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* BoyMeetsWorld: After just having gotten back together earlier in the season, Angela leaves Shawn to go traveling with her dad near the end of the final season.
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** It should be somewhat noted that it's implied she entrusted the children to the care of a trusted nurse.

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** It should be somewhat noted that it's implied she entrusted the children to the care of a trusted nurse.nurse (who also raised her and was Nora's loving surrogate mother). It's even Foreshadowed in one scene.
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* [[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4iF47M3YDlg Jimmy Nail]] also doesn't buy it.

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* In Elmer Rice's play ''Street Scene'', Rose ultimately leaves Sam because, after what happened to her mother and her father, she decides that people shouldn't belong to anyone but themselves; "loving and belonging aren't the same thing," she explains. She tries to console him that perhaps they can be together again some time, when they're older and understand themselves better, to little avail.
* In {{Chicago}}, one of the girls in the "Cell Block Tango" number mentions how her lover, Al Lischitz, would go out every night looking for himself. "And on the way he found Ruth, Gladys, Rosemary...and [[BiTheWay Irving]]!"

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* In Elmer Rice's play ''Street Scene'', ''Theatre/StreetScene'', Rose ultimately leaves Sam because, after what happened to her mother and her father, she decides that people shouldn't belong to anyone but themselves; "loving and belonging aren't the same thing," she explains. She tries to console reassure him that perhaps they can be together again some time, when they're older and understand themselves better, to little avail.
* In {{Chicago}}, ''{{Chicago}}'', one of the girls in the "Cell Block Tango" number mentions how her lover, Al Lischitz, would go out every night looking for himself. "And on the way he found Ruth, Gladys, Rosemary...and [[BiTheWay Irving]]!"
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** It should be somewhat noted that it's implied she entrusted the children to the care of a trusted nurse.
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* Sophie, from ''{{Leverage}}'', in a inoffensive and justified version. She's trying to ditch the personas that make her nothing but a conwoman, and she has to leave the team in order to sort through them.
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* In {{Chicago}}, one of the girls in the "He Had it Comin'" number mentions how her lover, Al Lischitz, would go out every night looking for himself. "And on the way he found Ruth, Gladys, Rosemary...and Irving!"

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* In {{Chicago}}, one of the girls in the "He Had it Comin'" "Cell Block Tango" number mentions how her lover, Al Lischitz, would go out every night looking for himself. "And on the way he found Ruth, Gladys, Rosemary...and Irving!"
[[BiTheWay Irving]]!"
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* In the second ''High School Musical'', Gabriella decides she needs to do this, as she so eloquently sums up in song. She comes back, though.

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* In the second ''High School Musical'', ''HighSchoolMusical'', Gabriella decides she needs to do this, as she so eloquently sums up in song. She comes back, though.

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* In the second ''High School Musical'', Gabriella decides she needs to do this, as she so eloquently sums up in song. She comes back, though.
-->I've got to move on and be who I am
-->I just don't belong here, I hope you understand
-->We might find our place in this world someday
-->But at least for now
-->I gotta go my own way
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* The first season finale of ScoobyDooMysteryIncorporated has [[spoiler:Fred [[BreakTheCutie find out that]] [[YoureNotMyFather Mayor Jones isn't his real father and took him from his real parents, Brad and Judy of the original Mystery Incorporated,]] [[ScoobyDoobyHoax to protect the Treasure of Crystal Cove]]. He then breaks up his engagement with Daphne to find his real parents, not long after he stopped being so ObliviousToLove.]] Not bad for a ScoobyDoo show, am I right?

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* The first season finale of ScoobyDooMysteryIncorporated has [[spoiler:Fred [[BreakTheCutie find out that]] [[YoureNotMyFather Mayor Jones isn't his real father and took him from his real parents, Brad and Judy of the original Mystery Incorporated,]] [[ScoobyDoobyHoax [[ScoobyDooHoax to protect the Treasure of Crystal Cove]]. He then breaks up his engagement with Daphne to find his real parents, not long after he stopped being so ObliviousToLove.]] Not bad for a ScoobyDoo show, am I right?

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* Not many would question Nora's decision to leave her husband after he shows his true colours in Ibsen's ''A DollsHouse.'' After subservient and sweet-natured Nora forges a signature to save her husband - her one and only show of strength up until this point - he suddenly turns on her when this "deception" is revealed. As she realises that he will stop loving her if she is anything other than a "doll" for him, she decides to leave in order to develop her own personality. Less sympathetic, though, is her decision to abandon her children into the bargain. ValuesDissonance may play a part here - at the time it was written, it would probably be extremely difficult for a "rogue" wife to get custody of her children. However, Nora's final speech suggests that even if it were possible to keep the children, she wouldn't even try.

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* Not many would question Nora's decision to leave her husband after he shows his true colours in Ibsen's ''A DollsHouse.''ADollsHouse.'' After subservient and sweet-natured Nora forges a signature to save her husband - her one and only show of strength up until this point - he suddenly turns on her when this "deception" is revealed. As she realises that he will stop loving her if she is anything other than a "doll" for him, she decides to leave in order to develop her own personality. Less sympathetic, though, is her decision to abandon her children into the bargain. ValuesDissonance may play a part here - at the time it was written, it would probably be extremely difficult for a "rogue" wife to get custody of her children. However, Nora's final speech suggests that even if it were possible to keep the children, she wouldn't even try.



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*** Well, finding yourself is probably easier without having to care about children at the same time. Besides, Thorvald is hardly presented as a bad father, and the children would probably be much better off with a stable house, food, their education, and their governess than being dragged away from all that in a family custody battle.
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* Not many would question Nora's decision to leave her husband after he shows his true colours in Ibsen's ''A Doll's House.'' After subservient and sweet-natured Nora forges a signature to save her husband - her one and only show of strength up until this point - he suddenly turns on her when this "deception" is revealed. As she realises that he will stop loving her if she is anything other than a "doll" for him, she decides to leave in order to develop her own personality. Less sympathetic, though, is her decision to abandon her children into the bargain. ValuesDissonance may play a part here - at the time it was written, it would probably be extremely difficult for a "rogue" wife to get custody of her children. However, Nora's final speech suggests that even if it were possible to keep the children, she wouldn't even try.

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* Not many would question Nora's decision to leave her husband after he shows his true colours in Ibsen's ''A Doll's House.DollsHouse.'' After subservient and sweet-natured Nora forges a signature to save her husband - her one and only show of strength up until this point - he suddenly turns on her when this "deception" is revealed. As she realises that he will stop loving her if she is anything other than a "doll" for him, she decides to leave in order to develop her own personality. Less sympathetic, though, is her decision to abandon her children into the bargain. ValuesDissonance may play a part here - at the time it was written, it would probably be extremely difficult for a "rogue" wife to get custody of her children. However, Nora's final speech suggests that even if it were possible to keep the children, she wouldn't even try.

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* The 1981 Human League song "Don't You Want Me" is also about this situation from the dumpee's POV, but unlike the examples above, he ''isn't'' taking it well.
-->When you think you've changed your mind
-->You had better change it back or we. will. both. be sorry!

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* One of the possible endings in ''KanaLittleSister''.
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* Any game with LoadsAndLoadsOfCharacters will generally have one of them go on a journey to find themselves in the epilogue. Examples include the {Suikoden} series and VandalHearts.

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* Any game with LoadsAndLoadsOfCharacters will generally have one of them go on a journey to find themselves in the epilogue. Examples include the {Suikoden} series {{Suikoden}} series, the FireEmblem series, and VandalHearts.
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** Right. Existential confusion makes it impossible to hold down a job or shop for foood or clean house... Hmmm, how is Nora supposed to take care of ''herself''?
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* [[JonathanCoulton Not About You]] appears to be about this, and mentions it almost by name: "I saw that movie where the guy gets dumped and the girl goes off to find herself."
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* Kamelot mentioned this on their Epica album-track. Center OF the Universe and Farewell.
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** It's an especially big WallBanger, because we never find out where he went or what he did while there, or what everyone else has been up to while he's gone. It looked like they were going to ''try'' to do a sequel, but for some reason never did, so it's just a CliffHanger.

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** It's an especially big WallBanger, a real head-scratcher, because we never find out where he went or what he did while there, or what everyone else has been up to while he's gone. It looked like they were going to ''try'' to do a sequel, but for some reason never did, so it's just a CliffHanger.
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** Kind of understandable, though. If she doesn't know who she is as a person, it's going to be extremely difficult to care for her children in the unlikely event she'd get custody.
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** Also one of the reasons why Dan and Jenny's parents got divorced.
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* The reason for [[spoiler: Chuck and Blair's]] latest break-up on ''GossipGirl''.
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** Scott himself is sort of forced into it.
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-->She said "It's just a woman thing" and pulled out of the drive\\
I said not to worry I'm an understanding guy.\\
I've heard that when you love someone, you gotta let em go\\
She hollered, "When I find myself you'll be the first to know."\\
Ooh. No news.
-->--Lonestar, "No News"
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* Ramona Flowers did this in ''ScottPilgrim''. Though she does come back.
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* Lonestar's "No News" is also from the POV of the dump-ee.
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* In {{Chicago}}, one of the girls in the "He Had it Comin'" number mentions how her lover, Al Lischitz, would go out every night looking for himself. "And on the way he found Ruth, Gladys, Rosemary...and Irving!"

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