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* ''[[Fanfic/RateThis Rate This (Trust is Hard to Come By)]]'': The only member of Miss Bustier's class who hasn't turned against Marinette is [[BullyTurnedBuddy Chloé]]; everyone else has been convinced that's she's [[MadeOutToBeAJerkass secretly a jerkass]].
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* Sunny's older brother Dale in the ''ComicBook/SunnySeries'' starts hanging with two boys his senior year of high school, and get him involved in [[DrugsAreBad substance abuse]]; their mother complains about that Sladek boy being "no good" when he sneaks off to get milk and he blows it off by saying [[BlatantLies he took Sunny for ice cream]]. His drinking and pot smoking results in him being shipped off to MilitarySchool [[spoiler:after he drunkenly hits his sister Sunny]], which he resents. When he's supposed to stay at home on New Year's Eve 1976 with Sunny and Deb (and his brother Teddy), he instead runs off with them that night and possibly gets involved in [[MailboxBaseball knocking over the block's mailboxes.]] This is all played out realistically and Sunny has lots of angst about it, even being upset when she sees the two boys driving by while Dale is at military school and remembering how their actions are affecting her.
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* It is VERY easy to pin point the exact moment Nora from ''Fanfic/TheSunWillComeUpAndTheSeasonsWillChange'' [[UsedToBeASweetKid went from a nice girl]] to the terror she became in the main part of the story. Not long after meeting Xander, Mary (and the audience) see a memory of her lashing out at her brother Julius. And that is FAR from the worst thing she did to him...

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* PlayedWith in ''Fanfic/TheBabysittingFiasco'': While Alya ''insists'' that Lila was the one who came up with the idea of making Marinette handle all of her and Nino's babysitting duties while they take the extra money they're being paid and run around behind their parents' backs, Marinette isn't convinced that the ConsummateLiar ''made'' them do any of that. Alya's parents are also frustrated by her blaming Lila for everything rather than taking responsibility for her own actions.



* ''Fanfic/HeroChat'': It's pointed out that [[WesternAnimation/MiraculousLadybug Sabrina and Chloé]] were actually this for each other. Yes, Chloé treated Sabrina like a servant, but Sabrina was like that before she met Chloé--she believes that she only has worth when she's acting with complete, ridiculous selflessness, and actually gets mad if people won't let her do things for them. Combined with Chloé's domineering personality and they fed into each other, making both worse. As part of Chloé's redemption, she distances herself from Sabrina, because it's too easy to just start commanding her again. Sabrina, with distance from Chloé, begins to understand she has worth besides what she can do for other people. [[spoiler:She eventually is offered the Dog Miraculous, and takes it for the somewhat selfish reason that she wants to protect what she cares about, rather than the stupidly selfless reason of just wanting to be helpful.]]

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* ''Fanfic/HeroChat'': It's pointed out that [[WesternAnimation/MiraculousLadybug Sabrina and Chloé]] Chloé were actually this for each other. Yes, Chloé treated Sabrina like a servant, but Sabrina was like that before she met Chloé--she believes that she only has worth when she's acting with complete, ridiculous selflessness, and actually gets mad if people won't let her do things for them. Combined with Chloé's domineering personality and they fed into each other, making both worse. As part of Chloé's redemption, she distances herself from Sabrina, because it's too easy to just start commanding her again. Sabrina, with distance from Chloé, begins to understand she has worth besides what she can do for other people. [[spoiler:She eventually is offered the Dog Miraculous, and takes it for the somewhat selfish reason that she wants to protect what she cares about, rather than the stupidly selfless reason of just wanting to be helpful.]]
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A lot of times in media and in RealLife there's a friend (or a group of friends), a very good friend whom you may have known since you were kids. But there's one small flaw within the friendship. The friend in question always gets you into ''serious'' trouble. It's usually stuff like trying to get you to break curfew, violate your parole, drink underage, do drugs, commit acts of theft, and cause public disturbance. The toxic friend will guilt-trip you for not going along with what they want and accusing you of "changing". They'll say things like, "Man, you've changed. You used to be cool," or, "Come on, it'll be fun!" And of course, all of the above will almost certainly lead to serious consequences. This is almost the 2000s variant of TheAggressiveDrugDealer.

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A lot of times in media and in RealLife there's a friend (or a group of friends), a very good friend whom you may have known since you were kids. But there's one small flaw within the friendship. The friend in question always gets you into ''serious'' trouble. It's usually stuff like trying to get you to break curfew, violate your parole, drink underage, do drugs, commit acts of theft, and cause public disturbance. The toxic friend will guilt-trip [[GuiltTripping guilt-trip]] you for not going along with what they want and accusing you of "changing". They'll say things like, "Man, you've changed. You used to be cool," or, "Come on, it'll be fun!" And of course, all of the above will almost certainly lead to serious consequences. This is almost the 2000s variant of TheAggressiveDrugDealer.
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* Music/SamHui: In "Wooden Squatter Huts" (木屋區), a song about a boy who grew up on the WrongSideOfTheTracks, when the protagonist grows up, he befriends a group of sleazy gamblers and later [[spoiler:dies in a police shootout because one of his friends brought him along to rob a bank]].
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* One of the main themes of ''WesternAnimation/{{Amphibia}}'' is the genuine but unhealthy friendship between [[Characters/AmphibiaAnneBoonchuy Anne Boonchuy]], [[Characters/AmphibiaSashaWaybright Sasha Waybright]], and [[Characters/AmphibiaMarcyWu Marcy Wu]].

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* One of the main themes of ''WesternAnimation/{{Amphibia}}'' is the genuine but unhealthy friendship between [[Characters/AmphibiaAnneBoonchuy Anne Boonchuy]], [[Characters/AmphibiaSashaWaybright Boonchuy, Sasha Waybright]], Waybright, and [[Characters/AmphibiaMarcyWu Marcy Wu]].Wu.
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* ''WesternAnimation/TheDragonPrince'': The flashback that reveals how [[Characters/TheDragonPrinceViren Viren]] finished the spell that managed to kill the dragon king showed he enabled Harrow's hatred of him for killing the queen, enforcing that he enabled some of Harrow's more negative tendencies with enthusiasm. Even after getting revenge, he quickly finds a reason to justify killing the child as well.
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* ''Literature/DiaryOfAnAwesomeFriendlyKid'', a ''Literature/DiaryOfAWimpyKid'' SpinOff that focuses on Greg's "[[WithFriendsLikeThese best friend]]", Rowley Jefferson. Throughout the book, Rowley is repeatedly tormented by Greg, who makes up lies that get him in trouble, cheats off his test (which makes Rowley cry because a teacher he likes says [[DisappointedInYou she's disappointed in him]]), and tricks him into doing his chores for a month. One of the last scenes of the book is Rowley's dad telling him he should find new friends.

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* In contrast to [[PositiveFriendInfluence Optimus' relationship with Lelouch]], [[Characters/CodePrimeMegatron Megatron's]] friendship with [[Characters/CodePrimeSuzakuKururugi Suzaku]] in ''Fanfic/CodePrime'' is slowly eroding the latter's morals, in addition to causing other problems. In particular, Suzaku's faith in Britannia and, to a significantly lesser extent, the Decepticons, is starting to border on BlindObedience and BlackAndWhiteInsanity, while his actions are beginning to verge on KnightTemplar. [[ManipulativeBastard This is exactly what Megatron wants.]] [[spoiler:Fortunately, Suzaku realizes how evil the Decepticons and Britannia are by the end of ''R1'' and joins the Autobots and Black Knights to truly redeem himself.]]

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* In contrast to [[PositiveFriendInfluence Optimus' relationship with Lelouch]], [[Characters/CodePrimeMegatron Megatron's]] friendship with [[Characters/CodePrimeSuzakuKururugi Suzaku]] Suzaku in ''Fanfic/CodePrime'' is slowly eroding the latter's morals, in addition to causing other problems. In particular, Suzaku's faith in Britannia and, to a significantly lesser extent, the Decepticons, is starting to border on BlindObedience and BlackAndWhiteInsanity, while his actions are beginning to verge on KnightTemplar. [[ManipulativeBastard This is exactly what Megatron wants.]] [[spoiler:Fortunately, Suzaku realizes how evil the Decepticons and Britannia are by the end of ''R1'' and joins the Autobots and Black Knights to truly redeem himself.]]



* ''Fanfic/BlackbirdArrow'': Dinah Lance is a parental version of this to her daughter Sara Lance. Between letting her believe it was a good idea to go on the ''Gambit'' to sleep with her older sister Laurel's boyfriend because she was 'in love,' to manipulating her using her trauma to go along with trading Laurel to the League in exchange for her freedom, everything that's gone wrong in Sara's life can ultimately be traced back to [[AbusiveParents Dinah's terrible parenting]]. On some level, Sara is aware of it too but has been unable to leave Dinah for the past three years because she would have to tell the truth about Laurel's disappearance to her father Quentin, the only other person that would be willing to take her in. Unsurprisingly, the moment Laurel is freed and that is no longer a concern, Sara ditches Dinah for Quentin almost immediately.

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* ''Fanfic/BlackbirdArrow'': ''Fanfic/{{Blackbird|Arrow}}'': Dinah Lance is a parental version of this to her daughter Sara Lance. Between letting her believe it was a good idea to go on the ''Gambit'' to sleep with her older sister Laurel's boyfriend because she was 'in love,' to manipulating her using her trauma to go along with trading Laurel to the League in exchange for her freedom, everything that's gone wrong in Sara's life can ultimately be traced back to [[AbusiveParents Dinah's terrible parenting]]. On some level, Sara is aware of it too but has been unable to leave Dinah for the past three years because she would have to tell the truth about Laurel's disappearance to her father Quentin, the only other person that would be willing to take her in. Unsurprisingly, the moment Laurel is freed and that is no longer a concern, Sara ditches Dinah for Quentin almost immediately.



* ''Fanfic/ForHisOwnSake'': Naru, Motoko, and most of the other girls at the Hinata Inn turn out to have been a ''horrible'' influence upon Sarah. Since they always leapt to the worst possible conclusions about Keitaro, they routinely stopped him from doing anything to discipline Sarah, even [[AbominationAccusationAttack attacking and abusing him]] for doing so. As a result, her father Seta discovers that she's become a completely uncontrollable SpoiledBrat who believes anyone who tries to stop her from doing whatever she pleases is an idiot who deserves to be beaten up.

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Naru, Motoko, and most of the other girls at the Hinata Inn turn out to have been a ''horrible'' influence upon Sarah. Since they always leapt to the worst possible conclusions about She watched them constantly abusing and assaulting Keitaro, they routinely stopped him from doing anything to discipline Sarah, even [[AbominationAccusationAttack attacking and abusing always [[BlamingTheVictim blaming him]] for doing so. As a result, her father Seta discovers their {{Abomination Accusation Attack}}s. This taught Sarah that she's become a completely uncontrollable SpoiledBrat who believes anyone who tries tried to stop her from doing whatever she pleases is an idiot who deserves ''deserves'' to be beaten up.
up, a lesson she happily carries out of the Inn that turns her into an utterly ''vicious'' SpoiledBrat.
** {{Downplayed|Trope}} with Shinobu; while she didn't directly participate in abusing Keitaro, the other Hinata Girls amplified her issues with [[ExtremeDoormat speaking up]] for herself or anyone else. After Keitaro [[TakeThisJobAndShoveIt quits]] and leaves the Inn, she realizes her BetrayalByInaction and starts working to [[GrewASpine become more assertive]]... something which Naru and Motoko take umbrage with, revealing themselves as {{False Friend}}s.



** Alya's SympatheticPOV in ''I Owe You Every Joy of Love'' illustrates just how poisonous Lila's influence is, as she convinces her that Marinette's request for some space is actually a backhanded way of breaking off their friendship in a 'nice', backhanded fashion. She also [[spoiler:disables the notifications on Alya's phone, causing her to miss some important messages and getting her into serious trouble with her family as a result]].

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** Alya's SympatheticPOV in ''I Owe You Every Joy of Love'' illustrates just how poisonous Lila's influence is, as she convinces her that Marinette's request for some space is actually a backhanded way of breaking off their friendship in a 'nice', backhanded fashion. She also [[spoiler:disables the notifications on Alya's phone, causing her to miss some important messages and getting her into serious trouble with her family as a result]].
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* Subverted by Cherri Bomb in ''WesternAnimation/HazbinHotel''. While she encourages Angel to join her in drugs and booze (in sharp contrast with Husk trying to talk him out of the same), she is ultimately accepting of the fact that he is trying to reform himself, politely declining his offer to join them at the hotel because she's satisfied with her life. [[spoiler:The Season 1 finale has her join in with the Hotel's fight against the Exorcists, at which point she becomes the hotel's third patron.]]

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