Line #55 Main/CryingAtYourBirthdayParty


1	%%%
2	%%
3	%% This page has been alphabetized. Please add new examples in the correct order. Thanks!
4	%%
5	%%%
6	[[quoteright:262:[[WebAnimation/TheChampions2018 https://static.tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pub/images/lookwhatyoudidtopedri.png]]]]
7	[[caption-width-right:262:''Look what you did to Pedri!'']]
8	->''Judy and Johnny just walked through the door\
9	Like a queen with her king\
10	Oh, what a birthday surprise\
11	Judy's wearing his ring\
12	It's my party and I'll cry if I want to\
13	Cry if I want to, cry if I want to\
14	You would cry too if it happened to you''
15	-->-- '''Music/LesleyGore''', "It's My Party"
16
17	Why is Bob crying at his own birthday party? Shouldn't this be a happy occasion?
18
19	A character celebrating their birthday, for whatever reason bursts into tears during their party. Whatever the reason for the person of the hour, it's usually unexpected and takes people aback.
20
21	Can sometimes result from a OnePersonBirthdayParty, or because the [[BirthdayPartyGoesWrong party has gone badly wrong]]. Compare ABirthdayNotABreak and BirthdayHater. In rare instances, it can be TearsOfJoy. Can occur during a BirthdayEpisode (of course) or an AgelessBirthdayEpisode.
22	----
23	!!Examples:
24	[[foldercontrol]]
25	[[folder:Anime & Manga]]
26	* ''Anime/APlaceFurtherThanTheUniverse'': Having been an actress since the age of four, Yuzuki Shiraishi had never gotten the time or chance to make any friends...until she is invited on an expedition to Antarctica by three other girls. That's why when they celebrate her birthday during the trip, Yuzuki is so touched she becomes a sobbing emotional wreck.
27	[[/folder]]
28
29	[[folder:Fan Works]]
30	* ''Fanfic/AdviceAndTrust'': Asuka sheds {{Tears of Joy}} during the performance of the string trio concerto Shinji composed for her birthday.
31	* ''Fanfic/JuniorOfficers'':
32	** In "Margaret's Story", during Margaret's birthday party, Humphrey says that he does not want Margaret to act like a "slut". Margaret proceeds to [[CallingTheOldManOut chew him out for his mistreatment of her]] and retreats to her room in BerserkerTears.
33	** A more positive example in "[[Recap/JuniorOfficersS1E12HappyBirthdayKitsune Happy Birthday, Kitsune]]". When Kitsune has received her gifts after her birthday dinner, she sheds a [[TearsOfJoy tear of joy]].
34	[[/folder]]
35
36	[[folder:Film -- Animated]]
37	* ''WesternAnimation/ShrekForeverAfter'': During the ogre triplets' first birthday party, the triplets start wailing after the Three Pigs confess that they ate all the cakes.
38	* In ''WesternAnimation/SleepingBeauty'', Aurora bursts into tears at what was supposed to be her surprise birthday party when she learns she is a princess and can never see her beloved again (she thinks).
39	* In ''WesternAnimation/TurningRed'', during his party, Tyler cries in fear when he is attacked by Mei for pushing her too far after she was clearly already worked up.
40	[[/folder]]
41
42	[[folder:Film -- Live-Action]]
43	* ''Film/ProblemChild'' has Lucy Henderson bursting in tears and throwing a tantrum as she sees Junior sabotage her birthday party (as payback for kicking him out of the magic show) such as putting frogs in the punch, dynamite in the cake after removing the candles, pickles and the juice in the pinata, throwing out all her presents into the pool, and setting off a water hose in her bedroom. She regains her composure after she's done crying to realize Junior is the obvious culprit.
44	[[/folder]]
45
46	[[folder:Literature]]
47	* In one book in ''Literature/TheBabySittersClub'', the Arnold twins get upset at their birthday party because the entire setup treats them as basically a matched set (identical party dresses, identical birthday cakes, all the guests giving both of them the exact same gift), with no recognition whatsoever given to the fact that they're actually two distinct individuals despite being physically identical. The only time they show any real happiness is when they open Mallory's presents, because unlike everyone else, Mallory actually gave each twin something different and specific to their interests.
48	* ''Literature/TheBerenstainBears'': The cover art for the book "Too Much Birthday" shows Sister Bear crying as her guests celebrate. In the book, Sister Bear cries because [[BirthdayPartyGoesWrong her party went wrong]].
49	* The Singaporean novella anthology ''Literature/ClassicSingaporeHorrorStories'' have two such examples:
50	** 12-year-old Katherine from ''Stepchild'' is shown breaking into tears after her attempt at performing a musical number for her guests is hijacked by the titular stepchild, who began playing pop songs - improvised - on her piano instead. Things quickly go out of hand until Katherine's eldest brother Augustine slams the piano shut, telling the stepchild to stop crashing his sister's birthday, but at that point, the party is ruined.
51	** Exaggerated example with Emma from ''Skin Deep'', a SpoiledBrat, who is shown crying at her party... because she overheard a friend of hers, Sharon, saying her nose is too big.
52	* In Jacqueline Woodson's ''The Dear One'', the narrator, Feni, recalls that her then-[[TheAlcoholic alcoholic]] mother had decided to quit drinking, [[GoingColdTurkey cold turkey]], ''on Feni's birthday''. While Feni acknowledges that her mother's sobriety is a good thing for both of them in the long term, she still resents that her mother had to take that step on that particular day, as it meant that Feni's birthday was basically ruined as the whole day was consumed by her mother's withdrawal symptoms.
53	* In Lia Geraskina's ''In the Land of Unlearned Lessons-3'', Vitya cries twice during his birthday. For the first time, when he thinks he has to give away his parrot (the parrot was entrusted to the family by a friend who went away, but as he was away for long, they grew to love the parrot and the parrot grew fond of them; the friend gallantly says the parrot in that case will be his birthday gift to Vitya). For the second time, after the party, Vitya blurts out he can hear his pets talking (when they think nobody hears them), and they sadly say they won't talk anymore if that's the case.
54	* In ''Literature/KarlssonOnTheRoof'', Lillebror's brother and sister give him a toy dog as a joke gift for his birthday, though they know how he longs for a real puppy, and Lillebror cries inconsolably. His parents decide to get him a real dog after all.
55	* ''Literature/MyBestFriendsExorcism'': Abby runs away and cries at her birthday party after she gets stood up by ''everyone'' for Margaret's horse riding excursion...and then Gretchen shows up and gifts her a Children's Bible. This is the final straw for Abby and makes her cry (in the bathroom) until Gretchen comes to her, and [[FireForgedFriends reassures Abby that she didn't want to go to Margaret's birthday party]], and [[AFriendInNeed she doesn't think Margaret is a nice person anyway.]]
56	[[/folder]]
57
58	[[folder:Live-Action TV]]
59	* ''Series/AllInTheFamily'', A very infamous example: Edith narrowly escapes a rapist and runs next door where a surprise party is being held for her. While everyone is singing for her, Edith breaks down crying. Everyone seems to assume emotional Edith is [[TearsOfJoy happy crying]], but Archie knows that something is very wrong.
60	* ''Series/{{Awkward}}'': Played with. Jenna was revealed to have been sobbing on her bed during her surprise birthday party in the third season... because ''she herself'' ruined the party by wandering into the room while cheating on Matty with Collin.
61	* ''Series/TheBigBangTheory'': In Amy Farrah Fowler's ImagineSpot of what her life would be like without Sheldon, she is having a OnePersonBirthdayParty where she sings to herself while crying into her cupcake... until Stuart interrupts by blowing a noisemaker in her face, to IRL Amy's annoyance.
62	-->'''Amy''': ''(singing sadly while fighting tears)'' Happy Birthday to me... Happy Birthday to me... There's tears in the frosting... Happy birthday to me.
63	[[/folder]]
64
65	[[folder:Music]]
66	* ''Music/LesleyGore'''s song "It's My Party ([[IsntItIronic and I'll cry if I want to]])" is about the singer getting dumped by her boyfriend Johnny for another girl on her birthday and Johnny arriving at the party with said other girl, driving the singer into a HeroicBSOD as she sees them enjoy themselves.
67	** A sequel song (appropriately-named "Judy's Turn to Cry") has the singer realize how silly it is for her to react that badly, kissing another boy at the party - [[GreenEyedEpiphany who Johnny promptly punches]], reuniting with her while dumping Judy.
68	* "Pity Party" by Music/MelanieMartinez from ''Music/{{Cry Baby\|Album}}'', which interpolates Lesley Gore's "It's My Party," is about [[TheWoobie Cry Baby]] having a OnePersonBirthdayParty despite her best efforts to invite many guests. She doesn't take it well at all.
69	-->I'll cry until the candles burn down this place\
70	I'll cry until my [[TitleDrop pity party]]'s in flames
71	* The ''Music/TaylorSwift'' song "The Moment I Knew", is about the time her then-boyfriend didn't show up to her birthday party.
72	[[/folder]]
73
74	[[folder:Video Games]]
75	* The Crying Child of ''VideoGame/FiveNightsAtFreddys4'' is seen, well, [[ShapedLikeItself crying]] on the penultimate minigame, that takes place during his birthday.
76	[[/folder]]
77
78	[[folder:Web Animation]]
79	* ''WebAnimation/{{The Champions\|2018}}'': [[ItMakesSenseInContext After opting to try Manchester City, then PSG's beds instead of sleeping in his Barcelona bed,]] Leo Messi receives a barrage of texts from the Barca group chat wondering where he is. One text shows a picture of Pedri crying while celebrating his 18th birthday (pictured above) ostensibly because Messi wasn't there, with the preceding text saying "Look what you did to Pedri".
80	* ''WebAnimation/HappyTreeFriends'': A rare [[TearsOfJoy happy]] example in "[[Recap/HTFPartyAnimal Party Animal]]". When the Tree Friends give Flippy a [[SurpriseParty surprise birthday party]], he smiles and sheds a SingleTear of gratitude.
81	[[/folder]]
82
83	[[folder:Western Animation]]
84	* ''WesternAnimation/BobsBurgers'': In "House of 1000 Bounces", Regular-Sized Rudy breaks down [[InelegantBlubbering sobbing]] in [[BerserkerTears anger]] because Louise and the others had forced him to go along with stealing a bounce house for his birthday party when all he wanted was to perform a [[ItMakesSenseInContext spoon puppet show]].
85	* ''WesternAnimation/BoyGirlDogCatMouseCheese'': In "The Cheese Ball", Cheese has a special day that she makes the others help celebrate annually due to claiming that she doesn't have a birthday. However, when Stevie and Susie end up being the only guests that show up and [[HumiliationConga with all the humiliation Cheese endures throughout the episode]], Cheese ends up tearfully crying back to the girls' room due to how much her Cheese Ball went awry.
86	* ''WesternAnimation/ChipAndPotato'': In "Chip's Birthday", Nico comes to Chip's birthday party and tearfully admits that Potato has disappeared, causing Chip to cry, too. Fortunately, Potato comes by just then.
87	* ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'': At Lois's birthday party in "Lois Comes Out of Her Shell", Peter gives a speech that boils down to him insulting her for getting old using unflattering metaphors. After the speech concludes, Lois bursts into tears and runs away from the party.
88	* ''WesternAnimation/TheLoudHouse'': Twice in "Strife of the Party", though the first time, it's downplayed. Lana is furious with Lola for ruining her party planning and [[TryingNotToCry tears up for a brief moment]] before cycling away on her bicycle. Lola then [[TearsOfRemorse starts crying out of guilt]] as her [[YourMakeupIsRunning her makeup starts running]].
89	* ''WesternAnimation/MyGymPartnersAMonkey'': In "Supplies Party", it is mentioned that Adam once [[PottyFailure peed his pants]] at his sixth birthday party and cried about it. During this episode, he accidentally spills soda on his pants, [[GrossoutFakeout which Chad mistakes for him peeing his pants again]]. Adam then begins to bawl like a baby (complete with a baby wailing sound effect).
90	* In the ''WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic'' episode [[Recap/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagicS4E20ForWhomTheSweetieBelleToils For Whom the Sweetie Belle Toils]], one of the reasons Sweetie Belle thinks Rarity is trying to humiliate her all the time is because of a ruined birthday party when she was a filly. Sweetie Belle spent a while making herself look beautiful, but when she came down to the party, she heard the others talking about how cool ''Rarity'' was. From her perspective, Rarity had intentionally stolen the attention. From ''Rarity's'' perspective, she was trying to stop the guests from leaving and even tried to make them think Sweetie Belle was the one who prepared the whole party. Either way, it ended with Sweetie Belle running back to her room in tears.
91	* ''WesternAnimation/ThePowerpuffGirls2016'': In "Super Sweet 6", the Powerpuff Girls escape from a candle that was going towards the sun during Princess's birthday party. The indignant Princess tries to squirt them with a giant icing bottle, only for it to burst and cover her in icing. She then starts to wail.
92	* ''WesternAnimation/Rugrats1991'':
93	** In "[[Recap/RugratsS1E01TommysFirstBirthday Tommy's First Birthday]]", all Tommy wants to do is eat dog food after seeing a commercial for it on television, believing that eating dog food will turn him into a dog, so that he can do whatever Spike, his pet dog does. Tommy's every attempt to eat Spike's dog food is foiled by the adults, and at one point, it's time for him to open his presents. When Didi tells Tommy that he still has many more presents to open, Tommy cries, and Didi tries unsuccessfully to calm him down as she complains to Betty how the party has been a disaster thus far. Tommy stops crying when some caterers arrive at the door with the puppet stand that Didi rented for a puppet show she planned to put on.
94	** In "[[Recap/RugratsS3E13DestinationMoonAngelicasBirthday Angelica's Birthday]]", Angelica [[GrowingUpSucks wants to avoid the responsibilities that come with growing up]], so she [[GooGooGetup dresses and acts like a baby]], which of course, includes crying like one instead of talking like a big girl. When Drew sees this, he complains to Charlotte that whenever Angelica wants something, she just cries. Charlotte then tells Drew, "[[WaxingLyrical It's her party and she can cry if she wants to]]."
95	** In "Three Jacks and a Beanstalk" from the ''Tales from the Crib'' series, Giant Angelica [[OcularGushers wails enough to accumulate several puddles]] after the babies escape her castle. It's then revealed that today is her birthday and she has [[OnePersonBirthdayParty nobody else but Giant Harold to celebrate with]].
96	* This happened to Velma in a flashback scene from ''WesternAnimation/WhatsNewScoobyDoo''. As a young girl, she ends up getting an encyclopedia set for her birthday. While she's the type of person who would love a gift like that, the party clown hired for her birthday thought [[MyNewGiftIsLame it was a "yucky" idea]], and threw it in a woodchipper. [[note]]Fred noted that Velma's mother hired the only party clown in town to have a woodchipper for a prop.[[/note]] Velma immediately burst into tears, [[WhyDidItHaveToBeSnakes and has since developed a phobia of clowns]].
97	[[/folder]]
98
99	[[folder:Real Life]]
100	* One of the most common causes for this phenomenon in real life is [[https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Birthday_effect birthday blues]], wherein a person celebrating their birthday ends up feeling depressed as a result of their self-awareness that [[YourDaysAreNumbered they're a year closer to their death]]. This sort of psychological trickery has resulted in [[DiedOnTheirBirthday a large number of deaths happening on people's birthdays]], whether it's because their body has shut down due to this internal manipulation, or they've [[DrivenToSuicide committed suicide]] because they feel they can't live with this looming sense of angst and dread.
101	* It's also common for someone to cry when [[BirthdayPartyGoesWrong their birthday plans fall through or end in disaster]], especially if they're young and/or if they're the type of person who cries when they're stressed. Similarly to the {{Bridezilla}} phenomenon in regards to wedding days, people expect their birthday to be a happy day where everything goes well, and the reality that it's a day like any other and things won't always go well can cause people to get stressed and upset.
102	[[/folder]]

Context Main / CryingAtYourBirthdayParty