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* ''Series/{{ER}}''. In an episode which had several characters sitting around discussing when they lost their virginity, everyone is shocked but touched when resident hunk Luka admits to having waited until his wedding night, explaining that it was very important to his girlfriend that they not make love before they were married.
** However, a similar confession from Mark Greene--"We met in high school. . .I've always been faithful. . ."--results in Doug laughing at him.
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* In the romance novel ''Whisper To Me Of Love'', the hero is shocked to realize that the heroine is a virgin. Nothing about her personality really suggests otherwise, he just simply took it for granted that she wasn't.


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* ''Series/OneLifeToLive'''s Blair confesses to Max that she's a virgin just before they consummate their relationship, sharply contrasting the [[TheVamp personality]] she's displayed since coming to town.
* ''Series/GeneralHospital'''s Keesha tells boyfriend Jason she's a virgin just before they make love. He isn't surprised, but she certainly is when he admits he is too (though viewers already knew this), clearly having assumed otherwise.
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* At the start of ''Series/IronFist2017'', 26 years old Danny Rand is a virgin since his training in K'un-Lun required a chastity vow. He later breaks the vow with Colleen Wing.
* Audrey Horne played by the attractive Sherilyn Fenn in ''Series/TwinPeaks'', is very flirtatious with Dale Cooper and at one point infiltrates a brothel as a working girl. It's a bit of a surprise near the end of the series when she confess to her love interrest Jack Wheeler that she's still a virgin. They ends up having sex in his private jet.

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* Minami in ''Film/{{Gozu}}'', who - though [[BiggerIsBetterInBed well-provided]] - is still a virgin. Particularly embarrassing for him as he is a member of the {{Yakuza}}.

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* ''WebVideo/DoctorHorriblesSingAlongBlog'': Billy/Dr. Horrible - it's not mentioned whether he's a virgin or not, but he ruminates uncomfortably on Penny and Captain Hammer's relationship. "They're probably going to ...French kiss...or something." This could be virginity or simple deep denial. (The wide-eyed, [[WesternAnimation/BeavisAndButthead Beavis-like]] reaction he has to accidentally picking up one of Penny's underthings in his prequel comic might suggest the former is most likely, though.)

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\n* ''WebVideo/DoctorHorriblesSingAlongBlog'': Billy/Dr. Horrible - -- it's not mentioned whether he's a virgin or not, but he ruminates uncomfortably on Penny and Captain Hammer's relationship. "They're probably going to ...French kiss...or something." This could be virginity or simple deep denial. (The wide-eyed, [[WesternAnimation/BeavisAndButthead Beavis-like]] reaction he has to accidentally picking up one of Penny's underthings in his prequel comic might suggest the former is most likely, though.)
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* During a discussion in ''Manga/KaguyaSamaWaKokurasetai'' about the percentage of high school students who have had their first time, it's revealed that Shirogane is a "monster virgin" despite being a ChickMagnet. He never tells anyone for fear of VirginShaming.
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'''Friday:''' [[CrowningMomentOfFunny >:)]] (Cue music: DUM, de DUM dum...)
* ''Film/TheWickerMan'' (1973): The hero's religiously inspired chastity is a major part of the plot. Of course, [[spoiler: seeing as this gets him a VirginSacrifice]] at the end of the film, this could go either way. The 2006 remake entirely omits the hero's religion and chastity. Apparently Creator/NeilLaBute couldn't believe Creator/NicolasCage as a virgin.

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'''Friday:''' [[CrowningMomentOfFunny >:)]] >:) (Cue music: DUM, de DUM dum...)
* ''Film/TheWickerMan'' (1973): ''Film/TheWickerMan1973'': The hero's religiously inspired chastity is a major part of the plot. Of course, [[spoiler: seeing as this gets him a VirginSacrifice]] at the end of the film, this could go either way. The 2006 remake entirely omits the hero's religion and chastity. Apparently Creator/NeilLaBute couldn't believe Creator/NicolasCage as a virgin.



* ''Literature/BornOnTheFourthOfJuly'': The protagonist (played by Creator/TomCruise) is a wrestling star in high school who loses his final match, much to the disappointment of his parents, goes off to Vietnam to prove his manhood, and gets his legs blown off. He then loses his high school sweetheart, who he had been saving himself for (who remains his friend and gets him involved in the anti-war movement). In a fit of despair, he moves to a whorehouse in Mexico frequented by boozy, PTSD'd Vietnam War paraplegics and attempts to lose his virginity (more or less) to an attractive girl there. He doesn't enjoy it much.
* ''Film/WeekendAtBernies II''. One of the characters will die from a poison unless a voodoo potion with "the blood of a virgin" is made as an antidote. The poisoned character laments that he's going to die, but his friend gets up and begrudgingly holds out his finger, saying "Just take the blood, Doc". The potion is made from his blood and works, leading the now cured character in the final scene to razz his buddy by saying "thanks for keeping yourself a virgin for me."

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* ''Literature/BornOnTheFourthOfJuly'': ''Film/BornOnTheFourthOfJuly'': The protagonist (played by Creator/TomCruise) is a wrestling star in high school who loses his final match, much to the disappointment of his parents, goes off to Vietnam to prove his manhood, and gets his legs blown off. He then loses his high school sweetheart, who he had been saving himself for (who remains his friend and gets him involved in the anti-war movement). In a fit of despair, he moves to a whorehouse in Mexico frequented by boozy, PTSD'd Vietnam War paraplegics and attempts to lose his virginity (more or less) to an attractive girl there. He doesn't enjoy it much.
* ''Film/WeekendAtBernies II''.''Film/WeekendAtBerniesII''. One of the characters will die from a poison unless a voodoo potion with "the blood of a virgin" is made as an antidote. The poisoned character laments that he's going to die, but his friend gets up and begrudgingly holds out his finger, saying "Just take the blood, Doc". The potion is made from his blood and works, leading the now cured character in the final scene to razz his buddy by saying "thanks for keeping yourself a virgin for me."
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* ''VideoGame/{{Psychonauts}}'': Sasha Nein. Despite being an ''international psychic secret agent superhero,'' he is almost certainly a virgin. [[spoiler: Seeing a mental picture of his mother having sex from his father's perspective]] probably gave him a few intimacy issues. Of course, he sometimes acts CampStraight ("So... tacky... can't... look... directly... at... it...") but still. However, some memories belonging to Milla (another agent who works with Sasha a lot,) suggest that there is some level of romantic/sexual tension between them. However, since these are her memories, it is entirely possible that this [[UnreliableNarrator is just wishful thinking on her part.]]

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* ''VideoGame/{{Psychonauts}}'': Sasha Nein. Despite being an ''international psychic secret agent superhero,'' he is almost certainly a virgin. [[spoiler: [[DirtyMindReading Seeing a mental picture picture]] of [[PrinalScene his mother having sex from his father's perspective]] perspective]]]] probably gave him a few intimacy issues. Of course, he sometimes acts CampStraight ("So... tacky... can't... look... directly... at... it...") but still. However, some memories belonging to Milla (another agent who works with Sasha a lot,) suggest that there is some level of romantic/sexual tension between them. However, since these are her memories, it is entirely possible that this [[UnreliableNarrator is just wishful thinking on her part.]]
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* Parodied in one of Creator/EstherFriesner's ''Majyk'' books: the groom has to produce a certificate guaranteeing "knowledge of the carnal arts" before he can get married. The ''bride'' has to provide evidence of her IncorruptiblePurePureness. [[spoiler: You can guess what TheReveal is.]]

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* Parodied in one of Creator/EstherFriesner's ''Majyk'' ''Literature/MajykByAccident'' books: the groom has to produce a certificate guaranteeing "knowledge of the carnal arts" before he can get married. The ''bride'' has to provide evidence of her IncorruptiblePurePureness. [[spoiler: You [[spoiler:You can guess what TheReveal is.]]

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* The ''Series/MontyPythonsFlyingCircus'' sketch "Nudge Nudge" has Creator/EricIdle's character make an increasingly contorted string of HehHehYouSaidX jokes regarding the Squire's wife before finally asking if the Squire has slept with a woman. When he annoyedly answers in the affirmative:
-->'''Idle:''' What's it like?
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* ''Film/WeekendAtBernies II''. One of the characters will die from a poison unless a voodoo potion with "the blood of a virgin" is made as an antidote. The poisoned character laments that he's going to die, but his friend gets up and begrudgingly holds out his finger, saying "Just take the blood". The potion is made from his blood and works, leading the now cured character in the final scene to razz his buddy by saying "thanks for keeping yourself a virgin for me."

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* ''Film/WeekendAtBernies II''. One of the characters will die from a poison unless a voodoo potion with "the blood of a virgin" is made as an antidote. The poisoned character laments that he's going to die, but his friend gets up and begrudgingly holds out his finger, saying "Just take the blood".blood, Doc". The potion is made from his blood and works, leading the now cured character in the final scene to razz his buddy by saying "thanks for keeping yourself a virgin for me."
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* ''Film/WeekendAtBernies II''. One of the characters will die from a poison unless a voodoo potion with "the blood of a virgin" is made as an antidote. The poisoned character laments that he's going to die, but his friend gets up and begrudgingly holds out his finger, saying "take my blood". The potion is made from his blood and works, leading the now cured character in the final scene to razz his buddy by saying "thanks for keeping yourself a virgin for me."

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* ''Film/WeekendAtBernies II''. One of the characters will die from a poison unless a voodoo potion with "the blood of a virgin" is made as an antidote. The poisoned character laments that he's going to die, but his friend gets up and begrudgingly holds out his finger, saying "take my "Just take the blood". The potion is made from his blood and works, leading the now cured character in the final scene to razz his buddy by saying "thanks for keeping yourself a virgin for me."

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* In ''[[http://archiveofourown.org/works/62944 Blue Paste]]'' Harry serves as the May Queen in a Beltane ritual and, due to having been a virgin, ends up bonded to Snape, who was portraying the May King.
-->'''Snape:''' You said when it happened to Miss Cunningham that you would take precautions!\\
'''Dumbledore:''' Well, we did. Only... We didn't think boys would be in any danger in that matter.
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* ''Film/StrokerAce'': Pembrook, although this is mostly to Stroker's amazement. Stroker simply can't wrap his head around the concept of the virgin; [[RunningGag Lugs is constantly having to remind him that the word "virgin" exists!]]
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* ''Film/WeekendAtBerniesII''. One of the characters will die from a poison unless a voodoo potion with "the blood of a virgin" is made as an antidote. The poisoned character laments that he's going to die, but his friend gets up and begrudgingly holds out his finger, saying "take my blood". The potion is made from his blood and works, leading the now cured character in the final scene to razz his buddy by saying "thanks for keeping yourself a virgin for me."

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* ''Film/WeekendAtBerniesII''.''Film/WeekendAtBernies II''. One of the characters will die from a poison unless a voodoo potion with "the blood of a virgin" is made as an antidote. The poisoned character laments that he's going to die, but his friend gets up and begrudgingly holds out his finger, saying "take my blood". The potion is made from his blood and works, leading the now cured character in the final scene to razz his buddy by saying "thanks for keeping yourself a virgin for me."
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* Creator/EloisaJames's RegencyRomance novel ''Your Wicked Ways'' has the estranged Earl Rees Godwin and Countess Helene Godwin trying to repair their marriage, which went bad pretty much from the get-go after they eloped to Gretna Green ten years ago and their consummation didn't turn out well. Rees had blamed it on "frigidity" on her part, but he finally confesses to her during the book that he didn't have a damn clue what he was doing at the time because he was a virgin, too. (This is a departure from the stock tropes of the genre where the man is sexually experienced and the woman is a virgin.)
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->''"[Lara Raith] offered him her hand. 'You must be Warden Ramirez.[='=]''\\
''"This is the part where I got nervous. Ramirez loved women. Ramirez never shut up about women. Well, he never shut up about anything in general, but he'd go on and on about various conquests and feats of sexual athleticism and--''\\
''"'A virgin?' Lara blurted. She turned her head to me, grey eyes several shades paler than they had been, and very wide. 'Really, Harry, I'm not sure what to say. Is he a present?'"''

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''"'A virgin?' Lara blurted. She turned her head to me, grey eyes several shades paler than they had been, and very wide. 'Really,
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->''"[Lara Raith] offered him her hand. 'You must be Warden Ramirez.[='=]''\\
"This is the part where I got nervous. Ramirez loved women. Ramirez never shut up about women. Well, he never shut up about anything in general, but he'd go on and on about various conquests and feats of sexual athleticism and--\\
''"'A virgin?' Lara blurted. She turned her head to me, grey eyes several shades paler than they had been, and very wide. 'Really, Harry, I'm not sure what to say. Is he a present?'"''
-->-- ''Literature/TheDresdenFiles: Literature/WhiteNight''
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* ''LightNovel/HighSchoolDXD'': Issei Hyodou. Although he really wants to lose his virginity, somehow he can't. It's then revealed that the reason why he can't just lose his virginity to his harem (who are ''[[IfItsYouItsOkay totally willing]]'') is because [[spoiler: of trauma when he was killed by Reynalle all the way back when the plot starts.]]

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* ''LightNovel/HighSchoolDXD'': Issei Hyodou. Although he really wants to lose his virginity, somehow he can't. It's then revealed that the reason why he can't just lose his virginity to his harem (who are ''[[IfItsYouItsOkay totally willing]]'') is because [[spoiler: of trauma when he was killed by Reynalle Raynare all the way back when the plot starts.]]
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* ''Series/TheMagicians2016'':
** Quentin is a socially awkward nerd with [[AmbiguousDisorder some flavor of serious mental disorder]], but inverted when Margo jokingly drags him out of his bed in the middle of the night for a VirginSacrifice.
--->'''Quentin:''' ''[annoyed]'' I'm not a virgin.\\
'''Margo:''' Well. The world's just full of surprises.
** Alice is at least as awkward as Quentin, but turns out to not be a virgin either. It later turns out that her parents are [[TheHedonist hedonists]] who throw wild orgies on a regular basis. She lost her virginity during one of those, but not at the actual party.
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* ''Film/AmericanBeauty'': Angela, despite being on the cheerleading team and acting the part of a worldly woman, reveals to Lester that she's a virgin right as they're about to have sex; this causes Lester to break off the sex.
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* In the second ''Film/PoliceAcademy'' film, Tackleberry blurts it right out that he's a virgin, which immediately silences the room and makes him feel rather embarrassed.
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* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'': Played with. Skinner's contention that he hasn't been having sex with Bart's teacher Krabappel because he actually hasn't had sex with anyone is considered undeniable. The citizens of Springfield think that ''no'' one would [[AppealToAudacity pretend to be a 44-year-old virgin if they weren't]]. ([[spoiler: Skinner probably deserves some kind of award for his chutzpah, because [[BlatantLies he's brazenly lying]].]]) To top off the potential irony, when someone thinks to ask whether this means Krabappel is a virgin too, she just snorts "Hah!" Also the Comic Book Guy was a virgin [[spoiler: until his forties when he slept with Agnes Skinner.]]

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* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'': Played with. Skinner's contention that he hasn't been having sex with Bart's teacher Krabappel because he actually hasn't had sex with anyone is considered undeniable. The citizens of Springfield think that ''no'' one would [[AppealToAudacity pretend to be a 44-year-old virgin if they weren't]]. ([[spoiler: Skinner ([[spoiler:Skinner probably deserves some kind of award for his chutzpah, because [[BlatantLies he's brazenly lying]].]]) To top off the potential irony, when someone thinks to ask whether this means Krabappel is a virgin too, she just snorts "Hah!" Also the Comic Book Guy was a virgin [[spoiler: until his forties when he slept with Agnes Skinner.]]
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** No longer the case as of Amy's last birthday when coitus was the gift of choice for Sheldon. While they haven't become bunnies or anything, Sheldon has proven to be more comfortable with it around her. This has led to the current character arc for them, he wants to have a baby with Amy.
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* ''Series/MastersOfSex'': Ethan Haas sleeps with Vivian Scully thinking they're just having casual sex (her idea), and is terrified to realize he just deflowered his boss's daughter.

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See also VirginShaming, when a character is then derided for being a virgin.

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* Touched upon in ''Webcomic/TheAdventuresOfDrMcNinja'' where Gordito asks the Doctor after [[spoiler:the motorcycle Sparkle Lord was a Unicorn and apparently Unicorns only approach virgins. [[http://drmcninja.com/page.php?pageNum=73&issue=15 Seen here]]]].

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* Touched upon in ''Webcomic/TheAdventuresOfDrMcNinja'' where Gordito asks the Doctor after [[spoiler:the motorcycle Sparkle Lord was a Unicorn and apparently [[http://drmcninja.com/archives/comic/15p73/ Unicorns only approach virgins. [[http://drmcninja.com/page.php?pageNum=73&issue=15 Seen here]]]].virgins]]]].
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* Played to amusing effect in ''Literature/FightingSpiders''. The three main characters are out in the nighttime, in a cemetery no less, and the legend of the 'orang minyak' is brought up: a man covered in oil who goes around (ahem) disturbing virgins. The youngest says that since they are boys they won't be disturbed, but the one who best knows his English points out that virgins can apply to boys too...

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* "Fanfic/ToAbsentFriends" has a rare female example when the other women on USS ''Bajor'''s senior staff are surprised to learn that their Vulcan member T'Var is a virgin despite having been through ''pon farr'' at least once (she was able to deal with it by meditation and her parents had decided against [[ArrangedMarriage arranging a match for her]]).

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* "Fanfic/ToAbsentFriends" has a rare female example when the other women on USS ''Bajor'''s senior staff are surprised to learn that their Vulcan member T'Var is a virgin despite having been through ''pon farr'' farr''[[note]]the seven-yearly Vulcan estrus cycle, which can be lethal if not satisfied[[/note]] at least once (she was able to deal with it by meditation and her parents had decided against [[ArrangedMarriage arranging a match for her]]).



** Joe, in his overly formal way, always refers to her as "the virgin Connie Swail". But at the end of the film:

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* In the ''Series/{{Firefly}}'' episode "[[Recap/FireflyE14ObjectsInSpace Objects in Space]]", River walks in on Jayne and Shepherd Book having a SeinfeldianConversation wherein Book has just disclosed his virginity to Jayne, much to Jayne's surprise. Book's religious order apparently has a [[VowOfCelibacy celibacy requirement]].

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* In the ''Series/{{Firefly}}'' episode "[[Recap/FireflyE14ObjectsInSpace Objects in Space]]", River walks in on Jayne and Shepherd Book having a SeinfeldianConversation wherein Book has just disclosed his virginity to Jayne, much to Jayne's surprise. Book's religious order apparently has a [[VowOfCelibacy celibacy requirement]].requirement]], though it's strongly implied (and eventually confirmed in the ExpandedUniverse) that he had a career in black ops before that.



* ''Series/BabylonFive'': Marcus Cole was a self-professed virgin and quite comfortable that way because he felt he hadn't met the right woman. He did eventually meet her, but died before they could consummate. She is shown lamenting that later.
* Played to amusing effect in ''Fighting Spiders''. The three main characters are out in the nighttime, in a cemetery no less, and the legend of the 'orang minyak' is brought up: a man covered in oil who goes around (ahem) disturbing virgins. The youngest says that since they are boys they won't be disturbed, but the one who best knows his English points out that virgins can apply to boys too...
* The ''[[Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer Buffy]]'' episode "Teacher's Pet": A shape shifting preying mantis only preys on virgin boys, and captures Xander and another boy who we had previously seen boasting about his sexual exploits. Neither he, nor Xander, is pleased when they learn that they were chosen for their virginity, and the guy threatens to sue, if they tell anyone. Xander spent two and a half seasons proving his BadassNormal credentials while hanging onto his virginity (his relationship with Cordelia was unconsumated). When he helps out [[ActionGirl Faith]] in season 3, she thanks him (& burns off extra agression) by seducing him. Xander has sex, but it's not the most remarkable or manly thing he does even that night, making it a bit of a subversion of this trope. The trope is completely PlayedStraight when it comes to Liam/Angel, Giles, Spike, and Oz, though.

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* Played to amusing effect in ''Fighting Spiders''.''Literature/FightingSpiders''. The three main characters are out in the nighttime, in a cemetery no less, and the legend of the 'orang minyak' is brought up: a man covered in oil who goes around (ahem) disturbing virgins. The youngest says that since they are boys they won't be disturbed, but the one who best knows his English points out that virgins can apply to boys too...
* The ''[[Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer Buffy]]'' ''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer'' episode "Teacher's Pet": A shape shifting preying mantis only preys on virgin boys, and captures Xander and another boy who we had previously seen boasting about his sexual exploits. Neither he, nor Xander, is pleased when they learn that they were chosen for their virginity, and the guy threatens to sue, if they tell anyone. Xander spent two and a half seasons proving his BadassNormal credentials while hanging onto his virginity (his relationship with Cordelia was unconsumated). When he helps out [[ActionGirl Faith]] in season 3, she thanks him (& burns off extra agression) by seducing him. Xander has sex, but it's not the most remarkable or manly thing he does even that night, making it a bit of a subversion of this trope. The trope is completely PlayedStraight when it comes to Liam/Angel, Giles, Spike, and Oz, though.



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* Subverted with Cody in ''Series/StepByStep'', whom everyone assumes not to be a virgin because he's old enough and, while a bit of a {{Cloudcuckoolander}}, not portrayed as a loser in any way. He is, however, a virgin, sees nothing wrong with being a virgin, and is never ashamed to admit it on the few occasions when the subject comes up.

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* Subverted with Cody in ''Series/StepByStep'', whom everyone ''Series/StepByStep'': Everyone assumes Cody not to be a virgin because he's old enough and, while a bit of a {{Cloudcuckoolander}}, not portrayed as a loser in any way. He is, however, a virgin, sees nothing wrong with being a virgin, and is never ashamed to admit it on the few occasions when the subject comes up.



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* ''{{TabletopGames/Warhammer40000}}'':
** As Space Marine recruits are picked from a very young age, usually years before puberty, and these "neophytes" have been either trained or catered to to make the suitable applicants, to make many of them almost unaware of the other sex. Further training and biological changes to the neophyte's body removes or at least represses their human desires and replaces them with a burning need to honour the Emperor in battle. Fans intensely debate wether they still even have the parts for it.
** You'd think that the brutish, barbarian and often very masculine Orks would have lots of ([[RapeAsDrama perhaps forced]]) sex, but the entire race is, in fact, mono-gender, and reproduces through fungal spores.

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* ''Franchise/{{Halo}}'': A [[{{Asexuality}} drastically reduced sex drive]] is one of the potential side-effects of the [[{{SuperSoldier}} Spartan-II augmentations]], enhanced by [[{{ConsummateProfessional}} their particular mind-set]]. Their Spartan-III & Spartan-IV counterparts lack the side effect, though the [=IIIs=] have the same single-minded focus on their work as the [=IIs=].



** Alistair in ''VideoGame/DragonAgeOrigins'' actually is a virgin, as a result of growing up in the chantry and then being recruited directly from there into the Grey Wardens. The female PlayerCharacter can, of course, [[OptionalSexualEncounter rectify this]]; [[CoolOldLady Wynne]] and [[DepravedBisexual Zevran]] playfully give Alistair TheTalk partway through his RomanceSidequest, much to his embarrassment.

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** Alistair in ''VideoGame/DragonAgeOrigins'' actually is a virgin, as a result of growing up in the chantry Chantry and then being recruited directly from there into the Grey Wardens. Wardens, which is treated as a minor revelation during his RomanceSidequest. The female PlayerCharacter can, of course, [[OptionalSexualEncounter rectify this]]; this]], and [[CoolOldLady Wynne]] and [[DepravedBisexual Zevran]] playfully give Alistair TheTalk partway through his RomanceSidequest, the arc, much to his embarrassment.



* Averted in ''VideoGame/BenJordanParanormalInvestigator'' case three. The witch coven reveals that they chose Ben because they needed to sacrifice a virgin. When Ben denies it, the coven leader says that they "can tell these things". [[spoiler:He later spends the night with his girlfriend, but the story doesn't make a big deal out of it.]]

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* Averted in ''VideoGame/BenJordanParanormalInvestigator'' case three. The In ''VideoGame/BenJordanParanormalInvestigator'', the witch coven reveals that they chose Ben because they needed to sacrifice a virgin. When Ben denies it, the coven leader says that they "can tell these things". [[spoiler:He later spends the night with his girlfriend, but the story doesn't make a big deal out of it.]]



* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'': Skinner's contention that he hasn't been having sex with Bart's teacher Krabappel because he actually hasn't had sex with anyone is considered undeniable. The citizens of Springfield think that ''no'' one would [[AppealToAudacity pretend to be a 44-year-old virgin if they weren't]]. ([[spoiler: Skinner probably deserves some kind of award for his chutzpah, because he's ''brazenly'' lying.]]) To top off the potential irony, when someone thinks to ask whether this means Krabappel is a virgin too, she just snorts "Hah!" Also the Comic Book Guy was a virgin [[spoiler: until his forties when he slept with Agnes Skinner.]]

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* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'': Played with. Skinner's contention that he hasn't been having sex with Bart's teacher Krabappel because he actually hasn't had sex with anyone is considered undeniable. The citizens of Springfield think that ''no'' one would [[AppealToAudacity pretend to be a 44-year-old virgin if they weren't]]. ([[spoiler: Skinner probably deserves some kind of award for his chutzpah, because [[BlatantLies he's ''brazenly'' lying.brazenly lying]].]]) To top off the potential irony, when someone thinks to ask whether this means Krabappel is a virgin too, she just snorts "Hah!" Also the Comic Book Guy was a virgin [[spoiler: until his forties when he slept with Agnes Skinner.]]
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Any character who is expected to be sexually experienced, but turns out to be a virgin.

Due to a long-standing DoubleStandard, men are the most common examples of this trope. According to fiction any male past puberty is expected to have had sex. However, this is not a male-only trope; females (especially older ones) can surprise other characters in this way as well.

See also VirginShaming, when a character is then derided for being a virgin.

InUniverse examples only, please.

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[[folder:Anime and Manga]]

* ''Anime/MobileSuitGundam00'': Setsuna F. Seiei. He starts as a ChasteHero who can't even understand why a girl would get scared when he gets in her room at night and then rejects another girl when she steals his first kiss, then becomes a CelibateHero who thinks of the same first girl more as a sisterly/motherly figure and says it out loud. All around, however, [[{{Asexuality}} he simply doesn't seem to be interested.]]
* ''Anime/GunXSword'':
** A recurring gag is that Van, CelibateHero that he is, usually tries to keep women from getting too close by telling them "I'm a virgin". As he appears to not have had any interest in women before meeting his (soon-to-be-late) bride, he's probably telling the truth.
** Further explored with Michael; after he has sex with Fasalina, the narrator intones, "While no one was looking, a boy became a man"... but the narrator continues to ''call'' Michael "boy" afterwards, while he refers to Van as "man" throughout. One sex act doth not a man make.
* ''Manga/{{Trigun}}'':
** Vash. He has a BadassLongcoat, CoolShades, not one but ''two'' [[NamesToRunAwayFromReallyFast badass nicknames]] ("the Stampede, the Humanoid Typhoon,"), a ''60 billion-''double''-dollar'' bounty on his head, and a [[WhatDoYouMeanItsNotSymbolic very large gun]]. About the only thing he didn't have going for him was a [[HumongousMecha giant robot]]. Vash is OFFERED sex by two women following his saving the town by defeating the Nebraskas and allowing them to claim the reward. He acts drunk, and like he's passed out and they leave disappointed, while we are treated to a shot of an open eyed and completely sober Vash looking regretful but determined.
** Several manga {{Omake}}s might suggest that Nicholas D. Wolfwood is only active with his grotesque blow-up doll - which makes some sense since he's [[spoiler:actually in his late teens, much younger than in the anime]], has been busy surviving with debilitating traumas and a spectacular lack of social skills, and is [[JerkWithAHeartOfGold more than awkward with women (including Millie)]]. The anime suggests he has more experience and acts as a foil to Vash's obvious frustration. [[spoiler:And he gets killed off ''right'' after having off-screen sex with Millie, anyway.]]
** And Legato, though he gets explicitly noticed for his good looks, is much too obsessive a follower of Knives and his plans to have had any intimate encounters. Mostly he meets people and they die. [[spoiler: Of course, in the manga he appears to have been the kept catamite of someone very ugly before Knives destroyed the whole town except for him. If his psychic powers had just awakened a little earlier...]] This tends to put people off sex.
* ''Anime/CodeGeass'':
** Despite a surprisingly attractive UnwantedHarem all making advances toward Lelouch in one form or another, he remains a virgin for the entire series. WordOfGod even states that Lelouch was too busy with his [[MagnificentBastard Magnificent Bastardry]] to have time for women.
** Subverted in R2 when a depressed and {{Heroic BSOD}}ing Lelouch orders Kallen to "comfort him". She slaps him instead, because she couldn't refuse anything to Zero, but doesn't want to be a sex toy for the pathetic thing Lelouch was at this point.
* ''LightNovel/{{Baccano}}'': About half the cast, though not for lack of trying by some. Justifications range from crippling anxiety (yes, he's [[BewareTheNiceOnes still badass]]) to waiting for a certain girl to massive social ineptitude.
* In Narita's other series, ''LightNovel/{{Durarara}}'', Ikebukuro's resident God of Destruction in a Bartender Suit is not only a virgin, but hasn't even so much as ''kissed'' a girl thanks to his SuperStrength and [[HairTriggerTemper rage disorder getting in the way]]. By the time of the series proper, [[HeartBrokenBadass he's simply resigned himself to the fact that no one could possibly love him.]]
* ''Manga/SunKenRock'': The protagonist Ken leads a very powerful (but small) mafia through shear force of personality, and has beaten up nearly every male in the series. Ken, even with many (beautiful) women literally throwing themselves at him, maintains his virginity as part of his devotion to Yumin, even though they have yet to do anything either.
* ''LightNovel/HighSchoolDXD'': Issei Hyodou. Although he really wants to lose his virginity, somehow he can't. It's then revealed that the reason why he can't just lose his virginity to his harem (who are ''[[IfItsYouItsOkay totally willing]]'') is because [[spoiler: of trauma when he was killed by Reynalle all the way back when the plot starts.]]

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* ''ComicBook/SinCity'': It is implied that Marv -- the big, tough, near-invincible badass -- was having "the night of his life" with Goldie, and lost his virginity to her. Marv specifically says that not even any of the city's numerous prostitutes would come near him due to his enormous stature, tough looks, and violent reputation, the implication being that certainly no non-prostitute would come within a mile of him.
* ''ComicBook/{{Hawkman}}'': Katar Hol in the ''Hawkworld'' continuity. When two women want to show their gratitude for saving their lives, he admits that he's a virgin and wants his first time to be special. That just makes them more interested in him.
* Played with in the "Shout at The Devil" story line of ''ComicBook/HackSlash''. Hulking and deformed slasher-slayer Vlad has unsurprisingly never "made the sex" with a woman, but can't rescue his partner-in-slayage Cassie until he does. [[spoiler: The villain has a mind-control spell that only works on virgins.]] Hilarity ensues.
* ''ComicBook/TalesOfTheDragonGuard'' takes this and runs with it. Only [[VirginPower virgin girls are immune to]] TheCorruption. Virgin boys, grown men, and non-virgin girls still get mutated.
* ''ComicBook/JudgeDredd'': Hinted at since the beginning and confirmed in recent years, Judges (of both sexes) are trained from the outset to be celibate. The "Wally Squad", i.e. the undercover division, are allowed to get it on but only when "in character" and even then they're not supposed to enjoy it. The penalty for infraction is usually dismissal; if they haven't yet infracted they are expected to resign. Many dismissed in this way, for example [=GalenDeMarco=], become private investigators.

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[[folder:Fan Works]]
* "Fanfic/ToAbsentFriends" has a rare female example when the other women on USS ''Bajor'''s senior staff are surprised to learn that their Vulcan member T'Var is a virgin despite having been through ''pon farr'' at least once (she was able to deal with it by meditation and her parents had decided against [[ArrangedMarriage arranging a match for her]]).
* ''Fanfic/TamersForeverSeries'': The adult Takeru Takaishi. Despite being one of the biggest badasses in the series, he is specifically stated to be a virgin and while this ''does'' cause a brief awkward moment, it's not seen as important. In fact it actually ends up being part oh his [[ChickMagnet appeal]] with Rumiko calling men like him a "dying breed".
* ''Fill the Moon'' plays with this. Xaldin is twenty-nine and has never had sex (up to chapter 50, anyway). He is still as canonically badass as he is in the game, but the others occasionally tease him for it.
* While not directly called to attention, this is implied to be ironically subverted in ''Fanfic/FalloutEquestria''. Calamity lived alone in a shack for years, acting as the lone defender of New Appleloosa but never actually living there. He remarks that, because none of the mares back in [[spoiler: the Enclave]] shared his ideals, he saw no reason to pursue them romantically. Yet he loves meat, fixes things, and nopony would deny that he's a grade A badass at the start of the story and only becomes more so throughout! All things considered, [[spoiler: chapter 32 with Velvet Remedy may very well be his fist time.]] Calamity, never very good with words, nonetheless assures both Velvet and Little pip that it wasn't just out of convenience and he intends to take the relationship seriously.
* In ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/8185560/1/Iron-Fist-The-Movie Iron Fist: The Movie]]'' , it is revealed that since Danny lived in K'un L'un from the time he was a boy until adulthood, he had never had a girlfriend with the implication that he did not have certain other experiences, either. He is still capable of kicking ass.

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* In ''Film/HotShots'', Ramada takes Topper home with her.
-->'''Topper:''' So... I assume you've been with a man before.\\
'''Ramada:''' I'm a virgin. I'm just not very good at it.\\
'''Topper:''' Ooookay.
* In the 1987 movie version of ''Franchise/{{Dragnet}}'':
** Connie Swail is a virgin (we know because she's a virgin sacrifice) and it's implied Friday is too:
--->'''Pep Streebeck:''' Oh Joe, you never had these feelings before, have you?\\
'''Joe Friday:''' Almost. I had a kitten once.\\
'''Pep Streebeck:''' Yeah, it's going to be a little different. Connie is not going to be sleeping in a box, or meowing all night, or clawing up your drapes. Or maybe she will. I mean, you're both kind of starting from scratch with this.
** Joe, in his overly formal way, always refers to her as "the virgin Connie Swail". But at the end of the film:
--->'''Streebeck:''' Hey, partner. I tried to call you up till midnight. I thought the Christian Science reading rooms closed at ten.\\
'''Friday:''' Not that it's any of your business, Mr. National Enquirer, but I had the pleasure of spending a quiet evening in the company of Connie Swail.\\
'''Streebeck:''' ''Wait a minute! Connie Swail? Don't you mean ''the virgin'' Connie Swail?!\\
'''Friday:''' [[CrowningMomentOfFunny >:)]] (Cue music: DUM, de DUM dum...)
* ''Film/TheWickerMan'' (1973): The hero's religiously inspired chastity is a major part of the plot. Of course, [[spoiler: seeing as this gets him a VirginSacrifice]] at the end of the film, this could go either way. The 2006 remake entirely omits the hero's religion and chastity. Apparently Creator/NeilLaBute couldn't believe Creator/NicolasCage as a virgin.
* ''Film/TheFortyYearOldVirgin'' was all about [[SexAsRiteOfPassage the hero's attempts to lose his virginity]]. In a minor inversion, however, his male friends -- who had all had sex and were eagerly egging him on -- were in many ways much bigger losers than he was, and were certainly far more infantile and immature about sex, compared to the affable and handsome hero. One critic pointed that even his "unmanly" preference for bike riding rather than using a car or a motorcycle works to the hero's favor since it helps keep him in great shape and attractive to women.
* ''Literature/BornOnTheFourthOfJuly'': The protagonist (played by Creator/TomCruise) is a wrestling star in high school who loses his final match, much to the disappointment of his parents, goes off to Vietnam to prove his manhood, and gets his legs blown off. He then loses his high school sweetheart, who he had been saving himself for (who remains his friend and gets him involved in the anti-war movement). In a fit of despair, he moves to a whorehouse in Mexico frequented by boozy, PTSD'd Vietnam War paraplegics and attempts to lose his virginity (more or less) to an attractive girl there. He doesn't enjoy it much.
* ''Film/WeekendAtBerniesII''. One of the characters will die from a poison unless a voodoo potion with "the blood of a virgin" is made as an antidote. The poisoned character laments that he's going to die, but his friend gets up and begrudgingly holds out his finger, saying "take my blood". The potion is made from his blood and works, leading the now cured character in the final scene to razz his buddy by saying "thanks for keeping yourself a virgin for me."
* ''Film/TheMatrix'': We don't know anything about Neo's supposed love life, but it doesn't matter because he was actually in the Matrix and his body was lying in a tube the whole time. When he gets freed, he only kisses Trinity (at least in the first movie). This may have to do with the "Neo is the Messiah" interpretation.
* Played with in ''Film/TheMonsterSquad'', where the elderly mentor-figure insists that only a virgin can recite the spell that'll banish the monsters. When the big sister admits she doesn't qualify, she asks why the mentor can't do it, and is told by the Squad boys that he's not qualified either. Irate, she questions whether the boys had actually ''asked'' him. [[spoiler:They wind up having a five-year-old girl recite the words.]]
* ''Film/TheTerminator'': Badass future soldier Kyle Reese is a virgin. While he loses his virginity in the course of the film, it's also pretty clear that if Sarah hadn't initiated it, nothing would have happened.
* Captain America in ''Film/CaptainAmericaTheFirstAvenger''. He's quite intimidated by women, even after taking the Super Soldier Serum which made ladies throw themselves at him, and is noted by Bucky to not have much luck with them. Peggy Carter may as well been the closest he's ever had to a real first girlfriend. Same in ''Film/CaptainAmericaTheWinterSoldier'' where the Black Widow asks if their FakeOutMakeOut was Cap's first kiss since 1945. He denies it ("I'm 95, I'm not ''dead''."), but also claims that it's not something you need to practice, which leaves it somewhat ambiguous. He goes on to say that it's hard for him to find someone with shared life experience.
* Minami in ''Film/{{Gozu}}'', who - though [[BiggerIsBetterInBed well-provided]] - is still a virgin. Particularly embarrassing for him as he is a member of the {{Yakuza}}.

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[[folder:Literature]]
* In ''Literature/TheDresdenFiles'' book ''Literature/WhiteNight'', the young and talented Carlos Ramirez, who behaves like a self-styled {{Casanova}}, is identified as a virgin by sex vampire Lara Raith, who seems to think it positively ''adorable''. Harry spends the entire climactic fight scene teasing him about it. Also true of the Raiths' youngest sister (biologically a teenager), whom Harry theorizes during the denouement could kill her succubus and become human by having her first time within a loving relationship.
* Mary Stewart's trilogy about the life of [[Literature/TheMerlinTrilogy Merlin]]; the feared and powerful enchanter is a virgin [[spoiler:until he hands over his powers, and his virginity, to his successor]]. In fact, the one time he tries to have sex with a woman, [[TheLoinsSleepTonight he fails]]. He states that he had to choose between his powers and sexual prowess.
* Creator/TadWilliams' ''Literature/MemorySorrowAndThorn'': The hero, Simon, manages to get all the way to the LastMinuteHookup with RebelliousPrincess Miriamele without losing his virginity, although it was a close call. Miriamele, on the other hand, ''did'' sleep with someone else (albeit not entirely willingly), causing a [[MyGirlIsNotASlut great deal of angst]] before the two make up.
* ''Literature/BlueMoonRising'': The prince who rides forth to battle a dragon is able to do so on a unicorn, having been ''forced'' to live chastely so he won't father a child who might one day contest his older brother's throne. The princess he brings back with him, conversely, can't ride the unicorn.
* In ''Darkly Dreaming Literature/{{Dexter}}'', the titular SerialKillerKiller has avoided sex until that point, mostly because he finds the very idea of intercourse to be undignified. Only when his girlfriend presses the issue does he lose his virginity, and even then, his sociopathic mindset initially goes through with it merely to preserve his facade as a regular guy.
* Parodied in one of Creator/EstherFriesner's ''Majyk'' books: the groom has to produce a certificate guaranteeing "knowledge of the carnal arts" before he can get married. The ''bride'' has to provide evidence of her IncorruptiblePurePureness. [[spoiler: You can guess what TheReveal is.]]
* ''[[Literature/TalesOfTheFiveHundredKingdoms The Sleeping Beauty]]'': Prince Siegfried. However, given that the Tradition is trying to force him into a [[Theatre/DerRingDesNibelungen Ring Cycle]] retelling, you can't blame the guy for steering clear.
-->'''Prince Siegfried:''' ...every single female I met was [[IncestIsRelative my aunt!]] My aunt, Leopold! Even at twelve, I knew better than that!
* Trull Sengar in the ''Literature/MalazanBookOfTheFallen''. When he is introduced into the story he's already fought in two wars, been recongnized as a great warrior in his tribe, has been among the very few who have had the courage to oppose said wars, and is generally considered awesome by a lot of people. He also nonchalantly admits to never having had sex.
* ''Literature/TheWiseMansFear'': {{Exploited|Trope}} by Kvothe to escape the [[TheFairFolk Fae]] demigoddess Felurian, who has a reputation for [[DoubleStandardRapeDivineOnMortal taking lovers by force]] and driving them insane with desire. When he calls her lovemaking "adequate" and claims it's because he has nothing to compare it to, she's so put off that she agrees to release him, if only so he can sleep around a bit and appreciate just how much better she is.

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[[folder:Live Action TV]]
* ''Series/TheOC'':
-->'''Summer:''' When we had sex the other night... you weren't the only virgin in the room.\\
'''Seth:''' ''[horrified]'' [[ComicallyMissingThePoint You mean there was someone else]], ''[[ComicallyMissingThePoint watching us?]]''\\
'''Summer:''' Me, jackass! I'm a virgin!\\
''[beat]''\\
'''Summer:''' Or, I ''was''.
* In the ''Series/{{Firefly}}'' episode "[[Recap/FireflyE14ObjectsInSpace Objects in Space]]", River walks in on Jayne and Shepherd Book having a SeinfeldianConversation wherein Book has just disclosed his virginity to Jayne, much to Jayne's surprise. Book's religious order apparently has a [[VowOfCelibacy celibacy requirement]].
* ''Series/LoisAndClark'': Superman is revealed to be a virgin. He had some legitimate concerns (see [[http://www.rawbw.com/~svw/superman.html the essay]] that named the trope ManOfSteelWomanOfKleenex. The resident EthicalSlut Cat starts hitting on him from the very first episode. Apparently, the producers decided that she was too risque and removed the character. Meanwhile, Lois and Clark end up together and, supposedly, subvert this trope. By the end of the show, they are revealed to be trying for a baby.
* ''Series/BabylonFive'': Marcus Cole was a self-professed virgin and quite comfortable that way because he felt he hadn't met the right woman. He did eventually meet her, but died before they could consummate. She is shown lamenting that later.
* Played to amusing effect in ''Fighting Spiders''. The three main characters are out in the nighttime, in a cemetery no less, and the legend of the 'orang minyak' is brought up: a man covered in oil who goes around (ahem) disturbing virgins. The youngest says that since they are boys they won't be disturbed, but the one who best knows his English points out that virgins can apply to boys too...
* The ''[[Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer Buffy]]'' episode "Teacher's Pet": A shape shifting preying mantis only preys on virgin boys, and captures Xander and another boy who we had previously seen boasting about his sexual exploits. Neither he, nor Xander, is pleased when they learn that they were chosen for their virginity, and the guy threatens to sue, if they tell anyone. Xander spent two and a half seasons proving his BadassNormal credentials while hanging onto his virginity (his relationship with Cordelia was unconsumated). When he helps out [[ActionGirl Faith]] in season 3, she thanks him (& burns off extra agression) by seducing him. Xander has sex, but it's not the most remarkable or manly thing he does even that night, making it a bit of a subversion of this trope. The trope is completely PlayedStraight when it comes to Liam/Angel, Giles, Spike, and Oz, though.
* ''Series/{{Glee}}'': The series portrays high school students' sex lives very accurately--or at least, more accurately than most shows. Kurt and Artie (unpopular) are both virgins at their introductions, as are Finn and Blaine (popular). Over the course of three seasons [[spoiler: all four of them]] lose their virginity, as do most of the virginal female characters. Special mention goes to Kurt, who explicitly states on two separate occasions that either he isn't ready for sex (to the point of ''literally'' sticking his fingers in his ears and going "la la la" in order to avoid talking about it), or that he wants his first time to be meaningful. On a smaller scale, however, played straight in "The Power of Madonna", when Finn is the only one who sleeps with his intended (in his case, [[BiTheWay Santana]]) during the "Like a Virgin" number (Emma and Rachel [[MyGirlIsNotASlut do not]]). It becomes SexAsRiteOfPassage, and he "doesn't feel any different." In fact, he later heavily regrets it because it didn't mean anything and it wasn't with Rachel, the girl he loves.
* ''Series/{{Mash}}'':
** On one episode, Frank Burns tells the other doctors a story about how a girl from the debate team hit on him in high school, but he turned her down because he was saving himself for marriage. Our heroes react with disbelief, and even the [[CoolOldGuy usually fair-minded]] Col. Potter dubs Frank a "creep" as a result. Granted, they're all prone to dislike Frank due to him being a HolierThanThou JerkAss, but this particular instance seems to reveal more about the era's mores regarding masculinity than the characters.
** The [[CharacterizationMarchesOn innocent version]] of Radar. While he worries about it a fair bit, anytime he does someone (usually Hawkeye) will tell him that a girl he wants to bring home to his mother is worth waiting for. In the episode "Springtime", when Klinger gets married, after a date with a nurse, Radar walks into the room where the ceremony is held, all crumbled up saying "I think I've just been slaked". Radar's character was changed to be more innocent as the show went on; there was mention of him losing his virginity, but later on in the show he was still a virgin. In the later show "After MASH" he gets married and there's mention of him being a virgin on his wedding night.
* WordOfGod [[http://insidetv.ew.com/2009/04/27/big-bang-video/ says]] that Sheldon from ''Series/TheBigBangTheory'' is probably a virgin, as he considers sex to be a silly human weakness and has [[{{Asexuality}} no personal interest whatsoever]]. He now has Amy Farrah Fowler in his life, but they've agreed that they're not boyfriend-girlfriend, they're just intellectual companions. In an [[WhatCouldHaveBeen unaired pilot]], he claims to have had sex, but that doesn't really count. He and Amy have since become an OfficialCouple, but he still [[ChastityCouple refuses to have sex with her.]]
* In the slasher movie-themed episode of ''Series/BoyMeetsWorld'', GenreSavvy Shawn points out that only virgins survive slasher movies. Eric and Jack proudly accept they're going to die (Corey turns to Topanga and remarks "Thanks for saving me" and Shawn admits he'll "get as badly hurt as you can without dying"). Eric & Shawn then realize that Feeny had just been killed, so they start dancing in his memory.
* In ''Series/TheAmazingRace 4'', Millie & Chuck had dated for 12 years but said they never consummated. This was apparently notable enough that where most teams are labeled "Dating", "Married", "Best Friends" or the like, the show labeled these two "The Virgins".
* Deputy Enos Strate on ''Series/TheDukesOfHazzard'' was identified as "the oldest virgin in Hazzard County". In one of the later episodes, Enos told Daisy he was saving himself for marriage.
* ''Series/TheGoldenGirls'': In one flashback episode Blanche recalled a New Year's Eve she had spent with a man who had just left the priesthood and was in fact a virgin. Blanche was completely ecstatic at the thought of having sex with a virgin because it would bring out "the artist" in her since she was about to work with what was essentially a blank slate.
* Subverted with Cody in ''Series/StepByStep'', whom everyone assumes not to be a virgin because he's old enough and, while a bit of a {{Cloudcuckoolander}}, not portrayed as a loser in any way. He is, however, a virgin, sees nothing wrong with being a virgin, and is never ashamed to admit it on the few occasions when the subject comes up.
* In the ''Series/DoctorWho'' episodes "The Impossible Planet" and "The Satan Pit", Toby (the only human to be possessed by the Beast) is specifically identified as "the virgin" when the possessed Ood list the human crew's fears and secrets. Was his possession meant to be a VirginSacrifice? [[spoiler: He does end up falling into a black hole.]]

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[[folder:Tabletop]]
* ''{{TabletopGames/Warhammer40000}}'':
** As Space Marine recruits are picked from a very young age, usually years before puberty, and these "neophytes" have been either trained or catered to to make the suitable applicants, to make many of them almost unaware of the other sex. Further training and biological changes to the neophyte's body removes or at least represses their human desires and replaces them with a burning need to honour the Emperor in battle. Fans intensely debate wether they still even have the parts for it.
** You'd think that the brutish, barbarian and often very masculine Orks would have lots of ([[RapeAsDrama perhaps forced]]) sex, but the entire race is, in fact, mono-gender, and reproduces through fungal spores.

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* ''VideoGame/MonsterGirlQuest'': Luka is a TechnicalVirgin until the end of the second game, not counting non-canon game overs. The game also features a female example: Alice, as the Monster Lord in a world where the monster girls rape human males on a regular basis (long story, blame the human goddess), was assumed to be very emphatically not a virgin. Turns out, she was.
* ''Franchise/{{Halo}}'': A [[{{Asexuality}} drastically reduced sex drive]] is one of the potential side-effects of the [[{{SuperSoldier}} Spartan-II augmentations]], enhanced by [[{{ConsummateProfessional}} their particular mind-set]]. Their Spartan-III & Spartan-IV counterparts lack the side effect, though the [=IIIs=] have the same single-minded focus on their work as the [=IIs=].
* John R. Blade, the hyper-macho protagonist of ''VideoGame/SiN'' possibly averts this. In the game's ending he is distracted by [[EvilIsSexy Elexis Sinclair]], and becomes nervous, even stuttering, as she spreads her legs and moves her hand down between them. She says something to the effect of "I'll bet you've never seen anything... like THIS!". She then proceeds to press the [[BigRedButton Big Red Teleporting Button]], gets split into four on an atomic level, is put into four separate rockets, and escapes to god knows where.
* ''Franchise/DragonAge'':
** Alistair in ''VideoGame/DragonAgeOrigins'' actually is a virgin, as a result of growing up in the chantry and then being recruited directly from there into the Grey Wardens. The female PlayerCharacter can, of course, [[OptionalSexualEncounter rectify this]]; [[CoolOldLady Wynne]] and [[DepravedBisexual Zevran]] playfully give Alistair TheTalk partway through his RomanceSidequest, much to his embarrassment.
** Fenris in ''VideoGame/DragonAgeII'' also admits to being probably a virgin (before [[OptionalSexualEncounter Hawke]] or [[PairTheSpares Isabela]]), as he has no memory of his life before receiving the lyrium markings, and knows he hasn't done it since. While there was some implication of sexual abuse while a slave, Fenris doesn't seem to count that.
* Averted in ''VideoGame/BenJordanParanormalInvestigator'' case three. The witch coven reveals that they chose Ben because they needed to sacrifice a virgin. When Ben denies it, the coven leader says that they "can tell these things". [[spoiler:He later spends the night with his girlfriend, but the story doesn't make a big deal out of it.]]
* ''VideoGame/{{Psychonauts}}'': Sasha Nein. Despite being an ''international psychic secret agent superhero,'' he is almost certainly a virgin. [[spoiler: Seeing a mental picture of his mother having sex from his father's perspective]] probably gave him a few intimacy issues. Of course, he sometimes acts CampStraight ("So... tacky... can't... look... directly... at... it...") but still. However, some memories belonging to Milla (another agent who works with Sasha a lot,) suggest that there is some level of romantic/sexual tension between them. However, since these are her memories, it is entirely possible that this [[UnreliableNarrator is just wishful thinking on her part.]]
* ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyII'': The [[NeverLiveItDown infamous]] scene where [[TheHero Firion]] is seduced by a [[CuteMonsterGirl lamia queen]] masquerading as the rebel princess practically cements it, given Firion's hilarious reactions during. Even more interestingly, fandom has embraced this (unusual, considering what most fans are most interested in), Firion's FanNickname in Japanese is, quite literally, "virgin." [[note]]It's ''doutei'', and was probably also chosen because it rhymes with ''koutei'', a Japanese word for "emperor" and the title of the game's {{Bishonen}} BigBad.[[/note]]
* In ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyVII'', a deleted scene had a female prostitute ask Cloud if "this is his first time", [[ButThouMust to which he can only answer "Yeah" or "I don't remember"]] (which triggers the flash that indicates he's [[spoiler: recalling one of Zack's memories]]). This rather implied Cloud is a virgin (and [[spoiler: Zack wasn't]]). Doesn't count as an aversion, though, because the scene was deleted, and also because Cloud's status as a man ''pretending'' to be a "real man" as an affectation is a key point of his character.
* An early puzzle in ''VideoGame/McPixel'' is a volcano demanding a virgin sacrifice. You have twenty seconds to decide between a DumbBlonde or a cow. The answer is [[spoiler:to TakeAThirdOption and have [=McPixel=] throw ''himself'' into the volcano]].

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* In ''Webcomic/{{Pandect}}'', Noah is told his true love will be a male "mature lizard Ace who is also a virgin." Since Aces are animals with human souls and bodies, a virgin Ace has never had sex as an animal or a human, and a mature Ace is at least 100 years old, it genuinely shocks Noah when he finally meets one.
* Inverted in ''Webcomic/{{Misfile}}'', where the originally male protagonist was not only a virgin but hadn't even had a girlfriend, only to discover post-[[GenderBender misfile]] that ''she'' had already surrendered ''her'' virginity to his best friend and mentor, permanently ruining that relationship.
* Touched upon in ''Webcomic/TheAdventuresOfDrMcNinja'' where Gordito asks the Doctor after [[spoiler:the motorcycle Sparkle Lord was a Unicorn and apparently Unicorns only approach virgins. [[http://drmcninja.com/page.php?pageNum=73&issue=15 Seen here]]]].
* Ivan from ''Webcomic/{{Oglaf}}'' manages to be a TechnicalVirgin despite frequently "having sex done to me" (unwillingly).

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* ''WebVideo/DoctorHorriblesSingAlongBlog'': Billy/Dr. Horrible - it's not mentioned whether he's a virgin or not, but he ruminates uncomfortably on Penny and Captain Hammer's relationship. "They're probably going to ...French kiss...or something." This could be virginity or simple deep denial. (The wide-eyed, [[WesternAnimation/BeavisAndButthead Beavis-like]] reaction he has to accidentally picking up one of Penny's underthings in his prequel comic might suggest the former is most likely, though.)

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* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'': Skinner's contention that he hasn't been having sex with Bart's teacher Krabappel because he actually hasn't had sex with anyone is considered undeniable. The citizens of Springfield think that ''no'' one would [[AppealToAudacity pretend to be a 44-year-old virgin if they weren't]]. ([[spoiler: Skinner probably deserves some kind of award for his chutzpah, because he's ''brazenly'' lying.]]) To top off the potential irony, when someone thinks to ask whether this means Krabappel is a virgin too, she just snorts "Hah!" Also the Comic Book Guy was a virgin [[spoiler: until his forties when he slept with Agnes Skinner.]]
* Zapp Brannigan from ''WesternAnimation/{{Futurama}}'' was a virgin [[spoiler: until he slept with Leela]]. Before that, he was the CasanovaWannabe.

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