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** Granma Alice and Grandpa Bob no longer feel the need for it.
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** Alice and Bob have sex quite a lot, but it's so rote and passionless that they're just as unsatisfied and emotionally distant as if they were having none.
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** Both Alice and Bob are {{asexual}}, but not aromantic; they prefer to engage into other kind of amorous interactions not related to intercourse.

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** Both Alice and Bob are {{asexual}}, asexual, but not aromantic; they prefer to engage into other kind of amorous interactions not related to intercourse.
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** Alice and Bob have hit the RelationshipCeiling, but don't believe in divorce.

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** Alice and Bob have hit the RelationshipCeiling, Bob's romance has stagnated, but don't believe in divorce.
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* '''Deconstructed''': Abstinence from sex can put a strain on the relationship, especially if it wasn't by mutual agreement. (And if it was, then one or both of them may not be up to the challenge.) It may also be a sign of personal or relationship problems, and may lead to [[YourCheatingHeart cheating]] or [[ToiletSeatDivorce divorce]].

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* '''Deconstructed''': Abstinence from sex can put a strain on the relationship, especially if it wasn't by mutual agreement. (And if it was, then one or both of them may not be up to the challenge.) It may also be a sign of personal or relationship problems, and may lead to [[YourCheatingHeart cheating]] cheating or [[ToiletSeatDivorce divorce]].
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** Alice or Bob has A.I.D.s or some deadly S.T.D. or S.T.I. and (s)he doesn't want to risk his/her partner's safety.

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** Alice or Bob has A.I.D.s S. or some deadly S.T.D. or S.T.I. and (s)he doesn't want to risk his/her partner's safety.
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* '''Exploited''': ???

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* '''Exploited''': ???Claire has long been in love with Bob, and she convinces Bob to have an affair with her because he doesn't feel satisfied with his marriage.
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** Alice and Bob are married for reasons completely unrelated to love, such as being in an ArrangedMarriage or one of them having married the other for the sake of [[CitizenshipMarriage getting a green card]].

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* '''Downplayed''': [[LieBackAndThinkOfEngland They only have sex for children]].

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* '''Downplayed''': Alice and Bob [[LieBackAndThinkOfEngland They only have sex for children]].children]], though they do share a bed.



** [[UndercoverAsLovers The marr]][[CitizenshipMarriage iage is]] [[TheBeard a sham]].


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** [[UndercoverAsLovers The marr]][[CitizenshipMarriage iage is]] [[TheBeard a sham]].

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* '''Exaggerated''': Alice and Bob never even had sex on the wedding night, and they sleep in separate bedrooms!

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* '''Exaggerated''': Alice and Bob never even had sex on the wedding night, rarely (if ever) hug or kiss, and they sleep ''sleep in separate bedrooms!bedrooms''.



* '''Inverted''': Alice and Bob are InsatiableNewlyweds... Or at least act like it.

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* '''Inverted''': '''Inverted''':
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Alice and Bob are InsatiableNewlyweds... Or at least InsatiableNewlyweds, or still act like it.it.
** Alice and Bob have had sex every night for 12 years, but have no plans to ever marry.



* '''Enforced''': Alice and Bob are in a series made during the days of UsefulNotes/TheHaysCode, where even a married couple having sex (or even sharing a bed) was considered scandalous by MoralGuardians everywhere.

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* '''Enforced''': '''Enforced''':
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Alice and Bob are in a series made during the days of UsefulNotes/TheHaysCode, where even a married couple having sex (or even sharing a bed) was considered scandalous by MoralGuardians everywhere.everywhere.
** The series is supposed to be family-friendly, so MoralGuardians could still object to a married couple sharing a bed.



* '''Deconstructed''': This can put a strain on the relationship, especially if it wasn't by mutual agreement. (And if it was, well, not everyone is up to the challenge.) It may also be a sign of personal or relationship problems, and may lead to [[YourCheatingHeart cheating]] or [[ToiletSeatDivorce divorce]].
* '''Reconstructed''': Alice and Bob are no longer in love, but still like each other as friends.

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* '''Deconstructed''': This Abstinence from sex can put a strain on the relationship, especially if it wasn't by mutual agreement. (And if it was, well, then one or both of them may not everyone is be up to the challenge.) It may also be a sign of personal or relationship problems, and may lead to [[YourCheatingHeart cheating]] or [[ToiletSeatDivorce divorce]].
* '''Reconstructed''': Alice and Bob are no longer in love, love but still like each other as friends.friends, so they stay together.



* '''Implied''': Alice and Bob sleep in separate beds, and act more like [[PlatonicLifePartners best friends]] than a typical married couple.
* '''Plotted A Good Waste''': Not applicable. (This trope is always intentional.)



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* '''Played For Laughs''': As a RunningGag, Alice asks Bob if it's time to finally push the beds together. Bob invariably replies, "Not tonight, honey."
* '''Played For Drama''': Alice leaves Bob [[ToiletSeatDivorce because he refuses to have sex]], and because they shared their bills, they both end up homeless.



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** Bob (or Alice) is serving in a war overseas and hasn't been home in a long time.



** Bob and Alice want to study what each other's sexual preferences and what makes good sex so good first to make their first time together is enjoyable.

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** Bob and Alice want to study what each other's sexual preferences and what makes good sex so good first first, to make sure their first time together is enjoyable.



* '''Subverted''': Alice and Bob have [[{{Polyamory}} an open marriage]]
* '''Double Subverted''': But haven't had sex with ''each other'' in a very long time.
* '''Parodied''': Alice and Bob, despite being a married couple, [[LanguageEqualsThought don't even know the ''meaning'' of the word "intercourse" nor any of its equivalents]].

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Alice and Bob have [[{{Polyamory}} an open marriage]]
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** Bob (or Alice) is serving in a war overseas and hasn't been home in a long time.
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But haven't had sex with ''each other'' in a very long time.
** They didn't have sex even when Bob or Alice was at home.
* '''Parodied''': Alice and Bob, despite being a married couple, [[LanguageEqualsThought don't even know the ''meaning'' meaning of the word "intercourse" nor any of its equivalents]].



* '''Lampshaded''': ???

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* '''Lampshaded''': ???"No, we don't sleep together just because we're married. We're more [[PlatonicLifePartners like best friends]]."



* '''Defied''': Alice and Bob agree that they will have sex at least once a week (if not more than that), no matter what.
* '''Discussed''': "I heard Alice and Bob aren't sleeping together anymore..."
* '''Conversed''': "I couldn't stay in a SexlessMarriage."

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* '''Defied''': '''Defied''':
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Alice and Bob agree that they will have sex at least once a week (if not more than that), no matter what.
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** Alice and Bob get help for their personal and marital issues (or medical ones). They have sex...and really enjoy it.
* '''Discussed''': "I heard Alice and Bob aren't sleeping together anymore...anymore. I couldn't stay in a marriage without sex."
* '''Conversed''': "I couldn't stay "Why do AliceAndBob still sleep in a SexlessMarriage.separate beds? They've been HappilyMarried for five years."



* '''Reconstructed''': Alice and Bob get help for their personal and marital issues (or medical ones). They have sex...and really enjoy it.

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* '''Reconstructed''': Alice and Bob get help for their personal and marital issues (or medical ones). They have sex...and really enjoy it.are no longer in love, but still like each other as friends.
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* '''Downplayed''': They only have sex for children.

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* '''Downplayed''': [[LieBackAndThinkOfEngland They only have sex for children.children]].
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* '''Enforced''': Alice and Bob are in a series made during the days of the HaysCode, where even a married couple having sex (or even sharing a bed) was considered scandalous by MoralGuardians everywhere.

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* '''Enforced''': Alice and Bob are in a series made during the days of the HaysCode, UsefulNotes/TheHaysCode, where even a married couple having sex (or even sharing a bed) was considered scandalous by MoralGuardians everywhere.
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** The marriage is [[TheBeard a sham]].

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** [[UndercoverAsLovers The marriage is marr]][[CitizenshipMarriage iage is]] [[TheBeard a sham]].
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** Bob and Alice have analyzed the very idea of sex, seeing it as bad from a logical standpoint (S.T.D.s, touching organs that pee & poo, vaginal pain if the penis is too big, etc.). So in-order to maintain the idea that they are more logical than everyone-else or just because they think it is the rational thing to do, they refrain from sex even if they really want to.
** Bob and Alice want to study what each other's sexual preferences and what makes good sex so sex so good first to make their first time together is enjoyable.

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** Bob and Alice have analyzed the very idea of sex, seeing it as bad from a logical standpoint (S.T.D.s, touching organs that pee & poo, vaginal pain if the penis is too big, etc.). So in-order to maintain the idea that they are more logical than everyone-else or simply just because they think it is the rational thing to do, rational, they decide to refrain from all sex even if they really want to.
** Bob and Alice want to study what each other's sexual preferences and what makes good sex so sex so good first to make their first time together is enjoyable.

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** Bob and Alice have analyzed the very idea of sex, seeing it as bad from a logical standpoint (STDs, touching organs that pee & poo, vaginal pain if the penis is too big, etc.). So in-order to maintain the idea that they are more logical than everyone-else or just because they think it is the rational thing to do, they refrain from sex even if they have urges.
** Bob and Alice want to study what each other's sexual preferences first to make their first time together is enjoyable.

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** Bob and Alice have analyzed the very idea of sex, seeing it as bad from a logical standpoint (STDs, (S.T.D.s, touching organs that pee & poo, vaginal pain if the penis is too big, etc.). So in-order to maintain the idea that they are more logical than everyone-else or just because they think it is the rational thing to do, they refrain from sex even if they have urges.
really want to.
** Bob and Alice want to study what each other's sexual preferences and what makes good sex so sex so good first to make their first time together is enjoyable.enjoyable.
** Alice or Bob has A.I.D.s or some deadly S.T.D. or S.T.I. and (s)he doesn't want to risk his/her partner's safety.

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** Both Alice and Bob are asexual, but not aromantic; they prefer to engage into other kind of amorous interactions not related to intercourse.

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** Both Alice and Bob are asexual, {{asexual}}, but not aromantic; they prefer to engage into other kind of amorous interactions not related to intercourse.


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** Bob and/or Alice aren't/isn't comfortable having sex because they've/(s)he's experienced sexual abuse and can't help but be reminded of that experience during sex. So they agree not to.
** Bob and Alice have analyzed the very idea of sex, seeing it as bad from a logical standpoint (STDs, touching organs that pee & poo, vaginal pain if the penis is too big, etc.). So in-order to maintain the idea that they are more logical than everyone-else or just because they think it is the rational thing to do, they refrain from sex even if they have urges.
** Bob and Alice want to study what each other's sexual preferences first to make their first time together is enjoyable.
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* '''Downplayed''': ???

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* '''Downplayed''': ???They only have sex for children.
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* '''Inverted''': Alice and Bob are InsatiableNewlyweds...or at least act like it.

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* '''Inverted''': Alice and Bob are InsatiableNewlyweds...or Or at least act like it.



* '''Parodied''': Alice and Bob, despite being a married couple, don't even know the ''meaning'' of the word "sex."

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* '''Parodied''': Alice and Bob, despite being a married couple, [[LanguageEqualsThought don't even know the ''meaning'' of the word "sex.""intercourse" nor any of its equivalents]].

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* '''Basic Trope''': A married couple doesn't [[SexTropes sleep together]].
* '''Played Straight''': AliceAndBob haven't had sex in several years.

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* '''Basic Trope''': A married couple doesn't [[SexTropes sleep together]].
* '''Played Straight''': '''Straight''': AliceAndBob haven't had sex in several years.



* '''Justified''': Alice and Bob have hit the RelationshipCeiling, but don't believe in divorce.

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Alice and Bob have hit the RelationshipCeiling, but don't believe in divorce.



** Both Alice and Bob are asexual, but not aromantic.

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** Both Alice and Bob are asexual, but not aromantic. aromantic; they prefer to engage into other kind of amorous interactions not related to intercourse.



* '''Deconstructed''': This can put a strain on the relationship, especially if it wasn't by mutual agreement. (And if it was, well, not everyone is up to the challenge.) It may also be a sign of personal or relationship problems, and may lead to [[YourCheatingHeart cheating]] or [[ToiletSeatDivorce divorce]].
* '''Reconstructed''': Alice and Bob get help for their personal and marital issues (or medical ones). They have sex...and really enjoy it.



* '''Lampshaded''': ???



* '''Exploited''': ???



* '''Played For Laughs''':
* '''Played For Drama''': Almost always is.

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* '''Deconstructed''': This can put a strain on the relationship, especially if it wasn't by mutual agreement. (And if it was, well, not everyone is up to the challenge.) It may also be a sign of personal or relationship problems, and may lead to [[YourCheatingHeart cheating]] or [[ToiletSeatDivorce divorce]].
* '''Reconstructed''': Alice and Bob get help for their personal and marital issues (or medical ones). They have sex...and really enjoy it.
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* '''Invoked''': Alice and Bob start fighting, and the whole marriage (including the sex) suffers for it.

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* '''Invoked''': Alice and Bob start fighting, and [[AwfulWeddedLife the whole marriage (including the sex) suffers for it.it]].

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** The marriage is [[TheBeard a sham]].

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** The marriage is [[TheBeard a sham]].sham]].
** Both Alice and Bob are asexual, but not aromantic.
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** Despite being married Alice and Bob have decided that they aren't ready to have sex yet.
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** The marriage is [[TheBeard a sham]].
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* '''Exaggerated''': Alice and Bob never even had sex on the wedding night!

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* '''Exaggerated''': Alice and Bob never even had sex on the wedding night!night, and they sleep in separate bedrooms!
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* '''Subverted''': Alice and Bob have [[{{Polyamoury}} an open marriage]]

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* '''Subverted''': Alice and Bob have [[{{Polyamoury}} [[{{Polyamory}} an open marriage]]

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