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7	->''"Thou shalt not afflict any widow or orphan."''
8	-->-- '''[[Literature/BookOfExodus Exodus 22:21]]''', ''Literature/TheBible''
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10	Usually, when you know someone recently (or sometimes not so recently) lost a loved one, the polite thing to do is to offer condolences.
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12	Then you have people who, for whatever reason, not only show a lack of sensitivity for another person's loss but will outright exploit the fact that a person lost a loved one in order to antagonize them, even if they had nothing to do with that person's death. It goes without saying that this is a '''big''' way to KickTheDog, marking the person doing this as a {{Jerkass}} or worse…
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14	This can overlap with WouldYouLikeToHearHowTheyDied, however, if the loss was one that the speaker themselves caused. This can also overlap with SpeakIllOfTheDead when a character mocks another for being upset about losing a particular loved one. Finally, this trope can overlap with FisticuffProvokingComment if the bereaved responds by opening up a can of whoop-ass on the person offering disrespectful condolences.
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16	Compare LastDisrespects, where someone shows mocking behavior towards the deceased (typically at a funeral). Compare also TheReasonYouSuckSpeech and RelativeRidicule.
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18	While this may be TruthInTelevision on occasion, there will be Administrivia/NoRealLifeExamplesPlease After all, discussing the real-life petty behavior of other people is just asking for trouble.
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20	'''As a death trope, [[Administrivia/SpoilersOff all spoilers will remain unmarked]].'''
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28	* ''Anime/DeathNote'': After being outed as Kira in the finale of the series, [[Characters/DeathNoteLightYagami Light Yagami]] tries to justify his heinous actions by saying that in such a CrapsackWorld, idealists like his father Soichiro Yagami will continue to be made fools. This pisses off his erstwhile comrade Matsuda, an ardent pupil of Soichiro and until this moment Light's biggest fan, driving him to shoot him five times and nearly kill him.
29	* ''Manga/FullmetalAlchemist'': When he encounters Envy on the Promised Day, Mustang asks the former if they know who killed Hughes. After avoiding the question for a bit, Envy proudly announces that they're the culprit. Envy explains [[EvilHasABadSenseOfHumor while laughing the entire time]] they [[ShapeshifterGuiltTrip transformed into Hughes' wife]] and shot him, mocking how Hughes was powerless to do anything and finding the situation hilarious. [[UnstoppableRage This turns out to be a]] ''[[UnstoppableRage huge]]'' [[UnstoppableRage mistake]], as Mustang proceeds to blow Envy up enough times to reduce them to their true form before Hawkeye and Ed talk some sense into him.
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33	* ''ComicBook/TheLifeAndTimesOfScroogeMcDuck'': While holding Scrooge hostage, Soapy Slick read various letters as a means to mock Scrooge, including one informing Scrooge that his mother passed away. Unfortunately for Soapy, mocking the death of Scrooge's mother ends up infuriating Scrooge enough to [[UnstoppableRage break free and tear Soapy's boat down with his bare hands.]]
34	* ''ComicBook/{{Maus}}'': In a comic that Art wrote, a relative is shown telling Art he should have cried while his mother was still alive.
35	* ''ComicBook/{{Sideways}}'': Just in case there's any question about just how reprehensible the school bully is, the jerk makes fun of Derek after his mom is murdered and attacks him when Derek isn't especially happy about Ernestine trying to force Derek to mourn differently since Derek wasn't appreciative of a girl being "nice" to him.
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38	[[folder:Fan Works]]
39	* Subverted in ''Fanfic/TheMountainAndTheWolf'': Despite the Wolf insulting Cersei at every other turn, he does not do so when Tyrion is obviously in deep grief at not finding her body under the ruins of King's Landing. The fact that he sees Tyrion as a friend and that he abducted Cersei earlier might have something to do with it.
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43	* At the beginning of ''Film/AntMan1'', Hank Pym confronts some of the higher-ups of S.H.I.E.L.D. over trying to replicate his shrinking formula. One of them, Mitchell Carson, mocks him over losing his wife Janet back when they were still active in the field. Hank responds by slamming his head into the table. Even Howard Stark tells Mitchell he had that coming.
44	* ''Film/BridgeToTerabithia'': JerkJock bully Scott Hoager decides to joke about Leslie's death while Jesse is heavily in mourning, only to get punched in the face and sent flying by him. Gary Fulcher decides to do the same and is met with a bloody nose from Janice Avery, who for much of the movie was a bully herself.
45	* ''Film/DieHard'': When Karl, TheDragon to exceptional thief Hans Gruber, confronts John [=McClane=] over the latter killing his brother, Tony, John -- in a rare heroic example -- tells Karl that he should have heard his brother squeal when he broke his neck. This is an attempt to make Karl lose composure so John can deal with him in combat.
46	* ''Film/GuardiansOfTheGalaxyVol3'': When the High Evolutionary kills Lylla, Rocket screams and cries in anguish. The High Evolutionary [[CopycatMockery imitates his crying]] and says "You win the crying contest! Now back in the cage!"
47	* ''Film/TheLeagueOfExtraordinaryGentlemen''. In the BackStory, Alan Quartermain takes his son on a mission for the British government, during which the son is killed. While he is fighting with the [[BigBad Fantom]], the Fantom mocks him, claiming that Quartermain is responsible for his son's death.
48	-->'''Fantom:''' You run from the memory of your son's death. You should have trained him a little better. You may as well have put the gun to his head and pulled the trigger yourself.
49	* In ''Film/NowAndThen'', during a softball game, one of the Wormers, who later has a crush on Roberta, taunts her about her late mom, who died when she was five years old in a car crash, Roberta deservedly slugs the Wormer.
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53	* ''{{Literature/Animorphs}}'': Two bullies run into Marco and start mocking him, one of them laughing off his mother's death as "running off with some other dude". Marco (whose mother is not dead but the host body to Visser One) starts partially morphing into a hammerhead shark while staring hungrily at the bully's throat. Fortunately Jake shows up to calm him down, and the indifference with which he refers to the bullies as not worth fighting makes them back off.
54	* ''Script/ExtremePrejudice2019'': When Garth Mason tells Fraser Barton Colborne off for telling the former to commit suicide, Fraser responds by telling him to go cry to his dead mother.
55	* ''Literature/HarryPotter'': Mocking Harry for being an orphan is a favourite move by Draco Malfoy, and Bellatrix Lestrange taunts Molly Weasley with Fred's death during their duel, on top of threatening Ginny as well. This turns out to be the last thing Bellatrix does, as Molly promptly goes MamaBear on her ass.
56	* ''Literature/MortalEngines'': When Melliphant tries and fails to impress Clytie Potts and notices she seems more interested in Tom Natsworthy, he decides to wind Tom up by discussing the accident that killed Tom's parents with Clytie while Tom's in earshot.
57	* ''Literature/NightHuntressWorld'': In "Literature/{{Devil to Pay\|NightHuntressWorld}}": Xaphan torments Cat Crawfield with the voices of her late grandparents, who had been killed in the events of ''Literature/{{Halfway to the Grave\|NightHuntress1}}''.
58	* In ''Literature/PetSematary,'' Louis and his father-in-law Irwin get in a fistfight at Gabe's funeral when Irwin accuses Louis of neglecting Gabe, leading to the poor kid getting run over by a Mack truck. Louis responds by punching him square in the mouth.
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62	* ''Series/{{Gotham}}'': When Bruce Wayne objects to Tommy Elliott calling him "Brucie", Tommy counters that he can call Bruce whatever he wants because Bruce is an orphan.
63	* ''Series/TheLeftovers'': The Guilty Remnant demonstrate that they are Grade-A assholes and the series' StrawNihilist faction [[EstablishingCharacterMoment in the very first thing they do on-screen]]: arrive at a prayer vigil for the people who have disappeared in The Departure and unfurl a huge sign that reads: "'''STOP WASTING YOUR BREATH'''!".
64	* On ''Series/OneTreeHill'', the show-runners would often turn the audience against characters by having them make fun of Peyton's lack of a traditional family due to her father mostly being away as a longshoreman and her [[DeceasedParentsAreTheBest beloved late mother who had died in a car accident when she was a little girl.]] And this wasn't even limited to unlikable characters like Dan and Brooke's Mom or even her ''adopted'' mother; after both the death of her biological mother, Ellie, in season three and her falling out with Brooke in season four, one of the latter's nastier moments has her implying that Ellie was a slut for having another half-sibling that she also gave up for adoption. [[WhatTheHellHero Fortunately, Peyton called her out on this and the fact that she abandoned her when she needed her the most.]]
65	* ''Series/VeronicaMars'': After the bus crash kills several Neptune High students, the parents of one of the victims start getting harassed by someone who keeps trying to trick them into believing their son is a ghost; not only do they hear audio recording of his voice, but they smell his cologne, see things getting moved around, etc. It's not upfront mockery, but a sinister act of psychological warfare concerning their murdered child.
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68	[[folder:Video Games]]
69	* ''VideoGame/DeadRising2'': During the [=TiR=] games, Leon Bell decides to talk smack to Chuck by insulting him and his wife who had become zombified prior to the events of Case:Zero. Chuck is by no means amused.
70	* Near the end of ''VideoGame/Jak3'', Jak ends up watching his mentor Damas die from injuries sustained in a crash, with Damas' LastRequest being for Jak to find his missing son and heir, Prince Mar, whom Jak [[PlotRelevantAgeUp is the grown-up version of]]. It is then that [[BigBad Count Veger]] shows up, mocks Damas for losing his son, and never knowing they've reunited because Mar should be 4 instead of 18. Veger also gloats on how he kidnapped Mar from his parents but lost him to [[VideoGame/JakIIRenegade Kor and the Underground]]. [[MoralEventHorizon This]] infuriates Jak to the point he momentarily takes on his SuperpoweredEvilSide, leading to him and Daxter chasing Veger into the Catacombs to get payback for Damas.
71	* ''VideoGame/{{Loopmancer}}'' has Xiang Zixu, the hero losing his daughter in an "accident" years ago that also crippled his wife. Said accident was arranged by Xiang's enemy, the triad boss Wei Long which he's investigating, and when Wei Long is confronted as a boss Wei Long taunts Zixu over his lost family while cursing him that his daughter's death is ''his own damn fault''.
72	* In ''VideoGame/Persona3'' during the service Gekkoukan holds for a recently deceased Shinjiro (who only S.E.E.S. knows died protecting Ken), two students call Shinjiro "just some punk", to which a grieving Junpei (and optionally the protagonist) respond with them to shut up.
73	* ''VideoGame/{{Splatterhouse}} 1'': Rick, our hero, is [[MercyKill forced to kill his beloved Jennifer]] after she is mutated into a monster, with her [[DyingAsYourself fading away as herself in his arms]]. Seconds later, a {{mook}} wanders up to the mourning Rick and points forward as if laughing at him.
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77	* In ''Webcomic/TheOrderOfTheStick'', Roy gets into a fight with a vampire who was raised from the corpse of one of Roy's comrades. The vampire looks through its host's memories of Roy and starts mocking him over the accident that killed his younger brother Eric. It backfires because the sheer callousness tips off Roy that the vampire is not the comrade-turned-evil that it claimed to be, but a [[PossessingADeadBody different entity]] entirely.
78	-->'''Vampire:''' Here's one thing I've always wondered since you first told me this story... when you found his dead body after you failed to warn your mother, how many pieces was it in? ...More than five?
79	* Subverted in the first arc of ''Webcomic/PennyAndAggie''. Penny contemplates {{Revenge}} on Aggie for her constant insults and petty harassment. When she learns that Aggie is still grieving for her mother who died some time ago, Penny considers responding to Aggie's next provocation with "That would really hurt if my mom weren't right there to build up my self-esteem." However, her conscience prompts her instead to try [[TurnTheOtherCheek being nice to her]].
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83	* The [[https://rpcauthority.wikidot.com/rpc-548 Hateful Star]] from the ''Website/RPCAuthority'' is a sapient star that inexplicably despises humans and threatens to kill us on a usual basis, but took it a bit far when it made fun of the site director's stillborn child, said his wife was a whore and ended its message with the threat of bringing a painfully slow end to the human species.
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86	[[folder:Western Animation]]
87	* ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'': During "A Picture's Worth a Thousand Bucks", Peter and his friends are asked to leave "Bob's Funland" amusement park for causing trouble. The man who approaches the group ends up being both the owner of the park, Bob Funland, and a former classmate from high school whom Peter and his friends used to bully. A flashback has him being mocked by them as ''he cries at his mother's grave.''
88	* In the ''WesternAnimation/{{Futurama}}'' episode "I Second That Emotion", everyone thinks Nibbler (Leela's pet) is dead because Bender [[FunWithFlushing flushed him down the toilet]]. He then calls her a "[[{{Cyclops}} one-eyed]] jerk with a dead pet".
89	* In the ''WesternAnimation/RobotChicken'' segment "Real Boy, Real Death", after WesternAnimation/{{Pinocchio}} ends up dying of an auto-immune disorder brought on by a peanut allergy, the Blue Fairy callously says at the former's funeral that if Gepetto hadn't wished for Pinocchio to be a real boy, he would have survived as a wooden puppet, before offering half-hearted condolences when Jiminy Cricket clears his throat to subtly rebuke her for her lack of decorum.
90	* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'': In "Dude, Where's My Ranch?", Homer writes a song bashing Ned Flanders. The song includes a particularly random and cruel line "His wife is dead", which is also completely unrelated to the lyrics of the rest of the song. Funnily enough, everyone ends up loving that song, including Ned and his kids.
91	* ''WesternAnimation/SouthPark'': In "Scott Tenorman Must Die", Cartman tricks Scott into eating chili made from his deceased parents. As Scott weeps from the revelation, Cartman [[LecherousLicking licks up]] his tears and comments about how delicious they are. This was a ''huge'' moment for Cartman, marking his transition from mere {{Jerkass}} to full-on ''evil''.
92	* In the ''WesternAnimation/RegularShow'' episode "Eggscellent" where after Rigby eats himself into a potentially fatal coma attempting the Eggcellent Challenge (he's allergic to eggs), Benson uses him as an example of what happens when you don't do work, prompting a clearly upset Mordecai to punch him. Downplayed since Rigby isn't technically dead here, and he does get better at the end of the episode.
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