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* NinetyPercentOfYourBrain: Carnegie says that "The average person develops only 10 percent of his latent mental ability" and has been credited as contributing to this myth.

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* NinetyPercentOfYourBrain: Carnegie A foreword to the book says that "The average person develops only 10 percent of his latent mental ability" and has been credited as contributing to this myth.
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* HistoricalVillainDowngrade: Carnegie describes Crowley more like a troubled young man who was pushed into evil and wouldn't accept his responsabilities, making him no different from regular law-abiding citizens. However, historical records show that he was unusually violent and psychotic throughout his whole life.

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* HistoricalVillainDowngrade: Carnegie describes Crowley more like a troubled young man who was pushed into evil and wouldn't accept his responsabilities, responsibilities, making him no different from regular law-abiding citizens. However, historical records show that he was unusually violent and psychotic throughout his whole life.



* NeverMyFault: Carnegie says that most people, by default, will not take responsability for their faults, and criticizing them will only cause backlash. Even if they are violent criminals with blood in their hands.

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* NeverMyFault: Carnegie says that most people, by default, will not take responsability responsibility for their faults, and criticizing them will only cause backlash. Even if they are violent criminals with blood in their hands.
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* HistoricalVillainDowngrade: Carnegie describes Crowley more like a troubled young man who was pushed into evil and wouldn't accept his responsabilities, making him NotSoDifferent from regular law-abiding citizens. However, historical records show that he was unusually violent and psychotic throughout his whole life.

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* HistoricalVillainDowngrade: Carnegie describes Crowley more like a troubled young man who was pushed into evil and wouldn't accept his responsabilities, making him NotSoDifferent no different from regular law-abiding citizens. However, historical records show that he was unusually violent and psychotic throughout his whole life.



* NotSoDifferent: Carnegie describes criminals and prisoners as not so different from law-abiding citizens, as both would rationalize whatever they do wrong, refusing to acknowledge their mistakes and wrongdoings.

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* NotSoDifferent: NotSoDifferentRemark: Carnegie describes criminals and prisoners as not so different from law-abiding citizens, as both would rationalize whatever they do wrong, refusing to acknowledge their mistakes and wrongdoings.
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I know it's a non-fiction book but I marked "No Such Thing as Bad Publicity" as In-Universe anyway since it's something that's being addressed in the book itself.


* NoSuchThingAsBadPublicity: Carnegie describes that one of the greatest human motivations is wanting to show one's importance, and so he cites many examples of criminals who were mostly interested about seeing their evil deeds immortalized in the news media.

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* NoSuchThingAsBadPublicity: Carnegie describes that one of the greatest human motivations is wanting to show one's importance, and so he cites many examples of criminals who were mostly interested about seeing their evil deeds immortalized in the news media.%%In-universe%%
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* BeamMeUpScotty: Carnegie begins the book by describing the arrest and career of criminal Francis "Two Gun" Crowley, claiming that he thought he only defended himself from the police and was unfairly executed afterwards. Notably, he quotes a letter he left behind as ''"Under my coat is a weary heart, but a kind one -- one that would do nobody any harm."'' Newspapers from the time actually quote his letter saying ''"When I die, put a lily in my hand, let the boys know how they'll look. Under my coat will lay a weary, kind heart that wouldn't hurt anything. I hadn't anything else to do, that's why I went around bumping off cops. It's the new sensations of the films..."'' Therefore, he was describing that he would have a kind heart and not hurt anybody because he would be '''dead'''.
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* ExactlyWhatItSayOnTheTin: It’s a book of methods for winning friends and influencing people.

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* ExactlyWhatItSayOnTheTin: ExactlyWhatItSaysOnTheTin: It’s a book of methods for winning friends and influencing people.
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* NiceGuy: A recurring theme in Carnegie's philosophy. The best way to persuade people you care about them, it turns out, is to actually care about them.

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* NiceGuy: A Carnegie has this as a recurring theme in Carnegie's his philosophy. The best way to persuade people you care about them, it turns out, is to actually care about them.them.
* NominalImportance: Carnegie teaches that it gives a good impression to people when you remember their name, and show it. After all, people are naturally self-centered, and hearing their own names is nice.


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* NiceGuy: A recurring theme in Carnegie's philosophy. The best way to persuade people you care about them, it turns out, is to actually care about them.

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''How To Win Friends and Influence People'' is a self-help book by Dale Carnegie, which, as its title says, is meant to help the reader win friends and influence people.

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''How To to Win Friends and Influence People'' is a self-help book by Dale Carnegie, which, as its title says, is meant to help the reader win friends and influence people.



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* NinetyPercentOfYourBrain: Carnegie says that "The average person develops only 10 percent of his latent mental ability" and has been credited as contributing to this myth.



* NinetyPercentOfYourBrain: Carnegie says that "The average person develops only 10 percent of his latent mental ability" and has been credited as contributing to this myth.



* StrawVulcan: Carnegie says that people are mostly guided by their emotions and personal preferences, so attempting to push them with only facts and logic will often fail.

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* StrawVulcan: Carnegie says that people are mostly guided by their emotions and personal preferences, so attempting to push them with only facts and logic will often fail.fail.
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* EasilyForgiven: Carnegie cites several historical people who easily forgave those who wronged them, giving them another chance, such as Bob Hoover letting a young man, who mistakenly put kerosene instead of fuel in his plane, work for him again.

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* EasilyForgiven: Carnegie cites several historical people who easily forgave those who wronged them, giving them another chance, such as Bob Hoover letting a young man, who mistakenly put kerosene instead of fuel in his plane, plane - and thus endangering his ''life'' - work for him again.again. Why? Because holding a grudge is unhealthy and unproductive.
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''How To Win Friends and Influence People''' is a self-help book by Dale Carnegie, which, as its title says, is meant to help the reader win friends and influence people. Originally released in 1936, it was a bestseller for ten years straight and sold over 40 million copies as of 2010.

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''How To Win Friends and Influence People''' People'' is a self-help book by Dale Carnegie, which, as its title says, is meant to help the reader win friends and influence people. people.

Originally released in 1936, it was a bestseller for ten years straight and sold over 40 million copies as of 2010.
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* EasilyForgiven: Carnegie cites several historical people who easily forgave those who wronged them, giving them another chance, such as Bob Hoover letting a young man, who mistakenly put kerosene instead of fuel in his plane, work for him again.


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* SelfDeprecation: Carnegie describes his own reactions to a phone company's letter, and shows he can also get easily frustrated and angry at someone's arrogant tone, while he is worried about [[ArsonMurderAndJaywalking missing his train, having health problems and greenflies eating his flowers]].
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* HistoricalVillainDowngrade: Carnegie describes Crowley more like a troubled young man who was pushed into evil and wouldn't accept his responsabilities, making him NotSoDifferent from regular law-abiding citizens. However, historical records show that he was unusually violent and psychotic throughout his whole life.


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* NotSoDifferent: Carnegie describes criminals and prisoners as not so different from law-abiding citizens, as both would rationalize whatever they do wrong, refusing to acknowledge their mistakes and wrongdoings.
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* ActionPackedOpening: The book begins with a description of Francis Crowley's gun-blasting last stand with the police.

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* ItsAllAboutMe: Carnegie says that people are naturally selfish and self-centered, so when you want to obtain something from someone, or just have them like you, it's better to focus the conversation on themselves or what they personally like.
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* BrutalHonesty: Carnegie strongly advises against that. If you need to tell someone that they're doing something wrong, better sugarcoat it and start soft.
* InsufferableGenius: Carnegie says that if you try to show other people how smart, how cultured you are, you will come off as insufferable rather than an actual genius.
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* ArtisticLicenseHistory: Carnegie interprets/reinterprets several historical events so he can push his message. When Lincoln and Shields prepared for their duel, Carnegie simply claims that the witnesses stopped it from happening. However, it's been remembered that the main reason for the duel cancellation was that Shields was scared by Lincoln when he saw him easily cutting a branch with his sword, realizing how he would ''decimate'' him.
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''How To Win Friends and Influence People''' is a self-help book by Dale Carnegie, which, as its title says, is meant to help the reader win friends and influence people. Originally released in 1936, it was a bestseller for ten years straight and sold over 40 million copies as of 2010.

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!!'' How to Win Friends and Influence People'' provides examples of:
* BeamMeUpScotty: Carnegie begins the book by describing the arrest and career of criminal Francis "Two Gun" Crowley, claiming that he thought he only defended himself from the police and was unfairly executed afterwards. Notably, he quotes a letter he left behind as ''"Under my coat is a weary heart, but a kind one -- one that would do nobody any harm."'' Newspapers from the time actually quote his letter saying ''"When I die, put a lily in my hand, let the boys know how they'll look. Under my coat will lay a weary, kind heart that wouldn't hurt anything. I hadn't anything else to do, that's why I went around bumping off cops. It's the new sensations of the films..."'' Therefore, he was describing that he would have a kind heart and not hurt anybody because he would be '''dead'''.
* NeverMyFault: Carnegie says that most people, by default, will not take responsability for their faults, and criticizing them will only cause backlash. Even if they are violent criminals with blood in their hands.
* StrawVulcan: Carnegie says that people are mostly guided by their emotions and personal preferences, so attempting to push them with only facts and logic will often fail.

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