It's also noteworthy that (a) the OA never comments on the books being missing, though she's seen wearing the sweater that was on top of them so would certainly notice, and (b) the books are the same sort of half-assed debunking as the FBI "counsellor's" attempt to explain away the OA's prophetic dreams (sure, she might have intuited that she was in danger, but that wouldn't have told her the exact nature of the attack). Probably the plan was to have someone like the police find the books and publicize it, and French stumbling on them so he could take them direct to her followers was pure luck.
This also explains why HAP never gets caught, even though when taking Renate he leaves a trail like an elephant in a cornfield. (Not to mention all the fingerprints and DNA he left at the other researcher's lab.) Further guess: some VIP in search of immortality is funding HAP (he couldn't build a mad scientist's lab on a retired anaesthetist's pension,) so the FBI are stuck with covering up his blunderings.
Which in turn explains why the boys can't find evidence of OA's stories online, even though OA was able to find Homer's story online when she came back; someone has been cleaning up online as well.
The Oligarchs to remind her of her childhood in Russia. The book on angels (can't recall what that one was) to remind her of what she is. The Iliad because she wants something tangible to help her remember Homer.
They are mostly unread not only because she doesn't really have the time, but because that's not their purpose. She just needs to have them there, not necessarily read them cover to cover.
Maybe she doesn't realize they're gone even though she wore the sweater covering them because she just tugged the sweater out from under the bed without pulling the book box with it. We don't know how haphazardly French put the box back or if he did at all. Or maybe she thinks her parents are borrowing them. They were probably there when she got the books after all.
- Confirmed. More or less. In Season 2, Abel reveals that Elias recommended they buy those books for her. The books were meant to help Abel and Nancy accept her version of events.