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I'd sooner eat the plate!

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->The next time Dad gets breakfast\\
When Mummy's sleeping late,\\
I think I'll skip the waffles.\\
I'd sooner eat the plate!
-->--"Mummy Slept Late and Daddy Fixed Breakfast" by John Ciardi
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* ''Film/{{Ajnabee}}'': {{Subverted|Trope}}, much to Raj's surprise, Priya's dad was a good cook, so she never learned herself and becomes an [[LethalChef awful cook when she tries]].
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* Averted with the protagonist of ''VisualNovel/DaughterForDessert''. Not only is he good at cooking, but he owns a diner in which he handles everything related to the kitchen.
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** "The Cartridge Family" has this exchange when Marge takes the kids after being frustrated with Homer's gun obsession.
-->'''Homer''': So this is the thanks I get for protecting my family? Then go! I'll be just fine. ''(turns to Milhouse)'' [[ImmediateSelfContradiction Do you know how to cook dinner?]]\\
'''Milhouse''': ''(excitedly)'' Do I?!

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* According to Creator/DaveBarry, this is common to all men, who have [[OneNoteCook one single dish they know how to prepare]] and [[WantsAPrizeForBasicDecency view it as a considerable achievement]]. He explored this again when he was preparing to move from Pennsylvania to Florida, as he was left behind with his son while his wife went to buy the house:
-->''My son and I, who had never been in charge of each other for this long before, embarked on the following rigorous nutritional program:\\
BREAKFAST: Frozen waffles heated up.\\
LUNCH: Hot dogs heated up.\\
DINNER: Choice of hot dogs or frozen waffles heated up.''
* Judy Blume's ''Literature/TalesOfAFourthGradeNothing'' features Peter and Fudge's mother going out of town for a couple days. Their father believes himself to be an excellent cook, particularly good at making omelets. His first effort at doing so ends with him asking Peter where the peanut butter is hidden, and Peter quietly arranges to go to his friend's house for dinner the next day.
* Cicero from ''Literature/FairyOak'' is really good at making crepés, but the only time he attemps to cook an actual meal his daughters and their babysitter are repulsed by the smell of the cauliflower pureé. Lavender even mentions she would have prefered rotten eggs.
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* According to Creator/DaveBarry, this is common to all men, who have [[OneNoteCook one single dish they know how to prepare]] and [[WantsAPrizeForBasicDecency view it as a considerable achievement]]. He explored this again when he was preparing to move from Pennsylvania to Florida, as he was left behind with his son while his wife went to buy the house:
-->''My son and I, who had never been in charge of each other for this long before, embarked on the following rigorous nutritional program:\\
BREAKFAST: Frozen waffles heated up.\\
LUNCH: Hot dogs heated up.\\
DINNER: Choice of hot dogs or frozen waffles heated up.''
* Judy Blume's ''Literature/TalesOfAFourthGradeNothing'' features Peter and Fudge's mother going out of town for a couple days. Their father believes himself to be an excellent cook, particularly good at making omelets. His first effort at doing so ends with him asking Peter where the peanut butter is hidden, and Peter quietly arranges to go to his friend's house for dinner the next day.
* Cicero from ''Literature/FairyOak'' is really good at making crepés, but the only time he attemps to cook an actual meal his daughters and their babysitter are repulsed by the smell of the cauliflower pureé. Lavender even mentions she would have prefered rotten eggs.
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* Cicero from''Literature/FairyOak'' is really good at making crepés, but the only time he attemps to cook an actual meal his daughters and their babysitter are repulsed by the smell of the cauliflower pureé. Lavender even mentions she would have prefered rotten eggs.

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* Cicero from''Literature/FairyOak'' from ''Literature/FairyOak'' is really good at making crepés, but the only time he attemps to cook an actual meal his daughters and their babysitter are repulsed by the smell of the cauliflower pureé. Lavender even mentions she would have prefered rotten eggs.
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* Cicero from''Literature/FairyOak'' is really good at making crepés, but the only time he attemps to cook an actual meal his daughters and their babysitter are repulsed by the smell of the cauliflower pureé. Lavender even mentions she would have prefered rotten eggs.
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* Another mac-and-cheese reference in the Hallmark Channel movie ''Christmas In The Air'', which finds a man panicking over having to host a potential business partner for dinner. As he tells the woman he's hired to organize his life, "Mac and cheese is a delicacy in our house!" Other scenes show him and his kids eating pizza. However, later scenes indicate that he actually ''is'' a good cook, he's just lacks the time to prepare better meals.

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* Another mac-and-cheese reference in the Hallmark Channel movie ''Christmas In The Air'', which finds a man panicking over having to host a potential business partner for dinner. As he tells the woman he's hired to organize his life, "Mac and cheese is a delicacy in our house!" Other scenes show him and his kids eating pizza. However, later scenes indicate that he actually ''is'' a good cook, he's just lacks cook--it's the time ''time'' to prepare better meals. meals that he lacks, not the skills.
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* Another mac-and-cheese reference in the Hallmark Channel movie ''Christmas In The Air'', which finds a man panicking over having to host a potential business partner for dinner. As he tells the woman he's hired to organize his life, "Mac and cheese is a delicacy in our house!" Other scenes show him and his kids eating pizza. However, later scenes indicate that he actually ''is'' a good cook, he's just lacks the time to prepare better meals.
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*Sora Wakanae in ''Manga/FamilyCompo'' almost burns the house down when his wife is absent for the day.
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Interestingly enough, the father is often shown as being quite competent in preparing food outside on a grill, but is hopeless once he comes inside into the kitchen.

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Interestingly enough, the father The main exception to this trope is often shown as being quite competent in preparing food cooked outside on a barbecue grill, but is hopeless once he comes inside into the kitchen.
especially such things as hamburgers, steaks, and hot dogs, perhaps because these foods are seen as [[RealMenEatMeat stereotypically masculine]].
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* In ''Film/TheSantaClause'', Scott completely fails at cooking Christmas dinner and ends up setting the turkey on fire. When he decides to simply eat out instead, the waitress seats him near other dads in the same situation.

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* In ''Film/TheSantaClause'', Scott completely fails at cooking Christmas Eve dinner and ends up setting the turkey on fire. When Afterwards he decides to simply eat takes Charlie out instead, to eat; the waitress seats him near other dads in the same situation.restaurant is divided into a section for a Japanese business meeting, and another section of single fathers who ''also'' burnt their family's turkeys.
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** "Bart After Dark" has Homer and Bart living off of TV dinners.

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** "Bart After Dark" has Homer and Bart living off of TV dinners.dinners, which they have at 10 PM.

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* In ''Film/TheSantaClause'', Scott completely fails at cooking christmas dinner and ends up setting the turkey on fire. When he decides to simply eat out instead, the waitress seats him near other dads in the same situation.

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* In ''Film/TheSantaClause'', Scott completely fails at cooking christmas Christmas dinner and ends up setting the turkey on fire. When he decides to simply eat out instead, the waitress seats him near other dads in the same situation.situation.
* ''Film/KramerVsKramer'' plays this trope for all the drama it can during the first morning after Joanna (the wife) has left to find herself. Ted Kramer can't even make french toast, which is a symbol of how disconnected he is from the rest of his family. [[BookEnds By the time he has to fight for the custody of his kid]], a year and a half later, he is capable of making it with ease.
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* The annual Dutch children's choir project ''Kinderen voor Kinderen'' included a song about a dad who is terrible at cooking, and completely oblivious to his own shortcomings, resulting in the strangest of dishes being served whenever mom is away from home.

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* Vegeta in ''Franchise/DragonBall'' shows in Super that he can't prepare a decent meal to even please a god as he [[DoesNotKnowHisOwnStrength breaks eggs just by simply grabbing them]]. All he can make is instant ramen. Then again, judging from what Vegeta says, Bulma isn't any better.

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* In ''{{ComicStrip/Foxtrot}}'', Roger cannot cook burgers to save his life, turning his every attempt at a barbecue into a training exercise for the local fire department. His wife ''does'' know how to cook... the problem is she's obsessed with putting healthy replacements like tofu in everything.

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* In ''{{ComicStrip/Foxtrot}}'', Roger cannot cook burgers to save his life, turning his every attempt at a barbecue into a training exercise for the local fire department. His wife ''does'' know how to cook... the problem is she's obsessed fanatical with putting healthy replacements healthy-eating, which includes things like tofu in everything.
her veggie dogs being ''carrots on buns.''
** The punchline when Andy is out of town for a week and Roger goes to buy all sorts of junk food and frozen food for them, with the cashier correctly guessing Andy was out of town. Roger lampshades the stereotype.
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With the increasing numbers of working mothers and single-parent families since the 1990s, this trope has become something of an UndeadHorseTrope in recent years but can still be seen from time to time in more recent works mostly due to RuleOfFunny.

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With the increasing numbers of working mothers and single-parent families since the 1990s, this trope has become something of an UndeadHorseTrope in recent years but it can still be seen from time to time in more recent works mostly due to RuleOfFunny.
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->Dad:OK kids, since mom's out bowling, what's it gonna be -- ''my'' cooking, or Elias Brothers Big Boy?
->Kids:(in unison) Big Boy!!
->Dad:(to camera/fourth wall) Thank goodness!

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* According to Creator/DaveBarry, this is common to all men, who have one single dish they know how to prepare and [[WantsAPrizeForBasicDecency view it as a considerable achievement]]. He explored this again when he was preparing to move from Pennsylvania to Florida, as he was left behind with his son while his wife went to buy the house:

-->''My son and I, who had never been in charge of each other for this long before, embarked on the following rigorous nutritional program:''
-->''BREAKFAST: Frozen waffles heated up.''
-->''LUNCH: Hot dogs heated up.''
-->''DINNER: Choice of hot dogs or frozen waffles heated up.''

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* According to Creator/DaveBarry, this is common to all men, who have [[OneNoteCook one single dish they know how to prepare prepare]] and [[WantsAPrizeForBasicDecency view it as a considerable achievement]]. He explored this again when he was preparing to move from Pennsylvania to Florida, as he was left behind with his son while his wife went to buy the house:

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-->''My son and I, who had never been in charge of each other for this long before, embarked on the following rigorous nutritional program:''
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Frozen waffles heated up.''
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Hot dogs heated up.''
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Choice of hot dogs or frozen waffles heated up.''
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-->''"You just have to improvise. Cloves, Tom Collins mix, pie crust..."
** ''Bart After Dark'' has Homer and Bart living off of TV dinners.

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** ''Bart "Bart After Dark'' Dark" has Homer and Bart living off of TV dinners.
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Supertrope to ADayInHerApron. Compare FeminineWomenCanCook (the view that cooking is an inherently feminine skill), MenCantKeepHouse (not only can they not cook, but they can't clean up, either) and LazyHusband (when the husband is simply too lazy to cook). Contrast the HouseHusband (who needs to know how since he keeps house while the wife works), RealMenCook, and RealMenWearPink. Not necessarily LethalChef, as the food is usually edible, if a bit bland, unhealthy, or repetitive (or some combination of the 3). See also UsefulNotes/RamenAsDehydratedNoodles for a similar food-related stereotype.

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Supertrope to ADayInHerApron. Compare FeminineWomenCanCook (the view that cooking is an inherently feminine skill), MenCantKeepHouse (not only can they not cook, but they can't clean up, either) and LazyHusband (when the husband is simply too lazy to cook). Contrast the HouseHusband (who needs to know how since he keeps house while the wife works), RealMenCook, and RealMenWearPink. Not necessarily LethalChef, as the food is usually edible, if a bit bland, unhealthy, or repetitive (or some combination of the 3).three). See also UsefulNotes/RamenAsDehydratedNoodles for a similar food-related stereotype.
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* In ''Film/HoneyIBlewUpTheKid'', Wayne tries to cook a chicken while his wife is away and only succeeds in burning it to a crisp, forcing him and his sons to have peanut butter sandwiches for dinner.
* In ''Film/MrsDoubtfire'', Daniel Hillard (in the guise of Mrs. Doubtfire) tries and fails to cook a meal for his wife and kids and sets his fake breasts on fire in the process. He later learns how to cook properly and his kids compliment him on the food.
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* Judy Blume's ''Literature/TalesOfAFourthGradeNothing'' features Peter and Fudge's mother going out of town for a couple days. Their father believes himself to be an excellent cook, particularly good at making omelets. His first effort at doing so ends with him asking Peter where the peanut butter is hidden, and Peter quietly arranges to go to his friend's house for dinner the next day.
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Compare FeminineWomenCanCook (the view that cooking is an inherently feminine skill), MenCantKeepHouse (not only can they not cook, but they can't clean up, either), ADayInHerApron, and LazyHusband (when the husband is simply too lazy to cook). Contrast the HouseHusband (who needs to know how since he keeps house while the wife works), RealMenCook, and RealMenWearPink. Not necessarily LethalChef, as the food is usually edible, if a bit bland, unhealthy, or repetitive (or some combination of the 3). See also UsefulNotes/RamenAsDehydratedNoodles for a similar food-related stereotype.

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Supertrope to ADayInHerApron. Compare FeminineWomenCanCook (the view that cooking is an inherently feminine skill), MenCantKeepHouse (not only can they not cook, but they can't clean up, either), ADayInHerApron, either) and LazyHusband (when the husband is simply too lazy to cook). Contrast the HouseHusband (who needs to know how since he keeps house while the wife works), RealMenCook, and RealMenWearPink. Not necessarily LethalChef, as the food is usually edible, if a bit bland, unhealthy, or repetitive (or some combination of the 3). See also UsefulNotes/RamenAsDehydratedNoodles for a similar food-related stereotype.
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* According to Creator/DaveBarry, this is common to all men, who have one single dish they know how to prepare and [[WantsARewardForBasicDecency view it as a considerable achievement]]. He explored this again when he was preparing to move from Pennsylvania to Florida, as he was left behind with his son while his wife went to buy the house:

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* According to Creator/DaveBarry, this is common to all men, who have one single dish they know how to prepare and [[WantsARewardForBasicDecency [[WantsAPrizeForBasicDecency view it as a considerable achievement]]. He explored this again when he was preparing to move from Pennsylvania to Florida, as he was left behind with his son while his wife went to buy the house:
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Fathers, [[BumblingDad bumbling]] or otherwise, show no ability to cook or interest in doing so. When forced to cook because their wife is sick or absent, expect the family to live off of:
* Canned, frozen, or otherwise very easy-to-prepare food
* The same dish for days on end
* Cheap takeout or delivery food (usually Chinese food, pizza, or curry for those works set in Britain)
Interestingly enough, the father is often shown as being quite competent in preparing food outside on a grill, but is hopeless once he comes inside into the kitchen.

With the increasing numbers of working mothers and single-parent families since the 1990s, this trope has become something of an UndeadHorseTrope in recent years but can still be seen from time to time in more recent works mostly due to RuleOfFunny.

Compare FeminineWomenCanCook (the view that cooking is an inherently feminine skill), MenCantKeepHouse (not only can they not cook, but they can't clean up, either), ADayInHerApron, and LazyHusband (when the husband is simply too lazy to cook). Contrast the HouseHusband (who needs to know how since he keeps house while the wife works), RealMenCook, and RealMenWearPink. Not necessarily LethalChef, as the food is usually edible, if a bit bland, unhealthy, or repetitive (or some combination of the 3). See also UsefulNotes/RamenAsDehydratedNoodles for a similar food-related stereotype.

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* Vegeta in ''Franchise/DragonBall'' shows in Super that he can't prepare a decent meal to even please a god as he [[DoesNotKnowHisOwnStrength breaks eggs just by simply grabbing them]]. All he can make is instant ramen. Then again, judging from what Vegeta says, Bulma isn't any better.

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->Kids:(in unison) Big Boy!!
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* ''Series/GroundedForLife'' had an episode where Claudia had to work overtime to save up for a vacation, so Sean cooked for the family; apparently he made macaroni and cheese 6 days in a row. Another episode has Sean ordering Chinese delivery food when he thinks Claudia will be spending the night away from home with her mother.

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* In the AnimatedMusicVideo for CountryMusic band [[Music/{{Lonestar}} Lonestar's]] 2004 hit, "Mr. Mom", the Dad tries to handle cooking. He gets instructions on how to cook a chicken filet from a book called ''Cooking For Dummies'', and his chicken filet ends up looking nothing like the one in the picture. His attempts to bake a cake also result in disaster, as noted in the lyrics below.
-->''How much smoke can one stove make?''
-->''The kids won't eat my charcoal cake.''
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* ''ComicStrip/CalvinAndHobbes'' had a story arc where Calvin's mother was sick, so Calvin's father cooked, reassuring Calvin that he lived off his own cooking for 3 years before he married Calvin's mother. Calvin says that his mother claimed that his father lived off of canned soup and frozen waffles 3 meals a day; Calvin's father's response (while holding a can of soup) was "Your mother wasn't living with me at the time, so she wouldn't know. Now get the syrup out." Interestingly enough, other strips showed Calvin's father cooking in their backyard grill quite competently.
* ''ComicStrip/CloseToHome'' had a strip featuring a restaurant called "Dad's Diner", where the menu featured dishes such as "Jelly on a Graham Cracker", "Boiled Hotdogs", and "Cheetos and Mustard".
* In ''{{ComicStrip/Foxtrot}}'', Roger cannot cook burgers to save his life, turning his every attempt at a barbecue into a training exercise for the local fire department. His wife ''does'' know how to cook... the problem is she's obsessed with putting healthy replacements like tofu in everything.

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* According to Creator/DaveBarry, this is common to all men, who have one single dish they know how to prepare and [[WantsARewardForBasicDecency view it as a considerable achievement]]. He explored this again when he was preparing to move from Pennsylvania to Florida, as he was left behind with his son while his wife went to buy the house:

-->''My son and I, who had never been in charge of each other for this long before, embarked on the following rigorous nutritional program:''
-->''BREAKFAST: Frozen waffles heated up.''
-->''LUNCH: Hot dogs heated up.''
-->''DINNER: Choice of hot dogs or frozen waffles heated up.''

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* Show up on a few occasions in ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'':
**''$pringfield (or How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Legalized Gambling)'' had Homer preparing food while Marge is gambling (this time, it ''is'' cooking of the LethalChef variety):
-->''"You just have to improvise. Cloves, Tom Collins mix, pie crust..."
**''Bart After Dark'' has Homer and Bart living off of TV dinners.

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