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* In ''Series/Degrassi'' Alli Bhandari would wear her preferred clothes under oversized modest outfits to get away from the restrictions set by her strict Indian parents. This backfires eventually, but her parents do loosen their rules over time.

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* In ''Series/Degrassi'' Degrassi: The Next Generation, Alli Bhandari would wear her preferred clothes under oversized modest outfits to get away from the restrictions set by her strict Indian parents. This backfires eventually, but her parents do loosen their rules over time.
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* In ''Series/Degrassi'' Alli Bhandari would wear her preferred clothes under oversized modest outfits to get away from the restrictions set by her strict Indian parents. This backfires eventually, but her parents do loosen their rules over time.
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* Comes up regularly in ''Series/SayYesToTheDress'', where the bride's family members -- including her children at times -- object to her choice. Sometimes the dress is perfectly fine but she will give in anyway to avoid hurting anyone's feelings.
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* In ''Film/{{Apollo 13}}'', the Lovells' teenaged daughter wants to go trick-or-treating dressed like a hippie, and her father, not being fashion-conscious, says okay, but her mother quickly says she can't go out dressed that way.

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* In ''Film/{{Apollo 13}}'', the Lovells' teenaged daughter wants to go trick-or-treating to the launch dressed like a hippie, and her father, not being fashion-conscious, says okay, but her mother quickly says she can't go out dressed that way.
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* ''Literature/ColinFischer'': In seventh grade, Melissa Greer used to show up for school in dark trousers or long skirts, go into the girls' room, and come out in ripped jeans or a miniskirt.
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* ''ComicBook/ArchieComics'' several pages of Betty and Veronica (often Veronica with a dash of MsRedInk) wearing clothing that their fathers object to them wearing due to making their daughters look like the MsFanservice types they are.


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* ''Film/BridgetJonesDiary'' has a scene where Bridget shows the modern and urban outfit she'll wear to meet Mark Darcy, her eccentric and critical mother pronounces it inadequate for obtaining a man and makes her wear a brocade skirt and vest ensemble with a red pussy bow blouse (not impressive), later (in the original script) Bridget opts to wear a sexy and black dress to the consternation of her mother.
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* In ''Film/{{Apollo 13}}'', the Lovells' teenaged daughter wants to go to the launch dressed like a hippie, and her father, not being fashion-conscious, says okay, but her mother quickly says she can't go out dressed that way.

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* In ''Film/{{Apollo 13}}'', the Lovells' teenaged daughter wants to go to the launch trick-or-treating dressed like a hippie, and her father, not being fashion-conscious, says okay, but her mother quickly says she can't go out dressed that way.
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* PlayedForDrama in ''VideoGame/PokemonSunAndMoon'' and ''VideoGame/PokemonUltraSunAndMoon''. Eleven year old Lillie has always been forced to dress how her mother wants. A part of her CharacterDevelopment is escaping her mother's abusive grip and beginning to dress how she pleases (which Lillie dubs her "z-move" form).

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* PlayedForDrama in ''VideoGame/PokemonSunAndMoon'' and ''VideoGame/PokemonUltraSunAndMoon''. Eleven year old Lillie has always been forced to dress how her mother wants. A part of her CharacterDevelopment is escaping her mother's abusive grip and beginning to dress how she pleases (which Lillie dubs her "z-move" "z-powered" form).
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* In ''Film/{{Clueless}}'', Cher is about to head to a party (on a date with Christian) when Josh asks her dad if he's going to let her go out in what she's wearing, a white mini-dress. Cher's father asks her if that's what they're calling dresses these days, tells her it looks more like underwear, and makes her put something on on top. A transparent wrap.

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* In ''Film/{{Clueless}}'', Cher is about to head to a party (on a date with Christian) when Josh asks her dad if he's going to let her go out in what she's wearing, a white mini-dress. Cher's father asks her if that's what they're calling dresses these days, tells her it looks more like underwear, and makes her put something on on top. A She puts on a transparent wrap.
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* In ''Film/{{Clueless}}'', Cher is about to head to a party (on a date with Christian) when Josh asks her dad if he's going to let her go out in what she's wearing, a white mini-dress. Cher's father asks her if that's what they're calling dresses these days, tells her it looks more like underwear, and makes her put something on on top.

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* In ''Film/{{Clueless}}'', Cher is about to head to a party (on a date with Christian) when Josh asks her dad if he's going to let her go out in what she's wearing, a white mini-dress. Cher's father asks her if that's what they're calling dresses these days, tells her it looks more like underwear, and makes her put something on on top. A transparent wrap.
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* In ''Film/{{Apollo 13}}'', the Lovells' teenaged daughter wants to go out for Halloween dressed like a hippie, and her parents tell her she can't go out dressed that way.

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* In ''Film/{{Apollo 13}}'', the Lovells' teenaged daughter wants to go out for Halloween to the launch dressed like a hippie, and her parents tell father, not being fashion-conscious, says okay, but her mother quickly says she can't go out dressed that way.
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At the start of ''Webcomic/ThePrincess'', Sarah's mother hates her daughter's PrincessPhase and gets mad whenever she wears her princess dress. It's not the dress itself that's bothering her, but the fact that [[{{Transgender}} her trans child is wearing a dress]] ''period''.

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* At the start of ''Webcomic/ThePrincess'', Sarah's mother hates her daughter's PrincessPhase and gets mad whenever she wears her princess dress. It's not the dress itself that's bothering her, but the fact that [[{{Transgender}} her trans child is wearing a dress]] ''period''.
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Sometimes the kid will try to outsmart the parent by smuggling the offending outfit out of the house, either hidden under clothes they know will meet with parental approval or carried in a bag. However, this is liable to lead to a mishap which [[CantGetAwayWithNuthin results in the kid being found out and punished]].

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Sometimes the kid will try to outsmart the parent by smuggling the offending outfit out of the house, either hidden under clothes they know will meet with parental approval or carried in a bag. The kid then changes clothes once they are safely away from their parent's disapproving gaze. However, this is liable likely to lead to a mishap which end with the kid [[CantGetAwayWithNuthin suffering a mishap which results in the kid being found parent finding out and punished]].
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Sometimes the kid will try to defy this trope by smuggling the offending outfit out of the house, either hidden under clothes they know will meet with parental approval or carried in a bag. However, this is liable to lead to a mishap which [[CantGetAwayWithNuthin results in the kid being found out and punished by the parents]].

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Sometimes the kid will try to defy this trope outsmart the parent by smuggling the offending outfit out of the house, either hidden under clothes they know will meet with parental approval or carried in a bag. However, this is liable to lead to a mishap which [[CantGetAwayWithNuthin results in the kid being found out and punished by the parents]].
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Sometimes the kid will try to defy this trope by smuggling the offending outfit out of the house, either hidden under clothes they know will meet with parental approval or carried in a bag. However, this is liable to lead to a mishap which [[CantGetAwayWithNuthin results in the kid being found out and punished by the parents]].
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* In ''Film/{{Clueless}}'', Cher is about to head to a party (on a date with Christian) when Josh asks her dad if he's going to let her go out in what she's wearing, a white mini-dress. Cher's father asks her if that's what they're calling dresses these days, tells her it looks more like underwear, and makes her put something on on top.
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* ''Film/AKidLikeJake'' is about a four year old boy who likes wearing skirts and other girl's clothes. His parents allow him to dress up at home or at school, but they don't allow him to wear what he wants in the streets. Jake has a fit when his parents won't let him dress up as Rapunzel from ''Tangled'' for Halloween. At the end of the film, [[spoiler:his parents finally allow Jake to wear skirts outdoors]].
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''[[DescribeTopicHere No child of mine is Describing Parental Fashion Veto Here in a shirt like that!]]''
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* This is taken to abusive extremes in ''Manga/PokemonAdventures''. Lillie's mother Lusamine forced her daughter to dress how ''she'' wanted and would often mock her appearance. This [[AbusiveParents emotional abuse]] is extreme enough that Lillie developed PTSD-like symptoms and [[TraumaButton gets triggered]] when hee appearances are complimented.

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* This is taken to abusive extremes in ''Manga/PokemonAdventures''. Lillie's mother Lusamine forced her daughter to dress how ''she'' wanted and would often mock her appearance. This [[AbusiveParents emotional abuse]] is extreme enough that Lillie developed PTSD-like symptoms and [[TraumaButton gets triggered]] when hee appearances are her appearance is complimented.
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* ''ComicStrip/StoneSoup'': While it's not unusual for Holly to favor pieces that are both high-priced ''and'' slutty, in one strip she managed to outdo even herself in such a way that her mother Val finally laid down the law: "NO DAUGHTER OF MINE IS GOING OUT LOOKING LIKE THAT!!!"

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* ''ComicStrip/StoneSoup'': While it's not unusual for Holly to favor pieces that are both high-priced ''and'' slutty, in one strip she managed to outdo even herself in such a way that her mother Val finally laid down the law: "NO '''''"NO DAUGHTER OF MINE IS GOING OUT LOOKING LIKE THAT!!!"THAT!!!"'''''
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At the start of ''Webcomic/ThePrincess'', Sarah's mother hates her daughter's PrincessPhase and gets mad whenever she wears her princess dress. It's not the dress itself that's bothering her, but the fact that [[{{Transgender}} their trans child is wearing a dress]] ''period''.

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At the start of ''Webcomic/ThePrincess'', Sarah's mother hates her daughter's PrincessPhase and gets mad whenever she wears her princess dress. It's not the dress itself that's bothering her, but the fact that [[{{Transgender}} their her trans child is wearing a dress]] ''period''.
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* This is taken to abusive extremes in ''Manga/PokemonAdventures''. Lillie's mother Lusamine forced her daughter to dress how ''she'' wanted and would often mock her appearance. This [[AbusiveParents emotional abuse]] is extreme enough that Lillie developed PTSD-like symptoms and [[TraumaButton gets triggered]] when hee appearances are complimented.
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* PlayedForDrama in ''VideoGame/PokemonSunAndMoon'' and ''VideoGame/PokemonUltraSunAndMoon''. Eleven year old Lillie has always been forced to dress how her mother wants. A part of her CharacterDevelopment is escaping her mother's abusive grip and beginning to dress how she pleases (which Lillie dubs her "z-move" form).


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At the start of ''Webcomic/ThePrincess'', Sarah's mother hates her daughter's PrincessPhase and gets mad whenever she wears her princess dress. It's not the dress itself that's bothering her, but the fact that [[{{Transgender}} their trans child is wearing a dress]] ''period''.
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* ''WesternAnimation/{{Animaniacs}}'' had a ''Katie Ka-Boom'' short where Katie's mother objected to Katie going out wearing a shirt that [[BareYourMidriff didn't cover her belly button]]. Katie being, well ''[[TeensAreMonsters Katie]]'', this results in her turning into a clothes-breathing monster with a protruding belly, who storms out of the house, roaring that she'll dress how she wants... [[CouldHaveAvoidedThisPlot before coming back and changing into a less revealing shirt because it was cold out.]]
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* Parodied with [[UsefulNotes/McDonalds Ronald McDonald]] from ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'':
--> [[HypocriticalHumor You're not going out with all that makeup]]. You're a [=McDonald=], not a whore.

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* Parodied with in a ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'' cutaway gag. Meg bemoans that having Peter for a father is more embarrassing than having [[UsefulNotes/McDonalds Ronald McDonald]] from ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'':
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as one. Cut to Ronald acting like a typical suburban father telling his teenaged daughter not to go out in [[HypocriticalHumor You're not going out with all that makeup]]. You're heavy makeup]].
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* During the ''The Name Of The Game'' opening arc of ''ComicBook/TheBoys'', Butcher has a meeting with Mother's Milk. MM objects strongly to the outfit his daughter's wearing. She ignores him and Butcher chews her out over disrespecting her father, terrifying the two 'gangstas' she was hanging out with in the process.

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* ''ComicBook/TheBoys'': During the ''The Name Of The Game'' opening arc of ''ComicBook/TheBoys'', the Game'', Butcher has a meeting with Mother's Milk. MM objects strongly to the outfit his daughter's wearing. She ignores him and Butcher chews her out over disrespecting her father, terrifying the two 'gangstas' she was hanging out with in the process.



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* Several ''ComicStrip/CalvinAndHobbes'' strips involve Calvin's mom disagreeing with Calvin's style choices:
** In one strip, Calvin's clothes gain sentience and force themselves on him, leading to him trying to leave in horribly mismatched outfit. Calvin's mom says "You're wearing that?" and is implied to make him change.
** Another strip involves Calvin trying on TriangleShades, only for his mom to refuse to buy them.
** In one strip, Calvin decides to invert his pants and shirt when headed to school, but his mom has none of it.
* In one ''ComicStrip/TheFarSide'' cartoon, a fly leaves for a date, with her father telling her to remove some of that makeup and the gallon of pheromones.
* ''ComicStrip/StoneSoup'': While it's not unusual for Holly to favor pieces that are both high-priced ''and'' slutty, in one strip she managed to outdo even herself in such a way that her mother Val finally laid down the law: "NO DAUGHTER OF MINE IS GOING OUT LOOKING LIKE THAT!!!"
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* In ''Film/{{Apollo 13}}'', the Lovell's teenaged daughter wants to go out for Halloween dressed like a hippie, and her parents tell her she can't go out dressed that way.

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* In ''Film/{{Apollo 13}}'', the Lovell's Lovells' teenaged daughter wants to go out for Halloween dressed like a hippie, and her parents tell her she can't go out dressed that way.



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* Several ''ComicStrip/CalvinAndHobbes'' strips involve Calvin's mom disagreeing with Calvin's style choices:
** In one strip, Calvin's clothes gain sentience and force themselves on him, leading to him trying to leave in horribly mismatched outfit. Calvin's mom says "You're wearing that?" and is implied to make him change.
** Another strip involves Calvin trying on TriangleShades, only for his mom to refuse to buy them.
** In one strip, Calvin decides to invert his pants and shirt when headed to school, but his mom has none of it.
* In one ''ComicStrip/TheFarSide'' cartoon, a fly leaves for a date, with her father telling her to remove some of that makeup and the gallon of pheromones.
* ''ComicStrip/StoneSoup:'' While it's not unusual for Holly to favor pieces that are both high-priced ''and'' slutty, in one strip she managed to outdo even herself in such a way that her mother Val finally laid down the law: "NO DAUGHTER OF MINE IS GOING OUT LOOKING LIKE THAT!!!"
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-> ''"Don't step out of this house if that's the clothes you're gonna wear"''

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-> ''"Don't step out of this house if that's the clothes you're gonna wear"''wear!"''
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* Parodied with Ronald Mc Donald from ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'':
--> You're not going out with all that makeup. You're a Mc Donald, not a whore.

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* Parodied with [[UsefulNotes/McDonalds Ronald Mc Donald McDonald]] from ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'':
--> [[HypocriticalHumor You're not going out with all that makeup. makeup]]. You're a Mc Donald, [=McDonald=], not a whore.
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* Some Website/DeviantArt pictures spoof this by having Darth Vader from ''Franchise/StarWars''get upset at Leia's bikini:

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* Some Website/DeviantArt pictures spoof this by having Darth Vader from ''Franchise/StarWars''get ''Franchise/StarWars'' get upset at Leia's bikini:
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-> ''"Don't step out of this house if that's the clothes you're gonna wear"''
--> -- "You Gotta Fight For Your Right (To Party)", Music/TheBeastieBoys

A kid, often a BrattyTeenageDaughter, wants to go out with her friends, out on a date, or out to a party, but the way she's dressed does not please her guardians (usually an OverprotectiveDad). This may be due to the outfit being [[{{Stripperiffic}} overly sexy]], or the parent may simply disapprove of the style. In TheNineties and early 2000's, BareYourMidriff was a common cause for this, the style being a visual shorthand for "rebellious teenage girl". This may also extend to [[MakeUpIsEvil makeup]] and [[DelinquentHair hair]].

What happens can vary. Often the kid will obey, but in a huge huff. Other times a fight will break out, and might even cause enough bitter feelings to make the {{Conflict}} for the episode.

Compare AgeInappropriateDress, IWantMyBelovedToBeFashionable, UnderdressedForTheOccasion. Contrast NoDressCode, which implies a distinct lack of parental fashion veto.
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* During the ''The Name Of The Game'' opening arc of ''ComicBook/TheBoys'', Butcher has a meeting with Mother's Milk. MM objects strongly to the outfit his daughter's wearing. She ignores him and Butcher chews her out over disrespecting her father, terrifying the two 'gangstas' she was hanging out with in the process.
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* Some Website/DeviantArt pictures spoof this by having Darth Vader from ''Franchise/StarWars''get upset at Leia's bikini:
** [[http://mindcontroller99.deviantart.com/art/Vader-Knows-Best-256773584?q=boost%3Apopular%20vader%20knows%20best&qo=0 Vader Knows Best.]]
** [[http://jlcomix.deviantart.com/art/Dad-Vader-258509667?q=boost%3Apopular%20darth%20vader%20leia&qo=102 Dad Vader]]
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* In ''Film/{{Apollo 13}}'', the Lovell's teenaged daughter wants to go out for Halloween dressed like a hippie, and her parents tell her she can't go out dressed that way.
* ''The Cheerleaders'' (1974 softcore comedy film): Jeanne, a new cheerleader, is going to a party dressed in a very tight shirt and shorts she wore when she was 10 years old. Her father doesn't let her go. Her new cheerleader friends explain that you have to sneak out in more conservative garb and then change.
* ''Film/ETTheExtraTerrestrial'' (bowdlerization taken from its 20th Anniversary Edition): "You're not going out dressed like that! You look like a hippie!"
* In ''Film/TheSnapper'' the second-eldest daughter Lisa, who's presumed to be 13 or 14, wears a Madonna-like short skirt and jewellery and leather boots much to the patriarch's dismay.
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* In one episode of ''Series/ClarissaExplainsItAll'', Clarissa argues with her mother over what she will wear for the school photos.
* In the first episode of ''Series/DerryGirls'', Erin attempts to wear a jean jacket instead of her school uniform blazer to school. Her mom argues with her about this and threatens her with a wooden spoon, leading to a GilliganCut where Erin is headed to school in her usual uniform.
* In the ''Series/HappyDays'' episode "The Fonz is Allergic to Girls" (the title MakesSenseInContext), Joanie Cunningham is going to a party with a towel wrapped around her but she's actually wearing clothes underneath it. Howard, her father, tells her not to go to the party like that but lets her go when she reveals that she's wearing clothes under the towel.
* ''Series/SexEducation'': Eric's father quietly disapproves of his flamboyant outfits and crossdressing. This concern is justified as it incites violent homophobic action against him.
* In the ''Series/YesDear'' episode, "Pimpin' Ain't Easy", the Warner and Hughes families are about to go out to eat at a fancy restaurant, when Logan decides to protest against having to wear his older brother Dominic's hand-me-downs by wearing only his underwear. Jimmy and Christine, his parents, don't approve of this at all, and Jimmy tries to get Logan to stop by telling him that if he goes to the restaurant in his underwear, people will point, stare, and laugh at him. This doesn't faze Logan at all, and he decides to go to the restaurant in just his underwear.
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* "(You Gotta) Fight for Your Right (to Party)" by Music/BeastieBoys: "Don't step out of this house if that's the clothes you're gonna wear".
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* Several ''ComicStrip/CalvinAndHobbes'' strips involve Calvin's mom disagreeing with Calvin's style choices:
** In one strip, Calvin's clothes gain sentience and force themselves on him, leading to him trying to leave in horribly mismatched outfit. Calvin's mom says "You're wearing that?" and is implied to make him change.
** Another strip involves Calvin trying on TriangleShades, only for his mom to refuse to buy them.
** In one strip, Calvin decides to invert his pants and shirt when headed to school, but his mom has none of it.
* In one ''ComicStrip/TheFarSide'' cartoon, a fly leaves for a date, with her father telling her to remove some of that makeup and the gallon of pheromones.
* ''ComicStrip/StoneSoup:'' While it's not unusual for Holly to favor pieces that are both high-priced ''and'' slutty, in one strip she managed to outdo even herself in such a way that her mother Val finally laid down the law: "NO DAUGHTER OF MINE IS GOING OUT LOOKING LIKE THAT!!!"
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* In ''VideoGame/AlterEgo'', it is possible to object to an especially stupid fashion involving scotch tape worn by your children.
* In the beginning of ''VideoGame/Mother3'', Hinawa orders Lucas to change into his clothes before going outside to play with his brother.
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* Parodied with Ronald Mc Donald from ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'':
--> You're not going out with all that makeup. You're a Mc Donald, not a whore.
* The primetime animated series ''WesternAnimation/WaitTillYourFatherGetsHome'' has Harry Boyle win a Salesman of the Year Award, which includes a speaking dinner. Harry's daughter Alice decides to wear a sheer top for the event, which Harry deems too risque. Alice remains adamant until Harry uses Alice's ploy against her by going shirtless himself.
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