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* In ''VideoGame/SEVENsCODE'', Yuito and his commander Mirai are explicitly dating one another, with the latter having the former sign a pledge so that she doesn't get charged with abuse of authority or sexual harassment. The relationship isn't explored in much detail due to taking a backseat to [[spoiler:[=HARZiNA=]'s Judgment plot]], but Mirai is shown to be [[ClingyJealousGirl pretty firm when she finds out that the corpse that Yuito found in the Terminal Core is that of a woman]].

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* In ''VideoGame/SEVENsCODE'', Yuito and his commander Mirai are explicitly dating one another, with the latter having the former sign a pledge so that she doesn't get charged with abuse of authority or sexual harassment. The relationship isn't explored in much detail due to taking a backseat to [[spoiler:[=HARZiNA=]'s Judgment plot]], but Mirai is shown to be [[ClingyJealousGirl pretty firm when she finds out that the corpse that Yuito found Much later, [[spoiler:this bites them in the Terminal Core ass when Mirai becomes infected with the sin of Envy, mistaking Yuito for cheating on her with Sayoko. Unbeknownst to Mirai, Yuito was involuntarily {{Body Surf}}ing and ended up in Sayoko's body, and Yuito-as-Sayoko is that of a woman]].attacked by Mirai and has no choice but to kill her in self-defense.]]
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* ''Literature/{{Spellster}}'': The administration of the tower forbids relationships between their trainees, a rule which is broken all the time. However, being reported for it results in punishment.
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* While they are not actually comrades ''per se'', [[Series/{{Castle}} Richard Castle and Kate Beckett]] have to hide their relationship from her boss, as regulations would force them to either break up or to have Castle stop working with the police. [[spoiler:As it turns out, their boss already knew, but chose to ignore it for plausible deniability, as she acknowledges that Castle is useful at helping.]]

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* While they are not actually comrades ''per se'', [[Series/{{Castle}} [[Series/Castle2009 Richard Castle and Kate Beckett]] have to hide their relationship from her boss, as regulations would force them to either break up or to have Castle stop working with the police. [[spoiler:As it turns out, their boss already knew, but chose to ignore it for plausible deniability, as she acknowledges that Castle is useful at helping.]]
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* This also applies to relationships that are purely business without any friendship or romance involved. The Thai military is [[https://archive.ph/QTJBI one example where business deals are regularly performed between officers and subordinates]], something that would be unthinkable in most other militaries. Unfortunately in 2020 this led to [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nakhon_Ratchasima_shootings one of the worst mass shootings in Thai history]] when a soldier who had a financial grievance with his commanding officer over a real estate loan business they were involved in murdered his CO and then shot up a Buddhist temple and a mall, killing 29 people in total before he was put down.
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* A sexual relationship between a doctor and a nursing sister is at the heart of the UK medical drama, ''Series/Bodies2004'', with its appropriateness (or lack thereof) addressed.

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* A sexual relationship between a doctor and a nursing sister is at the heart of the UK medical drama, drama ''Series/Bodies2004'', with its appropriateness (or lack thereof) addressed.
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* A sexual relationship between a doctor and a nursing sister is at the heart of the UK medical drama, ''Series/{{Bodies}}'', with its appropriateness (or lack thereof) addressed.

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* A sexual relationship between a doctor and a nursing sister is at the heart of the UK medical drama, ''Series/{{Bodies}}'', ''Series/Bodies2004'', with its appropriateness (or lack thereof) addressed.
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* There's quite a lot of fraternization in the military of ''Film/StarshipTroopers''. Rico even turns down an offer from a squadmate only for the CO to tacitly encourage him to take her up on it. Of course, that's merely one of many symptoms of discipline that the Federation military is clearly shown to be lacking in.

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* ''Film/StarshipTroopers'': There's quite a lot of fraternization in the military of ''Film/StarshipTroopers''.military. Rico even turns down an offer from a squadmate only for the CO to tacitly encourage him to take her up on it. Of course, But that's merely one of many symptoms of discipline that the Federation military is clearly shown to be lacking in. in.
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* ''Series/ClassOf09'': Poet and Daniel see each other while they're both trainees at Quantico. Drew notes that, although not forbidden, this will [[DoubleStandard hurt Poet rather than Daniel]] if it goes wrong. They break up later, and Poet gets involved with Hour instead, even getting engaged to her, with no discernible repercussions.

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* ''Series/ClassOf09'': Poet and Daniel see each other while they're both trainees at Quantico. Drew notes that, although not forbidden, this will [[DoubleStandard hurt Poet rather than Daniel]] if it goes wrong. They break up later, and Poet gets involved with Hour instead, even getting engaged to her, with her-this has no discernible repercussions.
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* In ''VideoGame/XenobladeChronicles3'', Monica's Ascension Quest culminates in her subordinate [[spoiler: Jansen]] declaring his love for her. She protests that she's his superior officer, with the implication of it being inappropriate to be with a subordinate, but he's willing to wait on a time when their enemies will be defeated and their respective ranks will become defunct.
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* In ''[[Literature/EightySixEightySix 86 -Eighty-Six-]]'', this trope clearly describes the dynamic between Lena[[labelnote:*]]First introduced as a Major, then later promoted to Colonel[[/labelnote]] and Shin[[labelnote:*]]Introduced as Lieutenant of the squad which Lena commands, then later promoted to Captain[[/labelnote]]. While under normal circumstances, blatant fraternization between a commanding officer and a direct subordinate would've been swiftly punished, the situation surrounding them and the story as a whole is anything but normal. If anything, everyone who knows their relationship is [[ShipperOnDeck openly supportive of it]], even their own superior officers.

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* ''Series/ClassOf09'': Poet and Daniel see each other while they're both trainees at Quantico. Drew notes that, although not forbidden, this will [[DoubleStandard hurt Poet rather than Daniel]] if it goes wrong. They break up later, and Poet gets involved with Hour instead, even getting engaged to her, with no discernible repurcussions.

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* ''Series/ClassOf09'': Poet and Daniel see each other while they're both trainees at Quantico. Drew notes that, although not forbidden, this will [[DoubleStandard hurt Poet rather than Daniel]] if it goes wrong. They break up later, and Poet gets involved with Hour instead, even getting engaged to her, with no discernible repurcussions.repercussions.
* PlayedWith in the ''Franchise/LawAndOrder''-verse, mostly because it rarely gets the opportunity to be addressed. ''Series/LawAndOrderSpecialVictimsUnit'' is the one most likely to see any of the main team dating each other, where it's portrayed as frowned upon for its impact on the team dynamic rather than outright banned for institutional reasons. This trope does come up in a big way in season 23, though when [[spoiler: Rollins and Carisi]] start dating. In a twist, he's no longer on the squad, he's moved onto being an ADA. But since he prosecutes SVU's cases, it's addressed that keeping their relationship secret runs the risk of being accused of professional misconduct since it's a ''massive'' conflict of interest for for the DA's office. They end up disclosing and nothing more is said about it.
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* This is the subject of the music video for the Reba [=McEntire=] and Vince Gill duet "The Heart Won't Lie," which involves feelings between a Navy cadet and her Marine drill instructor that are unable to be acted upon. It's implied to be due to fraternization rules, making the song a DistantDuet.

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* This is the subject of the music video for the Reba [=McEntire=] Music/RebaMcEntire and Vince Gill Music/VinceGill duet "The Heart Won't Lie," which involves feelings between a Navy cadet and her Marine drill instructor that are unable to be acted upon. It's implied to be due to fraternization rules, making the song a DistantDuet.
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** Rookies Chen and Nolan have a relationship early in the first season. While technically allowable, they break it off after being told that female cops who sleep with male cops suffer for it with their peers and commanders.
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** Ava's rejection ends up driving Kayto into the arms of his chief engineer Chigara, who is technically a civilian, and by ''Sunrider Liberation Day'' they've become the OfficialCouple. [[spoiler:This also ends up impairing his judgment, as he refuses to consider even the possibility that Chigara might be a Prototype spy despite all the evidence suggesting otherwise and puts his blind faith in her, which does not end well.]]

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** Ava's rejection ends up driving Kayto into the arms of his chief engineer Chigara, who is technically a civilian, and by ''Sunrider Liberation Day'' they've become the OfficialCouple. [[spoiler:This also ends up impairing his judgment, as judgment: he refuses to consider even ignores the possibility mounting evidence that Chigara might be a Prototype spy despite all the evidence suggesting otherwise and puts his blind faith in her, which does not end well.has dire consequences for the whole galaxy.]]

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* In ''VisualNovel/{{Sunrider}}'', Kayto Shields and Ava Crescentia had a close relationship as high school students. When they meet again twelve years later as captain and commander of the Sunrider, Ava refuses any and all attempts by Kayto to reignite their previous relationship, as is it against the rules and she fears that to do so would compromise his judgment. [[spoiler:Her fears can be confirmed during the Battle of Helion if the player refuses to let her manually fire the Sunrider’s damaged [[WaveMotionGun Vanguard Cannon]], sacrificing their one chance to finally destroy the PACT flagship Legion because the risk to her life is more than Kayto can bear.]]
** Ava's rejection ends up driving Kayto into the arms of his chief engineer Chigara, who is technically a civilian, and by ''Sunrider Liberation Day'' they've become the OfficialCouple. [[spoiler:This also ends up impairing his judgment, as he refuses to consider even the possibility that Chigara might be a Prototype spy despite all the evidence suggesting otherwise and puts his blind faith in her, which [[WhamEpisode does]] [[DemonicPossession not]] [[DiedInYourArmsTonight end]] [[DyingAsYourself well]].]]

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Kayto Shields and Ava Crescentia had a close relationship as high school students. When they meet again twelve years later as were the captain and commander of the military starship Sunrider, Ava refuses any and all attempts by they were high schoolers in love with each other. Kayto still has feelings for Ava, but Ava rejects any attempt to reignite resume their previous relationship, as old relationship because their love is it against the rules regulations and she fears that to do so would could compromise his their judgment. [[spoiler:Her Her fears can be confirmed realized during the Battle of Helion if Helion, where Kayto can [[spoiler:throw away his one chance to sink the player refuses PACT flagship Legion by refusing to let her Ava go down to a compromised section of the Sunrider and manually fire the Sunrider’s damaged [[WaveMotionGun Vanguard Cannon]], sacrificing their one chance to finally destroy the PACT flagship Legion because the potential risk to her life is being more than Kayto he can bear.]]
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** Ava's rejection ends up driving Kayto into the arms of his chief engineer Chigara, who is technically a civilian, and by ''Sunrider Liberation Day'' they've become the OfficialCouple. [[spoiler:This also ends up impairing his judgment, as he refuses to consider even the possibility that Chigara might be a Prototype spy despite all the evidence suggesting otherwise and puts his blind faith in her, which [[WhamEpisode does]] [[DemonicPossession not]] [[DiedInYourArmsTonight end]] [[DyingAsYourself well]].does not end well.]]
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* ''Series/ClassOf09'': Poet and Daniel see each other while they're both trainees at Quantico. Drew notes that, although not forbidden, this will [[DoubleStandard hurt Poet rather than Daniel]] if it goes wrong. They break up later, and Poet gets involved with Hour instead, even getting engaged to her, with no discernible repurcussions.
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* ''Fanfic/TheEndOfTheWorld'': In addition to Haymitch and Effie's constant {{UST}} as they work to keep the kids under their care alive, Blight had a romantic entanglement with Gia Pepper and her three successors as District 7's escort, causing Caesar only to assign men to be District 7's escort.

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* ''Fanfic/TheEndOfTheWorld'': ''Fanfic/{{The End of the World|FernWithy}}'': In addition to Haymitch and Effie's constant {{UST}} as they work to keep the kids under their care alive, Blight had a romantic entanglement with Gia Pepper and her three successors as District 7's escort, causing Caesar only to assign men to be District 7's escort.
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* In ''Manga/FullmetalAlchemist'', Colonel Roy Mustang's assistant and bodyguard, First Lieutenant Riza Hawkeye, would probably be more than a comrade for him if not for the fact that they're both in the military and it would be forbidden.

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* In ''Manga/FullmetalAlchemist'', Colonel Roy Mustang's assistant and bodyguard, First Lieutenant Riza Hawkeye, would probably be more than a comrade for him if not for the fact that they're both in the military and it would be forbidden.forbidden; in fact, WordOfGod has stated that the only reason they're not married by the end of the series is that the resulting restrictions would prevent them from getting what they wanted as colonel and lieutenant, but suspiciously worded the answer in such a way that didn't exclude [[CommonLawMarriage other possibilities]].
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* ''Fanfic/TheEndOfTheWorld'': In addition to Haymitch and Effie's constant {{UST}} as they work to keep the kids under their care alive, Blight had a romantic entanglement with Gia Pepper and her three successors as District 7's escort, causing Caesar only to assign men to be District 7's escort.
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Rules like this are pretty standard in military organizations unless they're only MildlyMilitary or the writers are using [[ArtisticLicenseMilitary Artistic License regarding military matters]]. (The relevant military word is [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fraternization fraternization,]] although that term is much broader than most examples here, with some militaries banning ''any'' kind of social relationship between people at different levels in the same chain of command.) Non-military organizations which employ similar levels of discipline can also have this kind of rule. For relationships between people in less tightly controlled workplaces, which aren't necessarily prohibited, see OfficeRomance. If holding a certain job requires that you forgo ''all'' relationships (not just with colleagues), see VowOfCelibacy.

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Rules like this are pretty standard in military organizations unless they're only MildlyMilitary or the writers are using [[ArtisticLicenseMilitary Artistic License regarding military matters]]. (The relevant military word is [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fraternization fraternization,]] although that term is much broader than most examples here, with some militaries banning ''any'' kind of social relationship between people at different levels in the same chain of command.) Non-military organizations which employ similar levels of discipline can also have this kind of rule. For relationships between people in less tightly controlled workplaces, which aren't necessarily prohibited, see OfficeRomance. If holding a certain job requires that you forgo ''all'' amanous relationships with ''everyone'' (not just with colleagues), see VowOfCelibacy.
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-->'''Mal:''' Shipboard romances complicate things.
-->'''Wash:''' For who? For you?
-->'''Mal:''' For everyone.
-->'''Wash:''' Well what about love?
-->'''Mal:''' I ain't against it as a rule. But in situations such as ours, tends to cause problems. It splits loyalties.
-->'''Wash:''' Know what I think? [...] This policy you got against shipboard relationships, that's just you projecting your own intimacy issues onto everyone else.

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-->'''Mal:''' Shipboard romances complicate things.
-->'''Wash:'''
things.\\
'''Wash:'''
For who? For you?
-->'''Mal:'''
you?\\
'''Mal:'''
For everyone.
-->'''Wash:'''
everyone.\\
'''Wash:'''
Well what about love?
-->'''Mal:'''
love?\\
'''Mal:'''
I ain't against it as a rule. But in situations such as ours, tends to cause problems. It splits loyalties.
-->'''Wash:'''
loyalties.\\
'''Wash:'''
Know what I think? [...] This policy you got against shipboard relationships, that's just you projecting your own intimacy issues onto everyone else.



-->''There's all sorts of problems that can happen when two people in the same unit get together. Let's say your unit is in a tight spot. [...] Someone has to be left behind. You think it's going to be someone you're sleeping with? [...] I hope I never have to decide who lives and who dies. But if I have to, my decision can't be muddled up by magic-sparkly-hearts-and-stars feelings.''

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-->''There's --->''There's all sorts of problems that can happen when two people in the same unit get together. Let's say your unit is in a tight spot. [...] Someone has to be left behind. You think it's going to be someone you're sleeping with? [...] I hope I never have to decide who lives and who dies. But if I have to, my decision can't be muddled up by magic-sparkly-hearts-and-stars feelings.''



-->--'''New York Times''', ''[[http://www.nytimes.com/1998/07/28/us/pentagon-to-tighten-army-s-fraternizing-ban.html Pentagon to Tighten Army's Fraternizing Ban]]'' (July 28, 1998)

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-->--'''New --->--'''New York Times''', ''[[http://www.nytimes.com/1998/07/28/us/pentagon-to-tighten-army-s-fraternizing-ban.html Pentagon to Tighten Army's Fraternizing Ban]]'' (July 28, 1998)
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* ''Series/TheRookie2018'': In Season 5 Lucy and Tim become a couple. They both know they'll get in trouble if one doesn't transfer, as he's her superior officer. Lucy plans a transfer into another station, then Tim moves to a desk job at the same one before she can so she's not in his chain of command, letting them stay together.
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* ''TabletopGame/BattleTech'': This trope shows up rather often:
** The Clans actively practice FreeLoveFuture and have no restrictions on sexual relations, the idea of fraternization basically doesn't exist for them.
** In the Inner Sphere, fraternization shows up on a near-constant basis, as many mechwarriors enter into romantic relationships with other members of their unit. Grayson and Lori Carlyle, for example, became a BattleCouple as the commander and executive officer of the Gray Death Legion. Numerous other characters have been noted to have been involved with members of their direct command.
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* ''Film/WingCommander'' uses this trope and displays why it's a bad idea. Marshall quickly shacks up with squadron member Rosie while Blair develops a slower burning romance with squadron leader Angel. When Rosie gets shot down (after she and Marshall decide that it would be more fun to go shoot more Kilrathis than follow orders and return to the ship), Marshall falls apart.
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** This may be something of a subversion, however, as [[ReasonableAuthorityFigure Ecklie]] notes that if Grissom had just ''told him'', he could've gotten Sara's reviews done by [[NumberTwo Catherine]] and avoided anyone having to leave.
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* In ''Series/PowerRangersBeastMorphers'', Grid Battleforce forbids Rangers from being in relationships with each other. Blue Ranger Ravi insisted on breaking off his relationship with Roxy (the original Yellow Ranger candidate) for this reason. [[DeconstructedTrope Deconstructed]] midway into the second season where Zoey (the current Yellow Ranger) and Nate (the Gold Ranger) have been secretly dating way before then and Commander Shaw concludes that the Ranger's bonds are one of the reasons that they always succeed so she drops the restriction,

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* In ''Series/PowerRangersBeastMorphers'', Grid Battleforce forbids Rangers from being in relationships with each other. Blue Ranger Ravi insisted on breaking off his relationship with Roxy (the original Yellow Ranger candidate) for this reason. [[DeconstructedTrope Deconstructed]] midway into the second season where Zoey (the current Yellow Ranger) and Nate (the Gold Ranger) have been secretly dating way before then and Commander Shaw concludes that the Ranger's Rangers' bonds are one of the biggest reasons that they always succeed so she drops the restriction,
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* In ''Series/PowerRangersBeastMorphers'', Grid Battleforce forbids Rangers from being in relationships with each other. Blue Ranger Ravi insisted on breaking off his relationship with Roxy (the original Yellow Ranger candidate) for this reason. [[DeconstructedTrope Deconstructed]] midway into the second season where Zoey (the current Yellow Ranger) and Nate (the Gold Ranger) are dating and Commander Shaw sees that the Ranger's bonds are one of the reasons that they always succeed so she drops the restriction,

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* In ''Series/PowerRangersBeastMorphers'', Grid Battleforce forbids Rangers from being in relationships with each other. Blue Ranger Ravi insisted on breaking off his relationship with Roxy (the original Yellow Ranger candidate) for this reason. [[DeconstructedTrope Deconstructed]] midway into the second season where Zoey (the current Yellow Ranger) and Nate (the Gold Ranger) are have been secretly dating way before then and Commander Shaw sees concludes that the Ranger's bonds are one of the reasons that they always succeed so she drops the restriction,
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* In ''Series/PowerRangersBeastMorphers'', Grid Battleforce forbids Rangers from being in relationships with each other. Blue Ranger Ravi insisted on breaking off his relationship with Roxy (the original Yellow Ranger candidate) for this reason.

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* In ''Series/PowerRangersBeastMorphers'', Grid Battleforce forbids Rangers from being in relationships with each other. Blue Ranger Ravi insisted on breaking off his relationship with Roxy (the original Yellow Ranger candidate) for this reason. [[DeconstructedTrope Deconstructed]] midway into the second season where Zoey (the current Yellow Ranger) and Nate (the Gold Ranger) are dating and Commander Shaw sees that the Ranger's bonds are one of the reasons that they always succeed so she drops the restriction,
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* ''Literature/SpaceAcademy'': Vance struggles with the fact that all of his love interests are people either part of his crew or in his chain of command. Which isn't illegal in Space Fleet (if you do the right paperwork) as other races don't have the same problem with it as humans but is frowned upon. It's especially problematic with Shelly, who was formerly his commanding officer before he was promoted past her then assigned under him (no pun intended).

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