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Basic Trope: Parents who don't actively raise their own kids.

  • Straight: The Troper siblings — Alice, Bob, Chester, Dan, and Ethel — are a Five-Kid Band of Free-Range Children who frequently go on adventures in dangerous settings. Their parents, Jim and Kate, are too lazy and/or neglectful to care.
  • Exaggerated: Every Nuclear Family in Wackyville is like this, resulting in a veritable army of Kid Heroes.
  • Downplayed: The parents are somewhat irresponsible (e.g. "Kids, your dinner's in the fridge.") but it's not like they let their children risk their lives.
  • Justified:
    • The parents in question are hippies.
    • Jim is at work or on business trips all the time, while Kate is an artist (or vice versa).
    • They're both always at work.
    • They both had overbearing parents who micromanaged every aspect of their lives, and are overcompensating from such treatment.
  • Inverted: The parents care too much; Alice, Bob, Chester, Dan, and Ethel are supervised 24/7.
  • Subverted: The Team prepares to go on an adventure, but Kate asks, "Where do you think you're going?"
  • Double Subverted: Jim adds, "You forgot your snacks. Don't you want to bring all that delicious candy we bought you?"
  • Parodied: The Troper kids are perfectly well-adjusted not even though but because their parents give them less structure than usual.
  • Zig-Zagged:
    • Jim and Kate are alternately too tight and too loose, whether jointly or oppositely.
    • The parents supervise Alice and Bob more than the others because they're Delicate and Sickly and a troublemaker respectively. Dan and Ethel are the reliable ones and don't need as much supervision. As the middle child, Chester feels ignored.
  • Averted:
  • Enforced: "It's a kid's show, so it should be centered around kids. We should make them Free-Range Children with lazy parents."
  • Lampshaded: "Mr. and Mrs. Troper should be ashamed of themselves, letting their children wander around like that!"
  • Invoked: The Troper siblings always complain about how strict and absolute their parents can be. So their parents leave them neglected and unsupervised for a whole day to teach them a lesson in how their parents, even if they are strict sometimes, are a very important component in their lives.
  • Exploited: The villain goes after the kids who can't take them on without adult assistance.
  • Defied: Alice says, "Mom, Dad, I appreciate that you let us do whatever we want, but now it's time you start acting like real parents and take better care of us."
  • Discussed:
    Sarah: "Man, parents with a hands-off parenting attitude are too rare to find. Troper siblings are so lucky to have them."
    Martin: "Yeah. I wish my parents were like theirs."
  • Conversed: "Those children are Exploring the Evil Lair alone? They must have the worst parents ever!"
  • Deconstructed: As a result of having parents that neglected to teach responsibility, the children too have become irresponsible, and this shows later in life.
  • Reconstructed: Not being able to depend on their neglectful parents for anything means that the kid has to learn how to be mature and self-reliant. They also learn valuable lessons from these adventures that they wouldn't otherwise learn from their parents.
  • Implied: The kids drop whatever they're doing to have some adventure, and they just Hand Wave away concerns about their parents not knowing where they've gone.

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