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* MaritalRapeLicense: Wen Fu does this from the beginning, forcing his wife to say and do things she finds sexually demeaning, and overriding her desire to have NoPreggerSex. [[spoiler:Taken UpToEleven after Wen Fu CameBackWrong - he "punishes" Winnie for every single damn thing she does that he deems "wrong," and it's savage to say the least.]]
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* MaritalRapeLicense: Wen Fu does this from the beginning, forcing his wife to say and do things she finds sexually demeaning, and overriding her desire to have NoPreggerSex. [[spoiler:Taken UpToEleven up to eleven after Wen Fu CameBackWrong - he "punishes" Winnie for every single damn thing she does that he deems "wrong," and it's savage to say the least.]]
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* InTheBlood: Discussed and defied. Winnie knows Wen Fu and his family are terrible people, but she never blames it on bad genetics. She firmly believes they're terrible people who taught him their terrible values and made him a bad person too. [[spoiler:This is part of the reason she never thinks her children by him, including Pearl, are evil.]]
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* VillainousLineage: Discussed and defied. Winnie knows Wen Fu and his family are terrible people, but she never blames it on bad genetics. She firmly believes they're terrible people who taught him their terrible values and made him a bad person too. [[spoiler:This is part of the reason she never thinks her children by him, including Pearl, are evil.]]
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* AbortionFalloutDrama:
** A servant girl whom Wen Fu brutally raped dies trying to induce an abortion, and she is portrayed sympathetically and tragically.
** Winnie herself induces several abortions after Wen Fu falls off the deep end and abuses his MaritalRapeLicense for all it's worth. [[OffingTheOffspring Considering his hand in their daughter Yiku's death]], she considers it a pre-emptive MercyKill.
** A servant girl whom Wen Fu brutally raped dies trying to induce an abortion, and she is portrayed sympathetically and tragically.
** Winnie herself induces several abortions after Wen Fu falls off the deep end and abuses his MaritalRapeLicense for all it's worth. [[OffingTheOffspring Considering his hand in their daughter Yiku's death]], she considers it a pre-emptive MercyKill.
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* YourCheatingHeart: Wen Fu to Winnie. [[spoiler:Not that she minded after a while, since it meant she'd get a break him from him pawing at her.]]
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* SecretKeeperKeeper: Helen knew all along that [[spoiler:Pearl was Wen Fu's biological daughter. Her making excuses for Wen Fu's awful behavior was her way of trying to keep Winnie from resenting Pearl. The moment she learns that Winnie and Pearl have achieved some common ground, she ditches the act and curses Wen Fu's memory.]]
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* SecretKeeperKeeper: SecretSecretKeeper: Helen knew all along that [[spoiler:Pearl was Wen Fu's biological daughter. Her making excuses for Wen Fu's awful behavior was her way of trying to keep Winnie from resenting Pearl. The moment she learns that Winnie and Pearl have achieved some common ground, she ditches the act and curses Wen Fu's memory.]]
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* AffablyEvil: Wen Fu, at first. Then he just becomes evil.
* ArrangedMarriage: Winnie and Wen Fu.
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* AudienceSurrogate: Pearl.
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* AudienceSurrogate: Pearl.Pearl is the point of view character who is learning about her family's history along with the audience.
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* BelievingTheirOwnLies: Helen is portrayed as this. Wen Fu is ''definitely'' this.
* BreakTheCutie: ''Winnie''.
* BrattyTeenageDaughter: Mary's daughter.
* BreakTheCutie: ''Winnie''.
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* CardCarryingVillain: Wen Fu.
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* CelebrityResemblance: The telegraph girl is called "Wan Betty" ("Beautiful Betty") due to her resemblance to Bette Davis.
* TheCharmer: Wen Fu was this until he CameBackWrong.
* CrashIntoHello: Winnie and Jimmy.
* TheCharmer: Wen Fu was this until he CameBackWrong.
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* DarkAndTroubledPast: Winnie. Helen, to a lesser extent.
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* DeathOfAChild: Not only are Chinese children killed by Japanese soldiers, but [[spoiler:every child Winnie conceived while married to Wen Fu died, either in the womb or in early childhood.]]
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* DomesticAbuser: Wen Fu to Winnie. Also to their first daughter, Yiku, [[spoiler:causing her stunted growth and untimely death]].
* DrivenToSuicide: "Little Yu," an old classmate of Winnie and Peanut's, after she got stuck in an unhappy marriage.
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* {{Flashback}}: How Winnie tells Pearl her story.
* ForegoneConclusion: Winnie makes it out of the war alive, ditches Wen Fu and marries Jimmy.
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* {{Flashback}}: How Winnie tells telling Pearl her story.
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* ForegoneConclusion: Winnie makes it out of the war alive, ditches Wen Fu and marries Jimmy. This is 'foregone' because the AudienceSurrogate Pearl is the result of these actions.
* ForegoneConclusion: Winnie makes it out of the war alive, ditches Wen Fu and marries Jimmy. This is 'foregone' because the AudienceSurrogate Pearl is the result of these actions.
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* GoodGirlsAvoidAbortion: Averted with a vengeance. [[spoiler:A servant girl Wen Fu brutally raped dies trying to induce an abortion, and she is portrayed 100% sympathetically and tragically. Winnie herself induces several abortions after Wen Fu falls off the deep end and abuses his MaritalRapeLicense for all it's worth. [[OffingTheOffspring Considering his hand in Yiku's death]], she considers it a pre-emptive MercyKill.]]
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* HairTriggerTemper: Wen Fu, especially after he CameBackWrong.
* HeManWomanHater: Wen Fu in spades. He sees women as little more than objects to pick up, play with for a bit, then throw away, [[spoiler:including his own daughter that he lets die.]]
* HeManWomanHater: Wen Fu in spades. He sees women as little more than objects to pick up, play with for a bit, then throw away, [[spoiler:including his own daughter that he lets die.]]
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* HairTriggerTemper: Wen Fu, especially after Fu comes back from his accident with serious anger issues, most of which he CameBackWrong.
takes out on his wife Winnie.
* HeManWomanHater: Wen Fuin spades. He sees women as little more than objects to pick up, play with for a bit, then throw away, [[spoiler:including his own daughter that he lets die.]]
* HeManWomanHater: Wen Fu
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* HorribleJudgeOfCharacter: Winnie berates herself for believing Wen Fu was a decent human being.
** Played with in that she later admits that she tends to have a good GutFeeling about people, but she was raised to be such an ExtremeDoormat by her Old Aunt that she didn't learn to trust her instincts until it was too late.
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* HorribleJudgeOfCharacter: Winnie berates herself for believing Wen Fu was a decent human being. \n** Played with in that she later admits that she tends to have a good GutFeeling about people, but she was raised to be such an ExtremeDoormat by her Old Aunt that she didn't learn to trust her instincts until it was too late.
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* InfantImmortality: Averted. Not only are Chinese children killed by Japanese soldiers, but [[spoiler:every child Winnie conceived while married to Wen Fu died, either in the womb or in early childhood.]]
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* ItsAllAboutMe: Wen Fu.
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* MalignedMixedMarriage: Averted for Pearl and Phil. Winnie had such a ''miserable'' first marriage that she doesn't care that Pearl's husband is white, just that he's good to her.
** It also helps that Winnie and her family all come from a time and place in China when they revered all things Western, including white American men.
** It also helps that Winnie and her family all come from a time and place in China when they revered all things Western, including white American men.
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* MalignedMixedMarriage: Averted Subverted for Pearl and Phil. Winnie had such a ''miserable'' first marriage that she doesn't care that Pearl's husband is white, just that he's good to her. \n** It also helps that Winnie and her family all come from a time and place in China when they revered all things Western, including white American men.
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* MaritalRapeLicense: Wen Fu [[QuestionableConsent arguably]] does this from the beginning, forcing Pearl to say and do things she finds sexually demeaning, and overriding her desire to have NoPreggerSex. [[spoiler:Taken UpToEleven after Wen Fu CameBackWrong - he "punishes" Winnie for every single damn thing she does that he deems "wrong," and it's savage to say the least.]]
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* MaritalRapeLicense: Wen Fu [[QuestionableConsent arguably]] does this from the beginning, forcing Pearl his wife to say and do things she finds sexually demeaning, and overriding her desire to have NoPreggerSex. [[spoiler:Taken UpToEleven after Wen Fu CameBackWrong - he "punishes" Winnie for every single damn thing she does that he deems "wrong," and it's savage to say the least.]]
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* ObfuscatingStupidity: Helen all along that [[spoiler:Pearl was Wen Fu's biological daughter. Her making excuses for Wen Fu's awful behavior was her way of trying to keep Winnie from resenting Pearl. The moment she learns that Winnie and Pearl have achieved some common ground, she ditches the act and curses Wen Fu's memory.]]
** Helen also reveals [[spoiler:she knew all along that she had no deadly brain tumor, and only pretended to believe she was dying to strong-arm Winnie into telling Pearl the truth about her life in China, first marriage, [[ChildByRape and Pearl's conception]].]]
* ObnoxiousInLaws: Phil sees Pearl's family as this. He's not that far from the truth.
** Helen also reveals [[spoiler:she knew all along that she had no deadly brain tumor, and only pretended to believe she was dying to strong-arm Winnie into telling Pearl the truth about her life in China, first marriage, [[ChildByRape and Pearl's conception]].]]
* ObnoxiousInLaws: Phil sees Pearl's family as this. He's not that far from the truth.
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* ObfuscatingStupidity: Helen also reveals [[spoiler:she knew all along that [[spoiler:Pearl she had no deadly brain tumor, and only pretended to believe she was Wen Fu's biological daughter. Her making excuses for Wen Fu's awful behavior was her way of trying dying to keep strong-arm Winnie from resenting Pearl. The moment she learns that Winnie and into telling Pearl have achieved some common ground, she ditches the act truth about her life in China, first marriage, [[ChildByRape and curses Wen Fu's memory.Pearl's conception]].]]
** Helen also reveals [[spoiler:she knew all along that she had no deadly brain tumor, and only pretended to believe she was dying to strong-arm Winnie into telling Pearl the truth about her life in China, first marriage, [[ChildByRape and Pearl's conception]].]]
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* OnlyKnownByTheirNickname: Several minor characters - Betty, Old Aunt, New Aunt, Wu Ma, etcetera.
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* PluckyGirl: Nearly all the major female characters.
* PoorCommunicationKills: The reason Pearl and Winnie's relationship is so strained.
* RapeIsASpecialKindOfEvil: The Japanese soldiers and Wen Fu.
* RapePillageAndBurn: The Japanese, which was sadly TruthInTelevision.
* RapunzelHair: Winnie's mother.
* PoorCommunicationKills: The reason Pearl and Winnie's relationship is so strained.
* RapeIsASpecialKindOfEvil: The Japanese soldiers and Wen Fu.
* RapePillageAndBurn: The Japanese, which was sadly TruthInTelevision.
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* RediscoveringRootsTrip: The novel ends with the second-generation immigrant Pearl and her female relatives planning a trip to China, which Pearl thinks is timely as she has just learned about her family's backstory.
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* SelfServingMemory: Wen Fu is a malevolent version of this. The most outrageous example is repeating that he [[spoiler:lost his eye]] fighting the Japanese so much that Winnie has to point out [[spoiler:he lost his eye crashing an army truck he stole to go on a drunken joyride with a mistress]].
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* SelfServingMemory: SecretKeeperKeeper: Helen knew all along that [[spoiler:Pearl was Wen Fu's biological daughter. Her making excuses for Wen Fu's awful behavior was her way of trying to keep Winnie from resenting Pearl. The moment she learns that Winnie and Pearl have achieved some common ground, she ditches the act and curses Wen Fu's memory.]]
* SelfServingMemory:
** Wen Fu is a malevolent version of this. The most outrageous example is repeating that he [[spoiler:lost his eye]] fighting the Japanese so much that Winnie has to point out [[spoiler:he lost his eye crashing an army truck he stole to go on a drunken joyride with a mistress]].
* SelfServingMemory:
** Wen Fu is a malevolent version of this. The most outrageous example is repeating that he [[spoiler:lost his eye]] fighting the Japanese so much that Winnie has to point out [[spoiler:he lost his eye crashing an army truck he stole to go on a drunken joyride with a mistress]].
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* SexlessMarriage: [[spoiler: Helen and Jiaguo's.]]
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* SpoiledBrat: Peanut, but she gets slightly better in adulthood. Wen Fu, on the other hand...
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* SupremeChef: Winnie.
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* TextualCelebrityResemblance: The telegraph girl is called "Wan Betty" ("Beautiful Betty") due to her resemblance to Bette Davis.
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* TroublingUnchildlikeBehavior: [[spoiler: Poor Yiku and Danru...]]
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* InfantImmortality: Averted ''hard''. Not only are Chinese children killed by Japanese soldiers, but [[spoiler:every child Winnie conceived while married to Wen Fu died, either in the womb or in early childhood.]]
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* DeliberateValuesDissonance: Women are expected to "[[StayInTheKitchen know their place]]," and [[SpiritedYoungLady spirited young ladies]] are looked down on, as this was pre-WWII China. Also, no matter how monstrously abusive a husband is, the wife must just grin and bear it.
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* DeliberateValuesDissonance: Women are expected to "[[StayInTheKitchen know their place]]," and [[SpiritedYoungLady spirited independent-minded young ladies]] ladies are looked down on, as this was pre-WWII China. Also, no matter how monstrously abusive a husband is, the wife must just grin and bear it.
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* ReformedNotTamed: Peanut goes from a [[RichBrat rich]], {{spoiled brat}} to [[spoiler:a Communist revolutionary]]. While not as bad as before, Winnie notes she was still a little vain and self-absorbed.
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* ReformedNotTamed: ReformedButNotTamed: Peanut goes from a [[RichBrat rich]], {{spoiled brat}} to [[spoiler:a Communist revolutionary]]. While not as bad as before, Winnie notes she was still a little vain and self-absorbed.
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* VictimBlaming: Winnie claims that's just the way it was in China. If a woman had an abusive husband and/or in-laws, people rationalized that she must have made him mad, or wasn't trying hard enough to make the best of a bad situation.
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* HeManWomanHater: Wen Fu in spades. He sees women as little more than furniture for everyday use, [[spoiler:including his own daughter that he lets die.]]
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* IHaveNoSon: Peanut is eventually disowned for [[spoiler:leaving her husband and joining Communist revolutionaries]], but Old and New Aunt [[spoiler:secretly go to visit her anyway]].
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* JustJokingRationalization: Wen Fu hid his HairTriggerTemper in public by claiming he was just kidding afterwards, [[spoiler:until he CameBackWrong, and stopped pretending.]]
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* KickTheDog: Wen Fu likes to kill animals for fun, like the time he went out of his way to run over a train of baby ducks with his car, or shoot a pig that innocently blocked the road to their truck ''after'' the farmer who owned him came back to collect him. [[spoiler: Wen Fu also hits Yiku when Winnie threatens to leave so hard it's implied she becomes brain-damaged, and refuses to let her get medical treatment when she's dying of cholera until it's too late.]]
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* KickTheDog: Wen Fu likes to kill animals for fun, like the time he went out of his way to run over a train of baby ducks with his car, or shoot a pig that innocently blocked the road to their truck ''after'' the farmer who owned him came back to collect him. [[spoiler: Wen Fu also hits Yiku when Winnie threatens to leave so hard it's implied she becomes brain-damaged, and refuses to let her get medical treatment when she's dying of cholera dysentery until it's too late.]]
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* CassandraTruth: No one believed Winnie about how bad her husband was until they saw it for themselves. Even then, most of them still didn't.
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* DeceasedParentsAreTheBest: Discussed. Winnie has nothing but ethereal memories of her mother's beauty and kindness, but admits she could just be retroactively embellishing them.
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* DeceasedParentsAreTheBest: Discussed. Winnie has nothing but ethereal fond memories of her mother's beauty beautiful and kindness, kind mother, but admits she could just be retroactively embellishing them.
* FinancialAbuse: On top of all the other way he abuses her, Wen Fu gambles away Winnie's dowry money.
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* GoodGirlsAvoidAbortion: Averted with a vengeance. [[spoiler:A servant girl Wen Fu brutally raped dies trying to induce an abortion, and she is portrayed 100% tragically. Winnie herself induces several abortions after Wen Fu falls off the deep end and abuses his MaritalRapeLicense for all it's worth. Considering his hand in Yiku's death, she considers it a pre-emptive MercyKill.]]
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* GoodGirlsAvoidAbortion: Averted with a vengeance. [[spoiler:A servant girl Wen Fu brutally raped dies trying to induce an abortion, and she is portrayed 100% sympathetically and tragically. Winnie herself induces several abortions after Wen Fu falls off the deep end and abuses his MaritalRapeLicense for all it's worth. [[OffingTheOffspring Considering his hand in Yiku's death, death]], she considers it a pre-emptive MercyKill.]]
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* InfantImmortality: Not only are Chinese children killed by Japanese soldiers, but [[spoiler:Winnie's first baby goes stillbirth within a week of being ready to be born, and her first successfully born child, Yiku, dies young due to her father's horrific abuse and willful neglect.]]
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* InfantImmortality: Averted ''hard''. Not only are Chinese children killed by Japanese soldiers, but [[spoiler:Winnie's first baby goes stillbirth within a week of being ready [[spoiler:every child Winnie conceived while married to be born, Wen Fu died, either in the womb or early childhood.]]
* InTheBlood: Discussed and defied. Winnie knows Wen Fu and his family are terrible people, but she never blames it on bad genetics. She firmly believes they're terrible people who taught him their terrible values and made him a bad person too. [[spoiler:This is part of the reason she never thinks herfirst successfully born child, Yiku, dies young due to her father's horrific abuse and willful neglect.children by him, including Pearl, are evil.]]
* InTheBlood: Discussed and defied. Winnie knows Wen Fu and his family are terrible people, but she never blames it on bad genetics. She firmly believes they're terrible people who taught him their terrible values and made him a bad person too. [[spoiler:This is part of the reason she never thinks her
** Peanut also.
* IWasQuiteALooker: Winnie was beautiful when she was young, and has the photo album to prove it. Helen ''claims'' she used to be, but Winnie claims she was rather plain and thick-boned even when in her youth.
* JustJokingRationalization: Wen Fu hid his HairTriggerTemper in public by claiming he was just kidding afterwards, [[spoiler:until he CameBackWrong, and stopped pretending.]]
* IWasQuiteALooker: Winnie was beautiful when she was young, and has the photo album to prove it. Helen ''claims'' she used to be, but Winnie claims she was rather plain and thick-boned even when in her youth.
* JustJokingRationalization: Wen Fu hid his HairTriggerTemper in public by claiming he was just kidding afterwards, [[spoiler:until he CameBackWrong, and stopped pretending.]]
* LikeParentLikeChild: Winnie eventually learns that Wen Fu got his greed and temper from his mother.
* MaybeMagicMaybeMundane: All over the place. Winnie claims there were many instances when Chinese superstition came true right in front of her, but it could have just been a coincidence or her memory playing tricks on her. The most prominent is the fortune teller's prediction of Winnie and Peanut's marriages coming to pass, and when Winnie accidentally dropped a pair of scissors while heavily pregnant [[spoiler:and her eternally bouncing baby going stillborn that second]].
* MiseryPoker: Peanut is a rather selfish version of it. [[spoiler:When Peanut and Winnie meet up years later and commiserate about their unhappy marriages, Peanut claims she got it worst since she saw her rich husband in bed with another man but was otherwise treated nicely by him and her in-laws, brushing off Winnie's attempts to tell her about her own horrific DomesticAbuse.]]
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* NeverMyFault: Wen Fu, naturally. [[spoiler:Especially heinous when he actively refuses to let his doctor buddy go check on his daughter Yiku when Winnie claims she's dying of cholera. When Winnie returns holding said dying daughter as proof that she's not exaggerating, Wen Fu furiously berates her for not telling him things had gotten this bad sooner.]]
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* NatureVsNurture: Winnie muses on this from time to time throughout the novel. Was Wen Fu born evil, or just taught evil values by his family? [[spoiler:The book falls firmly on the side of 'Nurture' at the end, with her realizing every child she had by him - Yiku, Danru, and Pearl - is incredibly sweet, so it couldn't be bad blood. He was just a terrible person taught terrible values by a horrible family.]]
* NeverMyFault: Wen Fu, naturally. [[spoiler:Especially heinous when he actively refuses to let his doctor buddy go check on his daughter Yiku when Winnie claims she's dying ofcholera.dysentery. When Winnie returns holding said dying daughter as proof that she's not exaggerating, Wen Fu furiously berates her for not telling him things had gotten this bad sooner.]]
* NeverMyFault: Wen Fu, naturally. [[spoiler:Especially heinous when he actively refuses to let his doctor buddy go check on his daughter Yiku when Winnie claims she's dying of
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* ObfuscatingStupidity: [[spoiler:Helen knew for a long time that Pearl was Wen Fu's biological daughter. Her making excuses for Wen Fu's awful behavior was her way of trying to keep Winnie from resenting Pearl. The moment she learns that Winnie and Pearl have achieved some common ground, she ditches the act and curses Wen Fu's memory.]]
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* ObfuscatingStupidity: [[spoiler:Helen knew for a long time Helen all along that Pearl [[spoiler:Pearl was Wen Fu's biological daughter. Her making excuses for Wen Fu's awful behavior was her way of trying to keep Winnie from resenting Pearl. The moment she learns that Winnie and Pearl have achieved some common ground, she ditches the act and curses Wen Fu's memory.]]
** Helen also reveals [[spoiler:she knew all along that she had no deadly brain tumor, and only pretended to believe she was dying to strong-arm Winnie into telling Pearl the truth about her life in China, first marriage, [[ChildByRape and Pearl's conception]].]]
** Helen also reveals [[spoiler:she knew all along that she had no deadly brain tumor, and only pretended to believe she was dying to strong-arm Winnie into telling Pearl the truth about her life in China, first marriage, [[ChildByRape and Pearl's conception]].]]
* {{Sadist}}: The most terrifying thing about Wen Fu is he gets off on causing pain and misery to other people and animals. Running over baby ducks? Shooting an innocent pig? Can only get off sexually humiliating and abusing his wife and female servants? Yeah, [[{{Understatement}} this guy's a piece of work]].
* SelfServingMemory: Wen Fu is a malevolent version of this. The most outrageous example is repeating that he [[spoiler:lost his eye]] fighting the Japanese so much that Winnie has to point out [[spoiler:he lost his eye crashing an army truck he stole to go on a drunken joyride with a mistress]].
** Helen is a more benevolent version. She means well, but Winnie recalls that she tends to remember things in a way that's more flattering to herself. The best example would be honestly believing that she gave her old friend Wan Betty the sewing machine she later used to start a new life, when Winnie remembers that Betty was ''her'' friend, and ''she'' gave her that sewing machine.
* SelfServingMemory: Wen Fu is a malevolent version of this. The most outrageous example is repeating that he [[spoiler:lost his eye]] fighting the Japanese so much that Winnie has to point out [[spoiler:he lost his eye crashing an army truck he stole to go on a drunken joyride with a mistress]].
** Helen is a more benevolent version. She means well, but Winnie recalls that she tends to remember things in a way that's more flattering to herself. The best example would be honestly believing that she gave her old friend Wan Betty the sewing machine she later used to start a new life, when Winnie remembers that Betty was ''her'' friend, and ''she'' gave her that sewing machine.
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* TheSociopath: Wen Fu. Winnie pretty much sums it up best: "without feelings, without shame, without remorse."
* SpoiledBrat: Peanut, but she fixes herself up in adulthood. Wen Fu, on the other hand...
* SpoiledBrat: Peanut, but she fixes herself up in adulthood. Wen Fu, on the other hand...
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* TheSociopath: Wen Fu. Especially apparent when [[spoiler:Pearl and her group of underground women]] try to figure out ''some way'' to convince Wen Fu to divorce Winnie: The love of a favorite concubine to replace her? Public shame that his wife left him? Use his only son as a bargaining chip? But Winnie pretty much has to shoot down every strategy since he doesn't ''care'' about anything or anyone but himself; sees women as playthings to discard after a few weeks of fun, doesn't feel any social shame from being publicly abandoned or cuckolded by his wife, and feels ''nothing'' for his own son except to keep her from leaving. Winnie sums it up best: best when she says he is "without feelings, without shame, without remorse."
* SpoiledBrat: Peanut, but shefixes herself up gets slightly better in adulthood. Wen Fu, on the other hand...
* SpoiledBrat: Peanut, but she
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* StealthInsult: When they first meet, Wen Fu arrogantly demands Jimmy Louis give him a greater name than anyone else. Jimmy dubs him [[spoiler:[[ObviousJudas "Judas,"]]]] which only Winnie catches.
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* StealthInsult: When they first meet, Wen Fu arrogantly demands Jimmy Louis give him a greater American name than anyone else. Jimmy dubs him [[spoiler:[[ObviousJudas "Judas,"]]]] which only Winnie catches.
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* TitleDrop: The "Kitchen God" was a man who took his hardworking wife for granted, and, when his mistress drove her away, did not do anything to help her. Once she leaves, his fortune (that accumulated thanks to her diligence) dwindles, and he realizes how much better off he was with her, despite all the suffering she went through thanks to him. Winnie subsequently relates her life story to her.
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* TitleDrop: The "Kitchen God" was a man who took his hardworking wife for granted, and, when his mistress drove her away, did not do anything nothing to help her. Once she leaves, his fortune (that accumulated thanks to her diligence) dwindles, and he realizes how much better off he was with her, despite all the suffering she went through thanks to him. Winnie subsequently relates her life story to her.
* TroublingUnchildlikeBehavior: [[spoiler: Poor Yiku and Danru...]]
* TroublingUnchildlikeBehavior: [[spoiler: Poor Yiku and Danru...]]
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* VictimBlaming: Winnie claims that's just the way it was in China. If a woman had an abusive husband and/or in-laws, people rationalized that she must have made him mad, or wasn't trying hard enough to make the best of a bad situation.
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* BelievingTheirOwnLies: Helen is portrayed as this. Wen Fu is also ''definitely'' this.
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* BelievingTheirOwnLies: Helen is portrayed as this. Wen Fu is also ''definitely'' this.
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* CameBackWrong: Wen Fu was a horrible person to begin with, but then [[spoiler:after army doctors inject him with adrenaline to revive him from the dead after he gets a near fatal concussion, he comes back a complete monster.]]
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* CameBackWrong: Wen Fu was a horrible person to begin with, but then [[spoiler:after army doctors inject him with adrenaline to revive him from the dead his heart after he gets a near fatal ''serious'' concussion, he comes back a complete monster.]]
* DeceasedParentsAreTheBest: Discussed. Winnie has nothing but ethereal memories of her mother's beauty and kindness, but admits she could just be retroactively embellishing them.
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* DyingAsYourself: [[spoiler: Winnie's father]].
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* DyingAsYourself: [[spoiler: Winnie's father]].father. After suffering a stroke and being a speechless vegetable for years, he wakes up one morning with a clear mind and tongue, sends Wen Fu on a WildGooseChase looking for nonexistent hidden gold in the mansion, and dies]].
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* HeManWomanHater: Wen Fu in spades. He sees women as little more than furniture for everyday use, [[spoiler:is not at all upset about his first child being stillborn since it was a girl, and savagely beat and prevented his first daughter Yiku from receiving life-saving medical attention, flat-out stating he doesn't care that she dies. It's implied the only reason he doesn't beat or drive Denru into an early grave is because he's a son who looks like him.]]
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* HairTriggerTemper: Wen Fu, especially after he CameBackWrong.
* HeManWomanHater: Wen Fu in spades. He sees women as little more than furniture for everyday use,[[spoiler:is not at all upset about [[spoiler:including his first child being stillborn since it was a girl, and savagely beat and prevented his first own daughter Yiku from receiving life-saving medical attention, flat-out stating he doesn't care that she dies. It's implied the only reason he doesn't beat or drive Denru into an early grave is because he's a son who looks like him.lets die.]]
* HeManWomanHater: Wen Fu in spades. He sees women as little more than furniture for everyday use,
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* KickTheDog: Wen Fu likes to kill animals for fun, like the time he went out of his way to run over a train of baby ducks with his car, or shoot a pig that innocently blocked the road to their truck ''after'' the farmer who owned him came back to collect him. [[spoiler: Wen Fu also hits Yiku when Winnie threatens to leave, and refuses to let her get medical treatment when she's dying of cholera until it's too late.]]
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* KickTheDog: Wen Fu likes to kill animals for fun, like the time he went out of his way to run over a train of baby ducks with his car, or shoot a pig that innocently blocked the road to their truck ''after'' the farmer who owned him came back to collect him. [[spoiler: Wen Fu also hits Yiku when Winnie threatens to leave, leave so hard it's implied she becomes brain-damaged, and refuses to let her get medical treatment when she's dying of cholera until it's too late.]]]]
* LaserGuidedKarma: Winnie's father, arguably. After mistreating Winnie's mother, sending her away, and marrying her off to what he knows is not a good family, he arguably gets a taste of what he inflicted on her when she and her husband return, and [[spoiler:his son-in-law's family blackmail him into "letting" them take over his finances, robbing him blind]].
* LaserGuidedKarma: Winnie's father, arguably. After mistreating Winnie's mother, sending her away, and marrying her off to what he knows is not a good family, he arguably gets a taste of what he inflicted on her when she and her husband return, and [[spoiler:his son-in-law's family blackmail him into "letting" them take over his finances, robbing him blind]].
* LovingAShadow: Winnie reflects that she mostly fell for Wen Fu's charming persona, and that she was also so lonely being TheUnfavorite she was desperate for any scrap of attention. And then they got married...
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* MaritalRapeLicense: Wen Fu [[QuestionableConsent arguably]] does this from the beginning, forcing Pearl to say and do things she finds sexually demeaning, and overriding her desire to have NoPreggerSex. [[spoiler:Taken UpToEleven after Wen Fu had the accident - he "punishes" Winnie for every single damn thing she does that he deems "wrong," and it's savage to say the least.]]
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* MaritalRapeLicense: Wen Fu [[QuestionableConsent arguably]] does this from the beginning, forcing Pearl to say and do things she finds sexually demeaning, and overriding her desire to have NoPreggerSex. [[spoiler:Taken UpToEleven after Wen Fu had the accident CameBackWrong - he "punishes" Winnie for every single damn thing she does that he deems "wrong," and it's savage to say the least.]]
* MyGodWhatHaveIDone: Auntie Du and Helen eventually have this reaction when they realize just how bad Wen Fu is, and lament [[spoiler:not helping Winnie escape him sooner.]]
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* NiceJobBreakingItHero: The army doctors didn't do Winnie any favors when they [[spoiler:revived her dead abusive husband by injecting him with adrenaline to get his heart beating again, after he got a serious enough concussion that he CameBackWrong]].
** Helen convinced her husband not to [[spoiler:send Wen Fu to jail after he stole an army car, drove drunk, trashed it and killed a girl he was joy-riding with]], ensuring that Winnie remained trapped with his new monstrous temper.
** Not learning her lesson, Helen ''again'' tries to "save" Winnie's marriage by [[spoiler:telling Wen Fu where she was when she tried to leave him the first time, condemning Winnie to several more years of savage abuse and marrital rape, nearly causing her to go over the DespairEventHorizon and induce several abortions to save her future babies from her own and/or [[OffingTheOffspring Yiku's]] fate.]]
** Helen convinced her husband not to [[spoiler:send Wen Fu to jail after he stole an army car, drove drunk, trashed it and killed a girl he was joy-riding with]], ensuring that Winnie remained trapped with his new monstrous temper.
** Not learning her lesson, Helen ''again'' tries to "save" Winnie's marriage by [[spoiler:telling Wen Fu where she was when she tried to leave him the first time, condemning Winnie to several more years of savage abuse and marrital rape, nearly causing her to go over the DespairEventHorizon and induce several abortions to save her future babies from her own and/or [[OffingTheOffspring Yiku's]] fate.]]
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* NiceJobBreakingItHero: The army doctors didn't do Winnie any favors when they [[spoiler:revived her dead abusive husband by injecting him with adrenaline to get his heart beating again, after he got a serious enough concussion that he CameBackWrong]].
** Helen convinced her husband not to [[spoiler:send Wen Fu to jail after he stole an army car, drove drunk, trashed it and killed a girl he was joy-riding with]], ensuring that Winnie remained trapped with his new monstroustemper.
temper for several years.
** Not learning her lesson, Helen ''again'' tries to "save" Winnie's marriage by [[spoiler:telling Wen Fu where she was when she tried to leave him the first time, condemning Winnie to several more years ofsavage abuse and marrital rape, nearly causing her to go over the DespairEventHorizon and induce several abortions to save her future babies from her own and/or [[OffingTheOffspring Yiku's]] fate.horrific abuse.]]
** Helen convinced her husband not to [[spoiler:send Wen Fu to jail after he stole an army car, drove drunk, trashed it and killed a girl he was joy-riding with]], ensuring that Winnie remained trapped with his new monstrous
** Not learning her lesson, Helen ''again'' tries to "save" Winnie's marriage by [[spoiler:telling Wen Fu where she was when she tried to leave him the first time, condemning Winnie to several more years of
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* OffingTheOffspring: Indirectly. [[spoiler:Wen Fu refuses to let his doctor buddy get up from playing cards to go check on his dying daughter, outright stating he wouldn't care if she died. [[NeverMyFault He claims afterwards that he never said such a thing when Winnie calls him out on it]], but he basically killed his first daughter.]]
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* OffingTheOffspring: Indirectly. [[spoiler:Wen Fu refuses to let his doctor buddy get up from playing cards to go check on his dying daughter, daughter Yiku, outright stating he wouldn't care if she died. [[NeverMyFault He claims afterwards that he never said such a thing when Winnie calls him out on it]], but he basically killed his first daughter.still let her die.]]
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* RapeIsASpecialKindOfEvil: The Japanese soldiers and Wen Fu are portrayed as all the more monstrous for gladly engaging in this with as many women as they can get away with.
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* RapeIsASpecialKindOfEvil: The Japanese soldiers and Wen Fu are portrayed as all the more monstrous for gladly engaging in this with as many women as they can get away with.Fu.
* TheSociopath: Wen Fu. Winnie pretty much sums it up best: "without feelings, without shame, without remorse."
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* StealthInsult: When they first meet, Jimmy Louis gives Innie, Helen, and their husbands American-sounding names. When Wen Fu ([[ItsAllAboutMe predictably]]) demands a greater name than anyone that's ever lived. Jimmy dubs him [[ObviousJudas "Judas,"]] something only Winnie catches, and Wen Fu doesn't realize until years later.
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* StealthInsult: When they first meet, Wen Fu arrogantly demands Jimmy Louis gives Innie, Helen, and their husbands American-sounding names. When Wen Fu ([[ItsAllAboutMe predictably]]) demands give him a greater name than anyone that's ever lived. else. Jimmy dubs him [[ObviousJudas "Judas,"]] something [[spoiler:[[ObviousJudas "Judas,"]]]] which only Winnie catches, and Wen Fu doesn't realize until years later.catches.
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* AccompliceByInaction: Part of Winnie can never forgive Wen Fu's pilot buddies (nor Helen or Auntie Du to an extent) for never standing up for her when they saw how horrifically he abused her right in front of them for years on end.
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* TheAtoner: Jiaguo, Helen's first husband, marries her because [[spoiler: he feels he has to atone for her sister's DeathByChildbirth, which was partly his fault - it was his child and he refused to acknowledge so.]]
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* TheAtoner: Jiaguo, Helen's first husband, marries her because [[spoiler: he feels he has to atone for her sister's DeathByChildbirth, which was partly his fault - it was his child and child, he refused to acknowledge so.so, and he knocked her so hard when she tried to confront him that she went into early labor and died.]]
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* BelievingTheirOwnLies: Helen is portrayed as this.
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* BelievingTheirOwnLies: Helen is portrayed as this. Wen Fu is also ''definitely'' this.
* CameBackWrong: Wen Fu was a horrible person to begin with, but then [[spoiler:after army doctors inject him with adrenaline to revive him from the dead after he gets a near fatal concussion, he comes back a complete monster.]]
* TheCharmer: Wen Fu was this until he CameBackWrong.
* CrazyJealousGuy: Wen Fu flies into a rage whenever he sees Winnie so much as talk to another man, despite running around on her with as many girls as he possibly can.
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* DeliberateValuesDissonance: Women are expected to "[[StayInTheKitchen know their place]]," and [[SpiritedYoungLady spirited young ladies]] are looked down on, as this was pre-WWII China.
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* DeliberateValuesDissonance: Women are expected to "[[StayInTheKitchen know their place]]," and [[SpiritedYoungLady spirited young ladies]] are looked down on, as this was pre-WWII China. Also, no matter how monstrously abusive a husband is, the wife must just grin and bear it.
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* DomesticAbuser: Wen Fu to Winnie.
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* DomesticAbuser: Wen Fu to Winnie. Also to their first daughter, Yiku, [[spoiler:causing her stunted growth and untimely death]].
* GoodGirlsAvoidAbortion: Averted with a vengeance. [[spoiler:A servant girl Wen Fu brutally raped dies trying to induce an abortion, and she is portrayed 100% tragically. Winnie herself induces several abortions after Wen Fu falls off the deep end and abuses his MaritalRapeLicense for all it's worth. Considering his hand in Yiku's death, she considers it a pre-emptive MercyKill.]]
* HeManWomanHater: Wen Fu in spades. He sees women as little more than furniture for everyday use, [[spoiler:is not at all upset about his first child being stillborn since it was a girl, and savagely beat and prevented his first daughter Yiku from receiving life-saving medical attention, flat-out stating he doesn't care that she dies. It's implied the only reason he doesn't beat or drive Denru into an early grave is because he's a son who looks like him.]]
** Played with in that she later admits that she tends to have a good GutFeeling about people, but she was raised to be an ExtremeDoormat by her Old Aunt that she didn't learn to trust her instincts until it was too late.
* {{Hypocrite}}: Wen Fu cheats on Winnie constantly, but reserves the right to savagely punish her whenever he suspects she ''might'' be cheating. [[CrazyJealousGuy Which is all the time.]]
* InfantImmortality: Not only are Chinese children killed by Japanese soldiers, but [[spoiler:Winnie's first baby goes stillbirth within a week of being ready to be born, and her first successfully born child, Yiku, dies young due to her father's horrific abuse and willful neglect.]]
* {{Hypocrite}}: Wen Fu cheats on Winnie constantly, but reserves the right to savagely punish her whenever he suspects she ''might'' be cheating. [[CrazyJealousGuy Which is all the time.]]
* InfantImmortality: Not only are Chinese children killed by Japanese soldiers, but [[spoiler:Winnie's first baby goes stillbirth within a week of being ready to be born, and her first successfully born child, Yiku, dies young due to her father's horrific abuse and willful neglect.]]
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* KickTheDog: [[spoiler: Wen Fu hits Yiku when Winnie threatens to leave.]]
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* KickTheDog: Wen Fu likes to kill animals for fun, like the time he went out of his way to run over a train of baby ducks with his car, or shoot a pig that innocently blocked the road to their truck ''after'' the farmer who owned him came back to collect him. [[spoiler: Wen Fu also hits Yiku when Winnie threatens to leave.leave, and refuses to let her get medical treatment when she's dying of cholera until it's too late.]]
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** '''Jimmy''': "I fell in love with her right from the beginning. As for Winnie—she only fell. But what matters is I caught her."
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* MalignedMixedMarriage: Averted for Pearl and Phil. Winnie had such a ''miserable'' first marriage that she doesn't care that Pearl's husband is white, just that he's good to her.
** It also helps that Winnie and her family all come from a time and place in China when they revered all things Western, including white American men.
** It also helps that Winnie and her family all come from a time and place in China when they revered all things Western, including white American men.
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* MaritalRapeLicense: [[spoiler: Wen Fu after the accident - he "punishes" Winnie for every single damn thing she does that he deems "wrong," and it's not portrayed positively at all.]]
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* MaritalRapeLicense: [[spoiler: Wen Fu [[QuestionableConsent arguably]] does this from the beginning, forcing Pearl to say and do things she finds sexually demeaning, and overriding her desire to have NoPreggerSex. [[spoiler:Taken UpToEleven after Wen Fu had the accident - he "punishes" Winnie for every single damn thing she does that he deems "wrong," and it's not portrayed positively at all.savage to say the least.]]
* NeverMyFault: Wen Fu, naturally. [[spoiler:Especially heinous when he actively refuses to let his doctor buddy go check on his daughter Yiku when Winnie claims she's dying of cholera. When Winnie returns holding said dying daughter as proof that she's not exaggerating, Wen Fu furiously berates her for not telling him things had gotten this bad sooner.]]
* NiceJobBreakingItHero: The army doctors didn't do Winnie any favors when they [[spoiler:revived her dead abusive husband by injecting him with adrenaline to get his heart beating again, after he got a serious enough concussion that he CameBackWrong]].
** Helen convinced her husband not to [[spoiler:send Wen Fu to jail after he stole an army car, drove drunk, trashed it and killed a girl he was joy-riding with]], ensuring that Winnie remained trapped with his new monstrous temper.
** Not learning her lesson, Helen ''again'' tries to "save" Winnie's marriage by [[spoiler:telling Wen Fu where she was when she tried to leave him the first time, condemning Winnie to several more years of savage abuse and marrital rape, nearly causing her to go over the DespairEventHorizon and induce several abortions to save her future babies from her own and/or [[OffingTheOffspring Yiku's]] fate.]]
* NoPreggerSex: Winnie wanted this the first time she got pregnant, but [[MaritalRapeLicense Wen Fu overrode her objections]].
* NiceJobBreakingItHero: The army doctors didn't do Winnie any favors when they [[spoiler:revived her dead abusive husband by injecting him with adrenaline to get his heart beating again, after he got a serious enough concussion that he CameBackWrong]].
** Helen convinced her husband not to [[spoiler:send Wen Fu to jail after he stole an army car, drove drunk, trashed it and killed a girl he was joy-riding with]], ensuring that Winnie remained trapped with his new monstrous temper.
** Not learning her lesson, Helen ''again'' tries to "save" Winnie's marriage by [[spoiler:telling Wen Fu where she was when she tried to leave him the first time, condemning Winnie to several more years of savage abuse and marrital rape, nearly causing her to go over the DespairEventHorizon and induce several abortions to save her future babies from her own and/or [[OffingTheOffspring Yiku's]] fate.]]
* NoPreggerSex: Winnie wanted this the first time she got pregnant, but [[MaritalRapeLicense Wen Fu overrode her objections]].
* OffingTheOffspring: Indirectly. [[spoiler:Wen Fu refuses to let his doctor buddy get up from playing cards to go check on his dying daughter, outright stating he wouldn't care if she died. [[NeverMyFault He claims afterwards that he never said such a thing when Winnie calls him out on it]], but he basically killed his first daughter.]]
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* ParentalAbandonment: It's implied that Winnie's mother abandoned her.
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* ParentalAbandonment: It's implied that Winnie's mother abandoned her. [[spoiler:Though whether to commit suicide, run off with a lost love, or join the Communists, no one knows for sure.]]
* RapeIsASpecialKindOfEvil: The Japanese soldiers and Wen Fu are portrayed as all the more monstrous for gladly engaging in this with as many women as they can get away with.
* RedRightHand: Following [[spoiler:the accident]], Wen Fu's [[spoiler:missing eye]] serves to highlight how monstrous he's become.
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* StartOfDarkness: Wen Fu starts being pissy around the time of the accident, and it just gets worse from there.
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* StartOfDarkness: Wen Fu starts being pissy around the time of the accident, and [[CameBackWrong it just gets worse from there. there]].
* StealthInsult: When they first meet, Jimmy Louis gives Innie, Helen, and their husbands American-sounding names. When Wen Fu ([[ItsAllAboutMe predictably]]) demands a greater name than anyone that's ever lived. Jimmy dubs him [[ObviousJudas "Judas,"]] something only Winnie catches, and Wen Fu doesn't realize until years later.
* StealthInsult: When they first meet, Jimmy Louis gives Innie, Helen, and their husbands American-sounding names. When Wen Fu ([[ItsAllAboutMe predictably]]) demands a greater name than anyone that's ever lived. Jimmy dubs him [[ObviousJudas "Judas,"]] something only Winnie catches, and Wen Fu doesn't realize until years later.
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* YourCheatingHeart: Wen Fu to Winnie. [[spoiler:Not that she minded after a while, since it meant she'd get a break him from him pawing at her.]]
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At that point, the narrative switches to Winnie's point of view as she details her life to Pearl - her time as a daughter of a wealthy man's lesser wife, how she was sent to her uncle after her mother's disappearance, and the story of how she survived both her first terrible marriage and WorldWarII.
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At that point, the narrative switches to Winnie's point of view as she details her life to Pearl - her time as a daughter of a wealthy man's lesser wife, how she was sent to her uncle after her mother's disappearance, and the story of how she survived both her first terrible marriage and WorldWarII.UsefulNotes/WorldWarII.
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* WorldWarII
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* WhatCouldHaveBeen: Winnie often wonders what life would have been like if she did not marry Wen Fu.
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* WhatCouldHaveBeen: InUniverse, Winnie often wonders what life would have been like if she did not marry Wen Fu.
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* UsefulNotes/ChineseFuneraryCustoms: Appear at the beginning of the book at Auntie Du's funeral. Lampshaded by Winnie and Pearl.
* {{Confucianism}}: Slammed by Winnie, because according to her Confucianism emphasized looking down on other people, especially women.
* {{Confucianism}}: Slammed by Winnie, because according to her Confucianism emphasized looking down on other people, especially women.
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* HotMom: Winnie and her mother in their respective heydays.
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''The Kitchen Gods Wife'' is a novel by Creator/AmyTan, and, like most of her works, is a novel about Chinese-American women female identity.
The first few chapters follow Pearl Brandt, a Chinese-American in San Jose, California, as she describes her "family" - her American husband and two daughters, her mother Winnie, her overbearing Aunt Helen (who is supposedly Winnie's sister-in-law or ''something''; she and Winnie have kept each other's secrets for a ''long'' time), and the rest of Helen's family as they prepare for, first, the nth engagement party of Pearl's obnoxious cousin Bao-bao, and then the burial of her Great Aunt Du. Pearl and her family see these obligations as a chore, presumably because Pearl herself is immersed in her American identity. They go anyway, and it's revealed that Pearl has multiple sclerosis (something she has told Helen, but not her own mother). Helen tells her she has a brain tumor and that she refuses to die without Winnie knowing about Pearl's sickness.
Meanwhile, Helen also tells Winnie that she must tell her estranged daughter her own DarkAndTroubledPast herself, or Helen will tell her herself.
At that point, the narrative switches to Winnie's point of view as she details her life to Pearl - her time as a daughter of a wealthy man's lesser wife, how she was sent to her uncle after her mother's disappearance, and the story of how she survived both her first terrible marriage and WorldWarII.
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* AffablyEvil: Wen Fu, at first. Then he just becomes evil.
* ArrangedMarriage: Winnie and Wen Fu.
* TheAtoner: Jiaguo, Helen's first husband, marries her because [[spoiler: he feels he has to atone for her sister's DeathByChildbirth, which was partly his fault - it was his child and he refused to acknowledge so.]]
* AudienceSurrogate: Pearl.
* AxCrazy: Wen Fu, emphasized when [[spoiler: he threatens the hospital staff with manslaughter while Winnie is recovering from giving birth to their second child.]]
* TheBeard: [[spoiler: The wealthy man Peanut is married off to is heavily implied to be homosexual. She leaves him, however, because she thinks he's a hermaphrodite.]]
* BelievingTheirOwnLies: Helen is portrayed as this.
* BreakTheCutie: ''Winnie''.
* BrattyTeenageDaughter: Mary's daughter.
* BrokenBird: Certainly Winnie at the end of her marriage to Wen Fu, although she gets better.
* CardCarryingVillain: Wen Fu.
* CelebrityResemblance: The telegraph girl is called "Wan Betty" ("Beautiful Betty") due to her resemblance to Bette Davis.
* UsefulNotes/ChineseFuneraryCustoms: Appear at the beginning of the book at Auntie Du's funeral. Lampshaded by Winnie and Pearl.
* {{Confucianism}}: Slammed by Winnie, because according to her Confucianism emphasized looking down on other people, especially women.
* CrashIntoHello: Winnie and Jimmy.
* DarkAndTroubledPast: Winnie. Helen, to a lesser extent.
* DeathByChildbirth: Helen's sister.
* DeliberateValuesDissonance: Women are expected to "[[StayInTheKitchen know their place]]," and [[SpiritedYoungLady spirited young ladies]] are looked down on, as this was pre-WWII China.
* DirtyCoward: Wen Fu, who comes out of war unscathed thanks to not actually doing any fighting - every time they're involved in a battle, Wen Fu flies off and tells the captain he was "trailing a Japanese plane."
* DomesticAbuser: Wen Fu to Winnie.
* DrivenToSuicide: "Little Yu," an old classmate of Winnie and Peanut's, after she got stuck in an unhappy marriage.
* DyingAsYourself: [[spoiler: Winnie's father]].
* ExtremeDoormat: Winnie.
* EyeScream: [[spoiler: Wen Fu loses an eye in a jeepney accident.]]
* {{Flashback}}: How Winnie tells Pearl her story.
* ForegoneConclusion: Winnie makes it out of the war alive, ditches Wen Fu and marries Jimmy.
* FourthDateMarriage: Wen Fu and Winnie, whom she'd known for only a few months before they get married. Also played with with Jimmy and Winnie, they go on all of two dates (excluding the dance at which they met) before they decide they're perfect for each other. It's a while before they marry, though.
* FramingDevice: Winnie tells Pearl her life story.
* GoldDigger: Wen Fu courts Peanut first, but drops her for Winnie once he learns of Winnie's father's wealth.
* GladIThoughtOfIt: Winnie excessively thanks Henry for using his government connections to [[spoiler: get her out of jail. In truth, it was all Auntie Du's doing and she just didn't want to disappoint Helen.]]
* HeterosexualLifePartners: Winnie and Helen, who have put up with each other for so long that each others' faults barely affect them anymore.
* HorribleJudgeOfCharacter: Winnie berates herself for believing Wen Fu was a decent human being.
* HotMom: Winnie and her mother in their respective heydays.
* ItsAllAboutMe: Wen Fu.
* KarmaHoudini: The only comeuppance Wen Fu gets for all his wrongdoings is [[spoiler: a box full of donkey dung and humiliation in front of Winnie and Helen. He even dies on Christmas Day.]]
* KickTheDog: [[spoiler: Wen Fu hits Yiku when Winnie threatens to leave.]]
* LockedOutOfTheLoop: The only person who doesn't know about Pearl's multiple sclerosis is her own mother Winnie (seeing as Pearl told Auntie Helen, who then told the whole Kwong family).
* LoveAtFirstSight: Jimmy for Winnie.
** '''Jimmy''': "I fell in love with her right from the beginning. As for Winnie—she only fell. But what matters is I caught her."
* LukeIAmYourFather: [[spoiler: Wen Fu is Pearl's father, not Jimmy.]]
* ManipulativeBastard: Wen Fu, exemplified when he manages to [[spoiler: obtain control of Winnie's father's estate by telling Winnie's dad that he can get him out of trouble with the Kuomintang.]]
* MaritalRapeLicense: [[spoiler: Wen Fu after the accident - he "punishes" Winnie for every single damn thing she does that he deems "wrong," and it's not portrayed positively at all.]]
* MatchmakerCrush: Winnie develops a crush on Wen Fu while being the go-between for him and Peanut.
* MeaningfulName: Out of pride, Wen Fu wants Jimmy to name him after someone who changed history forever. [[spoiler: Jimmy names him Judas.]]
* MightyWhitey: Slightly played with. Jimmy is explicitly stated to be Chinese (he acts as a translator and a serviceman), but he's American-born and Winnie falls for him.
* MilesGloriosus: Wen Fu.
* MissingMom: Even in adulthood, Winnie does not fully understand her mother's disappearance. Her aunts' and uncle's disappearance theories don't help much. It's implied that she abandoned Winnie, though.
* ObfuscatingStupidity: [[spoiler:Helen knew for a long time that Pearl was Wen Fu's biological daughter. Her making excuses for Wen Fu's awful behavior was her way of trying to keep Winnie from resenting Pearl. The moment she learns that Winnie and Pearl have achieved some common ground, she ditches the act and curses Wen Fu's memory.]]
* ObnoxiousInLaws: Phil sees Pearl's family as this. He's not that far from the truth.
* OnlyKnownByTheirNickname: Several minor characters - Betty, Old Aunt, New Aunt, Wu Ma, etcetera.
** NoNameGiven
* ParentalAbandonment: It's implied that Winnie's mother abandoned her.
* PluckyGirl: Nearly all the major female characters.
* PoorCommunicationKills: The reason Pearl and Winnie's relationship is so strained.
* RapePillageAndBurn: The Japanese, which was sadly TruthInTelevision.
* RapunzelHair: Winnie's mother.
* RichesToRags: [[spoiler: Winnie's father and his family after the war - moreso after Wen Fu is done with their finances.]]
* SexlessMarriage: [[spoiler: Helen and Jiaguo's.]]
* SpoiledBrat: Peanut, but she fixes herself up in adulthood. Wen Fu, on the other hand...
* StartOfDarkness: Wen Fu starts being pissy around the time of the accident, and it just gets worse from there.
* SupremeChef: Winnie.
* TitleDrop: The "Kitchen God" was a man who took his hardworking wife for granted, and, when his mistress drove her away, did not do anything to help her. Once she leaves, his fortune (that accumulated thanks to her diligence) dwindles, and he realizes how much better off he was with her, despite all the suffering she went through thanks to him. Winnie subsequently relates her life story to her.
* TheUnfavourite: Winnie, so much. After her mother disappeared, she was the unfavourite in her wealthy father's household until she was sent to live with her uncle and his two wives. And they ''still'' treated her cousin Peanut better.
* WartimeWedding: Winnie and Wen Fu get married just before World War II breaks out.
* WhatCouldHaveBeen: Winnie often wonders what life would have been like if she did not marry Wen Fu.
* WorldWarII
* YouNoTakeCandle: Winnie to some extent.
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The first few chapters follow Pearl Brandt, a Chinese-American in San Jose, California, as she describes her "family" - her American husband and two daughters, her mother Winnie, her overbearing Aunt Helen (who is supposedly Winnie's sister-in-law or ''something''; she and Winnie have kept each other's secrets for a ''long'' time), and the rest of Helen's family as they prepare for, first, the nth engagement party of Pearl's obnoxious cousin Bao-bao, and then the burial of her Great Aunt Du. Pearl and her family see these obligations as a chore, presumably because Pearl herself is immersed in her American identity. They go anyway, and it's revealed that Pearl has multiple sclerosis (something she has told Helen, but not her own mother). Helen tells her she has a brain tumor and that she refuses to die without Winnie knowing about Pearl's sickness.
Meanwhile, Helen also tells Winnie that she must tell her estranged daughter her own DarkAndTroubledPast herself, or Helen will tell her herself.
At that point, the narrative switches to Winnie's point of view as she details her life to Pearl - her time as a daughter of a wealthy man's lesser wife, how she was sent to her uncle after her mother's disappearance, and the story of how she survived both her first terrible marriage and WorldWarII.
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!!Tropes:
* AffablyEvil: Wen Fu, at first. Then he just becomes evil.
* ArrangedMarriage: Winnie and Wen Fu.
* TheAtoner: Jiaguo, Helen's first husband, marries her because [[spoiler: he feels he has to atone for her sister's DeathByChildbirth, which was partly his fault - it was his child and he refused to acknowledge so.]]
* AudienceSurrogate: Pearl.
* AxCrazy: Wen Fu, emphasized when [[spoiler: he threatens the hospital staff with manslaughter while Winnie is recovering from giving birth to their second child.]]
* TheBeard: [[spoiler: The wealthy man Peanut is married off to is heavily implied to be homosexual. She leaves him, however, because she thinks he's a hermaphrodite.]]
* BelievingTheirOwnLies: Helen is portrayed as this.
* BreakTheCutie: ''Winnie''.
* BrattyTeenageDaughter: Mary's daughter.
* BrokenBird: Certainly Winnie at the end of her marriage to Wen Fu, although she gets better.
* CardCarryingVillain: Wen Fu.
* CelebrityResemblance: The telegraph girl is called "Wan Betty" ("Beautiful Betty") due to her resemblance to Bette Davis.
* UsefulNotes/ChineseFuneraryCustoms: Appear at the beginning of the book at Auntie Du's funeral. Lampshaded by Winnie and Pearl.
* {{Confucianism}}: Slammed by Winnie, because according to her Confucianism emphasized looking down on other people, especially women.
* CrashIntoHello: Winnie and Jimmy.
* DarkAndTroubledPast: Winnie. Helen, to a lesser extent.
* DeathByChildbirth: Helen's sister.
* DeliberateValuesDissonance: Women are expected to "[[StayInTheKitchen know their place]]," and [[SpiritedYoungLady spirited young ladies]] are looked down on, as this was pre-WWII China.
* DirtyCoward: Wen Fu, who comes out of war unscathed thanks to not actually doing any fighting - every time they're involved in a battle, Wen Fu flies off and tells the captain he was "trailing a Japanese plane."
* DomesticAbuser: Wen Fu to Winnie.
* DrivenToSuicide: "Little Yu," an old classmate of Winnie and Peanut's, after she got stuck in an unhappy marriage.
* DyingAsYourself: [[spoiler: Winnie's father]].
* ExtremeDoormat: Winnie.
* EyeScream: [[spoiler: Wen Fu loses an eye in a jeepney accident.]]
* {{Flashback}}: How Winnie tells Pearl her story.
* ForegoneConclusion: Winnie makes it out of the war alive, ditches Wen Fu and marries Jimmy.
* FourthDateMarriage: Wen Fu and Winnie, whom she'd known for only a few months before they get married. Also played with with Jimmy and Winnie, they go on all of two dates (excluding the dance at which they met) before they decide they're perfect for each other. It's a while before they marry, though.
* FramingDevice: Winnie tells Pearl her life story.
* GoldDigger: Wen Fu courts Peanut first, but drops her for Winnie once he learns of Winnie's father's wealth.
* GladIThoughtOfIt: Winnie excessively thanks Henry for using his government connections to [[spoiler: get her out of jail. In truth, it was all Auntie Du's doing and she just didn't want to disappoint Helen.]]
* HeterosexualLifePartners: Winnie and Helen, who have put up with each other for so long that each others' faults barely affect them anymore.
* HorribleJudgeOfCharacter: Winnie berates herself for believing Wen Fu was a decent human being.
* HotMom: Winnie and her mother in their respective heydays.
* ItsAllAboutMe: Wen Fu.
* KarmaHoudini: The only comeuppance Wen Fu gets for all his wrongdoings is [[spoiler: a box full of donkey dung and humiliation in front of Winnie and Helen. He even dies on Christmas Day.]]
* KickTheDog: [[spoiler: Wen Fu hits Yiku when Winnie threatens to leave.]]
* LockedOutOfTheLoop: The only person who doesn't know about Pearl's multiple sclerosis is her own mother Winnie (seeing as Pearl told Auntie Helen, who then told the whole Kwong family).
* LoveAtFirstSight: Jimmy for Winnie.
** '''Jimmy''': "I fell in love with her right from the beginning. As for Winnie—she only fell. But what matters is I caught her."
* LukeIAmYourFather: [[spoiler: Wen Fu is Pearl's father, not Jimmy.]]
* ManipulativeBastard: Wen Fu, exemplified when he manages to [[spoiler: obtain control of Winnie's father's estate by telling Winnie's dad that he can get him out of trouble with the Kuomintang.]]
* MaritalRapeLicense: [[spoiler: Wen Fu after the accident - he "punishes" Winnie for every single damn thing she does that he deems "wrong," and it's not portrayed positively at all.]]
* MatchmakerCrush: Winnie develops a crush on Wen Fu while being the go-between for him and Peanut.
* MeaningfulName: Out of pride, Wen Fu wants Jimmy to name him after someone who changed history forever. [[spoiler: Jimmy names him Judas.]]
* MightyWhitey: Slightly played with. Jimmy is explicitly stated to be Chinese (he acts as a translator and a serviceman), but he's American-born and Winnie falls for him.
* MilesGloriosus: Wen Fu.
* MissingMom: Even in adulthood, Winnie does not fully understand her mother's disappearance. Her aunts' and uncle's disappearance theories don't help much. It's implied that she abandoned Winnie, though.
* ObfuscatingStupidity: [[spoiler:Helen knew for a long time that Pearl was Wen Fu's biological daughter. Her making excuses for Wen Fu's awful behavior was her way of trying to keep Winnie from resenting Pearl. The moment she learns that Winnie and Pearl have achieved some common ground, she ditches the act and curses Wen Fu's memory.]]
* ObnoxiousInLaws: Phil sees Pearl's family as this. He's not that far from the truth.
* OnlyKnownByTheirNickname: Several minor characters - Betty, Old Aunt, New Aunt, Wu Ma, etcetera.
** NoNameGiven
* ParentalAbandonment: It's implied that Winnie's mother abandoned her.
* PluckyGirl: Nearly all the major female characters.
* PoorCommunicationKills: The reason Pearl and Winnie's relationship is so strained.
* RapePillageAndBurn: The Japanese, which was sadly TruthInTelevision.
* RapunzelHair: Winnie's mother.
* RichesToRags: [[spoiler: Winnie's father and his family after the war - moreso after Wen Fu is done with their finances.]]
* SexlessMarriage: [[spoiler: Helen and Jiaguo's.]]
* SpoiledBrat: Peanut, but she fixes herself up in adulthood. Wen Fu, on the other hand...
* StartOfDarkness: Wen Fu starts being pissy around the time of the accident, and it just gets worse from there.
* SupremeChef: Winnie.
* TitleDrop: The "Kitchen God" was a man who took his hardworking wife for granted, and, when his mistress drove her away, did not do anything to help her. Once she leaves, his fortune (that accumulated thanks to her diligence) dwindles, and he realizes how much better off he was with her, despite all the suffering she went through thanks to him. Winnie subsequently relates her life story to her.
* TheUnfavourite: Winnie, so much. After her mother disappeared, she was the unfavourite in her wealthy father's household until she was sent to live with her uncle and his two wives. And they ''still'' treated her cousin Peanut better.
* WartimeWedding: Winnie and Wen Fu get married just before World War II breaks out.
* WhatCouldHaveBeen: Winnie often wonders what life would have been like if she did not marry Wen Fu.
* WorldWarII
* YouNoTakeCandle: Winnie to some extent.
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