger Superwoman acts like this in her fight with ComicBook/{{Batman}} (since she's [[HasAType dating his doppelganger Owlman]]). She gives him a TakeThatKiss before smacking him around in her bedroom, and [[VillainousCrush offers to keep him as a pet]]. He says she's not his type, and she breaks his rib with a finger.
--> '''Superwoman:''' I like my lovers to make a little noise. What else can I break?

* In ''WesternAnimation/JusticeLeagueCrisisOnTwoEarths'', ComicBook/WonderWoman's EvilDoppelganger Superwoman acts like this in her fight with ComicBook/{{Batman}} (since she's dating his doppelganger Owlman). She gives him a TakeThatKiss before smacking him around in her bedroom, and [[VillainousCrush offers to keep him as a pet]]. He says she's not his type, and she breaks his rib with a finger.

* In ''WesternAnimation/JusticeLeagueCrisisOnTwoEarths'', ComicBook/WonderWoman's EvilDoppelganger Superwoman acts like this in her fight with ComicBook/{{Batman}} (since she's dating his doppelganger Owlman). She gives him a TakeThatKiss before smacking him around in her bedroom, and offers to keep him as a pet. He says she's not his type, and she breaks his rib with a finger.

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* In ''WesternAnimation/JusticeLeagueCrisisOnTwoEarths'', ComicBook/WonderWoman's EvilDoppelganger Superwoman acts like this in her fight with ComicBook/{{Batman}} (since she's dating his doppelganger Owlman). She makes out with him before smacking him around in her bedroom, and offers to keep him as a pet. He says she's not his type, and she breaks his rib with a finger.

* Louise Vallière in ''Literature/TheFamiliarOfZero''; even if Saito is lecherous and dimwitted, she's extremely abusive to him, referring to him as being some sort of animal during the early parts of the story (which she never does entirely grow out of), and her usual methodology for punishing him involves either blowing him up, [[GroinAttack kicking him in the balls]], or thrashing him with a riding crop -- in one [[NeverLiveItDown particularly infamous]] {{Light Novel|s}} exclusive incident, she thrashes him to a bloody mess with a ''horse whip''. Their relationship is made worse with TheReveal that Saito's growing romantic feelings for Louise are genuinely a form of StockholmSyndrome; part of his status as her {{Familiar}} means he is being ''MindRaped'' into wanting to be with her, no matter how shoddily she treats him.

* Louise Vallière in ''LightNovel/TheFamiliarOfZero''; even if Saito is lecherous and dimwitted, she's extremely abusive to him, referring to him as being some sort of animal during the early parts of the story (which she never does entirely grow out of), and her usual methodology for punishing him involves either blowing him up, [[GroinAttack kicking him in the balls]], or thrashing him with a riding crop -- in one [[NeverLiveItDown particularly infamous]] {{Light Novel|s}} exclusive incident, she thrashes him to a bloody mess with a ''horse whip''. Their relationship is made worse with TheReveal that Saito's growing romantic feelings for Louise are genuinely a form of StockholmSyndrome; part of his status as her {{Familiar}} means he is being ''MindRaped'' into wanting to be with her, no matter how shoddily she treats him.

* Mio of ''LightNovel/{{MM}}'' intentionally plays this role towards Tarou in order to help him deal with his Masochism "problems" (though it doesn't seem to be far from her standard self). Mio physically and verbally abuses him in every way possible as a sort of "Shock Treatment".

* Louise Vallière in ''LightNovel/TheFamiliarOfZero''; even if Saito is lecherous and dimwitted, she's extremely abusive to him, referring to him as being some sort of animal during the early parts of the story (which she never does entirely grow out of), and her usual methodology for punishing him involves either blowing him up, [[GroinAttack kicking him in the balls]], or thrashing him with a riding crop -- in one [[NeverLiveItDown particularly infamous]] LightNovel exclusive incident, she thrashes him to a bloody mess with a ''horse whip''. Their relationship is made worse with TheReveal that Saito's growing romantic feelings for Louise are genuinely a form of StockholmSyndrome; part of his status as her {{Familiar}} means he is being ''MindRaped'' into wanting to be with her, no matter how shoddily she treats him.
* Ayace of ''LightNovel/{{Corsair}}'', who has no social grace and unusual ideas about what constitutes consent.

* Yuuma Amano[=/=][[spoiler:Raynare]] in ''LightNovel/HighSchoolDXD'', and unlike most other examples, she's not played for laughs. [[spoiler: Her actions in the first volume are the main reason that Issei refused to believe that the female members of the Occult Research Club actually really loved him, having gained a fear that they will kill him just like she did for being a bore, and is driven to tears and sobbing upon revealing this to them in Volume 10.]]

* Izaya from ''LightNovel/{{Durarara}}'' is an interesting take on the concept: he's not anyone's Bastard Boyfriend -- he's ''everyone'''s bastard boyfriend. Specifically, he insists that he's madly in love with ''humanity'' despite (nay, ''because of'') [[HumansAreFlawed all of its flaws]], and demonstrates this "love" by [[ManipulativeBastard trolling, manipulating, and generally dicking around with just about every person he meets]] [[{{Troll}} to get the reactions from humanity he loves so much]]. He even gets possessive and jealous when he encounters something that might upset the balance of this relationship (like, say, a {{Yandere}} [[EvilWeapon sword]] that ''also'' insists she's in love with all of humanity).

* Ookochi from ''Manga/SensualPhrase'': this is largely because of an incident where his girlfriend Aine Yukimura ended up with a hickey (due to assault from another character); Sakuya, in a fit of jealousy, barged into her class, tore her uniform to reveal the hickey (and her bra strap), then took her home (while class was ongoing) and prepared to rape her. Only when her uniform was almost totally ripped off and the poor girl was weeping hysterically did he stop and realize WTF he was doing. He' has an ''extremely'' DarkAndTroubledPast (as in, [[spoiler: he's a HeroicBastard ChildByRape, his "father" left him when he learned baby Sakuya wasn't his kid, he was bullied all the time because of his heritage, and his LadyDrunk mom drank herself to death when he was a child]]) and ''[[CharacterDevelopment does get kinda better with time]], [[spoiler:the WhereAreTheyNowEpilogue shows him as a decent father and husband, if somewhat of a LovableSexManiac when he and Aine are alone]], but that's '''not''' an excuse.

* Every character from the ''VisualNovel/BoyfriendToDeath'' games, most notably Strade [[spoiler: who will kill your character if you max out his affection.]]

* [[ImpliedTrope Implied]] in the music video for Music/{{Miserable}} in regards to the giant woman. From the songs lyrics alone, she's stated to make the lead singer "come" "complete" and "completely miserable" all at the same time. Showing that her abusive behavior is something he puts up with because he's in lust with her. In the video, she's a GiantWoman who's dressed very provocatively in a bikini and high heels, and the camera [[MaleGaze ogles her attractive figure.]] Even at the end when she starts [[spoiler: picking off the guys in the band and devouring them whole and alive,]] she is still portrayed as being sexy. She even follows up [[spoiler: swallowing the lead singer]] with a SexyWalk off into the horizon.

* ''ComicBook/TheOutsideCircle'': Dennis, the boyfriend of [[TheProtagonist Pete]] and Joey's mother, is a drug addict who sold all of Pete's family's belongings, prseumably for more drug money. When Pete confronts him about it, Dennis slashes him across the face with a knife. Pete's response is to shoot him dead.

* Louise Vallière in ''LightNovel/TheFamiliarOfZero''; even if Saito is lecherous and dimwitted, she's extremely abusive to him, referring to him as being some sort of animal during the early parts of the story (which she never does entirely grow out of), and her usual methodology for punishing him involves either blowing him up, [[GroinAttack kicking him in the balls]], or thrashing him with a riding crop -- in one [[NeverLiveItDown particularly infamous]] LightNovel exclusive incident, she thrashes him to a bloody mess with a ''horse whip''. Their relationship is made worse with TheReveal that Saito's growing romantic feelings for Louise are genuinely a form of StockholmSyndrome; part of his status as her {{Familiar}} means he is being ''MindRaped'' into wanting to be with her, no matter how shoddily she treats him.
* ''LightNovel/{{Haganai}}'' has both Yozora Mikazuki and Sena Kashiwazaki. In Yozora's case, her tongue is sharp and her flyswatter swift, but she has a good heart buried underneath all of the {{jerkass}}ery; in Sena's, she truly thinks stepping on someone is a kind of reward since her fanboys approve of it and fails to understand Kodaka's dismay at the idea, though she largely ceases making such offers as time goes on.
* Early LightNovel/HaruhiSuzumiya. [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VhP8S-TfM3o Using false incrimination as a means of blackmail for exclusively material gains]] is [[KickTheDog pretty despicable]].

* Yuuma Amano[=/=][[spoiler:Raynare]] in ''LightNovel/HighSchoolDXD'', and unlike most other examples, she's not played for laughs. [[spoiler: Her actions in the first volume are the main reason that Issei refused to believe that the female members of the Occult Research Club actually really loved him, having gained a fear that they will kill him just like she did for being a bore, and is driven to tears and sobbing upon revealing this to them in Volume 10.]]

* Mio of ''LightNovel/{{MM}}'' intentionally plays this role towards Tarou in order to help him deal with his Masochism "problems" (though it doesn't seem to be far from her standard self). Mio physically and verbally abuses him in every way possible as a sort of "Shock Treatment".

* ''LightNovel/MariaWatchesOverUs''. It looked like Sachiko's arranged fiancè Suguru was heading towards this, but while he tends to be very mean-spirited he nevertheless cares for Sachiko in his own, quiet way, shows gratitude to Yumi for helping his fiancee with her problems, and once even warned Touko of further alienating any prospective friend should she keep up her act pretending to be a jerk. [[spoiler: And he's strongly implied to have feelings for someone else... Yumi's brother Yuuki.]]

* Iason ''and'' Guy from ''LightNovel/AiNoKusabi'', but Iason defines this by putting Riki through hell for 3 years to [[BreakTheHaughty break his pride]] so he may become submissive to Iason.

* Ayace of ''LightNovel/{{Corsair}}'', who has no social grace and unusual ideas about what constitutes consent.

* Izaya from ''LightNovel/{{Durarara}}'' is an interesting take on the concept: he's not anyone's Bastard Boyfriend -- he's ''everyone'''s bastard boyfriend. Specifically, he insists that he's madly in love with ''humanity'' despite (nay, ''because of'') [[HumansAreFlawed all of its flaws]], and demonstrates this "love" by [[ManipulativeBastard trolling, manipulating, and generally dicking around with just about every person he meets]] [[{{Troll}} to get the reactions from humanity he loves so much]]. He even gets possessive and jealous when he encounters something that might upset the balance of this relationship (like, say, a {{Yandere}} [[EvilWeapon sword]] that ''also'' insists she's in love with all of humanity).

* {{Parodied}} in ''LightNovel/TheTestamentOfSisterNewDevil''. Early into the Master-Servant pact between Basara and Mio, Maria attempts to give Basara advice on how to make himself more likeable to Mio, which boils down to "belittle her and make her unsure of herself so you can control her," which Maria swears she will like. Her proof: an HGame. Despite the obvious idiocy, Basara plays it as a nice guy only to get a bad ending, then has a much better time picking the Bastard Boyfriend responses. He still doesn't take Maria's advice, regardless.

%%* Creator/TakehitoKoyasu plays these a lot. He played one in the OtomeGame ''VisualNovel/TokimekiMemorial: Girls' Side'', and was the first seiyuu for [[Manga/TokyoBabylon Seishirou Sakurazuka]]. Parodied on ''Manga/SgtFrog'' with Kururu, which he also voices. Sugou (another of his characters) tries to become this to Asuna from ''LightNovel/SwordArtOnline'' - Not only does he want her beauty, he's also after her family's wealth. Good thing the hero delivers a more deserving end to him.

* The StudentCouncilPresident of ''LightNovel/HaruhiSuzumiya'' plays one solely to provide Haruhi with an "antagonist" to keep her from being bored. He ''may'' have started [[BecomingTheMask to become a straighter example]].

* [[TomboyishName Jack]] is one of the romance options in ''VideoGame/MassEffect2'', and completely different from any other in the series, if not any Creator/BioWare game. Unlike {{A|ctionGirl}}sh, [[HotScientist Liara]], [[WrenchWench Tali]], [[SexySecretary Kelly]] or any way you can play Fem!Shep, Jack is a {{Jerkass}}, especially if you're male (and thus eligible to romance her.) A casual sex scene is available early on, and going for it will stop the romance cold and eliminate any further character development. Try and show that you're caring and she becomes even more of a bitch in an effort to drive you away. She has an excuse for her bad attitude - torturous lab experimentation from when she was an infant, including conditioning to find violence pleasurable, and ''frequent'' sexual assaults, betrayals, and imprisonment - but the player could be forgiven in assuming that she needs a counsellor rather than a romantic relationship.

** China/England fanwork. There's a Pixiv fanartist who has this as a kink, making ImperialChina a Bastard Boyfriend who forces a ukefied England to dress up in imperial lady robes and go through [[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Foot_binding footbinding]]. [[http://i54.tinypic.com/4h3v9i.jpg

* Creator/{{Rumiko Takahashi}}'s earliest rom-com series, ''Manga/UruseiYatsura'', can be best described as "pairing a Bastard Girlfriend with a Bastard Boyfriend". Ataru might be a poor catch, given he's chronically unfaithful... but, on the other hand, Lum not only declared herself as Ataru's fiancee by force, refusing to annul the decision even after the matter was clarified, but is a PsychoElectro who zaps Ataru when she's ''giving him a happy embrace'' as well as to punish him for chasing girls, and a LethalChef who refuses to accept that her {{Alien Lunch}}es are dangerous to humans.

** While the main character, Katsuya, is the most prominent example, ''anyone'' who wears glasses in this series counts. Next best example is resident [[HornyDevils incubus]] Mr. R (who created the titular glasses) and, later, Sawamura, Katsuya's former childhood friend.

* ''Literature/NightWorld'' has Blaise Harman who is psychologically/emotionally abusive to the various men she dated. They all still find her incredibly hot. In her case it's deconstructed a bit as her treatment of one of her boyfriends led him to have SanitySlippage, which is depicted as disturbing.

* The sheik from ''Literature/TheSheik'': causing an entire generation of girls to swoon at the thought of being kidnapped and raped by a hot Arabian prince. By the book's final pages, in which, [[spoiler:in a fit of conscience, he decides to send her away so he won't hurt her anymore, and the heroine threatens to kill herself]]. The fact that TheFilmOfTheBook starred [[MrFanservice sex icon Rudolph Valentino]] helped.

* In ''Slave World'', most female aristocrats qualify with Lady Isobel being the most prominent example. It should be noted that her attitude of cheerfully taking whatever she wants without even ''wanting'' the partner to consent is what makes one of the main characters fall in love with her in the first place.
* Estella of ''Literature/GreatExpectations'' is molded into becoming one by Miss Havisham.

* Zsadist's mistress in ''[[Literature/BlackDaggerBrotherhood Lover Awakened]]'' beats and rapes him (he is the vampire equivalent of a young teen at the time) and permits her other enslaved males to rape him too. She keeps him chained to a pallet in a dungeon holding cell, on his back, ready for 'use' at all times. Then she can't understand why he'd rather starve to death than submit to her.....

* Massimo, the main love interest of Literature/ThreeHundredSixtyFiveDays'', is this at first (later books play it more for drama). Despite kidnapping Laura, threatening to harm her parents and brother if she tries to run away, sexually harassing and assaulting her multiple times, and violating her autonomy in various other ways, he's still presented as MrFanservice by the narrative and Laura finds herself drawn to his domineering nature. He was partly based upon Christian Grey, although many readers find that Christian's behavior ''pales'' in comparison.