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* An early episode of ''{{Flashpoint}}'', has a cop beating his wife until her sister takes matters into her own and holds up the husband at gunpoint. While investigating the situation, SRU officers quickly discover that the cop's partners and friends on the force knew, or at least strongly suspected, that the cop was beating his wife, but looked the other way out of misguided respect, writing it off as something else.
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* Sometimes, people ''really do'' just walk into doors, and there are several medical conditions and medication that cause extremely easy bruising.
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* The "Something actually abusive is mistaken for something that doesn't need worrying about" factor is often the reason why reports of Female on Male abuse are treated in an off-hand way in comparison to Male on Female abuse. A man hauls off and slaps a woman in public, everyone is concerned for her safety because he's obviously a monstrous abuser. A woman hauls off and slaps a man in public, no one reacts in the same way because she probably had a good reason for doing so. Some witnesses will even assume he deserved being slapped.
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* The "Something actually abusive is mistaken for something that doesn't need worrying about" factor is often the reason why [[AbuseIsOkayWhenItsFemaleOnMale reports of Female on Male abuse are treated in an off-hand way in comparison to Male on Female abuse.abuse]]. A man hauls off and slaps a woman in public, everyone is concerned for her safety because he's obviously a monstrous abuser. A woman hauls off and slaps a man in public, no one reacts in the same way because she probably had a good reason for doing so. Some witnesses will even assume he deserved being slapped.
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* In ''TuckerAndDaleVsEvil'', the collage kids [[spoiler:and the police]] take for granted that Dale is doing terrible things to Allison.
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* There have been occasions in the UK when BDSM participants have been charged with domestic violence on the grounds that the laws on the subject don't actually ''say'' it's okay if it's consensual.
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Not that I don\'t agree, but this sounds like complaining. Besides, there\'s already an example of \"Abuse is okay when it\'s female on male\", so it doesn\'t need to be repeated.
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** Or that bullying is "just part of growing up".
*** And [[SarcasmMode girls couldn't possibly be anyone's tormenter, because the only kind of bullying ever is physically beating people up.]] (Of course, plenty of female bullies *do* beat up their victims, [[AbuseIsOkayWhenItIsFemaleOnMale not that anyone ever notices or cares...]])
*** Heck, there's a whole bunch of excuses used to ignore/justify bullying, but a whole list would fill up the page.
*** And [[SarcasmMode girls couldn't possibly be anyone's tormenter, because the only kind of bullying ever is physically beating people up.]] (Of course, plenty of female bullies *do* beat up their victims, [[AbuseIsOkayWhenItIsFemaleOnMale not that anyone ever notices or cares...]])
*** Heck, there's a whole bunch of excuses used to ignore/justify bullying, but a whole list would fill up the page.
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* In one episode of Girls (a James Bond parody about a reluctant MartyStu named Lester Girls), our hero rescue a man from getting tortured by a beautuful woman. However, the "victim" gets mad at him for ruining the scene. What first [[WrongGenreSavvy looked like]] the AbusivelySexyWoman kind of FanService turned out to be simple [[SafeSaneAndConsensual consensual]] CasualKink.
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* In one episode of Girls (a James Bond parody about a reluctant MartyStu named Lester Girls), our hero rescue rescues a man from getting tortured by a beautuful beautiful woman. However, the "victim" gets mad at him for ruining the scene. What first [[WrongGenreSavvy looked like]] the AbusivelySexyWoman kind of FanService turned out to be simple [[SafeSaneAndConsensual consensual]] CasualKink.
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* Abiru of ''SayonaraZetsubouSensei'' has her injuries mistaken for the result of domestic abuse.
** Specifically, she gets those injuries after tugging on the tails of animals she cares for at the zoo.
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* Abiru of ''SayonaraZetsubouSensei'' has her injuries mistaken for the result of domestic abuse.
** Specifically, sheabuse. She actually gets those injuries them after tugging on the tails of animals she cares for at the zoo.
** Specifically, she
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* Used as something of an EstablishingCharacterMoment in the pilot episode of ''HowIMetYourMother''. Marshall accidentally hits Lilly in the eye with a champagne cork while celebrating their engagement. When they get in a cab afterwards, with Marshall still apologizing profusely, the cab driver indignantly says "Wait, did you ''hit'' her?" Marshall and Lilly both stare at him blankly for a minute, then erupt into hysterical laughter at the very idea.
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** Another episode had Fran repeatedly having actual accidents that are often used as excuses by abuse victims, i.e. falling down stairs, getting hit by an opening door, etc. Given Stan's... [[{{Understatement}} aggressively macho]] personality, everyone assumes the worst.
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** Another episode had Fran repeatedly having actual accidents that are often used as excuses by abuse victims, i.e. falling down stairs, getting hit by an opening door, etc. Given Stan's... [[{{Understatement}} aggressively macho]] macho personality, everyone assumes the worst.
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*** And [[SarcasmMode girls couldn't possibly be anyone's tormenter, because the only kind of bullying ever is physically beating people up.]] (Of course, plenty of female bullies *do* beat up their victims, [[AbuseIsOkayWhenItIsFemaleOnMale not that anyone ever notices or cares...]]
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*** And [[SarcasmMode girls couldn't possibly be anyone's tormenter, because the only kind of bullying ever is physically beating people up.]] (Of course, plenty of female bullies *do* beat up their victims, [[AbuseIsOkayWhenItIsFemaleOnMale not that anyone ever notices or cares...]]]])
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*** And [[SarcasmMode girls couldn't possibly be anyone's tormenter, because the only kind of bullying ever is physically beating people up.]]
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*** And [[SarcasmMode girls couldn't possibly be anyone's tormenter, because the only kind of bullying ever is physically beating people up.]] (Of course, plenty of female bullies *do* beat up their victims, [[AbuseIsOkayWhenItIsFemaleOnMale not that anyone ever notices or cares...]]
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* Female participants in full-contact martial arts (eg. SocietyForCreativeAnachronism heavy combat) are often advised to tell their doctors about what they're doing as soon as they step in the door, to prevent a Type A incident.
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** Another episode had Fran repeatedly having actual accidents that are often used as excuses by abuse victims, i.e. falling down stairs, getting hit by an opening door, etc. Given Stan's... [[{{Understatement}} aggressively macho]] personality, everyone assumes the worst.
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*** Heck, there's a whole bunch of excuses used to ignore/justify bullying, but a whole list would fill up the page.
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*** And [[SarcasmMode girls couldn't possibly be anyone's tormenter, because the only kind of bullying ever is physically beating people up.]]
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* In ProtectorOfTheSmall, Keladry goes to the public baths one day to enjoy soaking in the warm water. Concerned women rush over to assure her that whoever he is, even if he's a noble, he'll be caught and tried and made to pay. Keladry is a squire, and her day-to-day injuries from combat training are apparently rather alarming out of context.
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* In ProtectorOfTheSmall, ''[[TortallUniverse Protector Of The Small]]'', Keladry goes to the public baths one day to enjoy soaking in the warm water. Concerned women rush over to assure her that whoever he is, even if he's a noble, he'll be caught and tried and made to pay. Keladry is a squire, and her day-to-day injuries from combat training are apparently rather alarming out of context.
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+Author David Sedaris tells a story in one of his books about [[AmySedaris his sister Amy]], when she was invited to be part of a magazine's photoshoot on "Women in Comedy." While the other women got glammed and made-up, Amy's only instruction to the make-up artist was "I want to look like someone beat the shit out of me." So she had her photo taken in a couture dress with fake blood, bruises and a black eye. The real kicker came when she decided to go shopping afterwards ''without removing her make-up,'' and when a concerned citizen asked her if she was OK, she replied "I'm better than OK! I've finally found a man who loves me!"
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+Author David Sedaris tells a story in one of his books about [[AmySedaris his sister Amy]], when she was invited to be part of a magazine's photoshoot on "Women in Comedy." While the other women got glammed and made-up, Amy's only instruction to the make-up artist was "I want to look like someone beat the shit out of me." So she had her photo taken in a couture dress with fake blood, bruises and a black eye. The real kicker came when she decided to go shopping afterwards ''without removing her make-up,'' and when a concerned citizen asked her if she was OK, she replied "I'm better than OK! I've finally found a man who loves me!"
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** Or that bullying is "just part of growing up".
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* In ProtectorOfTheSmall, Keladry goes to the public baths one day to enjoy soaking in the warm water. Concerned women rush over to assure her that whoever he is, even if he's a noble, he'll be caught and tried and made to pay. Keladry is a squire, and her day-to-day injuries from combat training are apparently rather alarming out of context.
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* ''{{Jam}}'' plays this for BlackComedy in sketch wherein a wife is upset about her husband's apparent affair and he's making stereotypical excuses i.e. it was purely physical, the other woman didn't mean anything to him, it was an isolated incident. His wife is finally reassured of his fidelity after he reveals that he and the other woman weren't having an affair; he was just raping her.
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* ''{{Jam}}'' plays this for BlackComedy in a sketch wherein a wife is upset about her husband's apparent affair and he's making stereotypical excuses i.e. it was purely physical, the other woman didn't mean anything to him, it was an isolated incident. His wife is finally reassured of his fidelity after he reveals that he and the other woman weren't having an affair; he was just raping her.
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* ''{{Jam}}'' plays this for BlackComedy in sketch wherein a wife is upset about her husband's apparent affair and he's making stereotypical excuses i.e. it was purely physical, the other woman didn't mean anything to him, it was an isolated incident. His wife is finally reassured of his fidelity after he reveals that he and the other woman weren't having an affair; he was just raping her.
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* The SwappedRoles episode of AmericanDad where Roger accidentally got Stan arrested (they pinned it on Roger's neo-Nazi co-worker though).
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See also FriendlyWar, CasualKink and SafeSaneAndConsensual for non-abusive stuff that can be mistaken for abuse. Compare YouJustRuinedTheShot, for cases where the "victim" was an actor in a movie rather then a participant in a sexual game. Contrast AbusivelySexy (with the subtropes BastardBoyfriend and AbusivelySexyWoman) as well as AbuseIsOkayWhenItsFemaleOnMale for situations that are clearly abusive but the audience isn't really intended to care.
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See also FriendlyWar, CasualKink CasualKink, and SafeSaneAndConsensual for non-abusive stuff that can be mistaken for abuse. Compare YouJustRuinedTheShot, for cases where the "victim" was an actor in a movie rather then a participant in a sexual game. Contrast AbusivelySexy (with the subtropes BastardBoyfriend and AbusivelySexyWoman) as well as AbuseIsOkayWhenItsFemaleOnMale for situations that are clearly abusive but the audience isn't really intended to care.
'''Warning!''' Expect unmarked spoilers, since this trope is about situations being revealedo to [[NotWhatItLooksLike be different then than what they looked.
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When PlayedForLaughs, the mistake is almost always Type A, and quickly corrected. When PlayedForDrama, however, a real victim might be denied help (Type B), a innocent person might get his life ruined with unfair accusations of abuse (Type A), or the designated "victim" (again Type A) gets stalked or outright oppressed by unwanted "rescuers". These helpers might even go to great lengths [[ManufacturingVictims trying to force her to "realize" that she's a victim of abuse]]. And no, not the actual abuse that ''they'' are subjecting her to.
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When PlayedForLaughs, the mistake is almost always Type A, and quickly corrected. When PlayedForDrama, however, a real victim might be denied help (Type B), a innocent person might get his life ruined with unfair accusations of abuse (Type A), or the designated "victim" (again Type A) gets stalked or outright oppressed by [[UnwantedRescue unwanted "rescuers"."rescuers"]]. These helpers might even go to great lengths [[ManufacturingVictims trying to force her to "realize" that she's a victim of abuse]]. And no, not the actual abuse that ''they'' are subjecting her to.
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* SlaveMaker: The noble & religious people who try to rescue mistreated slaves are horribly bad at misjudging if a slave is actually mistreated or not. This works both ways: They will let real abuse go unnoticed, and they will mistake healthy happy relationships for abuse. See also the ActivistFundamentalistAntics example.
* SlaveMaker: The noble & religious people who try to rescue mistreated slaves are horribly bad at misjudging if a slave is actually mistreated or not. This works both ways: They will let real abuse go unnoticed, and they will mistake healthy happy relationships for abuse. See also the ActivistFundamentalistAntics example.
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* In ''ICaptureTheCastle'', the Cassandra's father was sent to jail for 3 months for mock-threatening his wife with a cake knife, breaking his spirit and will to write anything past his first book.
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* LoveHina. The girls of the house will think that Keitaro, being extremely unlucky and clumsy, is trying to molest/abuse them, so type A. However, some of their punishments of him will slip the show into type B.
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* LoveHina. The girls of the house will think that Keitaro, being [[AccidentalPervert extremely unlucky and clumsy, clumsy]], is trying to molest/abuse them, so type A. However, some of their punishments of him will slip the show into type B.