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* ConfidentialityBetrayal: Stacy considers Lydia to have "betrayed" her by getting together with a boy they both like, so she includes embarrassing video clips of Lydia in a slideshow to be shown at Lydia's bat mitzvah. She doesn't go through with it, deciding not to send the file, [[spoiler:but her mom doesn't realize Stacy changed it and sends it to Lydia's mom anyway]].
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''You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah'' is a 2023 American family {{dramedy}} directed by Sammi Cohen, based on the young adult novel by Fiona Rosenbloom. The film was produced by Creator/AdamSandler and stars his real-life daughters, Sunny and Sadie Sandler.

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''You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah'' is a 2023 American family {{dramedy}} directed by Sammi Cohen, based on the young adult novel by Fiona Rosenbloom. The film was produced by Creator/AdamSandler and stars his real-life daughters, Sunny and Sadie Sandler.
Sandler, alongside Creator/IdinaMenzel, Creator/SarahSherman, Creator/JackieHoffman, and Creator/LuisGuzman.
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* EmbarrassmentPlot: Stacy gets embarrassed when her tampon comes loose after [[spoiler:she jumps off the Edge]], and Lydia is humiliated when [[spoiler:Stacy included embarrassing videos of her in the bat mitzvah video, and then it gets played in front of everyone]].

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* EmbarrassmentPlot: Stacy gets embarrassed when her tampon pad comes loose after [[spoiler:she jumps off the Edge]], and Lydia is humiliated when [[spoiler:Stacy included embarrassing videos of her in the bat mitzvah video, and then it gets played in front of everyone]].



** Stacy's initial response to Lydia's betrayal is to add several embarrassing private video clips of Lydia to her bat mitzvah video. But after doing so, she decides this would be going too far and decides to just not send her the video at all. [[spoiler:Unfortunately, her ignorant mother sends Lydia's mom the video when asked for it, resulting in Lydia being humiliated and Stacy horrified.]]

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** Stacy's initial response to Lydia's betrayal is to add several embarrassing private video clips of Lydia to her bat mitzvah video. But after doing so, she decides this would be going too far and decides to just not send her the video at all. [[spoiler:Unfortunately, her ignorant mother sends Lydia's mom the video when asked for it, resulting in Lydia being humiliated and Stacy being horrified.]]



* TheReasonYouSuckSpeech: Stacy abruptly stops reading from the Torah during her bat mitzvah to deliver one, calling out Kym and her GirlPosse, along with Andy for destroying her friendship with Lydia.

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* TheReasonYouSuckSpeech: Stacy abruptly stops reading from the Torah during her bat mitzvah to deliver one, calling out Kym and her GirlPosse, along with Andy for destroying her friendship with Lydia. Stacy herself also gets one from Lydia, which she admits is deserved.
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** Upon seeing [[spoiler:the embarrassing video Stacy made at Lydia's bat mitzvah]], Andy comments that even he's not mean enough to do something like that. It's [[SubvertedTrope subverted]] when his friends immediately tell him that he absolutely ''is'' mean enough to do something like that.

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** Upon seeing [[spoiler:the embarrassing video Stacy made at Lydia's bat mitzvah]], Andy Kym comments that even he's she's not mean enough to do something like that. It's [[SubvertedTrope subverted]] when his her friends immediately tell him her that he she absolutely ''is'' mean enough to do something like that.

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* EveryoneHasStandards: Stacy's initial response to Lydia's betrayal is to add several embarrassing private video clips of Lydia to her bat mitzvah video. But after doing so, she decides this would be going too far and decides to just not send her the video at all. [[spoiler:Unfortunately, her ignorant mother sends Lydia's mom the video when asked for it, resulting in Lydia being humiliated and Stacy horrified.]]

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Stacy's initial response to Lydia's betrayal is to add several embarrassing private video clips of Lydia to her bat mitzvah video. But after doing so, she decides this would be going too far and decides to just not send her the video at all. [[spoiler:Unfortunately, her ignorant mother sends Lydia's mom the video when asked for it, resulting in Lydia being humiliated and Stacy horrified.]]]]
** Upon seeing [[spoiler:the embarrassing video Stacy made at Lydia's bat mitzvah]], Andy comments that even he's not mean enough to do something like that. It's [[SubvertedTrope subverted]] when his friends immediately tell him that he absolutely ''is'' mean enough to do something like that.
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* MultiethnicName: Lydia Rodriguez Katz's full name indicates her mixed ancestry (a Hispanic father and a Jewish mother) among a predominantly Jewish cast.[[note]]Though Hispanic Jews definitely exist.[[/note]] Her classmate Kym Chang Cohen is implied to be in a similar boat.
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->'''Stacy''': Lydia Rodriguez Katz, you are ''so'' not invited to my Bat Mitzvah.

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->''"Lydia
Rodriguez Katz, you are ''so'' '''so''' not invited to my Bat Mitzvah.
Mitzvah."''
-->-- '''Stacy Friedman'''






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* SingleGirlSeeksMostPopularGuy: Stacy, along with nearly every other girl in their grade, has a crush on Andy Goldfarb. Over the course of the movie, she realizes he's actually the BigJerkOnCampus.
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* SpoiledSweet: Lydia, who has very wealthy (albeit divorcing) parents and lives in a beautiful home, but often acts as Stacy's conscious.

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* SpoiledSweet: Lydia, who has very wealthy (albeit divorcing) parents and lives in a beautiful home, but often acts as Stacy's conscious.conscience.

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* TheAllegedCar: DJ Schmuley's Kia Soul has seen better days after a couple of accidents, both unintentionally caused by the Friedman sisters, render it barely drivable.


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* AdaptationalTimespanChange: The book takes place in 2005, while the film is set in 2023.



* AmazinglyEmbarrassingParents: Stacy is trying to look cool in front of the popular kids when she runs into them at the movies, but her dad comes out in a bathrobe, kisses her on the forehead, and talks about them snuggling, embarrassing her in front of them.



* AsYouKnow: Rabbi Rebecca explains what a mitzvah is to Stacy, which she would already know if she's been going to Hebrew school for years.



* ButtMonkey: Aaron, a classsmate of Stacy, who gets called out by Cantor Jerry and Rabbi Rebecca for not paying attention, and catches the ire of DJ Schmuley by requesting Music/{{Journey|Band}}'s "Don't Stop Believin'."

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* ButtMonkey: BumblingDad: Downplayed with Stacy's dad Danny. He's not really that dumb, he just doesn't understand his kids as much now that they're growing up. He is the kind of guy to sleep on a couch in the store while his wife and daughter go shopping, though.
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Aaron, a classsmate of Stacy, who gets called out by Cantor Jerry and Rabbi Rebecca for not paying attention, and catches the ire of DJ Schmuley by requesting Music/{{Journey|Band}}'s "Don't Stop Believin'.""
** DJ Schmuley gets into two car accidents over the course of the film.



* CringeComedy: Much of the film relies on it.



* EmbarrassmentPlot: Stacy gets embarrassed when her tampon comes loose after [[spoiler:she jumps off the Edge]], and Lydia is humiliated when [[spoiler:Stacy included embarrassing videos of her in the bat mitzvah video, and then it gets played in front of everyone]].



* HippieTeacher: Rabbi Rebecca is pretty spacey and dresses like a hippie, even having a Music/GratefulDead kippah.



* MultiethnicName: Lydia Rodriguez Katz' full name indicates her mixed ancestry (a Hispanic father and a Jewish mother) among a predominantly Jewish cast. Her classmate Kym Chang Cohen is implied to be in a similar boat.

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* KidAnova: Andy Goldfarb is popular with nearly all the girls in his middle school, and [[spoiler:dates at least three of them: Lydia, Stacy, and Kym]].
* MakingLoveInAllTheWrongPlaces: A PG version -- Stacy and Andy kiss [[spoiler:in the Torah ark at the synagogue]]. Rabbi Rebecca is ''not'' happy when she finds them.
* MultiethnicName: Lydia Rodriguez Katz' Katz's full name indicates her mixed ancestry (a Hispanic father and a Jewish mother) among a predominantly Jewish cast. cast.[[note]]Though Hispanic Jews definitely exist.[[/note]] Her classmate Kym Chang Cohen is implied to be in a similar boat.boat.
* NiceGuy: Mateo is a sweet boy who helps out younger children at the Hebrew school (despite not even being Jewish).


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* RunningGag: At every Bar/Bat Mitzvah, Ronnie and her friend Zaara are watching a horror movie on her phone, and two boys come up and try to impress them by asking if they've seen some other film. Each time, they lie and say yes, and that it sucked, just to get the boys to go away. At the end, [[spoiler:the four of them are all watching a movie together (still on a tiny phone), and an adult woman fills the role of the pretentious boys]].
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* ForeignExchangeStudent: One of Andy's friends is an Ecuadorian exchange student, Mateo, who harbors an unrequited crush on Stacy.

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* ForeignExchangeStudent: One of Andy's friends is an Ecuadorian exchange student, Mateo, who harbors an unrequited crush on Stacy. He stands out among the Jewish cast.



* MultiethnicName: Lydia Rodriguez Katz' full name indicates her mixed ancestry (a Hispanic father and a Jewish mother) among a predominantly Jewish cast. Her classmate Kym Chang Cohen is implied to be in a similar boat.



* TitleDrop: By Stacy, after catching Lydia [[spoiler:and Andy kissing at her party]].

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* TitleDrop: By Stacy, Stacy drops the film's title when she uninvites Lydia after catching Lydia seeing her [[spoiler:and Andy kissing at her party]].
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* BigJerkOnCampus: Andy Goldfarb is the most popular boy in Stacy's class, with nearly every girl having a crush on him. He's also a complete {{Jerkass}}. [[spoiler:Part of Stacy's CharacterDevelopment is her seeing him as this and realizing he wasn't worth ruining her friendship with Lydia]]
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* DodgyToupee: As seen before Lydia's bat mitzvah, part of DJ Schmuley's pre-party preparation is putting on his toupee.
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* EveryoneHasStandards: Stacy's initial response to Lydia's betrayal is to add several embarrassing private video clips of Lydia to her bat mitzvah video. But after doing so, she decides this would be going too far and decides to just not send her the video at all. [[spoiler:Unfortunately, her ignorant mother sends Lydia's mom the video when asked for it, resulting in Lydia being humiliated and Stacy horrified.]]


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* TeensAreMonsters: The focus characters are only 12-13 years old middle schoolers, but the film shows just how ''vicious'' they can be to each other in their efforts to be popular or get revenge.
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* {{Jerkass}}: Andy Goldfarb may be popular, but he's also an egotistical, self-centered SpoiledBrat. Even his friends outright tell him that he's a mean person.
* OnlyOneFindsItFun: Aaron is the only kid who enjoys Music/{{Journey|Band}}'s "Don't Stop Believin'", which earns him mockery from DJ Schmuley.



* TitleDrop: By Stacy, after catching Lydia [[spoiler:and Andy kissing at her party]].

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* TitleDrop: By Stacy, after catching Lydia [[spoiler:and Andy kissing at her party]].party]].
* WhatDoesSheSeeInHim: Upon seeing Andy's behavior towards his grandmother, Ronnie is unimpressed and makes her feelings known to Stacy. This leads to Stacy's JerkassRealization.

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* EmbarrassingSlide: Angry at Lydia's betrayal with Andy, Stacy incorporates deeply private and humiliating videos into the intro video she was making for Lydia's bat mitzvah. Unaware of the feud between the two girls, Stacy's mom sends the video to Lydia's mom.
* ForeignExchangeStudent: One of Andy's friends is an Ecuadorian exchange student, Mateo, who harbors a crush on Stacy.

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* EmbarrassingSlide: Angry at Lydia's betrayal with Andy, betrayal, Stacy incorporates deeply private and humiliating videos clips of Lydia into the intro video she was making supposed to make for Lydia's bat mitzvah. Unaware of the feud between the two girls, [[spoiler:Without Stacy's mom knowledge, Bree sends the video it to Lydia's mom.
mom and it is played in front of everyone in attendance, humiliating Lydia and ruining her party]].
* ForeignExchangeStudent: One of Andy's friends is an Ecuadorian exchange student, Mateo, who harbors a an unrequited crush on Stacy.Stacy.
* GreenEyedMonster: Stacy, when she sees Lydia [[spoiler:kissing Andy at her party]], leading to a confrontation and the TitleDrop.
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* EmbarrassingSlide: Angry at Lydia's betrayal with Andy, Stacy incorporates deeply private and humiliating videos into the intro video she was making for Lydia's bat mitzvah. Unaware of the feud between the two girls, Stacy's mom sends the video to Lydia's mom.
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Stacy Friedman (Sunny Sandler) has been eagerly planning her [[UsefulNotes/JewishLifeEvents bat mitzvah]], also known as the most important day of her life, with her best friend, Lydia Rodriguez Katz. She envisions a lavish New York-themed party and sharing a dance with her crush, Andy Goldfarb. Her plans quickly unravel when a competition for Andy's attention threatens to derail their friendship.

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Stacy Friedman (Sunny Sandler) has and her best friend, Lydia Rodriguez Katz, have been eagerly planning her [[UsefulNotes/JewishLifeEvents bat mitzvah]], also known as the most important day of her life, with her best friend, Lydia Rodriguez Katz.life. She envisions a lavish New York-themed party and sharing a dance with her crush, Andy Goldfarb. Her plans quickly unravel when a competition for Andy's attention threatens to derail their friendship.
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* TheReasonYouSuckSpeech: Stacy abruptly stops reading from the Torah during her bat mitzvah to deliver one, calling out Kym and her GirlPosse, along with Andy for destroying her friendship with Lydia.
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* TheAllegedCar: DJ Schmuley's Kia Soul has seen better days after a couple of accidents, both unintentionally caused by the Friedman sisters, render it barely drivable.

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* AlphaBitch: Kym Chang Cohen is a popular and wealthy classmate of Stacy, who befriends Lydia.

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* AlphaBitch: Kym Chang Cohen is a popular and wealthy classmate of Stacy, who befriends Lydia.Lydia, but acts cold to the less affluent Stacy, Tara, and Nikki.


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* ButtMonkey: Aaron, a classsmate of Stacy, who gets called out by Cantor Jerry and Rabbi Rebecca for not paying attention, and catches the ire of DJ Schmuley by requesting Music/{{Journey|Band}}'s "Don't Stop Believin'."

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''You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah'' is a 2023 American family dramedy film directed by Sammi Cohen, based on the young adult novel by Fiona Rosenbloom. The film was produced by Creator/AdamSandler and stars his real-life daughters, Sunny and Sadie Sandler.

It was released by Creator/{{Netflix}} on August 25, 2023.

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->'''Stacy''': Lydia Rodriguez Katz, you are ''so'' not invited to my Bat Mitzvah.

''You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah'' is a 2023 American family dramedy film {{dramedy}} directed by Sammi Cohen, based on the young adult novel by Fiona Rosenbloom. The film was produced by Creator/AdamSandler and stars his real-life daughters, Sunny and Sadie Sandler.

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Stacy Friedman (Sunny Sandler) has been eagerly planning her [[UsefulNotes/JewishLifeEvents bat mitzvah]], also known as the most important day of her life, with her best friend, Lydia Rodriguez Katz. She envisions a lavish New York-themed party and sharing a dance with her crush, Andy Goldfarb. Her plans quickly unravel when a competition for Andy's attention threatens to derail their friendship.

The film
was released by Creator/{{Netflix}} on August 25, 2023.



* AlphaBitch: Kym Chang Cohen is a popular and wealthy classmate of Stacy, who befriends Lydia.
* AmicableExes: Lydia's parents are getting divorced and while there's ample snarking between the two, they take Lydia shopping for her dress together, and also arrive together for Stacy's party.



* ForeignExchangeStudent: One of Andy's friends is an Ecuadorian exchange student, Mateo, who harbors a crush on Stacy.

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* ForeignExchangeStudent: One of Andy's friends is an Ecuadorian exchange student, Mateo, who harbors a crush on Stacy.Stacy.
* SpoiledSweet: Lydia, who has very wealthy (albeit divorcing) parents and lives in a beautiful home, but often acts as Stacy's conscious.
* TitleDrop: By Stacy, after catching Lydia [[spoiler:and Andy kissing at her party]].
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''You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah'' is a 2023 American family comedy film directed by Sammi Cohen, based on the book by Fiona Rosenbloom. The film stars Creator/AdamSandler and his real-life daughters, Sunny and Sadie Sandler.

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''You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah'' is a 2023 American family comedy dramedy film directed by Sammi Cohen, based on the book young adult novel by Fiona Rosenbloom. The film stars was produced by Creator/AdamSandler and stars his real-life daughters, Sunny and Sadie Sandler.
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* ComingOfAgeStory: The entire movie centers around Stacy preparing for her bat mitzvah.

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* ComingOfAgeStory: The entire movie centers around Stacy preparing for her bat mitzvah.mitzvah.
* ForeignExchangeStudent: One of Andy's friends is an Ecuadorian exchange student, Mateo, who harbors a crush on Stacy.

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''You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah'' is a 2023 American ComingOfAgeStory film directed by Sammi Cohen, based on the book by Fiona Rosenbloom. The film stars Creator/AdamSandler and his real-life daughters, Sunny and Sadie Sandler.

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''You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah'' is a 2023 American ComingOfAgeStory family comedy film directed by Sammi Cohen, based on the book by Fiona Rosenbloom. The film stars Creator/AdamSandler and his real-life daughters, Sunny and Sadie Sandler.



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* ComingOfAgeStory: The entire movie centers around Stacy preparing for her bat mitzvah.
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''You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah'' is a 2023 American ComingOfAgeStory film directed by Sammi Cohen, based on the book by Fiona Rosenbloom. The film stars Creator/AdamSandler and his real-life daughters, Sunny and Sadie Sandler.

It was released by Creator/{{Netflix}} on August 25, 2023.

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