The One I Love Is... is referenced by the next Works:
- Advice and Trust: In chapter 8 Rei says that Shinji and Asuka are "The ones I love"
- HERZ: The autor often cites the work as one of his influences and one of his favorite fics.
- The Child of Love: In chapter 6 Shinji tells to Asuka:Shinji (softly):"You see now...? The One I Love Is...You, Asuka.
- The Death of One: The writer states he was inspired by this fic, among others.