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-->-- '''Fuschia''', ''Webcomic/{{Sinfest}}''

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-->-- '''Fuschia''', '''Fuchsia''', ''Webcomic/{{Sinfest}}''
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ThinkNothingOfIt overlaps when it combines with gratitude. ComplimentBackfire is the SubTrope where the compliment person is actively angry over the compliment.

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ThinkNothingOfIt overlaps when it combines with gratitude. ComplimentBackfire is the SubTrope where the compliment complimented person is actively angry over the compliment.
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* ''Webcomic/AxisPowersHetalia'' fanfic ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/11886910/1/Gankona-Unnachgiebig-Unità Gankona, Unnachgiebig, Unità]]'': Italy did this to Germany and Japan. Did it work? Nope.

-->Japan chuckled. "I heard Italian fireworks displays are especially beautiful." He laughed at the excited nod he received. "I can't wait to see them for myself, above such a beautiful land..." Seriously, that comment made the brunet blush! It seemed as if the earlier attack had not occurred...

-->"Grazie Giappone!" Italy could not help but feel flattered.

-->Oh Germany wanted to join in on that. "I can't wait either." The blond added, the flush on the auburn's face only intensifying.

-->"Oh smettere di ragazzi! You're embarrassing me!" The redness of the brunet's cheeks attested to that.

-->Nope. "Why should I stop saying what's true, Italia-kun?" The raven smirked.

-->"There's no reason to, so I say we should continue." The German wore the same expression as the Asian, only serving to fluster the blithe more. Seriously, is this revenge for all the times the brunet flustered them?! Intentional or not, it sure seemed like it. Not that Italy actually minded in the end though; all three shared a good laugh, not able to hold it in anymore.
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* In ''Manga/OnePiece'' , Diamante of the Don Quixote Pirates has a habit of doing this. It's clearly an act, as when the person he's talking to decides to change the subject, he'll shout, "Okay, if you insist, I'm a genius!" or something like it.

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* In ''Manga/OnePiece'' , ''Manga/OnePiece'', Diamante of the Don Quixote Pirates has a habit of doing this. It's clearly an act, as when the person he's talking to decides to change the subject, he'll shout, "Okay, if you insist, I'm a genius!" or something like it.
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* In ''Webcomic/{{Sinfest}}'', [[http://www.sinfest.net/archive_page.php?comicID=3355 Fuschia envisions saying this to Crimney.]]

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* In ''Webcomic/{{Sinfest}}'', [[http://www.sinfest.net/archive_page.php?comicID=3355 net/view.php?date=2009-11-12 Fuschia envisions saying this to Crimney.]]Crimney]].
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Jill hears a compliment -- of any type and quite possibly sincere -- from Jack and says that it was not sincere, such as doubting he meant it for her particularly, or calling him a charmer, or a rogue, a silver-tongued devil or other less than honest characterization, or it flattery, or telling him to stop it, or describing it as an exaggeration.

The compliment can be sincere; Jill can even know it. It's a ploy to avoid having to take the compliment at face value, and respond accordingly -- [[ComplimentFishing assuming it's not fishing for more compliments]].

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Jill Alice hears a compliment -- of any type and quite possibly sincere -- from Jack Bob and says that it was not sincere, such as doubting he meant it for her particularly, or calling him a charmer, or a rogue, a silver-tongued devil or other less than honest characterization, or it flattery, or telling him to stop it, or describing it as an exaggeration.

The compliment can be sincere; Jill Alice can even know it. It's a ploy to avoid having to take the compliment at face value, and respond accordingly -- [[ComplimentFishing assuming it's not fishing for more compliments]].



A socially awkward Jack who gave the compliment will often make only semi-coherent protests of sincerity, which never ends well in that scene. Many characters will be frustrated. Some will regard it as a challenge. When it's banter, the other character may banter back.

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A socially awkward Jack Bob who gave the compliment will often make only semi-coherent protests of sincerity, which never ends well in that scene. Many characters will be frustrated. Some will regard it as a challenge. When it's banter, the other character may banter back.

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* In Disney/{{Tangled}},
** when Rapunzel says she likes [[spoiler:Eugene Fitzhubert better than Flynn Rider]], Flynn says that if so, she's the first person to do so.
** when Shorty praises Mother Gothel as a StatuesqueStunner, she laughs and says, "Go on, you big lunk."

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* In Disney/{{Tangled}},
''Disney/{{Tangled}}'':
** when When Rapunzel says she likes [[spoiler:Eugene Fitzhubert better than Flynn Rider]], Flynn says that if so, she's the first person to do so.
** when When Shorty praises Mother Gothel as a StatuesqueStunner, StatuesqueStunner she laughs and says, "Go on, you laughs, before [[MoodWhiplash promptly threatening him with her dagger.]]
-->'''Shorty''': Whoa, somebody get me a glass, 'cause I just found a tall drink of water.\\
'''Gothel''': Oh, stop it, ya
big lunk."lug. (''laughs, then [[MoodWhiplash promptly points her dagger at Shorty's nose]]'') Where does that tunnel lead out?\\
'''Shorty''': [[OhCrap Knife!]]
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* {{Meatloaf}}'s "You Took the Words Right Out of My Mouth" begins with a romantic conversation that essentially says, "I give my heart and soul to you." At the end, when he asks her if she's his (albeit more poetically) and she answers, "Yes", he says, "I bet you say that to all the boys." Then the song starts.

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* {{Meatloaf}}'s Music/MeatLoaf's "You Took the Words Right Out of My Mouth" begins with a romantic conversation that essentially says, "I give my heart and soul to you." At the end, when he asks her if she's his (albeit more poetically) and she answers, "Yes", he says, "I bet you say that to all the boys." Then the song starts.

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Ranges from a simple form of banter or flirtation -- common with {{UST}} -- or even trying to avoid appearing [[{{Pride}} stuck up]], through indicating that the character is not to be won over by flattery or manipulation, or a way to joke about YourApprovalFillsMeWithShame, to [[IWorkAlone a belligerent repulse of sociability]], to [[HeroicSelfDeprecation a crushing lack of confidence.]]

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Ranges from a simple form of banter or flirtation -- common with {{UST}} -- or even trying to avoid appearing [[{{Pride}} stuck up]], through indicating that the character is not to be won over by flattery or manipulation, or a way to joke about YourApprovalFillsMeWithShame, to [[IWorkAlone a belligerent repulse of sociability]], to [[HeroicSelfDeprecation a crushing lack of confidence.]]
]] Alternately, a HumbleHero may genuinely not realize they've done anything exceptional, and brush off compliments with a phrase like "ImNotAHeroIm" or "ThinkNothingOfIt."


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Exactly InvertedTrope of DudeWheresMyRespect
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* It's common courtesy to do this trope in Japan, otherwise you're seen as arrogant.
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* In ''Manga/OnePiece'' , Diamante of the Don Quixote Pirates has a habit of doing this. It's clearly an act, as when the person he's talking to decides to change the subject, he'll shout, "Okay, if you insist, I'm a genius!" or something like it.
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* The Confucian etiquette in ''Literature/WaterMargin'' means that when any two of the heroes meet for the first time--which happens [[LoadsAndLoadsOfCharacters a lot]]--they're each contractually obligated to say how famous and awesome the other is, and to deny their own fame and awesomeness. For example, Chao Gai is indeed famous, wealthy, and valiant, but when he presents himself to the leader of the Liangshan outlaws:
-->'''Wang Lun:''' The fame of Chao Gai the Heavenly King has long thundered in my ears. It is a pleasure to welcome you to our humble stronghold.\\
'''Chao Gai:''' I am a crude, unlettered fellow seeking refuge, hoping only to be a simple foot soldier under your command.
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* ''Literature/ProtectorOfTheSmall'''s Keladry of Mindelan will insist that she's only doing what she's been trained to do, or that she's had plenty of help, whenever a friend compliments her for doing something {{Badass}}.

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* ''Literature/ProtectorOfTheSmall'''s Keladry of Mindelan will insist that she's only doing what she's been trained to do, or that she's had plenty of help, whenever a friend compliments her for doing something {{Badass}}.badass.

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* ''{{Friends}}'': While comforting Monica over her single status, Chandler tells her: "Who wouldn't want you?" but she passes it off with a joke. Later subverted when he tells her she was the most beautiful woman in the room...and she asks if he's serious.(RelationshipUpgrade ensues).

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While comforting Monica over her single status, Chandler tells her: "Who wouldn't want you?" but she passes it off with a joke. Later subverted when he tells her she was the most beautiful woman in the room...and she asks if he's serious.(RelationshipUpgrade ensues).
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-->'''Shepard:''' I bet you say that to every guy who [[spoiler: gets you a homeworld.]]
-->'''Tali:''' Only the cute ones.

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-->'''Tali:''' -->'''Tali''': Only the cute ones.
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* ''HeyArnold'', "Married".

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* ''HeyArnold'', ''WesternAnimation/HeyArnold'', "Married".



* An interesting variant in ''TheSimpsons'' episode [[Recap/TheSimpsonsS2E18BrushWithGreatness Brush With Greatness]] when Marge tells her art teacher [[JonLovitz Mr. Lombardo]] he's very supportive. He immediately says, "Marge, please, I don't take praise VERY WELL!" The irony is that he praises everything he sees.

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* An interesting variant in ''TheSimpsons'' ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'' episode [[Recap/TheSimpsonsS2E18BrushWithGreatness Brush With Greatness]] when Marge tells her art teacher [[JonLovitz [[Creator/JonLovitz Mr. Lombardo]] he's very supportive. He immediately says, "Marge, please, I don't take praise VERY WELL!" The irony is that he praises everything he sees.
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->'''Fuschia''': ''Oh, I bet you say that to all the devil girls''.
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->'''Fuschia''': ''Oh, ->''"Oh, I bet you say that to all the devil girls''.
girls"''.
-->-- '''Webcomic/{{Sinfest}}'''
'''Fuschia''', ''Webcomic/{{Sinfest}}''
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* {{Dilbert}} features a strip with Dogbert demonstrating on Ratbert how he can use false self-deprecation to [[ComplimentFishing make people compliment him]], and use false compliments to make people insult themselves.

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* {{Dilbert}} ''ComicStrip/{{Dilbert}}'' features a strip with Dogbert demonstrating on Ratbert how he can use false self-deprecation to [[ComplimentFishing make people compliment him]], and use false compliments to make people insult themselves.themselves.
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* In ''MassEffect'', Shepard can joke about this with Tali at the conclusion of her quest line:
-->'''Shepard:''' I bet you say that to every guy who [[spoiler: gets you a homeworld.]]
-->'''Tali:''' Only the cute ones.
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* Rose Lalonde of ''Webcomic/Homestuck'' repeatedly denies any compliments to her character from those around her, especially from the most sincere one of them all, John Egbert. She even falsely interprets John's completely frank reasoning for why he gave her knitting needles as a passive-aggressive way of pointing out her dark personality, ''even when he says it in his letter''.

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* Rose Lalonde of ''Webcomic/Homestuck'' ''Webcomic/{{Homestuck}}'' repeatedly denies any compliments to her character from those around her, especially from the most sincere one of them all, John Egbert. She even falsely interprets John's completely frank reasoning for why he gave her knitting needles as a passive-aggressive way of pointing out her dark personality, ''even when he says it in his letter''.
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* Rose Lalonde of ''Webcomic:Homestuck'' repeatedly denies any compliments to her character from those around her, especially from the most sincere one of them all, John Egbert. She even falsely interprets John's completely frank reasoning for why he gave her knitting needles as a passive-aggressive way of pointing out her dark personality, ''even when he says it in his letter''.

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* Rose Lalonde of ''Webcomic:Homestuck'' ''Webcomic/Homestuck'' repeatedly denies any compliments to her character from those around her, especially from the most sincere one of them all, John Egbert. She even falsely interprets John's completely frank reasoning for why he gave her knitting needles as a passive-aggressive way of pointing out her dark personality, ''even when he says it in his letter''.
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* Rose Lalonde of Homestuck repeatedly denies any compliments to her character from those around her, especially from the most sincere one of them all, John Egbert. She even falsely interprets John's completely frank reasoning for why he gave her knitting needles as a passive-aggressive way of pointing out her dark personality, ''even when he says it in his letter''.

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* Rose Lalonde of Homestuck ''Webcomic:Homestuck'' repeatedly denies any compliments to her character from those around her, especially from the most sincere one of them all, John Egbert. She even falsely interprets John's completely frank reasoning for why he gave her knitting needles as a passive-aggressive way of pointing out her dark personality, ''even when he says it in his letter''.
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*Rose Lalonde of Homestuck repeatedly denies any compliments to her character from those around her, especially from the most sincere one of them all, John Egbert. She even falsely interprets John's completely frank reasoning for why he gave her knitting needles as a passive-aggressive way of pointing out her dark personality, ''even when he says it in his letter''.
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* An interesting variant in ''TheSimpsons'' episode [[Recap/TheSimpsonsS2E18BrushWithGreatness Brush With Greatness]] when Marge tells her art teacher [[JonLovitz Mr. Lombardo]] he's very supportive. He immediately says, "Marge, please, I don't take praise VERY WELL!"

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* An interesting variant in ''TheSimpsons'' episode [[Recap/TheSimpsonsS2E18BrushWithGreatness Brush With Greatness]] when Marge tells her art teacher [[JonLovitz Mr. Lombardo]] he's very supportive. He immediately says, "Marge, please, I don't take praise VERY WELL!"
WELL!" The irony is that he praises everything he sees.
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* In ''Literature/ABrothersPrice'', Jerin indirectly dismisses the compliment his sisters pay him in assuming that noblewomen will pay a big sum as "brother's price" (that world's equivalent of a bride price), because Jerin is so beautiful. Jerin himself thinks it's just because they're his sisters that they have such a high opinion of him, and is afraid of disappointing their hopes. [[spoiler: He needn't have worried, he fetches the sum they thought he would, and they could easily have demanded more.]]
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* ''Literature/DragonBones'': Ward often does this when Oreg compliments him. One time, it is because Ward thinks of himself as playing a role, and Oreg's admiration for his personality is actually targeted at the mask. Another time, he dismisses Oreg's compliments in his inner monologue because Oreg is his slave. (Ward didn't ask for that, he inherited him. Oreg can't be freed, so Ward is stuck with him. He treats him like an additional sibling most of the time, but he remembers that Oreg is a slave whenever he does slave-like things, like saying positive things about his master)
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-->-- '''{{Sinfest}}'''

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* In ''{{Sinfest}}'', [[http://www.sinfest.net/archive_page.php?comicID=3355 Fuschia envisions saying this to Crimney.]]

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* In ''{{Sinfest}}'', ''Webcomic/{{Sinfest}}'', [[http://www.sinfest.net/archive_page.php?comicID=3355 Fuschia envisions saying this to Crimney.]]



* In Webcomic/GirlGenius, during the Literature/{{Cinderella}} story, Gil admires Agatha's entrance. She calls him a flatterer -- rather flirtatiously.

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* In Webcomic/GirlGenius, ''Webcomic/GirlGenius'', during the Literature/{{Cinderella}} story, Gil admires Agatha's entrance. She calls him a flatterer -- rather flirtatiously.

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