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Based off of the real experiences of mangaka Nagata Kabi, ''My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness'' provides candid insights of one woman's struggle with mental health, identity, and sexuality. Praised for recentering the YuriGenre, this manga was originally published on Pixiv and has since gotten an official English release.

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Based off of the real experiences of mangaka Nagata Kabi, ''My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness'' provides candid insights of one woman's struggle with mental health, identity, and sexuality. Praised for recentering the YuriGenre, this manga was originally published on Pixiv Website/{{Pixiv}} and has since gotten an official English release.



* AbusiveParents: {{Subverted|Trope}}. During Nagata's research, she discovers that the ways her psychological problems manifest and her reactions to them are widely shared by abuse victims. Also, while Yuka is exploring Nagata's body, she discovers that Nagata's hymen is gone, which would seem to be unusual for a virgin in her late 20s who doesn't participate in any kind of activity that might cause it to break. However, aside from her parents being focused on Nagata becoming the typical "salaried employee" model of Japanese citizen and not understanding her drives and motivations, no obvious abuse of any kind appears to have occurred.



* HowWeGotHere: The beginning of the manga shows Nagata about to have sex with the prostitute. The rest focuses on how her life choices and attitude led her to that decision before picking up where she left off.

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* HowWeGotHere: The beginning of the manga shows Nagata about to have sex with the prostitute.Yuka. The rest focuses on how her life choices and attitude led her to that decision before picking up where she left off.



** There's also the sex itself, which massively differed from what she was expecting; in reality, her mental state at the time made her dissociate, leaving her disappointed by her own response and upset at being "rude" to the escort. She hadn't realised that in reality, even casual sex often requires high levels of communication and vulnerability.

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** There's also the sex itself, which massively differed from what she was expecting; in expecting. In reality, her mental state at the time made her dissociate, leaving her disappointed by her own response and upset at being "rude" to the escort. She hadn't realised that in reality, even casual sex often requires high levels of communication and vulnerability.
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* ProfessionalSexEd: Erotic {{doujinshi}} were Nagata's only prior knowledge of all things intimate, and with the additional monkey wrench of them only being ''{{yaoi|Genre}}'' manga, which means it was idealized and unrealistic, and didn't teach her anything about women's bodies.

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* ProfessionalSexEd: Erotic {{doujinshi}} were Nagata's only prior knowledge of all things intimate, and with the additional monkey wrench of them only being ''{{yaoi|Genre}}'' manga, works, which means it the sex was idealized and unrealistic, and didn't teach her anything about women's bodies.



* SelfHarm: Nagata cuts herself to relief of the emotional pain she's dealing with, and has a bald spot due to nervous hair pulling.

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* SelfHarm: Nagata cuts herself to relief of relieve the emotional pain she's dealing with, and has a bald spot due to nervous hair pulling.


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* FirstKiss: One of ''many'' firsts.
* HookerWithAHeartOfGold: Yuka in particular is very friendly and accommodating to Nagata, as is the agency.

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* FirstKiss: One Nagata’s is with the first escort, and is one of ''many'' firsts.
firsts that night.
* HookerWithAHeartOfGold: HookerWithAHeartOfGold:
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Yuka in particular is very friendly and accommodating to Nagata, as is the agency.



* HowWeGotHere: The beginning of the manga shows Nagata about to have sex with the prostitute. The rest of the comic focuses on how her life choices and attitude led her to that decision before picking up where she left off.

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* HowWeGotHere: The beginning of the manga shows Nagata about to have sex with the prostitute. The rest of the comic focuses on how her life choices and attitude led her to that decision before picking up where she left off.



* ProfessionalSexEd: ''Erotic doujinshi'' were Nagata's only prior knowledge of all things intimate.
** And only manga from the YaoiGenre, which means it was idealized and unrealistic, and didn't teach her anything about women's bodies.
* RealityEnsues: Having sex with a woman is impactful, but it doesn't cure her depression, of course. Her experience as a cashier counts as well, idolizing jobs as a "home" of sorts, before being fired and fully realizing how she's expected to pull her weight, no matter what.

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* ProfessionalSexEd: ''Erotic doujinshi'' Erotic {{doujinshi}} were Nagata's only prior knowledge of all things intimate.
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intimate, and with the additional monkey wrench of them only manga from the YaoiGenre, being ''{{yaoi|Genre}}'' manga, which means it was idealized and unrealistic, and didn't teach her anything about women's bodies.
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Having sex with a woman is impactful, but it doesn't cure her depression, of course. Her experience as a cashier counts as well, idolizing jobs as a "home" of sorts, before being fired and fully realizing how she's expected to pull her weight, no matter what.



* SelfHarm: Nagata cuts herself to relief of the emotional pain she's dealing with.

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* SelfHarm: Nagata cuts herself to relief of the emotional pain she's dealing with.with, and has a bald spot due to nervous hair pulling.



* WellDoneDaughterGal: See ConflictingLoyalty above.

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* WellDoneDaughterGal: See ConflictingLoyalty above.Part of what Nagata struggles with is the aspect of her mind that wants to please her parents and meet their expectations for her life.
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** And only manga from YaoiGenre, which means it was idealized and unrealistic, and doesn't teach her anything about women body.

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** And only manga from the YaoiGenre, which means it was idealized and unrealistic, and doesn't didn't teach her anything about women body.women's bodies.
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Its sequel of sorts, ''My Solo Exchange Diary'', will be officially released in English on June 5, 2018.

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Its sequel of sorts, ''My Solo Exchange Diary'', will be officially was released in English on June 5, 2018.2018.


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* {{Yaoi}}: Nagata is shown to read Boys Love comics in some panels. She used it as a sort of basis for what she thought was supposed to happen during sex.

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* {{Yaoi}}: Nagata is shown to read Boys Boys' Love comics in some panels. She used it as a sort of basis for what she thought was supposed to happen during sex.
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** And only manga from YaoiGenre, which means it was idealized and unrealistic, and doesn't teach her anything about women body.

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** The second escort that she requests, as described in the bonus chapter. Nagata describes her as being "funny and nice", and she seems just as accommodating of Nagata as Yuka was.



* LessEmbarrassingTerm: In early pages, Nagata couldn't bear to mention sex by name. Early readers' comments on this were so prevalent that she not only replaced the euphemism but mentioned her terminology switch in the manga itself.

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* LessEmbarrassingTerm: In early pages, Nagata couldn't bear to mention sex by name. Early readers' comments on this were so prevalent that she not only replaced the euphemism but mentioned her terminology switch in the manga itself. The English translation approximates this euphemism to "thesex".



** There's also the sex itself, which massively differed from what she was expecting (she discusses later that, from start to finish, she was expecting it to be like a yaoi doujinshi); in reality, her mental state at the time made her dissociate, leaving her disappointed by her own response and upset at being "rude" to the escort.

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** There's also the sex itself, which massively differed from what she was expecting (she discusses later that, from start to finish, she was expecting it to be like a yaoi doujinshi); expecting; in reality, her mental state at the time made her dissociate, leaving her disappointed by her own response and upset at being "rude" to the escort.escort. She hadn't realised that in reality, even casual sex often requires high levels of communication and vulnerability.
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** There's also the sex itself, which massively differed from what she was expecting (she discusses later that, from start to finish, she was expecting it to be like a yaoi doujinshi); in reality, her mental state at the time made her dissociate, leaving her disappointed by her own response and upset at being "rude" to the escort.
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* LessEmbarrassingTerm: In early pages, Nagata couldn't bare to mention sex by name. Early readers' comments on this were so prevalent that she not only replaced the euphemism but mentioned her terminology switch in the manga itself.

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* LessEmbarrassingTerm: In early pages, Nagata couldn't bare bear to mention sex by name. Early readers' comments on this were so prevalent that she not only replaced the euphemism but mentioned her terminology switch in the manga itself.

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Based off of the real experiences of mangaka Nagata Kabi, ''My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness'' provides candid insights of one woman's struggle with mental health, identity, and sexuality. Praised for recentering the YuriGenre, this manga was originally published on Pixiv and has since gotten an official English release. Its sequel of sorts, ''Solo Exchange Diary'', has yet to get the same treatment.

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Based off of the real experiences of mangaka Nagata Kabi, ''My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness'' provides candid insights of one woman's struggle with mental health, identity, and sexuality. Praised for recentering the YuriGenre, this manga was originally published on Pixiv and has since gotten an official English release. release.

Its sequel of sorts, ''Solo ''My Solo Exchange Diary'', has yet to get the same treatment.will be officially released in English on June 5, 2018.

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* ActionBar: One of the many diagrams representing Nagata's thought processes looks like a simple RPG UI.



* ActionBar: One of the many diagrams representing Nagata's thought processes looks like a simple RPG UI.

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* HowWeGotHere: The beginning of the manga shows Nabi about to have sex with the prostitute. The rest of the comic focuses on how her life choices and attitude led her to that decision before picking up where she left off.

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* HowWeGotHere: The beginning of the manga shows Nabi Nagata about to have sex with the prostitute. The rest of the comic focuses on how her life choices and attitude led her to that decision before picking up where she left off.



* SelfHarm: Nagata cuts herself to relief of the emotional pain she's dealing with.



* {{Yaoi}}: Kabi is shown to read Boys Love comics in some panels. She used it as a sort of basis for what she thought was supposed to happen during sex.

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* {{Yaoi}}: Kabi Nagata is shown to read Boys Love comics in some panels. She used it as a sort of basis for what she thought was supposed to happen during sex.

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Based off of the real experiences of mangaka Nagata Kabi, ''My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness'' provides candid insights of one woman's struggle with mental health, identity, and sexuality. Praised for recentering the yuri genre, this manga was originally published on Pixiv and has since gotten an official English release. Its sequel of sorts, ''Solo Exchange Diary'', has yet to get the same treatment.

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Based off of the real experiences of mangaka Nagata Kabi, ''My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness'' provides candid insights of one woman's struggle with mental health, identity, and sexuality. Praised for recentering the yuri genre, YuriGenre, this manga was originally published on Pixiv and has since gotten an official English release. Its sequel of sorts, ''Solo Exchange Diary'', has yet to get the same treatment.



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* ConflictingLoyalty: Much of Nagata's personal turmoil is between wanting to make her parents proud versus allowing herself to be proud.

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* ConflictingLoyalty: Much of Nagata's personal turmoil is between [[WellDoneDaughterGal wanting to make her parents proud proud]] versus allowing herself to be proud.


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* WellDoneDaughterGal: See ConflictingLoyalty above.

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Based off of the real experiences of mangaka Nagata Kabi, ''My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness'' provides candid insights of one woman's struggle with mental health, identity, and sexuality. Praised for recentering the yuri genre, this manga was originally published on Pixiv and has since gotten an official English release. Its sequel of sorts, ''Solo Exchange Diary'' has yet to.

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Based off of the real experiences of mangaka Nagata Kabi, ''My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness'' provides candid insights of one woman's struggle with mental health, identity, and sexuality. Praised for recentering the yuri genre, this manga was originally published on Pixiv and has since gotten an official English release. Its sequel of sorts, ''Solo Exchange Diary'' Diary'', has yet to.to get the same treatment.


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* HowWeGotHere: The beginning of the manga shows Nabi about to have sex with the prostitute. The rest of the comic focuses on how her life choices and attitude led her to that decision before picking up where she left off.
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* {{Yaoi}}: Kabi is shown to read Boys Love comics in some panels. She used it as a sort of basis for what she thought was supposed to happen during sex.
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Based off of the real experiences of mangaka Nagata Kabi, ''My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness'' provides candid insights of one woman's struggle with mental health, identity, and sexuality. Praised for recentering the yuri genre, this manga was originally published on Pixiv and has since gotten an official English release. It's sequel of sorts, ''Solo Exchange Diary'' has yet to.

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Based off of the real experiences of mangaka Nagata Kabi, ''My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness'' provides candid insights of one woman's struggle with mental health, identity, and sexuality. Praised for recentering the yuri genre, this manga was originally published on Pixiv and has since gotten an official English release. It's Its sequel of sorts, ''Solo Exchange Diary'' has yet to.
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Based off of the real experiences of mangaka Nagata Kabi, ''My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness'' provides candid insights of one woman's struggle with mental health, identity, and sexuality. Praised for recentering the yuri genre, this manga was originally published on Pixiv and has since gotten an official english release. It's sequel of sorts, ''Solo Exchange Diary'' has yet to.

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Based off of the real experiences of mangaka Nagata Kabi, ''My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness'' provides candid insights of one woman's struggle with mental health, identity, and sexuality. Praised for recentering the yuri genre, this manga was originally published on Pixiv and has since gotten an official english English release. It's sequel of sorts, ''Solo Exchange Diary'' has yet to.



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* RealityEnsues: Having sex with a woman is impactful, but it doesn't cure her depression, of course.

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* RealityEnsues: Having sex with a woman is impactful, but it doesn't cure her depression, of course. Her experience as a cashier counts as well, idolizing jobs as a "home" of sorts, before being fired and fully realizing how she's expected to pull her weight, no matter what.
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* ReclusiveArtist: Guess who.



* WriteWhatYouKnow: As expected of an autobiographical work.

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* ConflictingLoyalty: Much of Nagata's personal turmoil is between wanting to make her parents proud versus making herself proud.

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* ActionBar: One of the many diagrams representing Nagata's thought processes looks like a simple RPG UI.
* ConflictingLoyalty: Much of Nagata's personal turmoil is between wanting to make her parents proud versus making allowing herself to be proud.



* TheDitherer: Shown thoroughly throughout.



* FirstKiss: One of ''many'' of firsts.
* HookerWithAHeartOfGold: Yuka is very friendly and accommodating to Nagata, as is the agency!

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* FirstKiss: One of ''many'' of firsts.
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* ProfessionalSexEd: ''Erotic doujinshi'' were Nagata's only prior knowledge of all things intimate.
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* FirstKiss: One of ''many'' of firsts.


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* LoveHotel: A somewhat dingy one, at that.


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* UnexpectedVirgin: Though that's the least of her problems.
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* HookerWithAHeartOfGold: Yuka is very friendly and accommodating to Nagata, as is the agency!



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* OffscreenMomentOfAwesome: Nagata achieving her dream of becoming a published mangaka is depicted off panel.
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Based off of the real experiences of mangaka Nagata Kabi, My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness provides candid insights of one woman's struggle with mental health, identity, and sexuality. Described as reinventing the yuri genre, this manga was originally published on Pixiv and has since gotten an official english release.

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Based off of the real experiences of mangaka Nagata Kabi, My ''My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness Loneliness'' provides candid insights of one woman's struggle with mental health, identity, and sexuality. Described as reinventing Praised for recentering the yuri genre, this manga was originally published on Pixiv and has since gotten an official english release.release. It's sequel of sorts, ''Solo Exchange Diary'' has yet to.



* ConflictingLoyalty: Much of Nagata's personal turmoil is between wanting to make her parents proud versus making herself proud.



* LessEmbarrassingTerm: In early pages, Nagata couldn't bare to mention sex by name. Early readers' comments on this were so prevalent that she not only replaced the euphemism but mentioned her terminology switch in the manga itself.

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* DullEyesOfUnhappiness: Nagata's eyes lose their highlights at a few particularly bad moments.
* LessEmbarrassingTerm: In early pages, Nagata couldn't bare to mention sex by name. Early readers' comments on this were so prevalent that she not only replaced the euphemism but mentioned her terminology switch in the manga itself. itself.
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* LessEmbarassingTerm: Nagata couldn't bare to mention sex by name, a common comment by her early readers.

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*LessEmbarassingTerm: Nagata couldn't bare to mention sex by name, a common comment by her early readers.

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