WMG / Supergirl (1982)

Philip Decker was a super-villain

Kara falls for a man who is prone to unexplained absences, and she thinks unless he also wears a costume he has no excuse. Consider her dating story and put two and two together. With the exceptions of Dick Malverne and Brainiac 5, most of guys she falls for are assholes or villains. Philip didn't come across as an asshole, so the only option left is...

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