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** The ''[[Literature/TheBible Book of Timothy]]'' however condemns the sects who enforce this trope, especially those who forbids marriage.
--> "They forbid people to marry and order them to abstain from certain foods, which God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and who know the truth."
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* In ''Literature/TheGoblinEmperor'', Kiru Athmaza is a cleric of Csaivo and celibate, which makes Maia feel somewhat better about [[spoiler: accepting her as one of the four bodyguards who guard him even in his bedroom.]]
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* In Creator/UrsulaKLeGuin's ''Literature/EarthseaTrilogy'' wizards are required to be celibate. However, one entry in the novella collection ''Tales from Earthsea'' shows the origins of the WizardingSchool on the isle of Roke. The order didn't originally require celibacy and admitted female members, but early in the order's history an extremist faction took it over and added those rules.

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* In Creator/UrsulaKLeGuin's ''Literature/EarthseaTrilogy'' ''Literature/{{Earthsea}}'' series wizards are required to be celibate. However, one entry in the novella collection ''Tales from Earthsea'' shows the origins of the WizardingSchool on the isle of Roke. The order didn't originally require celibacy and admitted female members, but early in the order's history an extremist faction took it over and added those rules.
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* On an episode of ''WesternAnimation/KingOfTheHill'', all evidence points to Bobby being the reincarnation of a Buddhist Lama. He's pretty excited about it, until he hears that celibacy is a requirement, which means he'd have to break up with Connie. He purposely fails the second test so that he can continue to date her. [[spoiler:Except he still technically passed it, but the head monk was nice enough to let him go.]]
-->'''Bobby:''' [freaking out] But how do they make new Lamas if the Lamas can't-- [suddenly becomes sad] oh, wait... reincarnation...
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* One ''Series/BlueBloods'' episode has the Reagans' now-deceased minister be investigated as a candidate for canonization. Frank discovers that Father Bill had a secret romantic relationship with a woman for a number of years, but in deference to his Catholic vow of celibacy it was apparently never consummated. Frank compares this favorably to a saint who was a party to what would nowadays be considered genocide, and concludes that "the church could do a lot worse than Saint Bill from Brooklyn."

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* One ''Series/BlueBloods'' episode has the Reagans' now-deceased minister be investigated as a candidate for canonization. Frank discovers that Father Bill had a secret romantic relationship with a woman for a number of years, but in deference to his Catholic vow of celibacy it was apparently never consummated. Frank compares this (and Father Bill protecting conscientious objectors during the UsefulNotes/VietnamWar) favorably to a saint who was a party to what would nowadays be considered genocide, and concludes that "the church could do a lot worse than Saint Bill from Brooklyn."


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* ''Series/{{Firefly}}'': "[[Recap/FireflyE14ObjectsInSpace Objects in Space]]" indicates that Shepherd Book's religious order is expected to be celibate, though we only hear about half the conversation since the scene is mostly told from [[ThroughTheEyesOfMadness River's rather warped perspective]]. We do hear Jayne wonder if Book is a eunuch, but Book says "I'm more or less intact; I just direct my energies elsewhere."
-->'''Jayne:''' What, like masturbating?
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** A random event that may trigger if you were in love with a deceased spouse allows you to [[TheLostLenore forever swear off sex in their memory]], granting the trait "Celibate". Alternatively you can go out partying and try to forget her, giving the trait "Lustful".

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** A random event that may trigger if you were in love with a deceased spouse allows you to [[TheLostLenore [[TheMourningAfter forever swear off sex in their memory]], granting the trait "Celibate". Alternatively you can go out partying and try to forget her, giving the trait "Lustful".

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* In ''VideoGame/CrusaderKings II'', Roman Catholic bishops (including cardinals and the Pope) are supposed to be celibate, though Catholic court chaplains are not. It is possible to appoint a married man to a bishopric, in which case he'll divorce his wife. Appointing a character to a bishopric or ordering them to take the vows also disqualifies them from succession, though not from being claimants to a title. Of course, just because they've ''taken'' the vows doesn't mean the character will necessarily ''abide by them'': with the Seduction focus from the ''Way of Life'' DLC, it's not unheard-of for Catholic clergy up to and including the Pope to end up with mistresses and bastard children. (It is not possible to play as a Catholic religious ruler without mods due to the object of the game being to continue your ''dynasty'' rather than any particular ''title''.) Orthodox clergy get a lesser version of this: they're not allowed to marry, but they can freely ''stay'' married if they were before their ordination.

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Roman Catholic bishops (including cardinals and the Pope) are supposed to be celibate, though Catholic court chaplains are not. It is possible to appoint a married man to a bishopric, in which case he'll divorce his wife. Appointing a character to a bishopric or ordering them to take the vows also disqualifies them from succession, though not from being claimants to a title. Of course, just because they've ''taken'' the vows doesn't mean the character will necessarily ''abide by them'': with the Seduction focus from the ''Way of Life'' DLC, it's not unheard-of for Catholic clergy up to and including the Pope to end up with mistresses and bastard children. (It is not possible to play as a Catholic religious ruler without mods due to the object of the game being to continue your ''dynasty'' rather than any particular ''title''.) Orthodox clergy get a lesser version of this: they're not allowed to marry, but they can freely ''stay'' married if they were before their ordination.ordination.
** A random event that may trigger if you were in love with a deceased spouse allows you to [[TheLostLenore forever swear off sex in their memory]], granting the trait "Celibate". Alternatively you can go out partying and try to forget her, giving the trait "Lustful".
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* In ''VideoGame/CrusaderKings II'', Roman Catholic bishops (including cardinals and the Pope) are supposed to be celibate, though Catholic court chaplains are not. It is possible to appoint a married man to a bishopric, in which case he'll divorce his wife. (It's not possible to play as a Catholic religious ruler without mods, due to the object of the game being to ensure the continuance of your ''genetic'' dynasty.) If playing as a Catholic ruler, you can also order courtiers to take the vows, which disqualifies them from succession. Of course, just because they've ''taken'' the vows doesn't mean the character will necessarily ''abide by them'': with the Seduction focus from the ''Way of Life'' DLC, it's not unheard-of for Catholic clergy up to and including the Pope to end up with mistresses and bastard children.

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* In ''VideoGame/CrusaderKings II'', Roman Catholic bishops (including cardinals and the Pope) are supposed to be celibate, though Catholic court chaplains are not. It is possible to appoint a married man to a bishopric, in which case he'll divorce his wife. (It's not possible Appointing a character to play as a Catholic religious ruler without mods, due to the object of the game being to ensure the continuance of your ''genetic'' dynasty.) If playing as a Catholic ruler, you can also order courtiers bishopric or ordering them to take the vows, which vows also disqualifies them from succession.succession, though not from being claimants to a title. Of course, just because they've ''taken'' the vows doesn't mean the character will necessarily ''abide by them'': with the Seduction focus from the ''Way of Life'' DLC, it's not unheard-of for Catholic clergy up to and including the Pope to end up with mistresses and bastard children. (It is not possible to play as a Catholic religious ruler without mods due to the object of the game being to continue your ''dynasty'' rather than any particular ''title''.) Orthodox clergy get a lesser version of this: they're not allowed to marry, but they can freely ''stay'' married if they were before their ordination.
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* In ''VideoGame/CrusaderKings II'', Roman Catholic bishops (including cardinals and the Pope) are supposed to be celibate, though court chaplains are not. It is possible to appoint a married man to a bishopric, in which case he'll divorce his wife. (It's not possible to play as a Catholic religious ruler without mods, due to the object of the game being to ensure the continuance of your ''genetic'' dynasty.) If playing as a Catholic ruler, you can also order courtiers to take the vows, which disqualifies them from succession.

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* In ''VideoGame/CrusaderKings II'', Roman Catholic bishops (including cardinals and the Pope) are supposed to be celibate, though Catholic court chaplains are not. It is possible to appoint a married man to a bishopric, in which case he'll divorce his wife. (It's not possible to play as a Catholic religious ruler without mods, due to the object of the game being to ensure the continuance of your ''genetic'' dynasty.) If playing as a Catholic ruler, you can also order courtiers to take the vows, which disqualifies them from succession. Of course, just because they've ''taken'' the vows doesn't mean the character will necessarily ''abide by them'': with the Seduction focus from the ''Way of Life'' DLC, it's not unheard-of for Catholic clergy up to and including the Pope to end up with mistresses and bastard children.
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* The ''Literature/KushielsLegacy'' series has the Cassiline Brotherhood, a group of elite {{Warrior Monk}}s whose vows include celibacy. This follows the example of the archangel Cassiel, who unlike the other angels that followed the d'Angelines' precursor Elua, did not lie with mortals. Joscelin, Phedre's bodyguard, breaks this rule with her, and is outcast.

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* The ''Literature/KushielsLegacy'' series has the Cassiline Brotherhood, a group an order of elite {{Warrior Monk}}s whose vows include celibacy. This follows the example of the archangel Cassiel, who unlike the other angels that followed the d'Angelines' precursor Elua, did not lie with mortals. Joscelin, Phedre's first bodyguard was in training for the order but was disqualified for sleeping with a farmgirl, while her second bodyguard, breaks this rule Joscelin, eventually [[BodyguardCrush falls in love with her, her]] and is outcast.declared anathema by the head of the order.
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* In ''VideoGame/CrusaderKings II'', Roman Catholic bishops (including cardinals and the Pope) are supposed to be celibate, though court chaplains are not. It is possible to appoint a married man to a bishopric, in which case he'll divorce his wife. (It's not possible to play as a Catholic religious ruler without mods, due to the object of the game being to ensure the continuance of your ''genetic'' dynasty.)

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* In ''VideoGame/CrusaderKings II'', Roman Catholic bishops (including cardinals and the Pope) are supposed to be celibate, though court chaplains are not. It is possible to appoint a married man to a bishopric, in which case he'll divorce his wife. (It's not possible to play as a Catholic religious ruler without mods, due to the object of the game being to ensure the continuance of your ''genetic'' dynasty.)) If playing as a Catholic ruler, you can also order courtiers to take the vows, which disqualifies them from succession.

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Questions about exactly what counts as a breach of celibacy may arise -- in these cases, there are often parallels with TechnicalVirgin. In some settings, celibacy will have a practical purpose, such as to preserve VirginPower. Being LockedAwayInAMonastery can be an attempt to enforce vows of celibacy for political purposes. When rules like this are applied to the whole of society, it's NoSexAllowed.

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Questions about exactly what counts as a breach of celibacy may arise -- in these cases, there are often parallels with TechnicalVirgin. In some settings, celibacy will have a practical purpose, such as to preserve VirginPower. Being LockedAwayInAMonastery can be an attempt to enforce vows of celibacy for political purposes. When rules like this are applied to the whole of society, it's NoSexAllowed.
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Compare CantHaveSexEver, where sex is prevented by something more tangible and hazardous than just obligations.

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When rules like this are applied to the whole of society, it's NoSexAllowed. See also InappropriatelyCloseComrades, where the job-based sex ban applies only to people who share that job, not the wider world. Compare CantHaveSexEver, where sex is prevented by something more tangible and hazardous than just obligations.
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* In ''VideoGame/CrusaderKings II'', Roman Catholic bishops (including cardinals and the Pope) are supposed to be celibate, though court chaplains are not. It is possible to appoint a married man to a bishopric, in which case he'll divorce his wife. (It's not possible to play as a Catholic religious ruler without mods, due to the object of the game being to ensure the continuance of your ''genetic'' dynasty.)
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Some organizations require that their members refrain from having sexual or marital relations. It's particularly common in religious groups - some churches bar their priests from such things, and most monastic traditions forbid them as well. Typically, these restrictions will take the form of a vow of celibacy (although simply making celibacy a rule, without anyone swearing anything, has basically the same effect).

(A note on terminology: People can mean different things by the word "celibacy" - sometimes it means not having sex, but it can also mean not being married. The fuzziness of definition may be due to the fact that traditionally, a ban on marriage equated to a ban on sex automatically, since extramarital sex was forbidden. In fictional examples, however, this may not be so.)

An obligation of celibacy can be used in stories for a number of purposes. Sometimes, it adds a complication to a love story - two characters may be [[UnresolvedSexualTension attracted to each other]], yet prevented from pursuing it by such a rule. It can be a cause of inner turmoil when characters are torn between their feelings and their vows, especially if the very fact that they have sexual feelings [[SexIsEvilAndIAmHorny is something they feel ashamed of]]. If a character is supposed to be subject to rules of celibacy but has a chance to break them, whether they do or not can be used for the purposes of characterisation - it's typically portrayed negatively if they do, such as to help establish a character as a SinisterMinister, although tropes like DirtyOldMonk and NaughtyNuns can be played for laughs or used as a humanising element as well. Whether celibacy requirements themselves are portrayed as positive, negative, or a mixture will depend on the writer.

Questions about exactly what counts as a breach of celibacy may arise - in these cases, there are often parallels with TechnicalVirgin. In some settings, celibacy will have a practical purpose, such as to preserve VirginPower. Being LockedAwayInAMonastery can be an attempt to enforce vows of celibacy for political purposes. When rules like this are applied to the whole of society, it's NoSexAllowed.

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Some organizations require that their members refrain from having sexual or marital relations. It's particularly common in religious groups - -- some churches bar their priests from such things, and most monastic traditions forbid them as well. Typically, these restrictions will take the form of a vow of celibacy (although simply making celibacy a rule, without anyone swearing anything, has basically the same effect).

(A note on terminology: People can mean different things by the word "celibacy" - -- sometimes it means not having sex, but it can also mean not being married. The fuzziness of definition may be due to the fact that traditionally, a ban on marriage equated to a ban on sex automatically, since extramarital sex was forbidden. In fictional examples, however, this may not be so.)

An obligation of celibacy can be used in stories for a number of purposes. Sometimes, it adds a complication to a love story - -- two characters may be [[UnresolvedSexualTension attracted to each other]], yet prevented from pursuing it by such a rule. It can be a cause of inner turmoil when characters are torn between their feelings and their vows, especially if the very fact that they have sexual feelings [[SexIsEvilAndIAmHorny is something they feel ashamed of]]. If a character is supposed to be subject to rules of celibacy but has a chance to break them, whether they do or not can be used for the purposes of characterisation - -- it's typically portrayed negatively if they do, such as to help establish a character as a SinisterMinister, although tropes like DirtyOldMonk and NaughtyNuns can be played for laughs or used as a humanising element as well. Whether celibacy requirements themselves are portrayed as positive, negative, or a mixture will depend on the writer.

Questions about exactly what counts as a breach of celibacy may arise - -- in these cases, there are often parallels with TechnicalVirgin. In some settings, celibacy will have a practical purpose, such as to preserve VirginPower. Being LockedAwayInAMonastery can be an attempt to enforce vows of celibacy for political purposes. When rules like this are applied to the whole of society, it's NoSexAllowed.



* Claude Frollo, the main antagonist of ''Literature/TheHunchbackOfNotreDame'', is torn between the pious celibacy he is supposed to maintain as an archdeacon and his lust for the gypsy Esmerelda, becoming [[LoveMakesYouEvil increasingly unstable]] as he fails to reconcile the two. (Not all adaptations maintain Frollo's status as an ordained priest, though - in [[Disney/TheHunchbackofNotreDame the Disney one]], he's a judge, and therefore bound only by his own hangups rather than by a priestly vow.)

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* Claude Frollo, the main antagonist of ''Literature/TheHunchbackOfNotreDame'', is torn between the pious celibacy he is supposed to maintain as an archdeacon and his lust for the gypsy Esmerelda, becoming [[LoveMakesYouEvil increasingly unstable]] as he fails to reconcile the two. (Not all adaptations maintain Frollo's status as an ordained priest, though - -- in [[Disney/TheHunchbackofNotreDame the Disney one]], he's a judge, and therefore bound only by his own hangups rather than by a priestly vow.)



* In the ''Literature/WarriorCats'' series, medicine cats (the healers/spiritual leaders of their Clan) - are not allowed to take a mate. It is also often said that female deputies and leaders cannot have kits, but for them it's more of a guideline, as compared to the medicine cats, where it's a very strict rule.

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* In the ''Literature/WarriorCats'' series, medicine cats (the healers/spiritual leaders of their Clan) - -- are not allowed to take a mate. It is also often said that female deputies and leaders cannot have kits, but for them it's more of a guideline, as compared to the medicine cats, where it's a very strict rule.



* In ''Franchise/MassEffect'', the Asari race have a group called the Ardat-Yakshi who are compelled to live in celibate isolation in monasteries. For Asari, sex involves a connection between nervous systems, but the Ardat-Yakshi have a genetic condition which causes this connection to be dangerous and possibly fatal for the other partner - to protect people from this, Ardat-Yakshi are subjected to monastic celibacy whether they like it or not.

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* In ''Franchise/MassEffect'', the Asari race have a group called the Ardat-Yakshi who are compelled to live in celibate isolation in monasteries. For Asari, sex involves a connection between nervous systems, but the Ardat-Yakshi have a genetic condition which causes this connection to be dangerous and possibly fatal for the other partner - -- to protect people from this, Ardat-Yakshi are subjected to monastic celibacy whether they like it or not.



* Some Christian religious denominations require that their priests be celibate. The most well known of these is probably the Roman Catholic Church. However, other denominations, including most Protestant groups, have no such requirement and their pastors are free to marry. Some denominations take an intermediate approach - Eastern Orthodoxy, for example, generally requires bishops to be celibate, but allows ordinary priests to be married provided the marriage predates their ordination.

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* Some Christian religious denominations require that their priests be celibate. The most well known of these is probably the Roman Catholic Church. However, other denominations, including most Protestant groups, have no such requirement and their pastors are free to marry. Some denominations take an intermediate approach - -- Eastern Orthodoxy, for example, generally requires bishops to be celibate, but allows ordinary priests to be married provided the marriage predates their ordination.
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* Some Christian religious denominations require that their priests be celibate. The most well known of these is probably the Roman Catholic Church. Other denominations, however, have no such requirement - Anglicans, for example, are free to marry. Some denominations take an intermediate approach - Eastern Orthodoxy, for example, generally requires bishops to be celibate, but allows ordinary priests to be married provided the marriage predates their ordination.

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* Some Christian religious denominations require that their priests be celibate. The most well known of these is probably the Roman Catholic Church. Other However, other denominations, however, including most Protestant groups, have no such requirement - Anglicans, for example, and their pastors are free to marry. Some denominations take an intermediate approach - Eastern Orthodoxy, for example, generally requires bishops to be celibate, but allows ordinary priests to be married provided the marriage predates their ordination.
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* In ''[[Film/{{Priest1994}} Priest]]'' (1994), a new Catholic priest starts to question his faith after embarking on a sexual relationship despite his vows. (He's also gay, which makes it even more forbidden.)
* In a another film called ''Film/{{Priest}}'', the titular priests (who are more like warriors than priests as commonly understood, but are still associated with the Church) are required to be celibate. The main character left his lover and newborn daughter behind when he joined.

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* In ''[[Film/{{Priest1994}} Priest]]'' (1994), ''Film/{{Priest 1994}}'', a new Catholic priest starts to question his faith after embarking on a sexual relationship despite his vows. (He's also gay, which makes it even more forbidden.)
* In a another film called ''Film/{{Priest}}'', ''Film/{{Priest 2011}}'', the titular priests (who are more like warriors than priests as commonly understood, but are still associated with the Church) are required to be celibate. The main character left his lover and newborn daughter behind when he joined.
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* In ''Webcomic/{{RetroBlade}}'', Guardians are sworn to celibacy, for various reasons; the main reason being that [[http://retrobladecomic.com/webcomic/page-09 their powers can be passed on.]]
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* Ancient Rome had the Vestal Virgins, who were punished very severely for any loss of their main qualification.

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* Averted in the ''ComicBook/TalesOfTheJedi'' comic book series, which explicitly states that the Jedi Order's ban on romantic relationships came into effect later than the comics' timeframe (3996 BBY, roughly 4,000 years before the films).
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* Works which form part of the ''Franchise/StarWarsExpandedUniverse'' sometimes deal with Jedi rules about relationships in more detail. [[DependingOnTheWriter Different writers seem to have taken different approaches]] (some of them pre-''[[Film/ThePhantomMenace Phantom Menace]]'' {{backstory}} decisions that ended up getting {{Jossed}} by the prequel trilogy, with associated {{retcon}}s to make them fit), with the result that whatever rules the Jedi are said to have had, they must have changed over time or had lots of exceptions. Some characters seem to be married without repercussion, while others are told it isn't allowed. Specific examples:

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* Works which form part of the ''Franchise/StarWarsExpandedUniverse'' ''Franchise/StarWarsLegends'' sometimes deal with Jedi rules about relationships in more detail. [[DependingOnTheWriter Different writers seem to have taken different approaches]] (some of them pre-''[[Film/ThePhantomMenace Phantom Menace]]'' {{backstory}} decisions that ended up getting {{Jossed}} by the prequel trilogy, with associated {{retcon}}s to make them fit), with the result that whatever rules the Jedi are said to have had, they must have changed over time or had lots of exceptions. Some characters seem to be married without repercussion, while others are told it isn't allowed. Specific examples:

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* In {{Dragonvarld}}, the Sisterhood has a selective form. Generally speaking, its members aren't supposed to have relationships with men, but exceptions are made for a [[BabyFactory breeding program]], and they're all quite able to have relationships with women. Melisande, the high priestess, and Bellona, the captain of the [[AmazonBrigade all-female guard]], are lovers. When it appears that [[spoiler:Melisande has run off with a man (actually having been rescued by him from a non-evident threat)]], it's a big scandal.

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* In {{Dragonvarld}}, ''Literature/{{Dragonvarld}}'', the Sisterhood has a selective form. Generally speaking, its members aren't supposed to have relationships with men, but exceptions are made for a [[BabyFactory breeding program]], and they're all quite able to have relationships with women. Melisande, the high priestess, and Bellona, the captain of the [[AmazonBrigade all-female guard]], are lovers. When it appears that [[spoiler:Melisande has run off with a man (actually having been rescued by him from a non-evident threat)]], it's a big scandal.
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* In {{Dragonvarld}}, the Sisterhood has a selective form. Generally speaking, its members aren't supposed to have relationships with men, but exceptions are made for a [[BabyFactory breeding program]], and they're all quite able to have relationships with women. Melisande, the high priestess, and Bellona, the captain of the [[AmazonBrigade all-female guard]], are lovers. When it appears that [[spoiler:Melisande has run off with a man (actually having been rescued by him from a non-evident threat)]], it's a big scandal.
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* In ''Literature/TheInitiateBrother'', Brother Shuyun is supposed to be celibate, which gets in the way of his developing relationship with Nishima. However, both Shuyun and Nishima are aware of older versions of Shuyun's religion which accepted or even encouraged a sexual dimension to religious life, on the grounds that those seeking enlightenment should understand the ''whole'' world, including sex and love. Shuyun eventually decides that they were right.
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* In the first book of ''Literature/TheElenium'' it notes that the Pandion Knights had originally taken an oath to never marry (and by implication never have sex). However, due to a shortage of Pandions and applicants for knighthood they were allowed by the church to take back their vows so they could marry and have children.

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* In the first book of ''Literature/TheElenium'' it notes that the Pandion Knights had originally taken an oath to never marry (and by implication never have sex). However, due to a shortage of Pandions and applicants for knighthood they were allowed by the church to take back their vows so they could marry and have children. That it was originally enforced probably has to do with that Elene priests take an oath of celibacy, and Church Knights (including the Pandions) are ''technically'' part of the priesthood.
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* One ''Series/BlueBloods'' episode has the Reagans' now-deceased minister be investigated as a candidate for canonization. Frank discovers that Father Bill had a secret romantic relationship with a woman for a number of years, but in deference to his Catholic vow of celibacy it was apparently never consummated.

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* One ''Series/BlueBloods'' episode has the Reagans' now-deceased minister be investigated as a candidate for canonization. Frank discovers that Father Bill had a secret romantic relationship with a woman for a number of years, but in deference to his Catholic vow of celibacy it was apparently never consummated. Frank compares this favorably to a saint who was a party to what would nowadays be considered genocide, and concludes that "the church could do a lot worse than Saint Bill from Brooklyn."



* ''Webcomic/SchlockMercenary'': Company chaplain Rev. Theo Fobius [[http://www.schlockmercenary.com/2001-02-22 has a vow of chastity]] and tries to draw a distinction from a vow of celibacy. But after spending 18 hours TrappedInAnElevator with the [[BuxomIsBetter very well-endowed]], former exotic dancer chief medical officer Edward Bunnigus, he realizes that for all practical purposes they're the same thing.

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* ''Webcomic/SchlockMercenary'': Company chaplain Rev. Theo Fobius [[http://www.schlockmercenary.com/2001-02-22 has a vow of chastity]] and tries to draw a distinction from a vow of celibacy. But after spending 18 hours TrappedInAnElevator with the [[BuxomIsBetter very well-endowed]], former exotic dancer chief medical officer Edward Bunnigus, he realizes that for all practical purposes they're the same thing. [[spoiler:They become a couple soon after.]]
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->'''Rev. Theo Fobius:''' My order doesn't do celibacy. We take an oath of chastity.\\
'''Schlock:''' What's the difference?\\
'''Reverend:''' When you are alone in an elevator with a beautiful woman you barely know... ''(sigh)'' There isn't a difference.\\
'''Schlock:''' You religious people have too many words for "responsible behavior".
-->-- ''Webcomic/SchlockMercenary'', [[http://www.schlockmercenary.com/2001-02-22 February 22, 2001]]


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* ''Webcomic/SchlockMercenary'': Company chaplain Rev. Theo Fobius [[http://www.schlockmercenary.com/2001-02-22 has a vow of chastity]] and tries to draw a distinction from a vow of celibacy. But after spending 18 hours TrappedInAnElevator with the [[BuxomIsBetter very well-endowed]], former exotic dancer chief medical officer Edward Bunnigus, he realizes that for all practical purposes they're the same thing.
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* In the ''Literature/WarriorCats'' series, medicine cats (the healers/spiritual leaders of their Clan) - are not allowed to take a mate. It is also often said that female deputies and leaders cannot have kits, but for them it's more of a guideline, as compared to the medicine cats, where it's a very strict rule.
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* Even where celibacy isn't required for priests, it is generally considered fairly fundamental to the concept of monasticism, both in the West and in the East.

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* Even where celibacy isn't required for priests, it is generally considered fairly fundamental to the concept of monasticism, both in the West and in the East.East, as one component of a generally ascetic, self-denying lifestyle.
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* One episode of ''Series/DeathInParadise'' has the team investigate the murder of a nun at the convent on Saint Marie. At TheReveal it turned out the motive had to do with Catholic vows of chastity: [[spoiler:The priest attached to the convent had previously broken his vow and fathered a daughter, who then came to the convent looking for him and joined to get close to him. The mother superior, who was in love with the priest and was trying to keep him from breaking his vow again, misinterpreted their affection and killed the daughter.]]
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* In ''Film/StarTrekTheMotionPicture'', we learn Lt. Ilia has an "Oath of Celibacy", we she randomly informs Admiral Kirk of when she arrives on the Enterprise's bridge. The story behind this is expanded upon in the {{Novelization}}: Deltans (Ilia's race) are highly sexual and view humans as immature when it comes to sex, and more to the point having sex with a non-Deltan can potentially kill their partner (because it involves a blending of minds as well as bodies). Deltans are compelled to take a vow of celibacy in order to join Starfleet.

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* In ''Film/StarTrekTheMotionPicture'', we learn Lt. Ilia has an "Oath of Celibacy", we as she randomly informs Admiral Kirk of when she arrives on the Enterprise's bridge. The story behind this is expanded upon in the {{Novelization}}: Deltans (Ilia's race) are highly sexual and view humans as immature when it comes to sex, and more to the point having sex with a non-Deltan can potentially kill their partner (because it involves a blending of minds as well as bodies). Deltans are compelled to take a vow of celibacy in order to join Starfleet.
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Some organizations require that their members refrain from having sexual or marital relations. It's particularly common in religious groups - some churches bar their priests from such things, and most monastic traditions forbid them as well. Typically, these restrictions will take the form of a vow of celibacy (although simply making celibacy a rule, without anyone swearing anything, has basically the same effect).

(A note on terminology: People can mean different things by the word "celibacy" - sometimes it means not having sex, but it can also mean not being married. The fuzziness of definition may be due to the fact that traditionally, a ban on marriage equated to a ban on sex automatically, since extramarital sex was forbidden. In fictional examples, however, this may not be so.)

An obligation of celibacy can be used in stories for a number of purposes. Sometimes, it adds a complication to a love story - two characters may be [[UnresolvedSexualTension attracted to each other]], yet prevented from pursuing it by such a rule. It can be a cause of inner turmoil when characters are torn between their feelings and their vows, especially if the very fact that they have sexual feelings [[SexIsEvilAndIAmHorny is something they feel ashamed of]]. If a character is supposed to be subject to rules of celibacy but has a chance to break them, whether they do or not can be used for the purposes of characterisation - it's typically portrayed negatively if they do, such as to help establish a character as a SinisterMinister, although tropes like DirtyOldMonk and NaughtyNuns can be played for laughs or used as a humanising element as well. Whether celibacy requirements themselves are portrayed as positive, negative, or a mixture will depend on the writer.

Questions about exactly what counts as a breach of celibacy may arise - in these cases, there are often parallels with TechnicalVirgin. In some settings, celibacy will have a practical purpose, such as to preserve VirginPower. Being LockedAwayInAMonastery can be an attempt to enforce vows of celibacy for political purposes. When rules like this are applied to the whole of society, it's NoSexAllowed.

Vows of celibacy may become relevant when characters are HotForPreacher (a particular hazard for a SexyPriest), although it should be noted that not all ministers of religion are subject to the same rules. A CelibateHero or a CelibateEccentricGenius ''might'' be celibate because of one of these vows, but more often, their celibacy is just a personal choice or something thrust on them by circumstances. A PedophilePriest is a character who fails his vows of celibacy in the worst way.

Compare CantHaveSexEver, where sex is prevented by something more tangible and hazardous than just obligations.
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* ''Film/IConfess'', one of AlfredHitchcock's films, is about a Catholic priest who is still regularly meeting his childhood sweetheart, now the wife of a prominent politician. The relationship is not actually sexual, but when the priest is (wrongly) suspected of killing a person who was blackmailing the woman in question, the public and the press assume him to have been breaking his vows with her.
* The Mexican film ''Film/ElCrimenDelPadreAmaro'' deals with priestly celibacy in the Roman Catholic church. The titular Father Amaro, although initially trying to keep to his vows, has an affair with a teenage girl (who is herself the daughter of the mistress of Amaro's superior). It ends badly.
* ''Film/LoveSoDivine'' is romantic comedy about a young Korean seminarian who finds himself questioning the celibacy that lies ahead for him as he and the female lead (a {{Tsundere}} HardDrinkingPartyGirl) gradually warm up to each other.
* In ''[[Film/{{Priest1994}} Priest]]'' (1994), a new Catholic priest starts to question his faith after embarking on a sexual relationship despite his vows. (He's also gay, which makes it even more forbidden.)
* In a another film called ''Film/{{Priest}}'', the titular priests (who are more like warriors than priests as commonly understood, but are still associated with the Church) are required to be celibate. The main character left his lover and newborn daughter behind when he joined.
* In ''Franchise/StarWars'', the Jedi frown on having strong attachments, and Anakin Skywalker is not able to continue his relationship with Padmé Amidala openly. Although WordOfGod is that the prequel-era Jedi ''are'' allowed to have casual sex.
* ''Film/KeepingTheFaith'' has a Brian, a Catholic priest, develop feelings for his childhood friend, Anna. He falsely convinces himself that his feelings reciprocated, and wonders about his future in the church. In fact, Anna is in a secret relationship with their mutual friend (who's a rabbi, but they have different rules).
* In ''Film/{{Bedazzled 1967}}'' a trickster devil gives Stanley Moon seven wishes in return for his soul. Stanley is in love with Margaret so he wishes for them to be together. The Devil makes Margaret and Stanley nuns in love with each other; they're together in a nunnery but since they're nuns they're celibate.
* In ''Film/SisterAct'', when Dolores/Mary Clarence comes to live at the abbey, the Rev. Mother tells her that she is to abide by the rules the nuns live by, including the Vow of Chastity. Dolores/Mary Clarence is not happy about that.
* From ''Film/MontyPythonAndTheHolyGrail'':
-->'''Galahad''': I am sworn to chastity!\\
'''Woman''': Back to your bed at once!
* In ''Film/StarTrekTheMotionPicture'', we learn Lt. Ilia has an "Oath of Celibacy", we she randomly informs Admiral Kirk of when she arrives on the Enterprise's bridge. The story behind this is expanded upon in the {{Novelization}}: Deltans (Ilia's race) are highly sexual and view humans as immature when it comes to sex, and more to the point having sex with a non-Deltan can potentially kill their partner (because it involves a blending of minds as well as bodies). Deltans are compelled to take a vow of celibacy in order to join Starfleet.
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* In the Chinese classic ''Literature/JourneyToTheWest'', the monk Xuanzang has a considerable number of opportunities to reject the celibacy that is expected of him, including several offers from [[HornyDevils supernatural sources]], but he doesn't do so.
* ''Literature/TheThreeMusketeers'' has two examples of villains who don't respect their vows of celibacy:
** Richelieu, being a cardinal and all, is supposed to be celibate. However, he's revealed to have made unsuccessful advances to the queen, a fact used both to illustrate his character and to add to his motivations (since he's bitter at being rebuffed).
** Milady de Winter is a FemmeFatale who started out as a nun. Her first seduction was of the priest of her convent, whom she convinced to run away with her (and with the convent's sacred chalice).
* Claude Frollo, the main antagonist of ''Literature/TheHunchbackOfNotreDame'', is torn between the pious celibacy he is supposed to maintain as an archdeacon and his lust for the gypsy Esmerelda, becoming [[LoveMakesYouEvil increasingly unstable]] as he fails to reconcile the two. (Not all adaptations maintain Frollo's status as an ordained priest, though - in [[Disney/TheHunchbackofNotreDame the Disney one]], he's a judge, and therefore bound only by his own hangups rather than by a priestly vow.)
* The title of ''Literature/TheRedAndTheBlack'' is sometimes held to refer to the ambitious protagonist's choice between civil and clerical avenues of advancement (although even among those who accept this explanation of the title, there's disagreement on which colour represents which). The protagonist is never actually ordained, but he's sufficiently part of the church that the abbé sends him away to a seminary when he's revealed to have had an affair.
* ''Literature/{{Discworld}}'':
** Wizards of Unseen University are generally expected to stay celibate. The common/official explanation is that it [[VirginPower interferes with their magic]], but as per the book ''Discworld/{{Sourcery}}'', it's more likely to be a measure to prevent wizards from having descendants, because the [[Main/MagicalSeventhSon eighth son of the eighth son of a wizard (himself an eighth son)]] is a dangerous super-wizard, and it's considered better to prevent wizards from having kids at all than to risk it. In later ''Literature/{{Discworld}}'' novels the UU vow of celibacy seems to have shifted in the same way as [[{{Oxbridge}} Oxford and Cambridge Universities]] (see Real Life), in that wizards can have relations with women, but can't get married.
** Esmerelda Weatherwax never had any (non-witchcraft) relations with men after Mustrum Ridcully left for Unseen University, which becomes a plot point when a unicorn shows up. In her case it wasn't really a vow, since she found it easier being the scary witch.
* In Creator/GeneWolfe's ''Literature/BookOfTheLongSun'', priests and nuns are required to be abstinent. This has a practical purpose: only virgins can receive divine messages clearly.
* In ''[[Literature/RachelGriffin The Unexpected Enlightenment of Rachel Griffin]]'', it turns out that the title character's grandmother was under vows but broke them. This has an actual negative effect due to VirginPower, and causes something of a BrokenPedestal.
* The ''Literature/KushielsLegacy'' series has the Cassiline Brotherhood, a group of elite {{Warrior Monk}}s whose vows include celibacy. This follows the example of the archangel Cassiel, who unlike the other angels that followed the d'Angelines' precursor Elua, did not lie with mortals. Joscelin, Phedre's bodyguard, breaks this rule with her, and is outcast.
* In ''Literature/TheRedemptionOfAlthalus'', celibacy is either required or recommended for at least some religious organisations. One village priest deals very badly with it, deciding that the women to whom he is attracted must be using witchcraft on him (since a moral person like himself wouldn't struggle so, otherwise). This results in them getting [[BurnTheWitch burned at the stake]].
* In ''Literature/TheRifter'', one of the priests at the monastery is secretly married. By the standards of the monastery, he's not too bad, and the implication seems to be that the rule of celibacy isn't something to defend.
* ''Literature/TheThornBirds'' has an illicit relationship between a Catholic priest and a younger woman as its main conflict.
* One character in Creator/DanBrown's ''Literature/AngelsAndDemons'' is the son of a monk and a nun who wanted to have a child but were not willing to do it by breaking their vows and having sex. They used artificial insemination. The mother was expelled anyway when she became obviously pregnant.
* In ''Literature/ASongOfIceAndFire'', vows of celibacy are required by several religious and military orders, including the Night's Watch, the Kingsguard, the septons / septas of the Faith of the Seven, and the maesters of the Citadel. Some take their vows more seriously than others; in the Night's Watch, it's an open secret that more brothers than not make regular visits to a nearby brothel.
* In ''Literature/TheDemonata'' series by Darren Shan, priestesses were forbidden from romance in general since it led to a loss in magic. Over sixteen hundred years, this belief eventually turned out to be false, but the ancient priestesses still count.
* According to Amberley Vail in the ''TabletopGame/{{Warhammer 40000}}'' novel ''Literature/CiaphasCain: Cain's Last Stand'', it's actually a myth that the Adeptas Sororitas (Sisters of Battle) are required to be celibate. It's more a question of lack of opportunity. [[FootnoteFever The footnote in question]] comments on Cain's discovery that Sister Julien, a senior Sister at the [[MilitaryAcademy schola progenium]], is involved with the academy's bursar.
* In ''Literature/SpeakerForTheDead'' and later works in the ''Literature/EndersGame'' series, the colony of Lusitania has a Catholic sect that requires members to [[ChastityCouple marry but remain chaste]] as a SelfImposedChallenge. Ender interviews two of the members in ''Speaker'', and in ''Literature/{{Xenocide}}'' he and his wife Novinha join it.
* In Creator/UrsulaKLeGuin's ''Literature/EarthseaTrilogy'' wizards are required to be celibate. However, one entry in the novella collection ''Tales from Earthsea'' shows the origins of the WizardingSchool on the isle of Roke. The order didn't originally require celibacy and admitted female members, but early in the order's history an extremist faction took it over and added those rules.
* In the first book of ''Literature/TheElenium'' it notes that the Pandion Knights had originally taken an oath to never marry (and by implication never have sex). However, due to a shortage of Pandions and applicants for knighthood they were allowed by the church to take back their vows so they could marry and have children.
* Works which form part of the ''Franchise/StarWarsExpandedUniverse'' sometimes deal with Jedi rules about relationships in more detail. [[DependingOnTheWriter Different writers seem to have taken different approaches]] (some of them pre-''[[Film/ThePhantomMenace Phantom Menace]]'' {{backstory}} decisions that ended up getting {{Jossed}} by the prequel trilogy, with associated {{retcon}}s to make them fit), with the result that whatever rules the Jedi are said to have had, they must have changed over time or had lots of exceptions. Some characters seem to be married without repercussion, while others are told it isn't allowed. Specific examples:
** ''Literature/JediTrial'', set between Episodes II and III, has Master Nejaa Halcyon find out about Anakin's marriage to Padme and keep the secret, as he himself secretly has a wife and teenage son[[labelnote:*]]Namely Valin Halcyon, who changed his name to Hal Horn after [[ThePurge Order 66]] and became the father of Creator/MichaelStackpole's Corran Horn from the earlier-written ''ComicBook/XWingSeries''.[[/labelnote]] whom he's training as a Jedi. Other works indicate that the Corellian arm of the Jedi Order played by its own rules.
** The ''Literature/RepublicCommandoSeries'' has a cameo by Callista Ming from ''Literature/TheCallistaTrilogy'', who is a member of a Jedi sect led by Master Djinn Altis that encourages romantic relations. The mainstream order considers them semi-heretical. Meanwhile Etain Tur-Mukan takes the SecretRelationship approach and has a son with Darman, one of the eponymous clone commandos.
** The New Jedi Order founded by Luke Skywalker in the post-''Film/ReturnOfTheJedi'' timeframe has no celibacy requirement at all, and some of their members, such as Corran Horn, were already married when they joined.
* ''Literature/TheObsidianTrilogy'': In ''The Outstretched Shadow'' Kellen Tavadon casts a Wild Magic spell to escape the Outlaw Hunt, which summons the unicorn Shalkan as a steed. Shalkan informs him that the Mageprice is to remain celibate and chaste for a year on pain of castration, which becomes a problem when Kellen falls in love with Vestakia and has to sit on it until the end of the trilogy.
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* In ''Series/FatherTed'', Bishop Brennan apparently has a mistress and a son, as shown in a holiday video tape found in his bag. The main characters use this tape as blackmail when Brennan threatens to [[ReassignedToAntarctica reassign them somewhere even worse]].
* As in its literary counterpart, in ''Series/GameOfThrones'', vows of celibacy are required by several religious and military orders, including the Night's Watch, the Kingsguard, the septons / septas of the Faith of the Seven, and the maesters of the Citadel. The ExactWords of the Night's Watch oath are [[{{Deconstruction}} examined closely]] by [[GenreSavvy Samwell Tarly]]: the brothers vow to "take no wife" and "father no children," but sex itself is not specifically forbidden. Note that this setting includes a well-known and apparently-safe [[FantasyContraception birth control herb]], and also that characters seem to believe that the pull-out method is far more effective than modern science has shown it to be in our own world.
* ''Series/ThreesCompany'': in one episode Jack makes a bet with the girls to refrain from having relations with girls for a certain amount of time. The girls then try to find ways to make him lose the bet.
* ''Series/{{Ballykissangel}}'': Father Clifford's standard-issue vow of celibacy becomes a serious problem for him when he falls in love with Assumpta. [[spoiler:He eventually renounces the priesthood, [[DownerEnding only for Assumpta]] to have a [[DroppedABridgeOnHim Bridge Dropped on Her]].]]
* One ''Series/BlueBloods'' episode has the Reagans' now-deceased minister be investigated as a candidate for canonization. Frank discovers that Father Bill had a secret romantic relationship with a woman for a number of years, but in deference to his Catholic vow of celibacy it was apparently never consummated.
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* The ''TabletopGame/DungeonsAndDragons'' 3rd Edition supplement ''Book of Exalted Deeds'' has this as one of several "Vow of X" feats. It requires the user to abstain from both marriage and sex and grants the user a +4 bonus against charm and phantasm effects. As with its sister feats, breaking the vow intentionally costs you the benefits permanently; breaking it because of MindControl requires an Atonement spell to be cast to regain the benefits. Vow of Celibacy is a class requirement to take the Beloved of Valarian PrestigeClass, which lets you get a unicorn as a companion.
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* ''VideoGame/{{Fallout 3}}'' has an optional SideQuest in which a woman wants you to find a certain powerful aphrodisiac--she intends to "convince" her crush to abandon his plans to enter the priesthood, since that would prevent them from ever hooking up.
-->'''Diego''': Angela, I'm not sure you should spend so much time around me. I am to be married to God soon.\\
'''Angela''': Wouldn't you rather be with a real girl? Maybe you should try it, before you decide.\\
'''Diego''': Lord, give me strength.
* In ''Franchise/MassEffect'', the Asari race have a group called the Ardat-Yakshi who are compelled to live in celibate isolation in monasteries. For Asari, sex involves a connection between nervous systems, but the Ardat-Yakshi have a genetic condition which causes this connection to be dangerous and possibly fatal for the other partner - to protect people from this, Ardat-Yakshi are subjected to monastic celibacy whether they like it or not.
* One of ''VideoGame/DragonAgeII'''s companions, Sebastian Vael, is a brother of the Chantry, and is therefore bound by vows of celibacy. It is possible for players to develop a non-sexual relationship with him, but he won't break his vows. Players can tease him, though.
-->'''Sebastian''': What? Why are you smiling at me like that... oh. Ohhhh my. I think I need to pray. A lot.
* In ''VideoGame/DiabloIII'', the Templar Kormac has taken a vow of chastity as part of his initiation. This combines rather humorously with his crush on [[BlackMagicianGirl Eirena]]. By the time of the expansion, he's renounced most of the Templar creed, including the vow of chastity.
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* Some Christian religious denominations require that their priests be celibate. The most well known of these is probably the Roman Catholic Church. Other denominations, however, have no such requirement - Anglicans, for example, are free to marry. Some denominations take an intermediate approach - Eastern Orthodoxy, for example, generally requires bishops to be celibate, but allows ordinary priests to be married provided the marriage predates their ordination.
* Even where celibacy isn't required for priests, it is generally considered fairly fundamental to the concept of monasticism, both in the West and in the East.
* Islam and Judaism have tended to frown on celibacy, although there are exceptions.
* Ancient Rome had the Vestal Virgins, who were punished very severely for any loss of their main qualification.
* Until the 1880s, [[{{Oxbridge}} Oxford and Cambridge Universities]] had a vow of celibacy for dons. This was originally because it was assumed that all scholars would have training as priests, however by the 18th century the definition of "celibacy" in this context had shifted; a Fellow of the College could have relations with women, but couldn't get married.
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