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* In one book in ''Literature/TheBabySittersClub'', the Arnold twins get upset at their birthday party because virtually every aspect treats them as basically a matched set, with no recognition whatsoever that they're actually distinct individuals despite being physically identical. The only time they show any real happiness is when they open Mallory's presents, because while all the other gifts were duplicates of the same thing, Mallory actually gave each twin something different and specific to their interests.

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* In one book in ''Literature/TheBabySittersClub'', the Arnold twins get upset at their birthday party because virtually every aspect the entire setup treats them as basically a matched set, with no recognition whatsoever given to the fact that they're actually two distinct individuals despite being physically identical. The only time they show any real happiness is when they open Mallory's presents, because while all the other gifts were duplicates of the same thing, Mallory actually gave each twin something different and specific to their interests.
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* In one book in ''Literature/TheBabySittersClub'', the Arnold twins get upset at their birthday party because of the complete lack of acknowledgement that they're actually distinct individuals rather than just two halves of a matched set. The only time they show any real happiness is when they open Mallory's presents, because while all the other gifts were duplicates of the same thing, Mallory actually gave each twin something specific to them as an individual.

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* In one book in ''Literature/TheBabySittersClub'', the Arnold twins get upset at their birthday party because of the complete lack of acknowledgement virtually every aspect treats them as basically a matched set, with no recognition whatsoever that they're actually distinct individuals rather than just two halves of a matched set. despite being physically identical. The only time they show any real happiness is when they open Mallory's presents, because while all the other gifts were duplicates of the same thing, Mallory actually gave each twin something different and specific to them as an individual.their interests.
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* In one book in ''Literature/TheBabySittersClub'', the Arnold twins get upset at their birthday party because the whole thing makes it clear that they're being seen as two halves of a set rather than as individuals. The only time they show any real happiness is when they open Mallory's presents, as she's the only one who bought the twins different gifts based on their interests and personalities instead of giving them both the same thing.

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* In one book in ''Literature/TheBabySittersClub'', the Arnold twins get upset at their birthday party because of the whole thing makes it clear complete lack of acknowledgement that they're being seen as actually distinct individuals rather than just two halves of a set rather than as individuals. matched set. The only time they show any real happiness is when they open Mallory's presents, as she's because while all the only one who bought the twins different other gifts based on their interests and personalities instead were duplicates of giving them both the same thing.thing, Mallory actually gave each twin something specific to them as an individual.
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* ''Fanfic/AdviceAndTrust'': Asuka sheds {{Tears of Joy}} during the performance of the string trio concerto Shinji composed for her birthday.
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* In one book in ''Literature/TheBabySittersClub'', the Arnold twins get upset at their birthday party because the whole thing makes it clear that they're being seen as two halves of a set rather than as individuals. The only time they show any real happiness is when they open Mallory's presents, as she's the only one who bought something different for each twin instead of giving identical gifts.

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* In one book in ''Literature/TheBabySittersClub'', the Arnold twins get upset at their birthday party because the whole thing makes it clear that they're being seen as two halves of a set rather than as individuals. The only time they show any real happiness is when they open Mallory's presents, as she's the only one who bought something the twins different for each twin gifts based on their interests and personalities instead of giving identical gifts.them both the same thing.
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* ''WesternAnimation/ThePowerpuffGirls2016'': In "Super Sweet 6", the Powerpuff Girls escape from a candle that was going towards the sun during Princess's birthday party. The indignant Princess tries to squirt them with a giant icing bottle, [[HoistByHerOwnPetard only for it to burst and cover her in icing]]. She then starts to wail.

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* ''WesternAnimation/ThePowerpuffGirls2016'': In "Super Sweet 6", the Powerpuff Girls escape from a candle that was going towards the sun during Princess's birthday party. The indignant Princess tries to squirt them with a giant icing bottle, [[HoistByHerOwnPetard only for it to burst and cover her in icing]].icing. She then starts to wail.
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* ''WesternAnimation/ThePowerpuffGirls2016'': In "Super Sweet 6", the Powerpuff Girls escape from a candle that was going towards the sun during Princess's birthday party. The indignant Princess tries to squirt them with a giant icing bottle, only for it to burst and cover her in icing. She then starts to wail.

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* ''WesternAnimation/ThePowerpuffGirls2016'': In "Super Sweet 6", the Powerpuff Girls escape from a candle that was going towards the sun during Princess's birthday party. The indignant Princess tries to squirt them with a giant icing bottle, [[HoistByHerOwnPetard only for it to burst and cover her in icing.icing]]. She then starts to wail.
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* ''Film/ProblemChild'' has Lucy Henderson bursting in tears and throwing a tantrum as she sees Junior sabotage her birthday party (as payback for kicking him out of the magic show) such as putting frogs in the punch, dynamite in the cake after removing the candles, pickles and the juice in the pinata, throwing out all her presents into the pool, setting off a water hose in her bedroom. She regains her composure after she's done crying to realize Junior is the obvious culprit.

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* ''Film/ProblemChild'' has Lucy Henderson bursting in tears and throwing a tantrum as she sees Junior sabotage her birthday party (as payback for kicking him out of the magic show) such as putting frogs in the punch, dynamite in the cake after removing the candles, pickles and the juice in the pinata, throwing out all her presents into the pool, and setting off a water hose in her bedroom. She regains her composure after she's done crying to realize Junior is the obvious culprit.
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* ''Film/ProblemChild'' has Lucy Henderson bursting in tears and throwing a tantrum as she sees Junior sabotage her birthday party (as payback for kicking him out of the magic show) such as putting frogs in the punch, dynamite in the cake after removing the candles, pickles and the juice in the pinata, throwing out all her presents into the pool, setting off a water hose in her bedroom. She regains her composure after she's done crying to realize Junior is the obvious culprit.
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* "Pity Party" by Music/MelanieMartinez from ''Music/CryBaby'', which interpolates Lesley Gore's "It's My Party," is about [[TheWoobie Cry Baby]] having a OnePersonBirthdayParty despite her best efforts to invite many guests. She doesn't take it well [[{{Understatement}} at all]].

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* "Pity Party" by Music/MelanieMartinez from ''Music/CryBaby'', which interpolates Lesley Gore's "It's My Party," is about [[TheWoobie Cry Baby]] having a OnePersonBirthdayParty despite her best efforts to invite many guests. She doesn't take it well [[{{Understatement}} at all]].all.
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Can sometimes result from a OnePersonBirthdayParty, or because the [[BirthdayPartyGoesWrong party has gone badly wrong]]. Compare ABirthdayNotABreak. In rare instances it can be TearsOfJoy. Can occur during a BirthdayEpisode (of course) or an AgelessBirthdayEpisode.

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Can sometimes result from a OnePersonBirthdayParty, or because the [[BirthdayPartyGoesWrong party has gone badly wrong]]. Compare ABirthdayNotABreak. In rare instances instances, it can be TearsOfJoy. Can occur during a BirthdayEpisode (of course) or an AgelessBirthdayEpisode.



** 12-year-old Katherine from ''Stepchild'' is shown breaking into tears after her attempt at performing a musical number for her guests is hijacked by the titular stepchild, who began playing pop songs - improvised - on her piano instead. Things quickly goes out of hand until Katherine's eldest brother Augustine slams the piano shut, telling the stepchild to stop crashing his sister's birthday, but at that point the party is ruined.

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** 12-year-old Katherine from ''Stepchild'' is shown breaking into tears after her attempt at performing a musical number for her guests is hijacked by the titular stepchild, who began playing pop songs - improvised - on her piano instead. Things quickly goes go out of hand until Katherine's eldest brother Augustine slams the piano shut, telling the stepchild to stop crashing his sister's birthday, but at that point point, the party is ruined.



* ''Literature/MyBestFriendsExorcism'': Abby runs away and cries at her birthday party after she gets stood up by ''everyone'' for Margaret's horse riding excursion...and then Gretchen shows up and gifts her a Children's Bible. This is the final straw for Abby and makes her cry (in the bathroom), until Gretchen comes to her, and [[FireForgedFriends reassures Abby that she didn't want to go to Margaret's birthday party]], and [[AFriendInNeed she doesn't think Margaret is a nice person anyway.]]

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* ''Literature/MyBestFriendsExorcism'': Abby runs away and cries at her birthday party after she gets stood up by ''everyone'' for Margaret's horse riding excursion...and then Gretchen shows up and gifts her a Children's Bible. This is the final straw for Abby and makes her cry (in the bathroom), bathroom) until Gretchen comes to her, and [[FireForgedFriends reassures Abby that she didn't want to go to Margaret's birthday party]], and [[AFriendInNeed she doesn't think Margaret is a nice person anyway.]]






* ''Music/LesleyGore'''s song "It's My Party ([[IsntItIronic and I'll cry if I want to]])" is about the singer getting dumped by her boyfriend Johnny for another girl in her birthday and Johnny arriving to the party with said other girl, driving the singer into a HeroicBSOD as she sees them enjoy themselves.

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* ''Music/LesleyGore'''s song "It's My Party ([[IsntItIronic and I'll cry if I want to]])" is about the singer getting dumped by her boyfriend Johnny for another girl in on her birthday and Johnny arriving to at the party with said other girl, driving the singer into a HeroicBSOD as she sees them enjoy themselves.



* ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'': At Lois's birthday party in "Lois Comes Out of Her Shell", Peter gives a speech which boils down to him insulting her for getting old using unflattering metaphors. After the speech concludes, Lois bursts into tears and runs away from the party.

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* ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'': At Lois's birthday party in "Lois Comes Out of Her Shell", Peter gives a speech which that boils down to him insulting her for getting old using unflattering metaphors. After the speech concludes, Lois bursts into tears and runs away from the party.



* In the ''WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic'' episode [[Recap/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagicS4E20ForWhomTheSweetieBelleToils For Whom the Sweetie Belle Toils]], one of the reasons Sweetie Belle thinks Rarity is trying to humiliate her all the time is because of a ruined birthday party when she was a filly. Sweetie Belle spent a while making herself look beautiful, but when she came down to the party, she heard the others talking about how cool ''Rarity'' was. From her perspective, Rarity had intentionally stolen the attention. From ''Rarity's'' perspective, she was trying to stop the guests from leaving, and even tried to make them think Sweetie Belle was the one who prepared the whole party. Either way, it ended with Sweetie Belle running back to her room in tears.

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* In the ''WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic'' episode [[Recap/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagicS4E20ForWhomTheSweetieBelleToils For Whom the Sweetie Belle Toils]], one of the reasons Sweetie Belle thinks Rarity is trying to humiliate her all the time is because of a ruined birthday party when she was a filly. Sweetie Belle spent a while making herself look beautiful, but when she came down to the party, she heard the others talking about how cool ''Rarity'' was. From her perspective, Rarity had intentionally stolen the attention. From ''Rarity's'' perspective, she was trying to stop the guests from leaving, leaving and even tried to make them think Sweetie Belle was the one who prepared the whole party. Either way, it ended with Sweetie Belle running back to her room in tears.
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* ''Recap/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagicS4E20ForWhomTheSweetieBelleToils'': One of the reasons Sweetie Belle thinks Rarity is trying to humiliate her all the time is because of a ruined birthday party when she was a filly. Sweetie Belle spent a while making herself look beautiful, but when she came down to the party, she heard the others talking about how cool ''Rarity'' was. From her perspective, Rarity had intentionally stolen the attention. From ''Rarity's'' perspective, she was trying to stop the guests from leaving, and even tried to make them think Sweetie Belle was the one who prepared the whole party. Either way, it ended with Sweetie Belle running back to her room in tears.

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* ''Recap/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagicS4E20ForWhomTheSweetieBelleToils'': One In the ''WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic'' episode [[Recap/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagicS4E20ForWhomTheSweetieBelleToils For Whom the Sweetie Belle Toils]], one of the reasons Sweetie Belle thinks Rarity is trying to humiliate her all the time is because of a ruined birthday party when she was a filly. Sweetie Belle spent a while making herself look beautiful, but when she came down to the party, she heard the others talking about how cool ''Rarity'' was. From her perspective, Rarity had intentionally stolen the attention. From ''Rarity's'' perspective, she was trying to stop the guests from leaving, and even tried to make them think Sweetie Belle was the one who prepared the whole party. Either way, it ended with Sweetie Belle running back to her room in tears.
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* This happened to Velma in a flashback scene from ''WesternAnimation/WhatsNewScoobyDoo''. As a young girl, she ends up getting an encyclopedia set for her birthday. While she's the type of person who would love a gift like that, the party clown hired for her birthday thought [[MyNewGiftIsLame it was a "yucky" idea]], and threw it in a wood chipper. [[note]] Fred noted that Velma's mother hired the only party clown in town to have a wood chipper for a prop.[[/note]] Velma immediately burst into tears, [[WhyDidItHaveToBeSnakes and has since developed a phobia of clowns.]]
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* ''WesternAnimation/TheLoudHouse'': Twice in "Strife of the Party", though the first time, it's downplayed. Lana is furious with Lola for ruining her party planning and [[TryingNotToCry tears up for a brief moment]] before cycling away on her bicycle. Lola then [[TearsOfRemorse weeps out of guilt]] as her [[YourMakeupIsRunning her makeup starts running]].

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* ''WesternAnimation/TheLoudHouse'': Twice in "Strife of the Party", though the first time, it's downplayed. Lana is furious with Lola for ruining her party planning and [[TryingNotToCry tears up for a brief moment]] before cycling away on her bicycle. Lola then [[TearsOfRemorse weeps starts crying out of guilt]] as her [[YourMakeupIsRunning her makeup starts running]].
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* ''WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic'': In "For Whom The Sweetie Belle Tolls", one of the reasons Sweetie Belle thinks Rarity is trying to humiliate her all the time is because of a ruined birthday party when she was a filly. Sweetie Belle spent a while making herself look beautiful, but when she came down to the party, she heard the others talking about how cool ''Rarity'' was. From her perspective, Rarity had intentionally stolen the attention. From ''Rarity's'' perspective, she was trying to stop the guests from leaving, and even tried to make them think Sweetie Belle was the one who prepared the whole party. Either way, it ended with Sweetie Belle running back to her room in tears.

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* ''WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic'': In "For Whom The Sweetie Belle Tolls", one ''Recap/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagicS4E20ForWhomTheSweetieBelleToils'': One of the reasons Sweetie Belle thinks Rarity is trying to humiliate her all the time is because of a ruined birthday party when she was a filly. Sweetie Belle spent a while making herself look beautiful, but when she came down to the party, she heard the others talking about how cool ''Rarity'' was. From her perspective, Rarity had intentionally stolen the attention. From ''Rarity's'' perspective, she was trying to stop the guests from leaving, and even tried to make them think Sweetie Belle was the one who prepared the whole party. Either way, it ended with Sweetie Belle running back to her room in tears.
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* ''Music/ElvisCostello'''s "Tears at the Birthday Party", about attending an ex's birthday party, and seeing her with her new boyfriend.
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* ''WebAnimation/TheChampions2018'': [[ItMakesSenseInContext After opting to try Manchester City, then PSG's beds instead of sleeping in his Barcelona bed,]] Leo Messi receives a barrage of texts from the Barca Group Chat wondering where he is. One text shows a picture of Pedri crying while celebrating his 18th birthday ostensibly because Messi wasn't there, with the preceding text saying "Look what you did to Pedri".

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* ''WebAnimation/TheChampions2018'': ''WebAnimation/{{The Champions|2018}}'': [[ItMakesSenseInContext After opting to try Manchester City, then PSG's beds instead of sleeping in his Barcelona bed,]] Leo Messi receives a barrage of texts from the Barca Group Chat group chat wondering where he is. One text shows a picture of Pedri crying while celebrating his 18th birthday (pictured above) ostensibly because Messi wasn't there, with the preceding text saying "Look what you did to Pedri".
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* "Pity Party" by Music/MelanieMartinez, which interpolates Lesley Gore's "It's My Party," is about [[TheWoobie Cry Baby]] having a OnePersonBirthdayParty despite her best efforts to invite many guests. She doesn't take it well [[{{Understatement}} at all]].

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* "Pity Party" by Music/MelanieMartinez, Music/MelanieMartinez from ''Music/CryBaby'', which interpolates Lesley Gore's "It's My Party," is about [[TheWoobie Cry Baby]] having a OnePersonBirthdayParty despite her best efforts to invite many guests. She doesn't take it well [[{{Understatement}} at all]].

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* Lesley Gore's song "It's My Party ([[IsntItIronic and I'll cry if I want to]])" is about the singer getting dumped by her boyfriend Johnny for another girl in her birthday and Johnny arriving to the party with said other girl, driving the singer into a HeroicBSOD as she sees them enjoy themselves.
** A sequel song (appropriately-named "Judy's Turn to Cry") has the singer realize how silly it is for her to react that badly, kissing another boy at the party - [[GreenEyedEpiphany who Johnny promptly punches]], reuniting with her while dumping Judy.
* The Taylor Swift song "The Moment I Knew", is about the time her then-boyfriend didn't show up to her birthday party.
* Music/ElvisCostello's "Tears at the Birthday Party", about attending an ex's birthday party, and seeing her with her new boyfriend.
* "Pity Party" by Music/MelanieMartinez, which interpolates Lesley Gore's "It's My Party," is about [[TheWoobie Cry Baby]] having a OnePersonBirthdayParty despite her best efforts to invite many guests. She doesn't take it well [[{{Understatement}} at all]].
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* ''Music/LesleyGore'''s song "It's My Party ([[IsntItIronic and I'll cry if I want to]])" is about the singer getting dumped by her boyfriend Johnny for another girl in her birthday and Johnny arriving to the party with said other girl, driving the singer into a HeroicBSOD as she sees them enjoy themselves.
** A sequel song (appropriately-named "Judy's Turn to Cry") has the singer realize how silly it is for her to react that badly, kissing another boy at the party - [[GreenEyedEpiphany who Johnny promptly punches]], reuniting with her while dumping Judy.
* The ''Music/TaylorSwift'' song "The Moment I Knew", is about the time her then-boyfriend didn't show up to her birthday party.
* ''Music/ElvisCostello'''s "Tears at the Birthday Party", about attending an ex's birthday party, and seeing her with her new boyfriend.
* "Pity Party" by Music/MelanieMartinez, which interpolates Lesley Gore's "It's My Party," is about [[TheWoobie Cry Baby]] having a OnePersonBirthdayParty despite her best efforts to invite many guests. She doesn't take it well [[{{Understatement}} at all]].
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* In one book in ''Literature/TheBabySittersClub'', the Arnold twins get upset at their birthday party because the whole thing makes it clear that they're being seen as two halves of a set rather than as individuals. The only time they show any real happiness is when they open Mallory's presents, as she's the only one who bought something different for each twin instead of giving identical gifts.

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* Lesley Gore's song "It's My Party ([[IsntItIronic and I'll cry if I want to]])" is about the singer getting dumped by her boyfriend Johnny for another girl in her birthday and Johnny arriving to the party with said other girl, driving the singer into a HeroicBSOD as she sees them enjoy themselves.
** A sequel song (appropriately-named "Judy's Turn to Cry") has the singer realize how silly it is for her to react that badly, kissing another boy at the party - [[GreenEyedEpiphany who Johnny promptly punches]], reuniting with her while dumping Judy.
* The Taylor Swift song "The Moment I Knew", is about the time her then-boyfriend didn't show up to her birthday party.
* Music/ElvisCostello's "Tears at the Birthday Party", about attending an ex's birthday party, and seeing her with her new boyfriend.
* "Pity Party" by Music/MelanieMartinez, which interpolates Lesley Gore's "It's My Party," is about [[TheWoobie Cry Baby]] having a OnePersonBirthdayParty despite her best efforts to invite many guests. She doesn't take it well [[{{Understatement}} at all]].
--> I'll cry until the candles burn down this place
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* Lesley Gore's song "It's My Party ([[IsntItIronic and I'll cry if I want to]])" is about the singer getting dumped by her boyfriend Johnny for another girl in her birthday and Johnny arriving to the party with said other girl, driving the singer into a HeroicBSOD as she sees them enjoy themselves.
** A sequel song (appropriately-named "Judy's Turn to Cry") has the singer realize how silly it is for her to react that badly, kissing another boy at the party - [[GreenEyedMonster who Johnny promptly punches]], reuniting with her while dumping Judy.
* The Taylor Swift song "The Moment I Knew", is about the time her then-boyfriend didn't show up to her birthday party.
* Music/ElvisCostello's "Tears at the Birthday Party", about attending an ex's birthday party, and seeing her with her new boyfriend.
* "Pity Party" by Music/MelanieMartinez, which interpolates Lesley Gore's "It's My Party," is about [[TheWoobie Cry Baby]] having a OnePersonBirthdayParty despite her best efforts to invite many guests. She doesn't take it well [[{{Understatement}} at all]].
--> I'll cry until the candles burn down this place
--> I'll cry until my [[TitleDrop pity party]]'s in flames
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* Lesley Gore's song "It's My Party ([[IsntItIronic and I'll cry if I want to]])" is about the singer getting dumped by her boyfriend Johnny for another girl in her birthday and Johnny arriving to the party with said other girl, driving the singer into a HeroicBSOD as she sees them enjoy themselves.
** A sequel song (appropriately-named "Judy's Turn to Cry") has the singer realize how silly it is for her to react that badly, kissing another boy at the party - [[GreenEyedMonster who Johnny promptly punches]], reuniting with her while dumping Judy.
* The Taylor Swift song "The Moment I Knew", is about the time her then-boyfriend didn't show up to her birthday party.
* Music/ElvisCostello's "Tears at the Birthday Party", about attending an ex's birthday party, and seeing her with her new boyfriend.
* "Pity Party" by Music/MelanieMartinez, which interpolates Lesley Gore's "It's My Party," is about [[TheWoobie Cry Baby]] having a OnePersonBirthdayParty despite her best efforts to invite many guests. She doesn't take it well [[{{Understatement}} at all]].
--> I'll cry until the candles burn down this place
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* Lesley Gore's song "It's My Party ([[IsntItIronic and I'll cry if I want to]])" is about the singer getting dumped by her boyfriend Johnny for another girl in her birthday and Johnny arriving to the party with said other girl, driving the singer into a HeroicBSOD as she sees them enjoy themselves.
** A sequel song (appropriately-named "Judy's Turn to Cry") has the singer realize how silly it is for her to react that badly, kissing another boy at the party - [[GreenEyedMonster who Johnny promptly punches]], reuniting with her while dumping Judy.
* The Taylor Swift song "The Moment I Knew", is about the time her then-boyfriend didn't show up to her birthday party.
* Music/ElvisCostello's "Tears at the Birthday Party", about attending an ex's birthday party, and seeing her with her new boyfriend.
* "Pity Party" by Music/MelanieMartinez, which interpolates Lesley Gore's "It's My Party," is about [[TheWoobie Cry Baby]] having a OnePersonBirthdayParty despite her best efforts to invite many guests. She doesn't take it well [[{{Understatement}} at all]].
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-->''Judy and Johnny just walked through the door''
-->''Like a queen with her king''
-->''Oh, what a birthday surprise''
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* Lesley Gore's song "It's My Party ([[IsntItIronic and I'll cry if I want to]],)" is about the singer getting dumped by her boyfriend Johnny for another girl in her birthday and Johnny arriving to the party with said other girl, driving the singer into a HeroicBSOD as she sees them enjoy themselves.

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* Music/ElvisCostello's "Tears at the Birthday Party", about attending an ex's birthday party, and seeing her with her new boyfriend.
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-->''Judy and Johnny just walked through the door''
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-->''Oh, what a birthday surprise''
-->''Judy's wearing his ring''
-->''It's my party and I'll cry if I want to''
-->--'''Lesley Gore''': "It's My Party"

Why is Bob crying at his own birthday party? Shouldn't this be a happy occasion?

A character celebrating their birthday, for whatever reason bursts into tears during their party. Whatever the reason for the person of the hour, it's usually unexpected and takes people aback.

Can sometimes result from a OnePersonBirthdayParty, or because the [[BirthdayPartyGoesWrong party has gone badly wrong]]. Compare ABirthdayNotABreak. In rare instances it can be TearsOfJoy. Can occur during a BirthdayEpisode (of course) or an AgelessBirthdayEpisode.

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[[folder:Fan-Fiction]]
* ''Fanfic/JuniorOfficers'':
** In "Margaret's Story", during Margaret's birthday party, Humphrey says that he does not want Margaret to act like a "slut". Margaret proceeds to [[CallingTheOldManOut chew him out for his mistreatment of her]] and retreats to her room in BerserkerTears.
** A more positive example in "[[Recap/JuniorOfficersS1E12HappyBirthdayKitsune Happy Birthday, Kitsune]]". When Kitsune has received her gifts after her birthday dinner, she sheds a [[TearsOfJoy tear of joy]].
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[[folder:Films - Animation]]
* ''WesternAnimation/ShrekForeverAfter'': During the ogre triplets' first birthday party, the triplets start wailing after the Three Pigs confess that they ate all the cakes.
* In ''WesternAnimation/SleepingBeauty'', Aurora bursts into tears at what was supposed to be her surprise birthday party when she learns she is a princess and can never see her beloved again (she thinks).
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[[folder:Music]]
* Lesley Gore's song "It's My Party ([[IsntItIronic and I'll cry if I want to]],)" is about the singer getting dumped by her boyfriend Johnny for another girl in her birthday and Johnny arriving to the party with said other girl, driving the singer into a HeroicBSOD as she sees them enjoy themselves.
* The Taylor Swift song "The Moment I Knew", is about the time her then-boyfriend didn't show up to her birthday party.
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[[folder:Literature]]
*''Literature/TheBerenstainBears'': The cover art for the book "Too Much Birthday" shows Sister Bear crying as her guests celebrate. In the book, Sister Bear cries because [[BirthdayPartyGoesWrong her party went wrong]].
* The Singaporean novella anthology ''Literature/ClassicSingaporeHorrorStories'' have two such examples:
** 12-year-old Katherine from ''Stepchild'' is shown breaking into tears after her attempt at performing a musical number for her guests is hijacked by the titular stepchild, who began playing pop songs - improvised - on her piano instead. Things quickly goes out of hand until Katherine's eldest brother Augustine slams the piano shut, telling the stepchild to stop crashing his sister's birthday, but at that point the party is ruined.
** Exaggerated example with Emma from ''Skin Deep'', a SpoiledBrat, who is shown crying at her party... because she overheard a friend of hers, Sharon, saying her nose is too big.
* In Lia Geraskina's ''In the Land of Unlearned Lessons-3'', Vitya cries twice during his birthday. For the first time, when he thinks he has to give away his parrot (the parrot was entrusted to the family by a friend who went away, but as he was away for long, they grew to love the parrot and the parrot grew fond of them; the friend gallantly says the parrot in that case will be his birthday gift to Vitya). For the second time, after the party, Vitya blurts out he can hear his pets talking (when they think nobody hears them), and they sadly say they won't talk anymore if that's the case.
* In ''Literature/KarlssonOnTheRoof'', Lillebror's brother and sister give him a toy dog as a joke gift for his birthday, though they know how he longs for a real puppy, and Lillebror cries inconsolably. His parents decide to get him a real dog after all.
* ''Literature/MyBestFriendsExorcism'': Abby runs away and cries at her birthday party after she gets stood up by ''everyone'' for Margaret's horse riding excursion...and then Gretchen shows up and gifts her a Children's Bible. This is the final straw for Abby and makes her cry (in the bathroom), until Gretchen comes to her, and [[FireForgedFriends reassures Abby that she didn't want to go to Margaret's birthday party]], and [[AFriendInNeed she doesn't think Margaret is a nice person anyway.]]
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[[folder:Live-Action TV]]
* ''Series/AllInTheFamily'', A very infamous example: Edith narrowly escapes a rapist and runs next door where a surprise party is being held for her. While everyone is singing for her, Edith breaks down crying. Everyone seems to assume emotional Edith is [[TearsOfJoy happy crying]], but Archie knows that something is very wrong.
* ''Series/{{Awkward}}'': Played with. Jenna was revealed to have been sobbing on her bed during her surprise birthday party in the third season... because ''she herself'' ruined the party by wandering into the room while cheating on Matty with Collin.
*''Series/TheBigBangTheory'': In Amy Farrah Fowler's ImagineSpot of what her life would be like without Sheldon, she is having a OnePersonBirthdayParty where she sings to herself while crying into her cupcake... until Stuart interrupts by blowing a noisemaker in her face, to IRL Amy's annoyance.
-->'''Amy''': ''(singing sadly while fighting tears)'' Happy Birthday to me... Happy Birthday to me... There's tears in the frosting... Happy birthday to me.
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[[folder:Video Games]]
* The Crying Child of ''VideoGame/FiveNightsAtFreddys4'' is seen, well, [[ShapedLikeItself crying]] on the penultimate minigame, that takes place during his birthday.
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[[folder:Web Animation]]
*''WebAnimation/TheChampions2018'': [[ItMakesSenseInContext After opting to try Manchester City, then PSG's beds instead of sleeping in his Barcelona bed,]] Leo Messi receives a barrage of texts from the Barca Group Chat wondering where he is. One text shows a picture of Pedri crying while celebrating his 18th birthday ostensibly because Messi wasn't there, with the preceding text saying "Look what you did to Pedri".
* ''WebAnimation/HappyTreeFriends'': A rare [[TearsOfJoy happy]] example in "[[Recap/HTFPartyAnimal Party Animal]]". When the Tree Friends give Flippy a [[SurpriseParty surprise birthday party]], he smiles and sheds a SingleTear of gratitude.
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[[folder:Western Animation]]
* ''WesternAnimation/BobsBurgers'': In "House of 1000 Bounces", Regular-Sized Rudy breaks down [[InelegantBlubbering sobbing]] in [[BerserkerTears anger]] because Louise and the others had forced him to go along with stealing a bounce house for his birthday party when all he wanted was to perform a [[ItMakesSenseInContext spoon puppet show]].
* ''WesternAnimation/ChipAndPotato'': In "Chip's Birthday", Nico comes to Chip's birthday party and tearfully admits that Potato has disappeared, causing Chip to cry, too. Fortunately, Potato comes by just then.
*''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'': At Lois's birthday party in "Lois Comes Out of Her Shell", Peter gives a speech which boils down to him insulting her for getting old using unflattering metaphors. After the speech concludes, Lois bursts into tears and runs away from the party.
* ''WesternAnimation/TheLoudHouse'': Twice in "Strife of the Party", though the first time, it's downplayed. Lana is furious with Lola for ruining her party planning and [[TryingNotToCry tears up for a brief moment]] before cycling away on her bicycle. Lola then [[TearsOfRemorse weeps out of guilt]] as her [[YourMakeupIsRunning her makeup starts running]].
* ''WesternAnimation/MyGymPartnersAMonkey'': In "Supplies Party", it is mentioned that Adam once [[PottyFailure peed his pants]] at his sixth birthday party and cried about it. During this episode, he accidentally spills soda on his pants, [[GrossoutFakeout which Chad mistakes for him peeing his pants again]]. Adam then begins to bawl like a baby (complete with a baby wailing sound effect).
* ''WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic'': In "For Whom The Sweetie Belle Tolls", one of the reasons Sweetie Belle thinks Rarity is trying to humiliate her all the time is because of a ruined birthday party when she was a filly. Sweetie Belle spent a while making herself look beautiful, but when she came down to the party, she heard the others talking about how cool ''Rarity'' was. From her perspective, Rarity had intentionally stolen the attention. From ''Rarity's'' perspective, she was trying to stop the guests from leaving, and even tried to make them think Sweetie Belle was the one who prepared the whole party. Either way, it ended with Sweetie Belle running back to her room in tears.
* ''WesternAnimation/ThePowerpuffGirls2016'': In "Super Sweet 6", the Powerpuff Girls escape from a candle that was going towards the sun during Princess's birthday party. The indignant Princess tries to squirt them with a giant icing bottle, only for it to burst and cover her in icing. She then starts to wail.
* ''WesternAnimation/{{Rugrats}}'':
** In "Three Jacks and a Beanstalk" from the ''Tales from the Crib'' series, Giant Angelica [[OcularGushers wails enough to accumulate several puddles]] after the babies escape her castle. It's then revealed that today is her birthday and she has [[OnePersonBirthdayParty nobody else but Giant Harold to celebrate with]].
** In "[[Recap/RugratsS1E01TommysFirstBirthday Tommy's First Birthday]]", all Tommy wants to do is eat dog food after seeing a commercial for it on television, believing that eating dog food will turn him into a dog, so that he can do whatever Spike, his pet dog does. Tommy's every attempt to eat Spike's dog food is foiled by the adults, and at one point, it's time for him to open his presents. When Didi tells Tommy that he still has many more presents to open, Tommy cries, and Didi tries unsuccessfully to calm him down as she complains to Betty how the party has been a disaster thus far. Tommy stops crying when some caterers arrive at the door with the puppet stand that Didi rented for a puppet show she planned to put on.
** In "[[Recap/RugratsS3E13DestinationMoonAngelicasBirthday Angelica's Birthday]]", Angelica [[GrowingUpSucks wants to avoid the responsibilities that come with growing up]], so she [[GooGooGetup dresses and acts like a baby]], which of course, includes crying like one instead of talking like a big girl. When Drew sees this, he complains to Charlotte that whenever Angelica wants something, she just cries. Charlotte then tells Drew, "[[WaxingLyrical It's her party and she can cry if she wants to]]."
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