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** Bob's broken arm really was his fault because he ignored Alice's warning to not do something stupid, and she doesn't want to hear him vent at her about it.
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-->'''Alice:''' Well, maybe if he didn't have such a piss-poor attitude, this kind of thing wouldn't happen.
-->'''Charlie:''' ALICE! He got pushed into a lake just for being in the general vicinity of some jerk!
-->'''Alice:''' ...Not my problem.
-->'''Charlie:''' Then '''''[[SuddenlyShouting STAY THE FUCK OUT OF IT!!!]]'''''

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-->'''Alice:''' --->'''Alice:''' Well, maybe if he didn't have such a piss-poor attitude, this kind of thing wouldn't happen.
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happen. \\
'''Charlie:'''
ALICE! He got pushed into a lake just for being in the general vicinity of some jerk!
-->'''Alice:''' ...
jerk! \\
'''Alice:''' ...
Not my problem.
-->'''Charlie:'''
problem.\\
'''Charlie:'''
Then '''''[[SuddenlyShouting STAY THE FUCK OUT OF IT!!!]]'''''



** LackOfEmpathy
** AndThereWasMuchRejoicing

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** LackOfEmpathy
LackOfEmpathy.
** AndThereWasMuchRejoicing AndThereWasMuchRejoicing.



** Alice feels that Bob [[GoodVictimsBadVictims may have done something bad to deserve this suffering.]]

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** Alice feels that Bob [[GoodVictimsBadVictims may have done something bad to deserve this suffering.]]suffering]].
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* '''Straight''': Bob tells [[DeadpanSnarker Al]][[ItsAllAboutMe ice]] that he's broken his arm while he was working, but Alice harshly tells Bob to get over it.

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* '''Straight''': Bob tells [[DeadpanSnarker Al]][[ItsAllAboutMe ice]] Alice that he's broken his arm while he was working, but Alice harshly tells Bob to get over it.
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** Bob has a history of exaggerating his problems (either to garner sympathy, or being melodramatic for the sake of it), leading Alice to believes he's "making a mountain out of mole hill".
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** Bob tells Alice he [[TraumaCongaLine lost his friends and family in a car accident, ended up in the ICU for 97 days, harassed by everyone to the point of suicide, and lost his home.]] [[KickTheDog She responds by laughing in his face about it.]]
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** AndThereWasMuchRejoicing
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** Bob tells Alice he [[TraumaConga lost his friends and family in a car accident, ended up in the ICU for 97 days, harassed by everyone to the point of suicide, and lost his home.]] [[KickTheDog She responds by laughing in his face about it.]]

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** Bob tells Alice he [[TraumaConga [[TraumaCongaLine lost his friends and family in a car accident, ended up in the ICU for 97 days, harassed by everyone to the point of suicide, and lost his home.]] [[KickTheDog She responds by laughing in his face about it.]]

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* '''Straight''': Bob tells Alice that he's broken his arm while he was working, but Alice harshly tells Bob to get over it.

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* '''Straight''': Bob tells Alice [[DeadpanSnarker Al]][[ItsAllAboutMe ice]] that he's broken his arm while he was working, but Alice harshly tells Bob to get over it.


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** Bob tells Alice he [[TraumaConga lost his friends and family in a car accident, ended up in the ICU for 97 days, harassed by everyone to the point of suicide, and lost his home.]] [[KickTheDog She responds by laughing in his face about it.]]

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-->'''Alice:'''..........Not my problem.

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-->'''Alice:'''..........-->'''Alice:''' ...Not my problem.problem.
-->'''Charlie:''' Then '''''[[SuddenlyShouting STAY THE FUCK OUT OF IT!!!]]'''''
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** Alice caused Bob's suffering in the first place and she shows no remorse.

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** Alice is a [[TheFundamentalist "religious"]] woman who believes that Bob's suffering is either because the [[CrisisOfFaith deity is testing his faith]] or that the deity is punishing him for his "sins". The worst part is that Bob hasn't done anything morally reprehensible according her faith's standards, and yet she still uses this logic.

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** Alice is a [[TheFundamentalist "religious"]] religious fundamentalist]] woman who believes that Bob's suffering is either because the [[CrisisOfFaith deity is testing his faith]] or that the deity is punishing him for his "sins". The worst part is that Bob hasn't done anything morally reprehensible according her faith's standards, and yet she still uses this logic.


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** Alice tried to help Bob in the past, but he clearly doesn't want to be helped, so she would rather spend her time helping people who actually appreciate her efforts to help them.
** Alice hates Bob because he treated her horribly. When Bob talks about his suffering, she feels he's getting what he deserves.
** Bob is a pathological liar who has lied to Alice in the past, so she doesn't believe him.
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** Because Alice shows no concern for Bob's injury, her friends decide that she's a jerk and ditch her.
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* '''Reconstructed''': But then others remind her that [[SuicideIsShameful Bob is a coward for taking his own life and not deal with his own problems]]. [[YourApprovalFillsMeWithShame While Alice didn't like to hear that]], she tries to forget about Bob and tries to move on with her life; however, Alice has a hard time in forgetting Bob and the guilt returns. Then others show her no sympathy for her problems, making Alice asking the question "[[NotSoDifferent is this how Bob feels?]]"

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* '''Reconstructed''': But then others remind her that [[SuicideIsShameful Bob is a coward for taking his own life and not deal with his own problems]]. [[YourApprovalFillsMeWithShame While Alice didn't like to hear that]], she tries to forget about Bob and tries to move on with her life; however, Alice has a hard time in forgetting Bob and the guilt returns. Then others show her no sympathy for her problems, making Alice asking the question "[[NotSoDifferent "[[NotSoDifferentRemark is this how Bob feels?]]"
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* '''Exploited''': Dehlia, Alice's rival in her workplace, comforted Bob and get him convinced to sabotage Alice's work to get her fired.

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* '''Exploited''': Dehlia, Alice's rival in her workplace, comforted Bob and get him convinced him to sabotage Alice's work to get her fired.
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** Bob is Alice's [[AnnoyingYoungerSibling bratty young brother]] and expects younger people to be self-centered.
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** Alice is going through a even worse trauma than Bob, and feels that his problems are small in comparison.

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** Alice is going through a even worse trauma than Bob, and [[MiseryPoker feels that his problems are small in comparison.]]
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** Bob commits suicide because whenever he went out in public he got harassed. But he screws it up and doesn't die. When Alice gets the news...
-->'''Alice:''' Well, maybe if he didn't have such a piss-poor attitude, this kind of thing wouldn't happen.
-->'''Charlie:''' ALICE! He got pushed into a lake just for being in the general vicinity of some jerk!
-->'''Alice:'''..........Not my problem.

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* '''Exaggerated''': Bob tells Alice about his difficult situation, but Alice beats him up as a result.

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* '''Exaggerated''': '''Exaggerated''':
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Bob tells Alice about his difficult situation, but Alice beats him up as a result.result.
** LackOfEmpathy

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** Alice feels that Bob
[[GoodVictimsBadVictims may have done something bad to deserve this suffering.]]

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** Alice feels that Bob
Bob [[GoodVictimsBadVictims may have done something bad to deserve this suffering.]]

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** Alice feels that Bob [[GoodVictimsBadVictims may have done something bad to deserve this suffering.]]

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** Alice feels that Bob Bob
[[GoodVictimsBadVictims may have done something bad to deserve this suffering.]]]]
**Alice went through an upbringing or training where she was constantly PunishedForSympathy.
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** [[TheSociopath Alice]] is [[LackOfEmpathymentally incapable to express sympathy towards others.]]

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** [[TheSociopath Alice]] is [[LackOfEmpathymentally [[LackOfEmpathy mentally incapable to express sympathy towards others.]]
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** [[TheSociopath Alice]] is mentally incapable to express sympathy towards others.

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** [[TheSociopath Alice]] is mentally [[LackOfEmpathymentally incapable to express sympathy towards others.]]
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** Alice is simply a {{Jerkass}} looking for every opportunity to berate Bob [[ItAmusesMe for her own mere amusement]].

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** Alice is simply a {{Jerkass}} looking for every opportunity to berate Bob [[ItAmusesMe [[ItAmusedMe for her own mere amusement]].

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** Alice is a {{Jerkass}} looking for every opportunity to berate Bob.

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** Alice is simply a {{Jerkass}} looking for every opportunity to berate Bob.Bob [[ItAmusesMe for her own mere amusement]].



** Alice feels that treating Bob this way will make him tough.
** Alice feels that showing sympathy is a sign of weakness.
** Alice is incapable to express sympathy towards others.

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** Alice feels that [[ToughLove treating Bob this way will make him tough.
tough.]]
** Alice feels that [[VirtueIsWeakness showing sympathy is a sign of weakness.
weakness.]]
** Alice [[TheSociopath Alice]] is mentally incapable to express sympathy towards others.



* '''Subverted''': Alice tells Bob to get over it at first, but then, seeing that she's upset him, softens and apologises, offering to listen to his troubles.
* '''Double Subverted''': ...But she gets bored after 2 seconds and then goes back to berating him.

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* '''Subverted''': Alice tells Bob to get over it at first, but then, seeing that she's upset him, softens and apologises, apologizes, offering to listen to his troubles.
* '''Double Subverted''': ...But she gets bored after 2 seconds and then goes back to berating him.him for making her feel remorse.



** Bob decides to end his relationship is Alice, [[WithFriendsLikeThese considering how lousy of a friend she is.]]



** Knowing the lack of sympathy Alice has given him, Bob becomes even more depressed and decides to take his own life. Alice lives with this guilt for the rest of her life.

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** Knowing the lack of sympathy Alice has given him, Bob becomes even more depressed and [[DrivenToSuicide decides to take his own life. life]]. [[MyGodWhatHaveIDone Alice lives with this guilt for the rest of her life.]]



* '''Reconstructed''': But then others remind her that [[SuicideIsShameful Bob is a coward for taking his own life and not deal with his own problems]]. While Alice didn't like to hear that, she tries to forget about Bob and tries to move on with her life; however, Alice has a hard time in forgetting Bob and the guilt returns. Then others show her no sympathy for her problems, making Alice asking the question "[[NotSoDifferent is this how Bob feels?]]"

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* '''Reconstructed''': But then others remind her that [[SuicideIsShameful Bob is a coward for taking his own life and not deal with his own problems]]. [[YourApprovalFillsMeWithShame While Alice didn't like to hear that, that]], she tries to forget about Bob and tries to move on with her life; however, Alice has a hard time in forgetting Bob and the guilt returns. Then others show her no sympathy for her problems, making Alice asking the question "[[NotSoDifferent is this how Bob feels?]]"



** Alice is ignoring Bob because she feels personally responsible for his misery, and Bob's problems get worse and worse and worse. Eventually, he is DrivenToSuicide due to the lack of support he is receiving. Alice never quite forgives herself for letting Bob die.

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** Alice is ignoring Bob because she feels personally responsible for his misery, and Bob's problems get worse and worse and worse. Eventually, he is DrivenToSuicide due to the lack of support he is receiving. Alice never quite forgives herself for letting Bob die.die or at least, pretending to be do so and in secret, [[SuicideISShameful thinks Bob is a spineless coward for killing himself]].
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** Alice is a [[TheFundamentalist "religious"]] woman who believes that Bob's suffering is either [[CrisisOfFaith due to God testing his faith]] or that He is punishing him for his sins. The worst part is that Bob hasn't done anything morally reprehensible according her faith's standards, and yet she still uses this logic.

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** Alice is a [[TheFundamentalist "religious"]] woman who believes that Bob's suffering is either because the [[CrisisOfFaith due to God deity is testing his faith]] or that He the deity is punishing him for his sins."sins". The worst part is that Bob hasn't done anything morally reprehensible according her faith's standards, and yet she still uses this logic.
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** Alice only [[ItsAllAboutMe cares about her own problems.]]

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** Alice thinks that Bob is being {{wangst}}y and only does it to get him out of his funk.
** Alice feels that Bob has done something wrong and believes his traumas was more of [[LaserGuidedKarma poetic justice]].
** Alice is a {{Jerkass}}, plain and simple.

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** Alice thinks that what Bob is being {{wangst}}y going through is nothing serious and only does it to get him out of is annoyed with his funk.
complaint.
** Alice feels that Bob has [[GoodVictimsBadVictims may have done something wrong and believes his traumas was more of [[LaserGuidedKarma poetic justice]].
bad to deserve this suffering.]]
** Alice is a {{Jerkass}}, plain and simple.{{Jerkass}} looking for every opportunity to berate Bob.



** Alice believes that there are [[AppealToWorseProblems other people who are suffering far worse than Bob is]], [[{{Hypocrite}} not that Alice hasn't currently suffered a lot.]]

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** Alice believes that there are [[AppealToWorseProblems other people who are suffering far worse than Bob is]], [[{{Hypocrite}} not that Alice hasn't currently has ever suffered a lot.before.]]


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** Alice is incapable to express sympathy towards others.
** Bob is one of [[BadBoss Alice]]'s minions whom she feels have failed her to advance her evil plans.
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** Alice is a [[TheFundamentalist "religious"]] woman who believes that Bob's suffering is either [[CrisisOfFaith due to God testing his faith]] or that He is punishing him for his sins. Bob hasn't done anything morally reprehensible according her faith's standards, and yet she still uses this logic.

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** Alice is a [[TheFundamentalist "religious"]] woman who believes that Bob's suffering is either [[CrisisOfFaith due to God testing his faith]] or that He is punishing him for his sins. The worst part is that Bob hasn't done anything morally reprehensible according her faith's standards, and yet she still uses this logic.
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* '''Implied''': Bob doesn't tell anyone about his problems. Everyone around him doesn't seems to care about Bob either.

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* '''Implied''': Bob doesn't tell anyone about his problems. Everyone around him doesn't seems seem to care about Bob either.

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